Episode Summary:

In this solo episode, Cinthia breaks down the energetic anatomy of your home — the “heart,” the “stomach,” and the homes that mysteriously have neither. She explains how your home mirrors you, how its energy influences your mood, motivation, and clarity, and how you can intentionally create the energetic center your home might be missing.

What We Cover:

• What the “Heart of the Home” really is
• How house energy connects to the chakra system
• The difference between a heart house, a stomach house, and a no-center house
• Why your home reflects your inner world (even when you don’t want it to)
• How to intuitively identify your home’s energetic center
• What to do if your home doesn’t have one
• Simple ways to create or strengthen the heart of your home
• How your home and you are in an energetic agreemen
• Why house energy can shift your emotional and spiritual wellbeing

Cinthia’s House Healing Insight:

Your home is always responding to you.

Your mood, your stress, your joy, your denial — it all shows up in the energy of your space. When you understand whether your home has a heart, a stomach, or neither, you understand how to work with that energy instead of fighting it. And when you shift your home, you shift your life.

Takeaways:

• The heart of the home isn’t a room — it’s a feeling.
• A stomach-centered home isn’t “bad”; it’s driven, focused energy.
• A home with no center can be healed by creating a dedicated energetic anchor.
• You and your home are in a relationship — it mirrors everything you bring into it.
• Intuition is your best tool for reading your space.

Contact us

• Cinthia Varkevisser: Website | Social Media
• Michelle Walters: Website | Social Media | MakeMyHypno

Life Center, where all the energy is, and it relates to all the other characteristics of the house. Now, as a house healer, and just like I said in this story, the heart, the physical heart of the house, was this crazy staircase that you could put up some nice artwork, but it's not where you can feed energy and have the energy then radiate outwards, right? So, so there's no physical heart of the house, but that doesn't mean there's no heart of the house. The heart of the house, in my interpretation, is the place that's the most ploppable. And ploppable is in air quotes. When I say ploppable, it means you can set your stuff down wherever you want, but it's where you sit and take your first deep breath that is the heart of the house. It's where company or other family members come in, and it's a natural place where you congregate and have conversations and create memories. That's where there's a lot of laughter, and believe it or not, it's where if there are the least amount of arguments or fights, and I'll make a definition around that in a moment when I when it comes to the common areas. So for some people, the heart of the house is the kitchen. For some people, it's the family room. Some people in my house, it was actually as I was growing when I was growing up, it was actually the dining area, because I don't even know it just was one of those things. As soon as you came in, you plopped everything down on one chair, you sat down, and you just chilled for a minute. And that's where my friends and I would go, and that's where my grandparents would actually go when they came and visited us. It was really crazy, because it wasn't the most comfortable place, but it was definitely the heart of the house. Now let's back up and talk about a lot of times. There can be disagreements in the heart of the house, there can be there can be grief, there can be despair. There can be so many things in the heart of the house, and it is where the that energy shifts and transmutes to something else. Right from despair comes determination. Might be where you have an aha moment, but because the energy of that space is more than you, it's family, it's friends that come over, it's so many things, it shifts a lot of things. And again, because that's where everyone congregates, that's usually where the energy radiates outward. Okay, so that is the beauty of having the heart of the house. The other thing I believe that the heart of the house was our dining area was because we are a food focused family. So when we were preparing food, that's where we gossiped, and that's actually, as a kid, I got to hear all about my family. It's where we could feel comfortable having deeper conversations, because my family didn't have a wasn't comfortable talking about really deep things. But if you could focus on the food and actually look at the food and pick at the food, then it was a lot easier to talk about things that were uncomfortable or just challenging to to share. So that's what the heart of the house is. Not every house has a heart, and that's okay. Some houses have a stomach. And if you think about stomachs, it's where people digest. It's the not where people digest, right? But it's where digestion occurs. It's where, you know, digestive is also third chakra, so it's where drive is an ambition. Lays These are all good things. It just has a different vibration to it. So you'll find that in some houses, in the heart of the house, the energy feels a little bit more driven or a little bit stronger, instead of lighter versus heavier, right? I don't like to say that the stomach of a house is a heavier energy, because drive is not heaviness. Drive is a force, right? So it's just more, it's just more, right? It's just a different kind. So when people have stomachs in their homes, instead of hearts in their homes. They tend to be problem solvers, and they thrive at problem solving. Or they have a drama, a drama type of work or business attorneys, therapists. They. Always have hearts of homes. And I'm not saying that they you know, that they are driven, not driven, that they have to only have stomachs instead of hearts of homes, but I wanted to use those as examples. So a lot of times it's people who are striving to go from one situation to another, or one station to another, really working in to getting into C suite, or, you know, higher up in the corporate ladder, things like that, or just wanting to make your business bigger. Sometimes it's just that focus is more on drive than it is on relaxation. You know, they could use their room as a form of as a place of respite. And so they navigate their home in a different way. Not bad, just different. There is one more type of home that I've encountered, and that is a home that has neither. And so it's a interesting feeling, and I would love to hear your opinion on this, because there are more houses out there that don't have stomachs or hearts. They have nothing. And so every room is pleasant, every room you can sit in, but there's not one space where you can just sit and have discussion or have laughter or to share something that is intimate, you know? So those are really interesting spaces. And what I have found is it doesn't necessarily mean that the House has this thing, like the staircase, that, because there's no heart physically in, you know, in the house, that there can't be a heart in the house or a stomach in the house. I have felt this in a studio apartment and a live work lost space because they don't really, you know, in those spaces, they weren't really sure how they were going to maneuver through all their spaces. You know, where do I rest? Or where do I work and not work? So there are places that has neither. And so I invite you when you encounter a space that doesn't altogether feel comfortable, is to check it out. It could be and it's an intuitive thing as well as an emotional thing. But intuition is always first. So if you walk in and you don't feel comfortable, first thing you want to say, ask yourself, is, is the energy of the house just not in sync with mine? You'll know that right away, if it's is in sync, but it still doesn't feel comfortable, then you keep walking around. Go, is this a heart house or is this a stomach house? I can handle both. Some people prefer one over the other, and that's okay, right? If you're a heart centered person, then you may not feel comfortable in a in a stomach, driven home, and vice versa. You know, it's, it's absolutely fine, right? Just like you know Jesus, Krishna and Buddha are not for everyone. Not every home is for everyone either, right? So go to that place, and then, if there's nothing, right, if you're just not feeling comfortable anywhere and it and you are in sync with this house, it's because the person who's lived there, or if it's up for sale, the generations who have lived there have had some thing going on that had no roots to it. You know, it could be that maybe multiple, multiple families lived there, but they were there for, you know, actually, that's not a really good example, because family has a connection. It could be a house full of roommates and, you know, boarding house, as well as a house full of roommates before then, where there's really no connection, there's no need to have connection. That's not what the place was for. So that could be a reason. It could be a couple that live together out of necessity, but they have completely separate lives. So there are a lot of reasons why you don't feel a heart or a stomach in a home. Does that make it bad? No, there's no such thing as a bad house energetically, because everything can shift right. But what that means is sometimes a house is not for you, and it's easy to feel the information about people who live there right based on what you feel in their home. So those are the things I wanted to talk to you about, about having the heart of the home. Sometimes it's a stomach rather than a heart, and sometimes it's neither. Right. How do you shift it up? It.

If you have a home that has a stomach rather than a heart, and you are that person, I say bravo. Mad applause for you. Live in that house the way that you and your house have agreed in right upon. If you have the heart of the house awesome, then what you want to do is keep feeding into the heart of the home, so that the heart of the home will then expand it to all the other rooms, right outside, to the house and and then let it also, you know, bathe that energy back into you if there's nothing there then and you want to live in this house, like sincerely live in this house, then it's about finding a space that is the most comfortable for you, or you'd like to create comfort. It could be a very small space where you build an altar and you know that you are going to to pay your respects to that altar that all of a sudden creates some kind of force that will grow and build and either turn into a heart or a stomach. It doesn't have to be an altar. It can be a reading nook. It can be a place where you do something that brings you so much joy, knitting, crocheting, puzzles, writing doesn't matter. I went and visited my friend Antonia, and the heart her, of her, of her house, which is a pretty cool space, is a desk, but the desk is right behind her couch, and it overlooks an amazing water view, right? It's just an incredible water view, and in everything revolves around that desk. Is it about work? No, she's an incredibly creative person. So that's where her creativity is. And then, based on that creativity, she moves to other parts of her house to to foster what it is that she's creating. It's pretty incredible what she's done. So these are the things that that you do. It's about something that's really important to you, all right, so that's how you start creating the heart or the stomach of the house. And it doesn't have to be in the middle. It could be anywhere. But what's really important is that it's easily accessible for you, the person who lives there. Okay, so I just want you to know that you have a heart, and there's an agreement with your home, which means that your home has a heart, you have a stomach, a third chakra, and your home can also have a very robust third chakra. It doesn't mean that it doesn't have a heart. It means it's driven by the third chakra. All right, so fourth chakra is about something greater than you. You and your house have an agreement. You have a history. Your home has a history. There's an agreement. It's greater, however, and it's insulated. It's something where you get to really work on your heart as you feel more and more nested and invested in your home. So remember, your home isn't just where you live, it's how you live, it's how you value. It's so much more, there are no secrets in your home, meaning there ain't shit you can hide from your your home. Your energy is out, whether you're bullshitting yourself or not, it is in your home, and your home is going to reflect it back to you. So really, really investigate what kind of home you have and then build upon that. Okay. Last thing, if you have any questions about this, I have a monthly workshop a mastermind called the prosperity flow and how you shift your home, shift your life. Come see me. Call ask you can text, email, post doesn't matter. Just reach me. I'm happy to answer those questions. All right. Thank you so much for this episode of Mind Power Meets Mystic. And I look forward to seeing your comments, to seeing your likes, to seeing that you're sharing and that you are actually getting so much value out of our podcast. Thank you so much, and talk to you soon. Bye.