In this episode, we speak with Becca Levin Nayak, an attorney specializing in adoption and assisted reproduction in Pennsylvania. Becca shares her own family building journey, begun with her ex-wife, where the couple navigated donor conception. The process of choosing a sperm donor was overwhelming, which Becca likened to selecting a partner on a dating app. Despite the challenges, Becca's first attempt at IUI resulted in a successful pregnancy, leading to the birth of her son. However, her path was not without heartbreak, as she faced miscarriages and the dissolution of her marriage, which prompted her to consider single parenthood. This journey took an unexpected turn when she met her current wife, who had two children from a previous co-parenting arrangement. The creation of their blended family is a beautiful illustration of the fact that genetic ties are not what make a family.
The conversation then pivots to Becca's professional career, which was initially driven by her commitment to LGBTQ+ advocacy following decisions like Lawrence v. Texas. She discusses the evolving legal landscape for LGBTQ+ families, her shift to focusing on assisted reproduction and adoption law, and the importance of securing parental rights for non-biological or genetic parents. Currently, Becca is an active advocate for the Pennsylvania Uniform Parentage Act (House Bill 350), which will modernize and clarify parentage law in the state to recognize diverse family structures and protect the rights of all parent/child relationships, regardless of how their families are built.
LINKS:
Connect with Becca at https://www.hangley.com/team-member/rebecca-levin-nayak and learn how you can help advocate for the Pennsylvania Uniform Parentage Act at https://www.pennparentage.org/.
TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:
family building, LGBTQ family, assisted reproduction, adoption attorney, blended family, parenting journey, sperm donor selection, intentional co-parenting, legal protections for families, family law advocacy, emotional support for parents, Pennsylvania Parentage Act, fertility clinic services, family structure diversity, parenting rights, miscarriage support, donor siblings, family formation resources, surrogacy laws, parenthood options, adoption, assisted reproduction, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, LGBTQ+, two moms, RMA Philadelphia, donor conception, donor sperm, donor siblings, IUI, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, intentional co-parenting, blended family, advocacy, parentage, LGBT Advocacy, family law, family formation lawyer, Pennsylvania Parentage Act, intent-based parenting, confirmatory adoption, legal protections, known donor, relationships, family groups
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