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The Best Marketing You're Overlooking
Episode 21728th May 2026 • Take It Personally • Maddie Peschong
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Everybody wants to talk about how to get more clients. Hi, same. But what if your biggest growth lever actually isn’t your marketing? What if the thing you’re overlooking is what happens after someone books you?

In this episode, I’m talking about why your client experience might actually be your best marketing strategy — and why the clients currently in front of your lens are probably the reason your next clients will book you. Because yes, your branding and marketing matter. But if your process isn’t creating raving fans, referrals, reviews, and return clients… you’re pouring into a leaky bucket.

We’re diving into how to create a brand photography experience people genuinely cannot stop talking about — from inquiry to delivery — and how small, strategic shifts can completely change the way clients see you (and sell you to everyone they know).

We’re talking:

  • Why referrals + return clients are still your best leads
  • Strategic discovery call questions that instantly position you as the expert
  • Turning “non-visual” businesses into purposeful brand imagery
  • Creating an on-set experience clients rave about later at happy hour
  • Why client comfort matters just as much as the photos
  • Underpromising, overdelivering, and building repeat business naturally

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You're listening to Take It Personally, a podcast for

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photographers about the personal side

of business and the art of standing out.

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Here, I'll help you build a business

and a brand that is uniquely you.

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If you want to attract dream clients

and stop looking at the competition

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to decide your next move, if you are

ready to show up as a confident branding

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authority to help you serve your clients

and consider your goals and priorities

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too, if you want to make your mark in a

new, underserved niche of photography,

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then this is the place for you.

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I'm your host, Maddie Peschong, South

Dakota brand photographer and educator.

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I'm a straight-shooting,

Instagram-obsessed, diehard Swiftie

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who has built a multi-six-figure

business on the back of brand

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photography, all while raising a

family, and I know you can do the same.

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Let's get ready to take it personally.

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Speaker: Everybody always

wants to talk about how to get

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more clients, including me.

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I love talking about

how to get more clients.

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But what if your biggest growth

lever isn't your marketing?

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I know, that's coming from the girl

who loves marketing, but what if

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that's not your biggest opportunity?

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What if that opportunity is

actually sitting with what

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happens after someone books you?

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Yes, marketing matters, branding

matters, positioning matters.

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These are all things that I will argue

until the end of time matter if you

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want to book more and better, more

aligned clients in your business.

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But today we're gonna go back

to the basics and talk about the

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system that makes all of this

work So first let me ask you this.

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I want you to think about from the very

first inquiry that someone sends into

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your business to final delivery, what does

your client experience actually look like?

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And is that client experience driving

more business into your business?

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If it's not, it should be,

and I want you to listen up.

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So whether you are brand new or

well established, I'm willing to bet

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that your best clients are probably

coming from referrals and returns.

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I've had this conversation so often lately

as people are feeling really burnt out

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when it comes to their marketing and

creating content and making sure their

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website looks perfect, and all of these

things that, again, I'm going to argue

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are really important and do really matter.

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However, I say that knowing

that the best clients in your

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business are probably coming from

other people who've booked you.

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They're coming from reviews.

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They're coming from referrals.

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They're coming from maybe someone

posting about you on social media

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or telling a friend about you.

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Or even from a client who booked a couple

of years ago and has now come back, or

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a client who booked a wedding a couple

years ago and now is launching a business.

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Those are probably your best clients,

and that isn't going to change.

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It also doesn't mean don't market, right?

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It doesn't mean that you

don't need a great website.

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It doesn't mean that you don't

need to understand Instagram

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strategy or social media strategy.

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But it does mean that you can

recognize that a great client

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experience is marketing.

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And in fact, it's some of

your best marketing because

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the trust is already built.

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The sale is easier.

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The relationship is warmer.

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There's a statistic that it's a million

times … That's not the statistic,

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but it's a million times easier to

sell someone on your business to book a

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client if they have already booked you.

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It is easier to book a return

client, or it's easier to turn a

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wedding client into a newborn client.

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That is easier than selling a new client.

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And I don't…

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I was joking.

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I don't know exactly what the statistic

is, but it has been proven that's easier

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to do because the trust is already built.

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It already exists.

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This is especially critical when you are

early and building a name for yourself.

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The client in front of your lens right

now is your most powerful marketing tool.

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Your next client is probably going

to come from the client who is

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currently in front of your lens.

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That is really exciting, but it's

also a big problem if your client

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experience is not set up in a way to

actually make that come to fruition

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So let's first talk about your

inquiry process because this

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really sets you up for either

success or failure, quite frankly.

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Not to be dramatic, but it's

an incredibly important process

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that you really want to nail, and

you've got one chance to do that.

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So I want you to ask yourself,

is it easy to inquire with you?

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Because any friction here is going to

cost you bookings before you even get

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the chance to talk to this person.

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The questions that you ask during

inquiry, during that discovery call.

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So once they've come through your contact

form, you've emailed back and forth, you

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have that discovery call on the calendar.

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The questions that you ask during

inquiry are often why someone books

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you over another photographer,

even if they don't realize it.

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A lot of people are sleeping on this

because most photographers will get in

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their inbox and respond to an inquiry,

or get on a discovery call and chat with

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a potential client, and they will ask

questions like, "What date works for you?"

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Or they will just talk the whole time.

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They'll talk about their process.

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They won't ask the right questions.

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But great photographers

ask the right questions.

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They ask things like, "What's

your goal with this session?

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What are you going to

use these photos for?

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What do you have coming up that

we need to create content for?

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Where do you feel like you have

gaps in your marketing right now?

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Where do you want your

business to be in five years?

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Have you had brand photography before?

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What worked?

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What didn't?

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Have you thought about this?

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Have you thought about it this way?"

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Every time that you ask a

strategic question, your client is

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thinking, "Oh my gosh, the other

photographer didn't ask me that.

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In fact, nobody has asked me that."

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And that gives them pause when it comes to

booking a photographer besides you, even

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if that photographer is maybe cheaper or

available sooner or whatever it might be.

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When you ask the right questions, it

makes them go, "Oh, wait, does this

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person actually know more than the

other photographer that I've talked to?"

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And the answer is yes, right?

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Because we are strategic

brand photographers.

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We are not just offering brand

photography and doing like

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vibey headshots in a studio.

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That's not the name of our game.

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We are strategic about how we are

creating sessions that are actually

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going to make our clients money, and

it starts with the questions that

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we are asking on discovery calls

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So the next time that you go into a

discovery call, or even if you're going

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back and forth via email, if you're

not doing discovery calls, remember,

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you're not just gathering information.

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You are positioning yourself.

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Your positioning is not just what's on

your website or what's on your Instagram.

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It's every time that a potential

client has an interaction with you.

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That's positioning, too.

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So in a situation like this, we want

you to be positioning yourself as the

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expert before the shoot even happens,

before the shoot is even booked.

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That information also

becomes the blueprint for

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everything else that follows.

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So from here, we move on to designing

the session from what you know.

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How are you taking the information from

their inquiry, from their discovery call,

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and actually using it to design the shoot?

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Or from their questionnaire or whatever

you're using to gather information.

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This is where good photographers

become really unforgettable ones.

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Being able to really listen to

your clients and what they're

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struggling with and what their

hopes and dreams are for their brand

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and how you can really help them.

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This is where you get to collect all that

information that is going to make it so

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much easier for you to design a really

unforgettable shoot The challenge here is

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that a lot of your clients are probably

doing work that isn't inherently visual.

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They're maybe on their

laptop, they're on calls.

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The work is happening like in

their head or behind a screen.

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It's not super visual.

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Not all of our clients are

florists or interior designers

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or even graphic designers.

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Not all of our clients have

these really visual jobs.

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We've got clients that are accountants

and lawyers and bankers and coaches,

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and they need our help pulling out

the visual elements of their brand.

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So do you have a process for translating

who someone is and what they do into

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creative and purposeful imagery?

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Because that's the difference

between pretty photos and photos

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that actually work for a brand.

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When your client sees that you

took everything that they told you

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and like, built this incredible

shoot around it, that's the moment

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that their loyalty is locked in.

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They're not gonna be able to shut up

about that to their friends because they

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feel so seen and understood, and they're

excited about their business, right?

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It reinvigorates them, and they're

excited to market and sell again, And

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that is more visibility for them, and by

extension, it's more visibility for you

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because you're helping them get there

Okay, so we've talked about inquiry.

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We've talked about really creating

and designing the session.

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Now let's talk about

the experience on set.

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This is wildly underrated.

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Almost nobody talks about this, at

least in the brand photography world.

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Does your client feel comfortable?

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Are they having fun?

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Do they feel taken care of?

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So often clients walk in the door,

and I will ask how they're feeling,

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and they're like, "I'm nervous.

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I don't want to be here.

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This is scary."

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And my job in that moment is

to validate those feelings.

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I had a brand shoot recently,

and it was like pulling teeth.

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The only reason that I did it was

because my web designer was like,

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"Matti, we need more photos."

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So I understand what it is like to

be on set and not want to be there,

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but to know that I need to be there.

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And so when a client comes

to me and says, "I'm scared.

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I'm nervous.

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I don't want to be here.

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This is nerve-wracking," I'm not

saying, "Don't worry, it'll be fine.

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You look great," even

though that's true, right?

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It will be fine.

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They do look great.

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I'm saying, "I totally understand.

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I've got you.

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I promise now that you're here

you've done all the hard work.

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Now it's my turn.

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It-- this is my job time.

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You don't have to worry.

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You just have to follow directions.

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I have got you."

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So I'm validating that they are scared.

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They are nervous.

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That's a normal feeling.

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I feel the same way, and you've

already done the hard part.

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You're good.

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From here on out, we're just gonna

play music and have fun, and all

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you have to do is follow directions.

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Your work here is done.

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And in that moment, they can

breathe that sigh of relief.

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So are you making them feel

comfortable from the jump?

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And if we want to go even further

back than this, what does that

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look like leading up to the shoot?

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Are you in their inbox periodically

helping them prep for the session?

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Do you hop on a call?

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Do you send them a shoot guide?

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All of these things are building

their confidence in you, building

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their confidence in themselves,

buildin-building their confidence

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in the shoot that's coming up.

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All of that impacts how they feel on

shoot day and, by extension, how they feel

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about the shoot in general Even the most

nervous clients should leave feeling like

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it was their day, like they rocked it.

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Even if they're like, "Whew, I don't

wanna do that again for a while.

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That was a lot."

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That, whatever.

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They should still feel like they nailed

it, and that was really their day,

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and it was a good use of their time.

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Just based on the energy and the

excitement from the shoot, and seeing

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those couple of photos on the back of your

camera, they should be feeling that way.

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Are you engaging all

five senses at the shoot?

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Are you setting the mood,

the music, the energy?

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The experience is the transformation.

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I will talk about this

until I am blue in the face.

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It is about so much more than photos.

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It is the transformation

that happens at the shoot.

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And the transformation and that feeling

of transformation can't happen if

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the client is just a nervous ball

of energy the entire time, right?

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We have to work to help them relax and

help them feel confident and empowered.

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That's what they're gonna go

home and tell their friends about

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this could be little things.

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It's selecting the right playlist for the

shoot, making sure you have music, period.

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That's gonna fill the silence so

much better than just dead air.

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Are you asking their coffee

order and bringing them coffee?

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Are you serving them a mimosa when they

sit down in the hair and makeup chair?

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Does the studio smell nice, right?

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Has it been cleaned, and it is

a nice place to be in, and it's

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not chaotic energy everywhere?

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All of these things impact

our client experience.

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We want them to really

feel like they are…

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Yes, they're taking this day to invest

in their business and all of that.

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Yes, it's a write-off, and it's for

your marketing and all of those things,

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but it should also feel like they're

spoiling themselves a little bit.

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They're spoiling themselves in a way

that's going to grow their business And

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that's going to impact their bottom line.

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We want them to enjoy this A client

who had fun is a client who's going

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to refer you without ever being asked.

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I want you to think back in your

Rolodex of clients that you've had

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over the years, and think about

sessions where you've just had fun.

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The client is having a good time, you're

having a good time, you're vibing.

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What's that client's take once

they get their photos back?

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Do they talk about you?

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Do they tell your friends?

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And I ask this because I have had

sessions where I deliver photos and

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I'm like, "Those photos are good."

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I'm proud of them.

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It's not something where I would

do a reshoot or anything like that.

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But maybe I'm like, "Ugh, it's not

my best work, and the sun wasn't

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in the best place, and I struggled

with the lighting," whatever.

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But if we had a good time, and I'm

thinking back to especially when I

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did family photography or weddings.

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If the kids were happy, if the

day felt like a party, if they

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were genuinely having a good

time, then they loved the photos.

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And they didn't care that the

sun was a little too bright, or

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they didn't care that there were

mosquitoes or, I don't know.

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Whatever it might be.

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If they had a good time, they are

going to love the photos, and that

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is still true with brand photography.

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If they had a good time, they are so

much more likely to love the photos,

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and they are so much more likely to

refer you to their friends and family

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without you even having to ask, and

just to talk about the experience in

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general, which is half the battle.

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Because it's great if someone

will say, "I'm looking for a brand

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photographer," and your client will

say, "Oh, you should go see Maddie."

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That's great.

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We love that.

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It's even better if they have their brand

shoot on a Thursday, and they're at happy

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hour on Friday, and they're like, "Oh

my gosh, I can't wait to tell you guys

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about this brand shoot that I just did.

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I have to tell you about this Maddie girl.

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I loved everything about…"

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That's so much better, right?

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We want people to talk about us without

even being asked because they had such

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a great experience, and that happens

when you create that kind of experience

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on So then we're on to delivery.

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And I know that you know when

it comes to delivery, you want

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to underpromise and overdeliver.

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You wanna do that on your timeline, on

quantity, on presentation, all of the

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above, underpromise and overdeliver.

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So you tell them they're gonna

get their photos back in three

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weeks, you deliver them in two.

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You tell them they're getting

100 photos, you send 110.

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You send over a really beautiful curated

gallery with a Maddie's Favorites or

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Photographer's Favorites subfolder so

they get this amazing curated experience

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right when they open their gallery, right?

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So you are underpromising and

overdelivering the entire time,

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especially during delivery.

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And then are you asking for a review?

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Are you asking for feedback?

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Today inside of Rebrand, my group

coaching program, we talked about

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all of the changes with SEO and AEO,

and one of the biggest pieces is that

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reviews are more and more important

for your local business on Google.

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So consistently asking for reviews after

you wrap a session is really important.

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If you don't have that worked into

your workflow already, make sure that's

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something that you really make a priority.

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And are you inviting these people back in?

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Do they know that they should be getting

brand photos regularly, and that when

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they're ready, you're their person?

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You wanna start planting the seed as soon

as, honestly, even at the session, but

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certainly once you deliver the photos.

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You can start saying things like, "Okay

when you start to feel like your content

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library is running low, that's usually

the sign that it's time to shoot again.

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Here's what that looks like.

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I offer a special rate

to my returning clients."

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A really great delivery process

doesn't close the loop here.

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It creates the opportunity

to open the next one.

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So it just becomes something

where your clients are returning,

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raving, reviewing constantly

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I know that this is a lot.

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Client experience is a lot.

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And when you're talking about something

as strategic and thoughtful as a brand

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session that, oftentimes the planning

process is spanning a few weeks or a

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few months, there's a lot of moving

parts here that you wanna make sure

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are really locked in when it comes

to the full experience of the shoot.

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But it's so important because all the

marketing in the world won't work if the

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experience behind it doesn't hold up.

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You cannot pour into a leaky bucket.

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If your process isn't creating raving

fans, more marketing just means more

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people finding out faster that something

is off, and that you're actually

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not all you're cracked up to be.

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And that's terrible.

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That's not what we want at all.

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We want those referrals to come

in and be even more blown away

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than they thought they would be.

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So this has to come first.

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It's not the boring backend

stuff, it is your marketing.

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The people in front of your lens right

now, this week, this month, that's your

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future marketing, with the goal being

that every single client who works with

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you should leave thinking, "Oh my gosh,

I need to tell everyone about her."

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So if this episode has made you realize

that you want to be more intentional about

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what you're actually creating inside the

session, not just the experience around

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it, but really the strategy behind the

images themselves, that is exactly what

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my upcoming free masterclass is all about

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Speaker 2: Inside the Sessions That

Sell masterclass, I'm gonna teach you

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how to design brand sessions with a

strategy behind them from the start.

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So the photos actually do something,

the client gets a real result, and

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you have a story to tell that makes

your next client say, "I want that."

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Your brand sessions should not only

create images that sell for your clients,

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but your brand sessions should help you

sell your brand photography services.

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That's what we're covering

inside Sessions That Sell.

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Speaker 3: which is on

June 25th at noon Central.

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So you can go to

maddiepishong.com/masterclass

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to register or head to the

link in the show notes.

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Can't wait to see you there.

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Speaker 7: Thank you so much for

listening to Take It Personally.

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If you haven't already, would you head

over to iTunes and leave us a review?

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This is the best way to let other

photographers know about the show and

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help keep us creating content you crave.

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And if you want more tips and tools to

build your personal photography brand,

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head over to my website, maddiepichon.com.

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Here, you can access my downloadable

ultimate personal brand session shot

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list to get your clients singing

your praises, and browse my blog for

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more trade secrets to help you hone

your craft and grow your business.

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