In this episode of Intentionally Catholic, hosts Dan Hansen and Father Ron Hutchinson dive into one of the most challenging questions for any believer: How do we discern God’s will in the decisions that shape our lives?

Together, they talk through the emotional ups and downs that often come with big choices and offer practical ways to recognize God’s gentle guidance. Their conversation includes personal stories about discerning marriage, choosing a career, and navigating life after college.

Along the way, Dan and Father Ron explore: how regular prayer forms our hearts; why trusted friends and mentors are essential; the surprising ways God speaks through circumstances; and the deep peace that comes from aligning our desires with His.

They also challenge the idea that God has “one perfect plan” we’re constantly at risk of missing, instead highlighting a God who works creatively and lovingly with us through every step.

It’s an honest, encouraging conversation for anyone standing at a crossroads—or simply trying to be faithful in everyday decisions.

Episode Outline

00:00 – Introduction to Intentionally Catholic

00:15 – Understanding God’s will in daily decisions

01:32 – Discernment in marriage and personal choices

02:56 – The role of prayer and patience

03:51 – Hearing God’s voice through other people

04:55 – Evaluating relationships and personal growth

11:17 – Seeking objective advice and spiritual direction

20:30 – Navigating the seasons of a relationship

21:01 – Pressure-cooker dynamics

21:53 – The power of open communication

22:40 – Personal growth and honest self-reflection

23:53 – Finding contentment in life’s transitions

27:53 – The myth of the “perfect” plan

36:04 – Learning to listen for God’s will

41:10 – Final thoughts and encouragement