Episode 29: A Joyful Reset for the Holidays
Summary:
In this heartfelt and grounding episode, I open up about what the holiday season really brings forward—the joy, yes, but also the pressure, the expectations, and the feeling that we need to “perform” happiness. As the CEO of Joy, I’ve learned that real joy isn’t about perfect decorations, Pinterest-level gifting, or managing a holiday checklist—it’s about presence, connection, and emotional honesty.
I share some of my own stories about financial stress, over-giving, people-pleasing, and the moments when I felt pulled out of alignment with myself. These experiences shaped how I now approach the holidays with authenticity and intention.
If you’re craving a holiday season that feels calmer, more meaningful, and more you—this episode will meet you right where you are.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
Joy Isn’t Performed—It’s Felt
I talk about the emotional weight that comes with trying to create a “perfect holiday.” The truth? Joy grows when we stop performing and start being present.
Audience Follow-Up → Where are you performing joy instead of experiencing it?
Generosity Has Nothing to Do With Your Budget
I unpack the myth that generosity = expensive gifts. I share ten gifts that cost absolutely nothing—because generosity is about the heart behind it.
Audience Follow-Up → What’s one meaningful, zero-cost gift you could give someone this week?
Protecting Your Energy Is a Leadership Skill
The holidays pull at your time, emotions, and energy. I introduce a framework for protecting your joy so you don’t end the season exhausted or resentful.
Audience Follow-Up → Which boundary do you need to strengthen to protect your energy this season?
Presence Beats Presents Every Time
I explore the cultural shift away from material gifting—and why presence, stability, and emotional connection are the true holiday currencies.
Audience Follow-Up → Who in your life needs more of your presence rather than a wrapped gift?
Your Personal Story Shapes Your Holiday Joy
I share personal stories of holiday struggle—from financial uncertainty to emotional heaviness—and how these moments ultimately helped me redefine joy for myself and for my family.
Audience Follow-Up → What past holiday experience shaped the way you show up today?
🔎 Mentioned in the Episode:
- 10 Gifts That Cost $0 – My list of meaningful, heartfelt gifts that require no money.
- Hula Hoop Holiday Reset Guide – A tool I created to help you stay centered, grounded, and aligned during the holiday chaos.
- My Personal Stories of Financial Pressure – How my own struggles reshaped my relationship with gifting and generosity.
- A Framework for Protecting Joy – The boundaries and practices I use each holiday season to stay present and emotionally healthy.
✨ Reflection Prompts:
- Where am I overspending emotionally, financially, or energetically this season?
- What would a holiday defined by presence—not performance—look like for me?
- Which relationships need more of my time and heart right now?
- How can I simplify my holiday expectations without losing meaning?
🧠 Who This Episode Is For:
- Leaders, parents, and caregivers feeling pressure to create the “perfect” holiday
- Anyone navigating financial stress or emotional overwhelm this season
- People craving a holiday experience built on authenticity, calm, and genuine joy
- Those who want practical, heartfelt tools to reset their mindset and energy
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