Someone asked us a question about this a while ago and it’s a topic we have been looking forward to discussing on the podcast. We weren’t sure where it would go, but actually it turned into a very interesting chat! Amongst other things, we discussed: 

• Whether being spoilt is actually a negative thing. 
• If you can spoil a child with too much attention 
• Why we can ‘be spoilt’ but children can’t! 
• Whether treating is different to spoiling? 
• How to deal with the situation when children get upset because they can’t have what they want . 
• The instant world – has it had an effect on the way we parent? 
• Judgement and parental approaches. 
• Only children and being spoilt. 
• Judgement and labelling in relation to the word ‘spoilt’ 
• Explanation and appreciation and why they are both really important when communication with and role modelling for our children. 

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