Movement can feel complicated when you’re living with autoimmune disease—especially if your body no longer tolerates exercise the way it once did. Questions like how much is enough, what’s too much, and how to start safely can leave many people stuck between doing nothing and overdoing it.
In this episode of the Autoimmune Wellness Podcast, I’m joined by Beth Trimark-Connor, a licensed physical therapist, certified personal trainer, and lifelong athlete who specializes in helping people rebuild strength safely after illness, injury, and major life transitions.
Beth holds a degree in human physiology from Michigan State University and a master’s degree in physical therapy from the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center. She has completed extensive additional training in strength and conditioning, endurance coaching, nutrition, and evidence-based menopause coaching. Her work bridges the gap between rehabilitation and real-life strength, with a special focus on people navigating autoimmune disease, menopause, injury recovery, and fluctuating capacity.
Beth also brings lived experience to her work, managing her own celiac disease and Hashimoto’s thyroiditis. That perspective deeply informs her compassionate, practical approach to movement—one rooted in safety, realism, and long-term sustainability rather than pushing through symptoms.
In our conversation, we focus on how to start a movement routine from scratch in a way that feels supportive and adaptable to real life. Instead of prescribing workouts, Beth shares a framework for reconnecting with movement through curiosity, capacity awareness, and gradual habit-building.
Download the worksheets mentioned in this episode!
Episode Timeline:
00:00 – Why movement feels hard with autoimmune disease
01:43 – Introducing Beth Trimark-Connor
05:50 – Step 1: Start with your “why”
09:54 – Step 2: Assess real-life capacity and constraints
12:27 – Step 3: Start smaller than you think
19:25 – Building a daily check-in routine
20:48 – Tracking data without judgment
26:30 – Pre-solving problems so life doesn’t derail you
30:55 – Recap, key takeaways, and next steps
If you've ever thought, I know movement is important,
Mickey Trescott:but I'm not sure how to start in a way that actually feels safe for
Mickey Trescott:my body, this episode is for you.
Mickey Trescott:For many people living with autoimmune disease movement comes with a lot of
Mickey Trescott:questions like, how much is enough?
Mickey Trescott:What is too much?
Mickey Trescott:And how do you begin again, if your body doesn't tolerate
Mickey Trescott:exercise the way that it used to?
Mickey Trescott:It's really common to feel stuck between doing too little and overdoing
Mickey Trescott:it, especially if your past attempts have led to pain, fatigue or a
Mickey Trescott:flare of your autoimmune symptoms.
Mickey Trescott:And while we hear a lot about the benefits of movement, there's often
Mickey Trescott:very little guidance on how to approach it realistically when you're managing
Mickey Trescott:symptoms, limited energy or have taken a long break from activity.
Mickey Trescott:So today we're going to talk about how to start a movement routine from scratch
Mickey Trescott:in a way that's practical, supportive, and sustainable without pushing through
Mickey Trescott:or trying to force your body into something that it's just not ready for.
Mickey Trescott:Welcome back to the Autoimmune Wellness Podcast.
Mickey Trescott:I'm your host, Mickey Trescott.
Mickey Trescott:Alongside the Deep Dive episodes, I also share longer expert
Mickey Trescott:interviews like this one.
Mickey Trescott:Conversations designed to help you apply what we know about
Mickey Trescott:autoimmune health in everyday life.
Mickey Trescott:This episode is especially for anyone who doesn't currently have a movement
Mickey Trescott:routine, feels unsure or cautious about how to begin or has been
Mickey Trescott:told to just exercise without clear guidance on how to do that safely.
Mickey Trescott:And before we begin, a quick reminder that this podcast is for educational purposes
Mickey Trescott:only, definitely not medical advice.
Mickey Trescott:And always consult your healthcare provider before making changes to your
Mickey Trescott:movement routine or your treatment plan.
Mickey Trescott:So before we dive in, I want to introduce today's guest, somebody
Mickey Trescott:who has played a very meaningful role in my own health journey.
Mickey Trescott:Her name is Beth Trimark-Connor.
Mickey Trescott:And Beth is a licensed physical therapist with a master's degree in
Mickey Trescott:physical therapy, a certified personal trainer and a lifelong athlete who
Mickey Trescott:helps people bridge the gap between rehab and real life strength.
Mickey Trescott:She holds a degree in human physiology from Michigan State University
Mickey Trescott:and a master's degree in physical therapy from the University of
Mickey Trescott:Colorado Health Sciences Center.
Mickey Trescott:She's also completed extensive additional training, including certification as
Mickey Trescott:a strength and conditioning specialist through the NSCA and ACSM certified
Mickey Trescott:personal trainer, RRCA distance Running Coach, Precision Nutrition level one
Mickey Trescott:and level two, and an evidence-based menopause coaching certification.
Mickey Trescott:Beth blends evidence-based movement, strength training, recovery, and
Mickey Trescott:lifestyle support to help clients build long-term sustainable health,
Mickey Trescott:particularly for people navigating autoimmune disease, menopause, injury
Mickey Trescott:recovery, and major life transitions.
Mickey Trescott:She also brings her lived experience to her work, navigating her own celiac
Mickey Trescott:disease and Hashimoto's thyroiditis, which deeply informs her compassionate,
Mickey Trescott:practical approach to supporting clients with chronic conditions.
Mickey Trescott:In addition to the clinical and the coaching work, Beth's approach is
Mickey Trescott:grounded in a commitment to inclusive, socially aware wellness, informed by
Mickey Trescott:ongoing training in social justice, diversity, inclusion, and self-awareness
Mickey Trescott:within fitness and health spaces.
Mickey Trescott:And on a personal note, if that wasn't enough, this is why today's conversation
Mickey Trescott:isn't just theoretical for me, back in 2019 I hired Beth to help me get stronger.
Mickey Trescott:So you guys know all about my autoimmune crash in 2012 and movement
Mickey Trescott:had really narrowed down to just walking and stretching for many
Mickey Trescott:years after that, which was really appropriate for that season of my life.
Mickey Trescott:But I just didn't know how to move beyond that safely.
Mickey Trescott:And at the time I was living on the farm, I had a very small apartment,
Mickey Trescott:very limited equipment, just a few weights, some kettlebells.
Mickey Trescott:And I hired Beth to help coach me here, and she really met me exactly where I was.
Mickey Trescott:So we started with breath work, core work, stability, and slowly built a
Mickey Trescott:foundation that felt safe and doable.
Mickey Trescott:And over time, that process brought me back to strength training and eventually
Mickey Trescott:even to higher intensity activities like pickleball, which I really never imagined
Mickey Trescott:that I'd be able to do years earlier.
Mickey Trescott:So when we talk today about starting a movement routine from
Mickey Trescott:scratch, this isn't hypothetical.
Mickey Trescott:Beth is literally the person who helped me navigate that exact
Mickey Trescott:question in my own life in a way that felt supportive, sustainable, and
Mickey Trescott:empowering and that is why I wanted to have her here to speak today.
Mickey Trescott:So after that very long introduction, Beth, I'm so glad you're here.
Mickey Trescott:Thank you so much for joining us.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Thank you so much for having me.
Mickey Trescott:This is so a favorite zone for me when I'm working with new people is
Mickey Trescott:this step is how do we get started?
Mickey Trescott:What makes sense?
Mickey Trescott:I love that.
Mickey Trescott:We actually had planned a little episode for you guys and I was like,
Mickey Trescott:this just needs to be the full deal because there is so much wisdom here
Mickey Trescott:that you guys need to know about.
Mickey Trescott:So thank you so much, Beth.
Mickey Trescott:Will you, before we get started, tell everybody a little bit about the workout
Mickey Trescott:tracker and the additional resources that we're going to talk about today,
Mickey Trescott:so that they can get started with those.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Right.
Mickey Trescott:So we got really excited and then we got a self analysis
Mickey Trescott:slash questionnaire, and a tracker.
Mickey Trescott:So like you can take this information in and just relax
Mickey Trescott:and listen and then you can go to Mickey's website,
Mickey Trescott:autoimmunewellness.com/ move, and you can find our downloadable nuggets.
Mickey Trescott:You'll click on that and that's going to take you to a pathway so
Mickey Trescott:that you can access these documents.
Mickey Trescott:Beth has created these companions so that as you guys listen
Mickey Trescott:along today, those resources are really helpful for anybody who is actually
Mickey Trescott:going to be putting into practice the thing that we're going to talk about.
Mickey Trescott:I'm really excited to get started.
Mickey Trescott:One of the things that I love about your approach, Beth, is that you don't start
Mickey Trescott:with just like what exercises to do.
Mickey Trescott:We're not going to talk about like, here's your workout, go do these things.
Mickey Trescott:You love to start with the "why".
Mickey Trescott:Talk to us about why that matters so much, especially with people
Mickey Trescott:that have autoimmune disease.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Absolutely.
Mickey Trescott:Like everybody, I think you could ask any human on the street,
Mickey Trescott:like, tell me five exercises.
Mickey Trescott:What should I do to get healthy?
Mickey Trescott:And they could probably give you some good information.
Mickey Trescott:So I like to start with why, because it connects you,
Mickey Trescott:it anchors you to a deeper meaning with the movement.
Mickey Trescott:Is it because you want to get back to playing a sport.
Mickey Trescott:Do you want to resolve a chronic soreness?
Mickey Trescott:Do you want to be able to pick up your kid or your grandkid?
Mickey Trescott:Go on vacation and feel confident going on a tour or doing five
Mickey Trescott:miles of walking in Spain, or wherever, maybe less exotic,
Mickey Trescott:Ohio, wherever you're vacationing.
Mickey Trescott:It's really just about also using your imagination.
Mickey Trescott:I feel like when I was diagnosed, I got sort of old information,
Mickey Trescott:this is over 10 years ago, of like, you're overdoing it, don't do that.
Mickey Trescott:It was disorienting to me, and, over the years, I had to
Mickey Trescott:figure out, what do I want to look like at as an athlete?
Mickey Trescott:And it's going to change during different life phases.
Mickey Trescott:Using your imagination, where will I be in a year?
Mickey Trescott:Where will I be in two years?
Mickey Trescott:Where will I be in five years?
Mickey Trescott:And I think you mentioned your crash, but I think with a lot
Mickey Trescott:of folks, learning that you have an autoimmune condition
Mickey Trescott:changes your self -perception.
Mickey Trescott:Yeah, I think that's true, especially for people who may be
Mickey Trescott:like, this is my experience, but like I was very athletic in my younger life and
Mickey Trescott:that was something that I used to relieve stress and was like a very positive
Mickey Trescott:part of my life and I really liked it.
Mickey Trescott:And then I got sick and I just kind of said, oh, I'm never going
Mickey Trescott:to be able to do this again.
Mickey Trescott:And like you said about imagination, I wasn't really imagining a life
Mickey Trescott:where I was capable and strong again.
Mickey Trescott:I actually really like this "why," I mean, we do this with
Mickey Trescott:food in the transition phase.
Mickey Trescott:We really need to hone in on that "why" because it really informs all of
Mickey Trescott:the next things and that motivation.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: I feel like it really fuels the excitement.
Mickey Trescott:It gets you a little excited.
Mickey Trescott:I want to just a little bit touch on here in the "why" section, what
Mickey Trescott:does research say with autoimmunity?
Mickey Trescott:When I got that information, I was marathon training and
Mickey Trescott:really into endurance exercise and my doctor was like, that's
Mickey Trescott:too much, you're overdoing it.
Mickey Trescott:And we don't really have evidence that says exercise is bad for
Mickey Trescott:folks with autoimmune disease.
Mickey Trescott:We actually have information that says it's supportive.
Mickey Trescott:It's not going to make it go away, but it can support you
Mickey Trescott:in your autoimmune journey.
Mickey Trescott:It can improve your fatigue.
Mickey Trescott:It can improve your endurance.
Mickey Trescott:It can improve maybe a very modest or gentle improvement in some of
Mickey Trescott:your markers for certain conditions.
Mickey Trescott:I don't know if you ever got that information or if
Mickey Trescott:anybody who's listening ever got the, like, be careful, but do
Mickey Trescott:something type of information.
Mickey Trescott:We have good research that says movement is going to help you.
Mickey Trescott:And actually Beth, the research that I've seen is a
Mickey Trescott:lot of like rheumatic conditions where people have rheumatoid
Mickey Trescott:arthritis and they have joint pain.
Mickey Trescott:And a lot of those patients think that because they have pain, that movement is
Mickey Trescott:actually going to cause them more pain.
Mickey Trescott:But the studies that I've seen show that physical therapy designed for
Mickey Trescott:an autoimmune body, actually improves things over time because that movement
Mickey Trescott:is just really important for your joints.
Mickey Trescott:I think a really good message is that movement can be helpful and I think
Mickey Trescott:on the other side, with Hashimoto's, I had exercise intolerance and
Mickey Trescott:telling that to my providers and them being like, you should be able to
Mickey Trescott:exercise like a normal person because your thyroid levels are normal.
Mickey Trescott:So it can be both ends of the spectrum, fear of exercising and then also
Mickey Trescott:experiencing symptoms that are not really, acknowledged by the system
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes.
Mickey Trescott:A little bit of gaslighting there.
Mickey Trescott:Which is frustrating.
Mickey Trescott:But do want to talk about something that you do in your approach is
Mickey Trescott:really emphasizing empathy and realism and just taking the pressure off.
Mickey Trescott:The next step for people might be like looking at their life and
Mickey Trescott:figuring out where movement fits without setting themselves up to fail.
Mickey Trescott:I experienced this, everybody has these logistical constraints when
Mickey Trescott:it comes to an exercise routine.
Mickey Trescott:Not everybody has a gym membership or a personal trainer, or literally the space.
Mickey Trescott:I just love your approach because it's so tailored.
Mickey Trescott:What should people really be looking at when they're starting to
Mickey Trescott:design their entry into movement?
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Transitioning from like now you know why
Mickey Trescott:you're doing what you're doing.
Mickey Trescott:What does your real life look like?
Mickey Trescott:Who are you taking care of?
Mickey Trescott:That's cats, that's older humans, that's littles,
Mickey Trescott:that's a house renovation.
Mickey Trescott:Like what is really going on?
Mickey Trescott:Are you coming off an illness?
Mickey Trescott:Is travel coming up?
Mickey Trescott:Do you have big projects?
Mickey Trescott:Looking through some life binoculars, looking ahead a little bit.
Mickey Trescott:What's going on now?
Mickey Trescott:What's coming up?
Mickey Trescott:Movement needs a place to live on your schedule.
Mickey Trescott:So a little bit of like a lifestyle assessment, like, oh, Monday mornings
Mickey Trescott:really work because X, Y, or Z. Maybe I get started on Saturday.
Mickey Trescott:I have a little space to myself.
Mickey Trescott:Thinking one or two days a week that you can reserve and that
Mickey Trescott:might also require talking to your people that you cohab with.
Mickey Trescott:Like, I need you guys to make lunches on Monday night and that
Mickey Trescott:might require you to teach your kid how to make their lunch.
Mickey Trescott:There might be a little bit of set up work.
Mickey Trescott:And if you can look at and prepare, it'll make the
Mickey Trescott:transition a lot easier.
Mickey Trescott:It also might mean a little less scrolling.
Mickey Trescott:You might need to limit some spaces that you're losing time.
Mickey Trescott:I'm sure everybody who's listening feels like, I'm so busy.
Mickey Trescott:But!
Mickey Trescott:There's going to be some spots.
Mickey Trescott:There's going to be some little spots you can rearrange or compress things
Mickey Trescott:and find a little space for that.
Mickey Trescott:With the scrolling and just thinking of movement as
Mickey Trescott:something that you can do for a small amount of time, that was
Mickey Trescott:really transformative for me.
Mickey Trescott:I used to think a workout was an hour.
Mickey Trescott:I was so
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Oh,
Mickey Trescott:the whole like the hour long workout myth and now I'm like a big
Mickey Trescott:fan of the 15 minute, and multiple times.
Mickey Trescott:So it would start as a 15 minute, maybe once a day.
Mickey Trescott:And then when you realize, there might actually be a couple little
Mickey Trescott:15 minutes in a day just because it is really approachable.
Mickey Trescott:I think 15 minutes is a lovely amount of time to start with.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Absolutely.
Mickey Trescott:Moving into why are we doing this?
Mickey Trescott:Where is it going to go?
Mickey Trescott:And what are we doing?
Mickey Trescott:And for how long?
Mickey Trescott:If you went from doing nothing to doing something
Mickey Trescott:once a week, you'll have done something 52 times this year.
Mickey Trescott:That stacks up.
Mickey Trescott:We all know the big guidelines, 30 minutes of moderate intensity,
Mickey Trescott:five days a week or 75 minutes of higher intensity, two days a week.
Mickey Trescott:And then as far as lifting recommendations, it's a minimum
Mickey Trescott:of two days a week and there's not a specific time on that one.
Mickey Trescott:We're moving towards that.
Mickey Trescott:I think altogether that's like 250 to 300 minutes a week if
Mickey Trescott:we were meeting those standards.
Mickey Trescott:Even if you did 25% of that, if you did 50% of that, you're
Mickey Trescott:going to get those benefits.
Mickey Trescott:So, I recommend starting with one thing.
Mickey Trescott:One thing for 15 to 20 minutes, one to two times a week.
Mickey Trescott:So, most of my clients, we're starting with a two time a week
Mickey Trescott:target, because even if you like miss one and you only get one, then
Mickey Trescott:you're getting that one time a week.
Mickey Trescott:Maybe you set up two spots and you just shoot for getting one.
Mickey Trescott:But one thing, one to two days a week, 15 to 20 minutes and
Mickey Trescott:try it for four to six weeks.
Mickey Trescott:Another helpful thing is to get super specific on
Mickey Trescott:what you're going to do.
Mickey Trescott:Give yourself a little bit of a time cushion, so if you
Mickey Trescott:are someone like me who has a hard time transitioning from
Mickey Trescott:activity to activity, if I'm doing a 15 minute workout, it's
Mickey Trescott:going to look like 25 minutes.
Mickey Trescott:By the time I get myself to a place, pick up, I use a
Mickey Trescott:written tracker because I can't be trusted with my phone.
Mickey Trescott:The thing you're looking for, it could be something simple, like I'm
Mickey Trescott:going to go and walk for 10 minutes.
Mickey Trescott:That's like a 15 minute thing.
Mickey Trescott:Maybe because walking is often, I think the first thing healthcare
Mickey Trescott:practitioners say a lot, we also need to acknowledge that there are
Mickey Trescott:people who would not feel safe being outside, maybe their neighborhood,
Mickey Trescott:but maybe there's a lot going on in the world or other reasons
Mickey Trescott:don't feel safe being outside.
Mickey Trescott:They're in a rural setting?
Mickey Trescott:There are like walk in place videos, there's chair exercise videos,
Mickey Trescott:super beginner Pilates, Tai Chi.
Mickey Trescott:Whatever it is, get super specific about it.
Mickey Trescott:You could even start with a lifting program, so like a short warmup,
Mickey Trescott:three to five moves and working at a 4 to 6 out of 10 on a RPE scale.
Mickey Trescott:I add this in because that's the effort.
Mickey Trescott:Even if you're getting a walking video online how
Mickey Trescott:hard should you be doing it?
Mickey Trescott:So RPE stands for the rate of perceived exertion
Mickey Trescott:so how hard am I working.
Mickey Trescott:And zero's not very hard 10 is all out.
Mickey Trescott:So Like medium, you're working at right about 50
Mickey Trescott:of your effort, four to six.
Mickey Trescott:This is a great way to get started, but not hurt yourself.
Mickey Trescott:So whatever you choose, give it a 4 to 6 type of effort.
Mickey Trescott:If you're lifting, one way we can talk about RPE is if I'm
Mickey Trescott:working at a 4 to 6 effort.
Mickey Trescott:If I'm working at a 4, I could do this exercise six more times
Mickey Trescott:before I really feel tired.
Mickey Trescott:If I'm working at a 6, I could do four more
Mickey Trescott:repetitions of this exercise.
Mickey Trescott:If I'm doing a cardiovascular thing, I can easily talk
Mickey Trescott:and I feel like I'm putting out about 50% of my effort.
Mickey Trescott:I love introducing a subjective scale instead of saying, you
Mickey Trescott:need to be doing this move, because we can apply that to literally anything we do,
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Mm-hmm.
Mickey Trescott:You can scale it.
Mickey Trescott:I remember a time when exercising for me was like walking a block or two blocks
Mickey Trescott:or three blocks and that 4 to 6 scale, walking a couple blocks was like a 7.
Mickey Trescott:You know,
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Right.
Mickey Trescott:For it, which some people might be listening and being like, wow.
Mickey Trescott:But like really we are all starting at different places.
Mickey Trescott:Even now where I'm strength training and I can think about like deadlifting.
Mickey Trescott:I love that.
Mickey Trescott:Just how hard is this for me?
Mickey Trescott:How long can I do it?
Mickey Trescott:What is my perceived effort?
Mickey Trescott:I think that's something that autoimmune people at any point
Mickey Trescott:can just really hone in on.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: And it stacks up against research.
Mickey Trescott:Like, it's a great tool.
Mickey Trescott:I'm not making it up.
Mickey Trescott:It is just really highly applicable, and it's a great starting point.
Mickey Trescott:One other thing I want to touch often, so like, I start people
Mickey Trescott:slow because it's about the habit formation and physiological adaptation.
Mickey Trescott:You're going to start slow, so your body's going to adapt.
Mickey Trescott:It's not going to be overwhelmed if you go crazy on your first
Mickey Trescott:workout and you're exquisitely sore for two weeks and, you
Mickey Trescott:know, you have disrupted sleep.
Mickey Trescott:I just wanted to put like a tiny asterisk here because most people
Mickey Trescott:with autoimmune disease are people who are assigned female at birth.
Mickey Trescott:That usually lands in the 30 plus crowd.
Mickey Trescott:And then that's going to dovetail a bit with perimenopause and menopause.
Mickey Trescott:So if you are thinking of your 19-year-old self, like, pole
Mickey Trescott:vaulting or you were like captain of the whatever team.
Mickey Trescott:And then you're starting and it feels like that person was cool.
Mickey Trescott:They were cool.
Mickey Trescott:But this person might be going through autoimmune things, but also
Mickey Trescott:perimenopause and menopause things, which have a significant shift.
Mickey Trescott:And there's even a name for it in research called the
Mickey Trescott:musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause.
Mickey Trescott:And it's just that estrogen works systemically, and as it decreases, it
Mickey Trescott:literally affects our ligaments, our bones, our muscles, our joint matrix.
Mickey Trescott:So it's nothing to be scared of.
Mickey Trescott:This is very much like our perimenopause and menopause
Mickey Trescott:journeys are very much like autoimmune journeys.
Mickey Trescott:No two can be compared or to be even close to the same.
Mickey Trescott:Just be aware if you are 30 plus, you might have a little dovetailing,
Mickey Trescott:and the good news is exercise helps autoimmune disease and exercise
Mickey Trescott:helps perimenopause symptoms too.
Mickey Trescott:We just have to do that smart, curious relationship
Mickey Trescott:building with our body.
Mickey Trescott:Love the way that you frame that as something
Mickey Trescott:to be curious about instead of like looking for like with dread.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes.
Mickey Trescott:having autoimmune disease is already hard and
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes!
Mickey Trescott:I first encountered a lot of the menopause stuff, I was like,
Mickey Trescott:ah, something to not look forward to.
Mickey Trescott:And I'm just so grateful for people like you who are really sharing empowered
Mickey Trescott:and positive information about how we can work with this instead of
Mickey Trescott:being afraid of it or resisting it.
Mickey Trescott:Because it really is a beautiful process, learning how our bodies need
Mickey Trescott:something different and finding out how to work through that figure that out.
Mickey Trescott:So I love that.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: There's like a whole meno verse out there.
Mickey Trescott:There are people where you can learn more about the
Mickey Trescott:musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause, the cardiovascular things.
Mickey Trescott:And just know everything that we do for autoimmune jazz pretty
Mickey Trescott:much directly translates to all the things that we would do for
Mickey Trescott:perimenopause and menopause symptoms.
Mickey Trescott:I'd like to move on to working on a little self check-in.
Mickey Trescott:Before you work out, and this is a skill, so like you've got
Mickey Trescott:the habit forming is a skill and the self check-in is a skill.
Mickey Trescott:How did you, on a zero to 10 scale, how did you sleep?
Mickey Trescott:How was your diet yesterday?
Mickey Trescott:What's the stress level like?
Mickey Trescott:Because these things are going to help you to turn up or turn
Mickey Trescott:down or just become aware that your body is there and the
Mickey Trescott:things that it is interfacing with in your home, in the world.
Mickey Trescott:If you had a great night's sleep, good.
Mickey Trescott:You know, I feel pretty good today.
Mickey Trescott:I'm a seven.
Mickey Trescott:I'm coming off a cold.
Mickey Trescott:It's been so stressful.
Mickey Trescott:I'm a three today.
Mickey Trescott:Okay, just jot it down and you're noggin or on your tracking sheet
Mickey Trescott:just so you have an awareness.
Mickey Trescott:This community is definitely no stranger to tracking
Mickey Trescott:because this is something that we do very diligently through the elimination
Mickey Trescott:phase and the reintroduction phase.
Mickey Trescott:And this is how we tell if people are sensitive to foods.
Mickey Trescott:But I love applying this to movement because movement is actually a little
Mickey Trescott:different because our capabilities are going to shift on a given day.
Mickey Trescott:So checking in and noting our sleep and our soreness and our symptoms
Mickey Trescott:is really applicable to what kind of movement we're going to do.
Mickey Trescott:So once people are checking in and tracking, what kind of things will
Mickey Trescott:they do with that information?
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Okay, so now that you got your self check-in,
Mickey Trescott:I would love for folks in some way to track what they're doing.
Mickey Trescott:So you know why, you know when, you know what.
Mickey Trescott:Okay, you checked yourself in.
Mickey Trescott:Now, write down what you did.
Mickey Trescott:Whether you do, there are a ton of fitness trackers.
Mickey Trescott:I prefer pen and paper for myself.
Mickey Trescott:My clients all use True Coach, and a mixture of wearables.
Mickey Trescott:There are so many ways to track, but just track it.
Mickey Trescott:If you don't track what you're doing you don't really have a next step.
Mickey Trescott:If you feel great, if you feel terrible, you don't really know why,
Mickey Trescott:like was it the workout or not?
Mickey Trescott:And then, let's say you plan four sessions.
Mickey Trescott:See if you can get three of them in the month.
Mickey Trescott:If you plan eight, shoot for six or better.
Mickey Trescott:We're not shooting for perfection.
Mickey Trescott:We're just shooting for most of the timeness.
Mickey Trescott:It's not an all or nothing.
Mickey Trescott:It's a all or something.
Mickey Trescott:Let's say you do four to six weeks and you've tracked and it
Mickey Trescott:was great and you feel good.
Mickey Trescott:You could just keep doing that.
Mickey Trescott:Just keep doing what you're doing.
Mickey Trescott:You don't have to have an exponentially increasing
Mickey Trescott:expectation of yourself.
Mickey Trescott:Oh my gosh, Beth, this is something that, I recently have gotten to
Mickey Trescott:the point where I'm like, I'm happy with the amount that I'm moving, it's good.
Mickey Trescott:And my brain is going, but you need to do more, because we're always told that.
Mickey Trescott:Right?
Mickey Trescott:So I love that.
Mickey Trescott:Yeah.
Mickey Trescott:You don't have to increase.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: I think we're told that and then we see videos of
Mickey Trescott:someone doing a kettlebell complex, but that's probably all they do.
Mickey Trescott:Some of our wonderful wellness influencers, not a crack, but like
Mickey Trescott:that takes up a lot of time.
Mickey Trescott:If you're wanting to do a 90 -minute workout several days a
Mickey Trescott:week, sure, sure, you can get there, but it just depends on you.
Mickey Trescott:This step, the tracking the data is where the juice lives,
Mickey Trescott:because you're learning about this relationship with yourself, do you
Mickey Trescott:want to incorporate your kids more?
Mickey Trescott:Do you want to try to do something with your partner?
Mickey Trescott:Like, this is where it lives.
Mickey Trescott:I do want to touch on, let's say it went terribly,
Mickey Trescott:That is also no sweat.
Mickey Trescott:Also, like, double air horn celebration, ba baa, because you
Mickey Trescott:tried, and now it's a time to look at, you know what, there's
Mickey Trescott:no way after dinner's going to work.
Mickey Trescott:I'm a mess, the kid's a mess, our dogs need a walk, like, recalibrate.
Mickey Trescott:It's time to look, maybe you need more help, an accountability
Mickey Trescott:buddy, something, maybe you need to leave and go to a gym,
Mickey Trescott:like, sure, it's going to take more time and energy, but maybe
Mickey Trescott:you need to remove yourself from the family milieu to have the
Mickey Trescott:cognitive and just the literal space to take care of yourself.
Mickey Trescott:So many awesome tips.
Mickey Trescott:And also just having license to be like, this doesn't work for me.
Mickey Trescott:Just like we would try a food and be like, you know what?
Mickey Trescott:I know how that feels when I do that thing.
Mickey Trescott:Recently I realized that yoga is not good for me.
Mickey Trescott:I have psoriatic arthritis, my tendons are just wonky and that's
Mickey Trescott:fine, I do a lot of other things.
Mickey Trescott:But yoga, I just was wanting to do it, and it would cause me
Mickey Trescott:so much pain every time I did.
Mickey Trescott:And finally I was like, you know what?
Mickey Trescott:There's so many other things I can do.
Mickey Trescott:Not that.
Mickey Trescott:That negative feedback, even though it's frustrating when it's something that like
Mickey Trescott:we might want to do, we can channel that into something else, finding something
Mickey Trescott:that just makes us feel joy or good or capable and just like chase that.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: I really like that you brought up having to be
Mickey Trescott:like, that's not working right now.
Mickey Trescott:I think there's a lot of people who are like, there's
Mickey Trescott:nothing I can't overcome.
Mickey Trescott:And sometimes it just doesn't work.
Mickey Trescott:And we're in different phases of life too.
Mickey Trescott:You mentioned your athleticism earlier in life and, my choices
Mickey Trescott:now are way different than my choices as an 18-year-old.
Mickey Trescott:This is the point where you're like, Okay, I'm going to try
Mickey Trescott:something new and not feel like it's a moral failure.
Mickey Trescott:It's just data.
Mickey Trescott:That's just the data I'm getting.
Mickey Trescott:None of this is working.
Mickey Trescott:Or maybe it's somewhere in the middle, it sort of worked and
Mickey Trescott:you just need to practice more.
Mickey Trescott:I think of a stretching out expectations and stretching out
Mickey Trescott:your vision to months, a year.
Mickey Trescott:I love that about your approach, just because
Mickey Trescott:I've experienced it personally.
Mickey Trescott:When we started our work together, the goal was just breathing and stretching
Mickey Trescott:and just a little core stability.
Mickey Trescott:And it really did take six months until the vision could get bigger
Mickey Trescott:into picking up weights, you know?
Mickey Trescott:And I think
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes.
Mickey Trescott:if I would have gone into it thinking I need to pick up the
Mickey Trescott:weights, because that's what I really want to do, it wouldn't have worked because
Mickey Trescott:I needed to go through that process.
Mickey Trescott:And so I think that is just so beautiful how you describe just
Mickey Trescott:acknowledging how things take time, how our bodies change, and how that
Mickey Trescott:imagination really just can change over our lifespan and our health span and
Mickey Trescott:how our bodies are always evolving.
Mickey Trescott:And how different feel
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes.
Mickey Trescott:fun to us at times.
Mickey Trescott:I think back to the 18, 19-year-old, 20-year-old me and thinking, I
Mickey Trescott:want to run a marathon someday.
Mickey Trescott:I never got to experience that.
Mickey Trescott:Now I'm like, no thank you.
Mickey Trescott:You know what I mean?
Mickey Trescott:Like, there's other things like, I want to play pickleball, that's fun.
Mickey Trescott:And I've discovered that, but I could never have imagined
Mickey Trescott:that when I was like 19.
Mickey Trescott:It just, it changes, you know?
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yeah, be, willing to squeeze like a fresh
Mickey Trescott:lemon, on your expectations.
Mickey Trescott:Be willing to think completely outside of the
Mickey Trescott:box of what I used to.
Mickey Trescott:I almost can guarantee for some people they might be able
Mickey Trescott:to reboot some old things.
Mickey Trescott:That's a hundred percent possible, maybe scaled to
Mickey Trescott:where they're at right now?
Mickey Trescott:But I think you're right for the most part we are always growing and
Mickey Trescott:changing and our family needs are growing and changing, so I think
Mickey Trescott:most of us will be looking at something a little bit different.
Mickey Trescott:Okay, Mickey.
Mickey Trescott:I just want to end with a few hot tips.
Mickey Trescott:So... Life is going to happen left and right.
Mickey Trescott:You know, pet's going to get sick, your kid's going
Mickey Trescott:to need to get picked up.
Mickey Trescott:So let's preplan, according to your life.
Mickey Trescott:So for me, I've got a lot of oldies.
Mickey Trescott:There's always like a lot of oldie emergencies going on.
Mickey Trescott:I'm caregiving for some lovely elders.
Mickey Trescott:One thing I always do when there's something urgent, I'll be like, is
Mickey Trescott:this urgent or is this emergent?
Mickey Trescott:Is it okay for me to finish what I'm doing right now?
Mickey Trescott:So I have that little check-in?
Mickey Trescott:Another thing is like maybe if you didn't sleep well, you have
Mickey Trescott:a less intense workout, you're going to cut the time in half.
Mickey Trescott:Do you have any advanced problem solving tips?
Mickey Trescott:Adjusting is something that I do a lot, you know, don't sleep
Mickey Trescott:well, it's better to not go to not exercising or I would even call it
Mickey Trescott:exercising, like, bringing in a little breath work or meditation or like
Mickey Trescott:a little rollout with some mobility stuff, instead of doing nothing
Mickey Trescott:because that kind of compounds the not feeling good from not sleeping.
Mickey Trescott:I really find the checkpoint of doing something like you mentioned
Mickey Trescott:earlier, something or nothing, I learned that from you, just helps
Mickey Trescott:me stay like on track with whatever my routine is, even if I'm not doing
Mickey Trescott:the perfect whole expression of that.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yeah, and having, because every family is so unique,
Mickey Trescott:have your top 10 things that sideline you, like, or top three,
Mickey Trescott:and have a solution for them.
Mickey Trescott:Solution as much as you can, 'cause you're going to be the
Mickey Trescott:best wisdom and knowledge holder for how your household works.
Mickey Trescott:You can put your workout outfit, your keys and water
Mickey Trescott:bottle all in one zone.
Mickey Trescott:You can put your tracker and your yoga mat together so when you
Mickey Trescott:go to exercise it's right there.
Mickey Trescott:You can put your tracking app on the homepage of your phone.
Mickey Trescott:Like little things to just bring it to the front.
Mickey Trescott:You could also habit stack.
Mickey Trescott:So let's say every morning you immediately get up and put
Mickey Trescott:your exercise clothes on.
Mickey Trescott:Like, can you twin things that you're already doing and
Mickey Trescott:just, like, pair 'em together?
Mickey Trescott:I got real excited about hot tips.
Mickey Trescott:I think that's the last of my hot tips for right now.
Mickey Trescott:The one that I learned from you is to keep handy the
Mickey Trescott:little mobility things in my house.
Mickey Trescott:So in my office I have a roller.
Mickey Trescott:I have a little foam calf stretcher, and I have some balls.
Mickey Trescott:And I've just found that just having it here and not having to go in the room
Mickey Trescott:where I do that a workout just makes it so I can get a little hit for five minutes
Mickey Trescott:and I get so much more just because it's accessible and it makes it easy.
Mickey Trescott:And wearing the right outfit.
Mickey Trescott:You mentioned changing into it.
Mickey Trescott:I don't know why that's such a mental thing, but it's like you've already
Mickey Trescott:committed that you're going to do the stretching and you're ready to go.
Mickey Trescott:So I think that's a great one.
Mickey Trescott:And filling the water bottle, you know,
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yeah, like your physical...
Mickey Trescott:ready to go.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Yes, your physical environment can
Mickey Trescott:really facilitate your success.
Mickey Trescott:And at the same time, you can wear, like, when you're thinking about,
Mickey Trescott:like, your workout, maybe it's, you want to do something where you
Mickey Trescott:don't have to change your clothes.
Mickey Trescott:If that's a barrier, problem solve around that too.
Mickey Trescott:It is like a Mr. Rogers I'm changing for this purpose thing.
Mickey Trescott:Yep.
Mickey Trescott:And habit stacking is just so powerful.
Mickey Trescott:We have a lot of research just about how habits are built and
Mickey Trescott:back to, you mentioned scrolling.
Mickey Trescott:I know we talk about it as this thing that most of us do.
Mickey Trescott:But when you think about the time that I've just stopped
Mickey Trescott:doing that is before bed.
Mickey Trescott:And when I'm not doing that, sometimes doing a little stretching and a little
Mickey Trescott:mobility, replacing something that's not as helpful, with something that just
Mickey Trescott:helps grease everything up a little bit.
Mickey Trescott:I'm a really big fan of small doses of little mobility work
Mickey Trescott:to help my body feel good.
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: And I just want to pop in here
Mickey Trescott:to say, what is mobility?
Mickey Trescott:Just because we're talking about it quite a bit.
Mickey Trescott:Mobility could even be a workout for some people.
Mickey Trescott:And that's just a fancy way of saying like, I'm doing a
Mickey Trescott:few cat cows or I'm doing a little all fours rock.
Mickey Trescott:I'm doing my knees into my chest.
Mickey Trescott:It could be moving your arm in a real intentional circle.
Mickey Trescott:It's just a little bit of moves to get into certain ranges of motion.
Mickey Trescott:Thank you for clarifying that and hopefully
Mickey Trescott:everyone has found this so helpful.
Mickey Trescott:I love talking to you and your perspective on movement and solving
Mickey Trescott:all of the little problems that people have and little barriers that we
Mickey Trescott:have to starting an exercise routine.
Mickey Trescott:Before we wrap up, I want to take a minute to reflect back
Mickey Trescott:what we talked about today.
Mickey Trescott:This conversation wasn't about finding the perfect movement plan
Mickey Trescott:or pushing yourself to do more.
Mickey Trescott:It was about learning how to start where you are and how to build
Mickey Trescott:movement in a way that feels safe, supportive, and sustainable over time.
Mickey Trescott:So we talked about starting with your "why", connecting movement to the things
Mickey Trescott:that you actually want to do in your life, not just a set of exercise rules.
Mickey Trescott:We talked about being honest about your capacity and your schedule, and
Mickey Trescott:making space for movement instead of trying to just force it in.
Mickey Trescott:And we talked about starting smaller than you think you need to, checking
Mickey Trescott:in with your body, and treating everything you notice as information,
Mickey Trescott:not as judgment or failure.
Mickey Trescott:And then lastly, we talked about planning for real life.
Mickey Trescott:These are the days when your sleep is off, your energy is low, or things
Mickey Trescott:that don't go according to plan.
Mickey Trescott:So that movement can stay part of your life without becoming
Mickey Trescott:another source of stress.
Mickey Trescott:And I really love this framing because it takes movement out
Mickey Trescott:of this all or nothing mindset.
Mickey Trescott:It turns it into a relationship.
Mickey Trescott:Starting small isn't a failure, pausing isn't quitting, and you
Mickey Trescott:definitely don't need to see that whole path, just the next step.
Mickey Trescott:So Beth, thank you so much for sharing this grounded and compassionate approach.
Mickey Trescott:I know it's going to help a lot of people feel less afraid to begin again.
Mickey Trescott:And before we go, can you let listeners know where they can find
Mickey Trescott:you and learn more about your work?
Mickey Trescott:Beth Trimark-Connor: Okay, www dot gotrainingwithbeth is my website.
Mickey Trescott:I'm on the Instagrams and I have a Facebook presence.
Mickey Trescott:So that's where you can find me.
Mickey Trescott:Awesome.
Mickey Trescott:I will make sure that all of that is linked in the show notes.
Mickey Trescott:And for everyone listening, Beth created these worksheets and tracker that follow
Mickey Trescott:the steps that we talked through today.
Mickey Trescott:It's definitely there to help you guys reflect, start small and
Mickey Trescott:check in with your body over time without pressure or judgment.
Mickey Trescott:Check out the link in the show notes or type in autoimmunewellness.com/move into
Mickey Trescott:your browser to get that free download.
Mickey Trescott:And Beth, thank you so much and thank you to everyone for
Mickey Trescott:spending this time with us.
Mickey Trescott:I will see you in the next episode of the Autoimmune Wellness Podcast.