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Letting Go, Leading Forward: 2025 Trends for Work & Leadership
Episode 434th February 2025 • Reimagining Work From Within • Within People
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In this special annual trends episode of Reimagining Work from Within, Jeff Melnyk and Carol Kondo explore what it means to step into 2025 with intention. From Carol’s personal journey of starting over in a new country to Jeff reflecting on entering a new decade of life, they discuss the power of letting go as a form of growth. They dive into four key trends shaping leadership this year—bringing cultures together, redefining growth on your own terms, the ongoing evolution of flexible work, and the role of AI in human-centered leadership. Tune in for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation on how leaders can navigate change, embrace uncertainty, and create space for something new.

Show Notes:

  • [00:00] Carol’s journey of moving countries and what it means to start over
  • [04:00] Why letting go—not just setting goals—can be the most powerful way to grow
  • [09:15] Trend #1: Bringing cultures together—why DEI is shifting and what leaders need to let go of
  • [16:30] Trend #2: Redefining growth—breaking away from outdated success metrics
  • [21:00] Trend #3: Rethinking connection in hybrid and flexible work environments
  • [26:07] Trend #4: AI and leadership—how embracing technology can make leadership more human
  • [34:00] Key takeaways—how leaders can step into 2025 with intention and courage

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Carol Kondo:

They did a picture, so I was swapping it from the South African one

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to this one, I get into the store, and

this guy says sit there and do not smile.

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The minute he said, do not smile,

I started laughing and I said

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to him, please bear with me.

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I just need to laugh and finish.

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So he stood there and I laughed for

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five

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And, you know, he was, you know

the Brits have this, can you just

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go watch it, you have to do a

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Jeff Melnyk: Off.

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No, he would not have enjoyed that,

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Carol Kondo: Well, I couldn't stop.

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eventually I finished laughing.

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Then I'm like, okay.

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Now, the giggles are gone.

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I'm ready.

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Then he takes the picture.

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But I'm sure when I left the store he must

have thought of a lot of funny things.

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But anyway, , welcome to

the UK from me in Africa

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Jeff Melnyk: I love that you've

got your driver's license now.

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That's a real right of passage.

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Carol Kondo: I did.

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But I look cute in my picture.

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Yo, even I felt it.

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I'm like, girl, you're looking nice.

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Girl, you work

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Jeff Melnyk: You gotta work

these, the bureaucratic photos.

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Carol Kondo: I was looking nice.

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I said to myself, this one will surely

get me a husband if I was stopped by

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the traffic cops and they gave it out.

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Jeff Melnyk: Anywho , welcome to 2025.

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this is our, annual trends, podcast

of reimagining work from within.

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As always, I am delighted

to be here with Ms.

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Carol Kondo.

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Hello, Carol.

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Carol Kondo: Hi JF, excited can't believe

we've done 365 and I don't know how

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many other extra days already and we're

back ready to give the January podcast.

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Jeff Melnyk: It comes around quickly,

but Carol, last time I spoke to you,

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You were in South Africa, and now you

are in the exotic and wonderful location

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of Milton Keynes, United Kingdom.

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You've moved across the world.

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what was it like starting the

year in a brand new world?

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Carol Kondo: Just try starting your life

again at 40, a new place, new country,

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new clothes, new knives and forks.

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There's something that loudly screams.

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Starting again, a second or third

or even fourth chance requires you

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to step up to the challenge of,

can I redefine what me looks like?

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Can I enjoy what the space looks like?

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Take what it has to offer?

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And can I let go of some parts of

myself that belonged to South Africa?

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Can I integrate with this new

place that I find myself in?

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Jeff Melnyk: Every new year is, a

chance, for people to have that kind

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of reset, but there surely is nothing

more of a reset than moving from one

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country to another, you can't take the

furniture, you can't take the car, you

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can't take All the things that might

not be serving you from South Africa

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way of life, even just your wardrobe,

Carol, must be completely different

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moving, especially the time of year, most

beautiful time of year in South Africa,

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and you are in what I would describe as

my least favorite weather conditions.

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January and February

in the United Kingdom.

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Carol Kondo: I'll be

honest I've been facing it.

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The cold.

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It has a certain newness and

you don't get used to it.

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Looking at pictures of colleagues

and friends in South Africa and

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it's blue skies and green trees.

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You do miss the warmth.

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So I have been upping my vitamin D so

that it creates some form of balance.

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But there is something about the

process of packing up Jeff that

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we do not give enough respect to.

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And there are things that we have

accumulated over the years that we

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absolutely believe are so important to us.

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But the day comes when you realize I

can only carry three suitcases some

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things I considered so important,

I either have to give them away.

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Or send them to your mother

that process, feels like grief.

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the grief of leaving things behind

when I got here, forks are forks.

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Knives are knives, understanding that

I'm letting go of something and really

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leaving it in this country sometimes

giving it away can feel heart wrenching.

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It's an act of kindness to hold

yourself gently during a time like this.

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Jeff Melnyk: Absolutely.

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I think that is our theme for this

year's podcast last year, we talked

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about setting an intention rather

than a New Year's resolution or goals.

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That really served me throughout the year.

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Over the Christmas break, I read about,

the root of the word resolution is the

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Latin word resolvere, it means to loosen

or release, and I was thinking about

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how letting go, like, what if 2025 was a

process of letting go of things that don't

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serve us, beliefs as leaders that aren't

working for us, and editing out some

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busyness and the things that don't work.

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You and I had a little chat about

that, earlier in the week, and

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I'm wondering, is there something

ou've decided to let go of in:

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Having just let go of quite

a few things in your move?

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Is there something intentionally

you've decided to let go of?

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Carol Kondo: Jeff.

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I am still in the process of purging, if

I could use that word, I think one thing

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that I would really love to be intentional

about letting go in this particular year.

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It's the idea that everything has to

be right for me to take the next step.

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That has held me back with

enjoying the space I moved into.

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Oh, I'll only be excited when I

have a couch oh, I'll only be really

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excited to eat if I have a fork,

which I forgot to buy, when I went

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grocery shopping the first time.

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So I had.

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Spaghetti with a spoon, the

spaghetti tasted great, with or

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without the fork or the spoon.

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I have been taking away so much

from my own joy because of waiting

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for the right conditions to do

something and be in something.

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So really trying to hold that card

up for myself in everything I do.

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That doesn't take away, of course, from

preparation and trying to do things right.

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But I will not stop moving forward

because not everything is perfect.

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And I don't know what's

coming up for you as well.

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What are you letting go?

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Why are you loosening, in 2025?

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Jeff Melnyk: Thank you

for that reflection.

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For me, this is a whole new decade

I've stepped into my demi centenary.

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I am now officially an elder, and it feels

so weird to have to even step into that.

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I think the first letting go, because

my birthday is right around the

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New Year period, is letting go of

that feeling of loss of the decade

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before and really stepping in.

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To the new, one of the things I

did, I did do it like obviously as

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being a goal setter, I did do an

entire con like through my whole

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circle of life, work, relationships,

finances, health, all of those things.

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I looked at it and thought,

where do I need to let go?

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And I thought of letting

go for all of them.

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One of the things I really want to let

go of is getting into the rut of habitual

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patterns, I've built some really good

patterns over the last decade and some

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good habits, but you find yourself in

a zombie like way of being, don't you?

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Sort of you get up make your coffee,

you brush your teeth, these kind

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of habits that help us to be in

the world and I find that it kind

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of dulls your experience of life.

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I wonder what it's like to let

go of some habits to step into

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new experiences and adventures.

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What would that look like in practice?

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And I think a very real one would just be

like, You know, in your exercise regime,

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are you doing the same running route?

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Are you going to the gym at the same time?

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What would happen if you went

counterclockwise around Golden

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Gate Park instead of clockwise?

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Who might you meet if you go to the gym?

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At 3.

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30pm instead of 5pm slot, and what

would that, would that look like?

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Just also noting that going to the gym

in San Francisco is a very social thing.

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You never know who you're gonna see at

the gym, is, is a truth beyond words.

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So, stepping in can

happen from letting go.

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It's not just an act of shedding, is it?

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Carol Kondo: Have you tried a new route,

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Jeff Melnyk: I was a little sick

over the holidays, so coming

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back into my running route.

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Letting go of the need to do as well

as I did in:

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another key thing when you haven't been

feeling very well 10 kilometers right

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off the back of it is not great letting

go of what you have to see on your

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Nike run app is probably a good one.

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Carol Kondo: Now, I'm pretty sure

there's a lot of lessons around

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the process then of when you start

running, you find yourself running

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in that particular direction.

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And then there's that, I promised

myself I would try a different route.

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I think it's that gap between the route

I'm used to and the one I intend to

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take and the intentional turning of the

body pointing your feet in an opposite

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direction that creates new patterns.

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For leaders, it's important

for them to pause.

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Put things in place, get their shoes

facing a different direction so that

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they start other routes and start

other things for themselves as well.

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And let's work with the

resistance of familiarity.

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Jeff Melnyk: Exactly.

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in that theme of letting go what

leaders need to do to point their

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shoes in possibly another direction,

we've been thinking about four

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trends coming our way this year.

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I know everybody does a trend

podcast, but I hope this one

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might feel a little bit different.

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Because as always, when you've got

Carol in the room, you can talk

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about a trend the facts behind the

trend, but we're going to go a little

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bit deeper today around why those

are in the waters for this year?

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Carol, very interested in what

surfaces in our conversation but

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let me throw the first one at you.

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You're ready.

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Okay.

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Here's the first one.

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This theme we saw coming last

year anyways, but is definitely

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going to be the top within.

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Conversation throughout 2025 it's the

notion of bringing cultures together let

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me give you a little positioning around

it, Carol, and I'd love your perspective

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on it is in the realm of the political

sphere we're seeing polarization,

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the separation of people into belief

systems of right or wrong left or right.

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We're seeing it in almost all

the countries we operate in.

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But also in this move away from the

DEI space around the need for folks

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to get out of DEI strategies and that

notion of equity in the workplace.

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I'm seeing a lot of companies like

McDonald's walmart and even Target have

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been in the press around moving away from

DEI strategies, which we would see in our

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line of work as bringing cultures together

and bringing people closer together..

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I feel like there's something in

the leader's toolkit around their

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job to bring cultures together.

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I'm curious on your perspective of

what leaders need to let go of in

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order to really step into that notion?

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What do they get out of

bringing their culture together?

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It sounds really obvious, but.

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What do they get out of bringing

culture together and what do

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they need to let go of this year?

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Carol Kondo: think I'll start with the

latter with, you know, I think they need

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to let go of the assumption that when

they try it, it's going to work instantly.

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And the fact that they are going to get

amazing results and everybody's going

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to start hugging and singing Kumbaya,

that really takes away from the journey.

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DEI is a long term journey not an

event, things will work, things

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will fail, but we have to keep going

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we fail minorities, we fail

people on the sidelines.

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When we ditch an initiative that brings

cultures together because it's failing,

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because there's a report that said

here and the other, but I feel like

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there needs to be concerted effort.

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To keep trying because what will

shift will shift and the conversations

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that need to be had will be had.

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Let's not let go of things because

they seem difficult that's the

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resilience factor when at the peak

of difficulty, where we feel it's

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absolutely dark, leaders need to

spend a bit more time in darkness.

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Because the minute that they feel

the darkness has lasted for so long,

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it's like, I have to get out of here.

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I can't see.

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But what would happen if we sat for

a moment longer in that darkness?

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I feel like you will get over.

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That climax of darkness and see

the solution that lies there.

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So we're not staying long enough in

the discomfort of what's not working.

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When things don't work,

that's a story in itself.

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That's what needs to be probed.

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Why aren't things shifting?

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Why aren't, the groups working, we need

to bring curiosity rather than stepping

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back and saying, as an organization,

we're not going to carry on with DEI

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strategies, the wisdom to sit and

question why it's so dark in this place.

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I think it's important for

leaders to bring to the table.

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Jeff Melnyk: So by darkness, you

mean that discomfort where we've been

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trying something, it's not working.

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Maybe our intention, around DEI, was

to make a workplace where everybody

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could feel that they belong.

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But I'm still not getting it.

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That sense of darkness is that

discomfort of it's not working.

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The tendency is they want to throw

away the plans and strategies

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because something hasn't been working

and move back to the status quo.

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Is that what you see?

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Carol Kondo: That's exactly it.

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Moving to what's familiar.

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This is not working.

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Let's go back because what's, what's

happening here is they cut out stuff.

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That had been working.

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the experience taught them something.

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There's value in sitting down and

understanding what has been taught.

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Now from this learning, can we expand

our perspectives around the current

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position that we have and what changes do

we need to make rather than discarding?

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Accepting that we have failed

as a business in some ways.

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And hence, these problems still persist.

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You have the people that are not

supposed to be leading DEI, leading DEI.

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And that's a problem in itself.

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So what would happen if we

swapped out different individuals?

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That will lead us to the light.

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Jeff Melnyk: I'm kind of worried in

this one around the dominoes falling.

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You see these big corporations who've

said, this wasn't working for us anymore.

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We're not seeing the value.

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So we're going to stop doing it.

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It feels like it gives permission to

other companies to not be accountable

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for the strategies they had in place.

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We've been working with great companies

who've been leaning into these strategies

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who want to bring their cultures together,

especially in the notion of hybrid or

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flexible working where people are feeling

even more disconnected from each other,

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no matter what their background is.

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And I know that's a trend you want

to talk about in a second, and I'm

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excited on your perspective on that too.

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It's not everybody that's moving

away, but when you start to see the

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dominoes fall, that ease of like, oh

well McDonald's has moved away from

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it, Walmart has moved away from it, it

mustn't be working for anybody, that

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is a darkness in itself, isn't it?

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Carol Kondo: I share the same concern

because by virtue of being human beings

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and really appreciating the journeys big

corporations have been on, when you see

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big corporations saying no to something,

when you're a smaller business, you'll

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definitely say, if you see McDonald's

saying no, it's definitely not working,

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but that doesn't necessarily apply to you.

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So there is danger in

following the big ones.

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And there's also a responsibility

I think that big corporations have

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towards the rest of the world.

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they might stand up and

say, it's not our business.

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You know, you run your own business.

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But because you represent something in

society and a large part of whoever we

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are has some form of relationship with

your brand corporations are about people.

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It's sad when bigger corporations

with bigger budgets, more access

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to resources decide to step back

because who then gets into the ring.

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We need people in the ring.

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Jeff Melnyk: Yeah, they're there to

lead and show the way by their size

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and nature, but when they step back, it

is an act of defeat on their part, the

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way the McDonald's and Walmart press

releases over the past couple of weeks

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were, championing their grand decision

towards this, but I saw it as an act

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of, cowardice, you cannot face that some

things aren't working and instead of being

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truthful about hey, we've been trying

some stuff That's not working for us.

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We're not finding the talent.

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We're maybe not bringing people

together in the way We wanted to

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we're not creating that culture.

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We wanted that act of honesty

they turned their back.

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This happened in the

sustainability movement as well

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Carol Kondo: Imagine the news headline

if it had been written as, we actually

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don't know what we have been doing wrong

or we don't know what's not working here.

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That would have brought a bigger

discourse, in the business world if

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McDonald's is struggling, and open

about that, the vulnerability that

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sometimes strategies don't work, I

think it begs the question for us to

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talk more about why it's not working.

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And as organizations grow, these

are the challenges you'll face.

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It prepares us.

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The business is to come as well, but

like you said, they're on their way back.

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Jeff Melnyk: That's a beautiful

segue to my second trend, which is

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very connected in what you said.

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I had a light bulb moment there, which the

other thing that I really think is going

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to be a big focus this year, is the notion

of redefining growth on your own terms.

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When companies turn away from certain

strategies that aren't working for

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them, we have a lot of companies

who've been in an old blueprint.

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Of what success looks like we've

been in an era where companies are

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working with an old blueprint of

what success means coming out of the

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pandemic where everything's gotten

thrown in the air people are struggling

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with what growth actually means.

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What we've found in working

with our clients over the

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last two years is leaders.

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Saying, I don't know why I'm

growing this company I don't know

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what winning looks like anymore.

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But in that curiosity of, I don't

know, has emerged exciting ways of

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seeing what growth can look like.

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I think moving away from those

traditional success metrics.

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are quite scary for folks, because

especially when things are very

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quantifiable, math based, and based on a

formula of what growth, has looked like in

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the past, here comes the darkness, Carol.

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The darkness of not knowing.

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If I threw away 30 percent year on

year growth and a 15 percent margin,

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what would life look like for me?

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What would that look like?

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And one thing that I really reflected

on over this last year is, could we

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throw away the annual cycle of growth?

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Why does everything have to

be a 12 month growth cycle?

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Nature doesn't grow

necessarily even in that way.

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Having a vision of what your

growth of your business could look

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like is a very exciting place.

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But what do people need to

let go of to step into that

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excitement of a whole new world?

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of growth for them.

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I

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Carol Kondo: think personally,

it's the assumption that growth

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looks the same for everyone.

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That thinking is detrimental.

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The fact that growth can be measured by

one single number at the end of the year.

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When we look at human beings in numbers

it changes the whole project around

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what does growth really look like.

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And it's important to explore.

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Things that are just beyond tangible

stuff, like we sold 10 shoes.

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But in the process of selling

10 shoes, what was Carol's work

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experience of selling these shoes?

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What inspired her to stay a moment longer?

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What inspired her to inquire about

the rubber soles of our shoes and

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really find out whether the rubber has

been sustainably sourced, or is there

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something else that's in the market?

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What does growth look like that will

inspire an entrepreneurial spirit

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within the people that work for you?

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When leaders shift their thinking

to, yes, numbers are important.

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They'll tell us a story, but beyond

the numbers, what lies there?

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How else can we measure

more than just the digits

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Jeff Melnyk: and that's hard, it's hard to

measure some of those intangible things,

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but it's important businesses have tried

to do that, to be very honest with our

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audience, We've really struggled as a team

to measure the impact of our work quite

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often because we want to have a tangible

math based success metric around it,

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and yet we can feel when we're making a

big difference in our clients lives, and

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we can ask them, and get that feedback

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how I turn that into a number becomes

almost a pedantic exercise letting go

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of having a number could be useful, but

that doesn't mean we don't step towards

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measuring the things that matter the most.

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I think that is part of what

becomes important in a vision

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of success that's different.

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People still have a notion of how do

I know that I'm moving towards that,

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but that movement could be in various

ways of seeing what success looks like.

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One leader I spoke with before

the holidays was like, I think I

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need to understand that winning

might look differently to me.

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I have a deep need for winning.

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He's a, a person who feels that way.

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I want to win.

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I'm a sports person.

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I want that sense of winning,

but maybe winning isn't the same

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as what I thought 30 years ago.

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I thought that was the opening.

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Of seeing things a little bit differently.

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I think what you mentioned there, when

we started around, why does growth

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have to be measured within 12 months?

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It's not necessarily true that all growth

will be visible after 12 months and

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holding that perspective that I might be

able to see fruits 18 months from today.

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It doesn't mean there

has been no movement.

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An appreciation of the intangible

and sometimes taking the

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opportunity to pause and really

sense into ourselves as a system.

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Did that really not change?

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And if it didn't, why are

we still in the same place?

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Yet, attempting to grow

in a particular direction.

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Jeff Melnyk: All right, two more

trends from us, but Carol, I'm

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curious what are you seeing ahead?

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Carol Kondo: For me, I, was very

interested in, the whole conundrum

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with flexibility and back at work

and how that's impacting connection

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from the reports we've gathered

there seems to be a point of tension

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and leaders are really struggling.

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to manage productivity growth

and their teams because there's

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a hybrid way of working.

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There's a flexible way of working.

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And there has been a lot that has been

said around people staying longer at

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their workplaces because they want

flexibility and prefer to earn less.

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But have flexibility.

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And one of the things that was coming

through was we are not able to monitor

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or understand how well the team is

doing because there's no connection.

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People come on Tuesday,

people come on Wednesday.

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And that brought me to a conversation

I was having with someone.

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They were saying to me, I prefer staying

at home and having a conversation with

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my colleague over Skype, working on

the same project, rather than being

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asked to come to the office and spend a

whole day with people I've never seen,

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or I see twice a week, and we barely

have an opportunity to talk or even

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work together around the same tasks.

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And I think there is a need for leaders

to shift how they believe connection is

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supposed to look can there be something

beyond the general ways of connection?

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Does it necessarily mean that if

we sit at the same desk in the same

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workplace, are we really connected?

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Are we creating connected cultures?

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When she said to me, I work on the same

task with my colleague and feel more

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connected because we are solving together.

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We are probing the client together.

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It's so much better than going into a

room full of people I barely speak to.

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So is there conversation around

what connection would look like in a

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hybrid space and how that's going to

impact growth, productivity in the

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team and possibly better performance?

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Jeff Melnyk: what's coming up for

me when you were talking was the

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connection around a shared challenge

rather than connections from a physical

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space of being close to each other.

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How do we get closer to solving a

problem rather than getting closer

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physically is an interesting twist on

that because I feel, we've been talking

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about this for a couple of years.

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We've been seeing this trend

pull in different directions.

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Last year it was everybody

get back into the office.

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This year like, oh actually maybe we don't

want to pay for that office anymore, and

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we're downsizing, or we're merging, so

we don't know where we're going to be.

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Leaders need to lean into this,

but it feels like they definitely

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need to let go of this idea of

proximity equals value creation.

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But proximity to solving a problem would

be interesting how are we deeper connected

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around the meaningful work we're doing to

solve a problem, I want to be more IRL.

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I was very much in my Zoom screen a lot

last year, and the year previous, and the

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year previous, and the year previous, and

I feel like I want to be more, working

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around people, our work benefits from

being around people, when we get in

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the room, a lot of magic happens, we've

been remote and hybrid working forever,

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so I just feel like we have different

habits, like it's a different connection.

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At Within, it is just a

different conversation.

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Our need for connection is, we

hardly get to spend time together as

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a team, isn't it wonderful to find

that opportunity to get together?

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But yeah, I, I think It's not

a problem that's going away.

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It's a trend.

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It's going to be a trend

for quite some time.

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When leaders throw their toys out of

the pram and be like, we just all got to

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get back to the office or, we all just

need to get remote again, not really

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understanding what they're working with.

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Carol Kondo: Honestly, when I reflect

about how we work, I think of, Laurie

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and I work a lot on South Africa together

and we have been doing it for a while.

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Jeff Melnyk: Laurie being

one of your other partners.

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What if I'm under,

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Carol Kondo: I found that when I

see him a year later, which is what

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usually happens when we read for

within week, which is our strat week.

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I feel a continuation of

what's been happening online.

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There's an underestimation of

the impact of working together

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over a certain project that can

actually translate into real life.

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So maybe it's not about getting

the whole group together.

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Let's see where there are points of

connection, some people connect through

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the work, not over sandwiches or pizza

or whatever else that you might get

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every Tuesday and Thursday or the forced

lunch, look at the different ways,

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individuals connect, and rally around

those personalities and how they work.

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Jeff Melnyk: I agree.

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And I think that notion of just understand

the rituals that bring people together.

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Letting go of the pizza lunch as

a ritual of, of being like the

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deepest form of connection and

what are the ways that we can meet,

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gather, do our best creative work.

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That becomes the power, I think,

of understanding the connection

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around the workplace with work

being at its core it's a juicy one.

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It ain't going away.

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We'll see you in January 2026,

when I have a feeling it's

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gonna still be on the table.

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Carol Kondo: Definitely deaf.

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Yeah.

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Jeff Melnyk: Okay, so we've got

one more trend something you

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cannot escape our AI future.

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A recent Gallup study says one third

of businesses are taking action on AI.

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I can tell you that here at Within

People, every other partner apart

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from me has been taking action on AI.

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Carol's already tried to coach me

around it, I don't know what it is.

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That is not what we'll be

discussing today, but rather,

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what does it mean for leadership?

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We're seeing great opportunities

using tech and digital transformation.

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To make businesses more productive.

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We're seeing some really cool stuff in

customer service helps people be more

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connected to guests and customers,

especially in hospitality, we've

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heard how AI can enable creativity.

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We've also had a backlash from

the creative industries around how

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it's robbing the art of creativity.

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I'm not sure I believe that because

I feel the creative output of humans

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is much better than the artistic

output of AI in its current form.

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But I'm most curious on the impact on

leadership and how do we build human

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centered leadership in an AI future.

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Carol, what do leaders need to let go of?

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When it comes to AI,

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Carol Kondo: think the first

thing is fear, like you, my

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humble leader, you know, fear,

it is what we need to let go off.

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No,

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Jeff Melnyk (2): Talk

about my fear and my AI

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Jeff Melnyk: future.

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Carol Kondo: You know, the

fear that, well, everybody

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has different fears, right?

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But I think the biggest fear

everyone has with AI is what it will

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take more than what we will give.

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And I think that's been.

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Perception and attitude around, it

will be a giver rather than a taker.

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Of course, there are metrics and numbers

that speak to, we had a hundred factory

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workers, now we can only employ 20.

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That is true.

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But what would happen if we decided to

change our perspective and say, we've

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got 80 more people, what can we do and

how can we grow our business in such

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a way that it can employ 80 people

rather than terminating their contract.

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When an organization or leaders

explore what the gap has offered it

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will shift and force us to solve.

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One of the issues that we struggle with

as well is we don't want to solve, it

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quickly by termination, whatever else

that we'll bring, we take away from our

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ability to sit with the problem and think

about something else that would serve us.

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And not take the easy way out.

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So if we're going to have AI in the space

and we believe that it's going to give

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us time to speak to our people have more

one on ones and really get to understand

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them, if we looked at it and thought,

it's going to help me understand the

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number of customers and what they drink.

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Then possibly I'll stock up this

way, and I'm going to assign

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this to this other person.

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What are the things that AI is giving

us more than to take away from us?

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And honestly, I believe connection

and love for each other in the

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workplace, which is one of our

eight qualities, by the way.

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Love in the workplace, a genuine desire

to be in the workplace and be happy there.

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And create opportunities for happiness,

considering the average adult spends

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most of their life in the workplace.

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What can we do, knowing AI has given

us an opportunity to spend 10 more

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minutes understanding what that

person I manage would need to turn

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that issue around for themselves?

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Jeff Melnyk: So it feels like

it's not only giving time back

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to anyone at work, if AI well.

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But it's actually giving us focus.

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We can therefore, as leaders, step

into more of the leading elements

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of our role rather than the doing

elements of our functional tasks.

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All that admin, all that time spent

looking at insights around our customers

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that would have taken ages before.

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we can do with just a murmuring

towards some of our AI tools.

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We could be using that to be more

focused, more intentional with our

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teams, building deeper connections.

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Do we think leaders want to do that?

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I feel like this is one of leaders

biggest challenges, the recognition that

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their job is to help grow their people

and foster a better working culture.

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I feel like they might find they don't

know what their job is now that AI has

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taken all these wonderful tasks away

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Carol Kondo: I think if anything,

it's highlighted what their job is

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because all this time leaders managed.

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I don't think they led.

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You know, we come from this era

where we are managing people,

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but with AI, I think we have an

opportunity to lead from the heart.

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And if you really look at some of the

things that employees struggle with, you

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know, Jeff, I really struggled with tech.

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Still do.

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Yeah.

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And one of the things that has really

come through for me has been AI.

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In learning and facilitating that.

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And you can imagine what it does

to you when it takes away the fear

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of something that you cannot do,

because there's something else

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that could help you with that.

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And what it had been doing to me

was it was blocking my creativity.

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Stomping down on my confidence.

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No matter how many times I was

told, you are welcome here.

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This is a place you can belong.

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As long as you're struggling

with it, then those things don't

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resonate because you feel like.

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I'm not supposed to be here

because I don't meet the standard.

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If AI can come in and really assist

in that particular thing and create

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the image of the thing that I want, it

allows me to amplify the work that I do.

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the quality of my experience within

the organization automatically shifts.

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So it boils down to the growth thing

we were talking about What does

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growth look like for the individual?

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What does growth look

like in the business?

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If AI can support me.

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To grow within the business, then what

I produce for our business in terms of

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the work that I do and the quality of the

work that I do is instantly increased.

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Leaders should explore what exists

in the AI space in ways that

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help and facilitate the growth

and development of their people.

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Jeff Melnyk: I love that.

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And I love a leader.

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You've been saying to a team member.

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Hey, how are you using

these new tools now?

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I want you focused on the thing

that's driving your passion or

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building your professional growth

and less of you doing the things that

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are taking up your time and taking

away from you doing your best work.

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If a leader could help a team member

see that those tools are available

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to them, they're, stepping into the

human centered side of leadership.

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Can you ask ChatGPT to tell you what

is the tool and the thing that's

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going to be most helpful for you?

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Isn't that meta?

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It's like asking the robot how the

robot could help you even more.

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One of my friends did ask ChatGPT

if he, if ChatGPT thought, you know,

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that he was the best user of chat GPT.

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So he wanted feedback on his

own chat GPT use, which I

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thought was hilarious and meta.

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My fear stems from the robot actually

beginning to take more human qualities.

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I've seen way too much sci fi.

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I thought that was quite a remarkable

thing for my friend to be stepping

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into, but thank you, Carol.

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For saying what you said about

how AI has been helping you do the

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things that, that may have, may have

been causing you some, some pain.

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Some stress in your own workspace, cause

I didn't understand that as much for you.

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I'm really happy you're using these

new tools to step into your joy.

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Carol Kondo: No, definitely.

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Jeff, we are all on individual

growth journeys in business.

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It's so important to understand

what growth for the other

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person looks like as a leader.

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I appreciate what AI brings but more than

anything it has unlocked, the opportunity

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to bring your own thinking, if you feed

in the right prompts, it's not just

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giving you something on a silver platter.

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think about what you're inputting

to get the right response.

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Otherwise, you'll input 10 Or 15 times.

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that does not take away from

your creativity or thinking.

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It deepens it because you've got to ask,

you know, it's like, in Jensie Klein,

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the book, the thinking environment, you

have to find the incisive question, that

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will shift the response from the AI.

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Whatever it might be the robot.

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So that thinking, you want quality

thinking to get a quality response.

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So that means you keep working.

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So we don't stop working because

there's AI, that has clarity.

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Otherwise we're working for nothing.

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I love that it keeps me on my toes if I

don't, I'll spend the whole day there.

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That's not the point of

having AI to assist us.

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Jeff Melnyk: Very good.

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All right.

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Well, we're almost at a time.

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So I'm just curious to, to wrap

us up here about practically can

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leaders do within all these trends?

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I think we've, we've, we've looked

at some tips and tricks around these

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four different themes and trends.

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We had bringing cultures together and

how, The sort of stepping into the DEI

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strategies and, and, and connection that

you want to deepen within, within your

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culture and alongside that, redefining

growth and being able to step towards new

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ways of seeing growth and even measuring

success that is more meaningful for you.

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We had the very real and omnipresent

flexible and remote working trend of

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connecting around the work that we do

rather than the environment that we're in.

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And we had our AI future and

stepping towards a much more human

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centered way of leading as well

as stepping towards possibly.

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Some of the fear of using said tools.

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Thank you for that coaching today, Carol.

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But what, out of all of that,

what do leaders most need to do?

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There's quite a varying

range of trends there.

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What's some tips and tactics for

aders today as they step into:

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Carol Kondo: So I would say

to them, firstly, don't stop

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doing what you're doing.

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Don't run away.

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Don't give up when things are not working.

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If anything, stay in there.

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Sit with the discomfort

and invite curiosity in.

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That will allow you to move

in a different direction.

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Number two, face your fear.

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What are you assuming about

yourself if you use AI?

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What do you assume would happen to you?

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What do you assume would

happen to the business?

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Really examine those assumptions.

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They might be limiting you.

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With our growth, really sitting down

and understanding that growth is not

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always numbers, but inquiring what growth

could look like for your team members.

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If you have 27, 000 people, that might

not be easy to do with all 27, 000.

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But you can ask departmental

leaders find out what growth

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looks like in an organization.

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It's quite important, take advantage of

what is offered at the present moment

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challenge your thinking, around trends

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what has shifted within me from last year?

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Don't take more on, rather let go of

something and see what you're letting go

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of within your given places of intention.

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Because when you let go of something,

you create space for something else.

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So let's create space for growth and

love and leading our teams in this

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Jeff Melnyk (2): year 2025.

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Jeff Melnyk: Well said.

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Carol, thank you so much.

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This is my favorite podcast to do.

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I love being in conversation with you.

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I especially love that I get to

see you, next week in London.

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So looking forward to that.

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And thank you so much to our listeners

for tuning in to this podcast and always.

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To our podcast here at

Reimagining Work from Within.

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We have some great guests

lined up for this year who are

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changing the way work works.

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We have some great guests lined up this

year who are changing the way work works

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and leading growth in exciting ways.

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We're really excited to share their

stories and hope you can learn from

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their experience and perspectives.

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So we'll see you back

here in a few weeks time.

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