Meg and Nikki kick off “Friendsgiving” by dissecting one of the most comforting and chaotic romance tropes of all time: Friends to Lovers.

They explore:

* Why it hits us right in the feelings: the safety, the yearning, the tension, the why did it take them this long?!

* What makes this trope work in both books and TV (Monica and Chandler to When Harry Met Sally)

* Why timing, not tension, often drives the conflict

* The “best friend vs. partner” debate (and why your partner shouldn’t be your only best friend)

This episode developed the GAMBLE Framework — First Dates & Soulmates' analytical guide to friends to lovers romance, built around the argument that the friendship isn't the premise, it's the wager.

Previous Friends to Lovers episodes discussed:

Pop Culture + Book References:

• Friends
• Brooklyn 99
• Bones
• When Harry Met Sally
• Parks & Rec
• Cheers
• New Girl
• Love, Rosie
• Set It Up
• The Year of Us by Kate Hawthorne
• Read our book review:The Deal by Elle Kennedy
• Listen to our episode:Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating by Christina Lauren
• Listen to our episode onBridgerton season 3

This week we’re shipping:

• Merciless (Park Avenue Kings Book 4) by Ella Frank and Brooke Blaine
• A Merry Little Meet Cute by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone

Get our full list of friends-to-lovers book recommendations

Nikki’s List of Book Recs:

* Fool Heart by Emmy Sanders

* To Catch a Firefly by Emmy Sanders

* Green Light by Lark Taylor

* Mr Blue Sky by Isla Olsen

* Charlie Sunshine by Lily Morton

* Hot Head by Damon Suede

* Wilde Love by Lucy Lennox

* Hot as Heller by Lucy Lennox

* The First & Last Adventures of Kit Sawyer by SE Harmon

* Code Word by NR Walker

* A totally platonic thing by Eliot Grayson

* Romance Languages by AJ Truman

* It’s Complicated by Willow Dixon

* Merry Measure by Lily Morton

* The Quirky Vet by Casey Cox

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