Joe Fier sits down with Aaron Young, entrepreneur, author, and creator of the "Unshackled Owner" method. Aaron shares game-changing insights on how to design a business that doesn’t own you—one that thrives beyond your own time and energy. From the foundational question every business owner should be asking, to real-life stories (including how Aaron earned nearly $1M while physically unable to run his company), this episode is packed with lessons for entrepreneurs at any stage. Tune in for a mix of mindset shifts, practical frameworks, and inspirational proof that you really can build freedom and scale—on your own terms!
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What's the real outcome that you're building towards in your business?
Speaker:So my guest today is Aaron Young, and he says that most founders
Speaker:never stop to answer that question.
Speaker:What's the real outcome that you're building towards in your business?
Speaker:And you know, if they don't answer this question, it's why people
Speaker:end up in this overworked and underpaid cycle in their business.
Speaker:I know I've been there before.
Speaker:Can you relate?
Speaker:So today Aaron is gonna break down how to design a company that runs without you.
Speaker:It creates freedom and it scales well beyond what your
Speaker:own personal time and energy is.
Speaker:And this works for people who are just starting companies or if you have one
Speaker:that has been established, he's gonna lay out exactly what the principles
Speaker:are, how to do it, and back it up with tons of stories, including one where
Speaker:he was actually forced, literally forced to go away for 14 months and one
Speaker:week, and he ended up making almost a million dollars in take home revenue.
Speaker:Without even being able to lift a finger and write an email that's
Speaker:business related or phone calls.
Speaker:So like, just think about that.
Speaker:It's all possible.
Speaker:Aaron's gonna break it down.
Speaker:Enjoy it.
Speaker:Let's dive in.
Speaker:Aaron, how are you doing, my friend?
Speaker:Thanks for joining me
Speaker:Yeah, Joe, always, it's really fun to be here with you.
Speaker:I'm looking forward to this conversation.
Speaker:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker:I mean, we've been chatting and we met recently at a local
Speaker:event at a shout out Greg Reid.
Speaker:Thank you Greg
Speaker:yeah, he was, Greg was just on, yep.
Speaker:Scott Duffy made it happen too.
Speaker:So a couple people that were just on this, uh, podcast, so
Speaker:people are probably familiar with
Speaker:Oh, good.
Speaker:Yeah, well, I've known, um, Greg and Scott, I met them both in, I think 2011.
Speaker:So I've known them for some time and I've had, uh, uh, numerous
Speaker:interesting experiences and, and lots of referrals back and forth.
Speaker:And, you know, it's fun to be around movers and shakers, which
Speaker:is why I'm glad to be with you.
Speaker:that's right, man.
Speaker:And, and thank you.
Speaker:Yeah, I'm, I'm happy to be included in that because that's in that
Speaker:room that Greg put together, you know, his prosperity camp.
Speaker:If anybody want to, uh, peek at it, uh, it's tough to get in though,
Speaker:so I can't make any promises.
Speaker:But yeah, talk about movers and shakers in that room and you know,
Speaker:everybody just doing fascinating things and different aspects too.
Speaker:Not all the same, but, but definitely laser focused in on whatever
Speaker:it is and, and there to help.
Speaker:And, you know, you and I connected there, but also had a good hour
Speaker:chat, I think it was last week, and I was just like, oh my gosh.
Speaker:There's so many cool stories that you have your mindset of, I mean, the whole
Speaker:unshackled owner and this unshackled concept that you champion is kind of like
Speaker:the ethos of what I have on this podcast.
Speaker:Just like, Hey, it's up to you if you wanna shackle yourself to your business.
Speaker:Um, but if you don't want to and you still want to thrive and scale something
Speaker:awesome, then this is your man right here,
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You know, a lot of people, the thing about the, the book and there it is over
Speaker:my shoulder, and hopefully you got a copy of it when we did the book signing.
Speaker:I
Speaker:I didn't, I missed your, the signing.
Speaker:Yeah, we were on the
Speaker:well, we'll make
Speaker:it's all good.
Speaker:I'll, I'll get
Speaker:the, the, the point is, um.
Speaker:I'm not, I didn't create that book to say, you, if you want to be, um,
Speaker:a real leader, if you wanna be a real success, then you need to be unshackled.
Speaker:And that was not the point.
Speaker:The point was, if you are a true entrepreneur, especially, right?
Speaker:And you've got a million ideas and opportunities are always coming at you
Speaker:and you're trying to figure out how do I figure out what to do with my time?
Speaker:This, if you, if you can get one thing going well and, and, uh, and you know,
Speaker:you've got, you've got predictable revenue, you've got, uh, you've, if you
Speaker:can build systems, if you can build a team, um, that ha that are capable of
Speaker:operating without you being there to look over everybody's shoulders, right?
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:If the team and the system is built and the culture.
Speaker:Exists that this is how we do things here.
Speaker:Think about Disney, you know, for years, when they got to a critical moment,
Speaker:they would say, what would Walt do?
Speaker:Even though Walt was long dead, right?
Speaker:Because the culture was a certain way.
Speaker:So the idea of the book and the, and the training course that came before
Speaker:it, um, uh, this is the simplified version of the training course.
Speaker:Uh, because the training, the training course, uh, well, well,
Speaker:I won't go into that right now.
Speaker:The point is, I, I built it.
Speaker:Say, if you want to be able to go on extended trips, if you want to have
Speaker:something that's easily sellable, if you want to have something that you can
Speaker:pass down, if you wanna have something that can make you a lot of money without
Speaker:taking a lot of time, then here's a, here's my formula for doing it.
Speaker:I'm not saying it's the formula.
Speaker:I'm saying it's my formula that has worked.
Speaker:Three dozen times on companies in all different industries.
Speaker:Um, this is possible.
Speaker:So unshackled doesn't mean retired, but it can, unshackled
Speaker:doesn't mean unemployed could,
Speaker:If you wanna
Speaker:just own and not work.
Speaker:You could own stuff and not work there.
Speaker:Or it could be, I only wanna do this one little sliver of my business.
Speaker:I don't want to have to be responsible for everything.
Speaker:I wanna stay where I'm great.
Speaker:That's what the course is all about.
Speaker:And, and thankfully, thousands of people have let me know
Speaker:that it was working for them.
Speaker:And it's everybody from small companies, 2, 3, 4 employees to big,
Speaker:big companies, public, big, publicly traded, uh, household name companies.
Speaker:Um, and it's, uh, it's good.
Speaker:And it just proves that once you learn a formula, it, uh, I, I
Speaker:always say about same rules apply.
Speaker:You know, once you know a formula, it can usually apply it all over the place.
Speaker:So anyway, that's a long answer to what's the deal with, uh, you know, or
Speaker:what's unshackled what's the concept?
Speaker:And the concept is you be in charge of you instead of the company owning you.
Speaker:that's a big piece.
Speaker:'cause that's where I feel like most entrepreneurs get in that trap of, of you
Speaker:are now owned by this machine you built, whatever it is, whatever flavor, size.
Speaker:I mean, you mentioned Disney, and obviously most people
Speaker:aren't running a Disney company.
Speaker:But how does this relate to someone that's like, I wouldn't say just
Speaker:starting out, but maybe that too.
Speaker:But you know, the, the smaller teams that Smaller companies,
Speaker:well, first of all, I've been, um, chastised by a lot of my readers or
Speaker:people that have taken the course that I, I always say this is really
Speaker:for companies with employees.
Speaker:And I've had solopreneurs take the class and go, why do you keep saying this?
Speaker:This is really helping me.
Speaker:Organize my one person business, so please quit saying it's not for individuals.
Speaker:You know, solopreneurs.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:what I will tell you is as you grow, if you have two or three people, or 10
Speaker:people, or 20 or 50 or a thousand, the the, the more these tools are implemented
Speaker:in these very dynamic in, in, um, these companies that are, that have lots of
Speaker:teams and so on, um, you can by, by getting some boundaries around stuff
Speaker:and getting a common language and a common reporting and a common, um,
Speaker:outcome amongst the, the dynamic and and large group, you see rapid improvement
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:in those companies where for an individual it's, it's harder to
Speaker:change an individual's in nature.
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:So you can teach them good principles.
Speaker:You can show them a a, a, here's, here's a recipe to use, but if,
Speaker:if it doesn't change their nature of how they want to do stuff, it's
Speaker:harder also in a one person company's difficult to be accountable to anybody.
Speaker:that's true.
Speaker:That's very true.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:it's just me, right?
Speaker:So there's nobody looking at it.
Speaker:It's only did it work or not work?
Speaker:Did I make money, not make money?
Speaker:Did I get my job done or not get my job done?
Speaker:So the way, but as it applies to big or small companies, to answer your
Speaker:question, um, so funny, I didn't know we were gonna end up talking about this,
Speaker:but I'm, I, I love talking about it.
Speaker:Um, when, when you have, okay.
Speaker:The most important thing somebody can learn that almost nobody does, almost
Speaker:everybody ignores or is unaware of
Speaker:Hmm
Speaker:what I consider to be.
Speaker:The single most important thing in starting or growing a company,
Speaker:the, the one most important thing is what's the outcome?
Speaker:Like, what am I trying to get from this?
Speaker:Why am I putting my money into this?
Speaker:Why am I getting investor money?
Speaker:Why am I putting all my time in?
Speaker:Why am I taking on all this liability?
Speaker:Why am I hiring people?
Speaker:Why am I signing contracts?
Speaker:Like, why am I doing this?
Speaker:What is it I hope to get out of this deal?
Speaker:What's the outcome I'm, I'm making effort toward and taking risk with?
Speaker:Like, why, you know, how many people work their butts off and
Speaker:they're not making any money?
Speaker:Yeah, that's true.
Speaker:They're, They're, just doing to yeah.
Speaker:Or they're just putting all their time in 'cause well, I gotta make
Speaker:payroll, gotta pay my employees.
Speaker:Well, I've got, I've made all these commitments to clients
Speaker:and I'm gonna finish it.
Speaker:Or I've spent and years developing this.
Speaker:This, these books or this system or this software, and I'm damn
Speaker:well going to get it out there.
Speaker:And nobody's buying it.
Speaker:Nobody wants it.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Nobody wants it.
Speaker:And people will beat their hit against the wall.
Speaker:We, at that same event you and I were at, Brian, Tracy was there and he
Speaker:gave an, um, a different example than I've heard him give, but I heard him
Speaker:many times over the years, say the old Turkish proverb is, no matter how far
Speaker:you go, down the wrong road, turn back.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Still gonna be the wrong road.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And I look at people that are going, but I'm making such good time.
Speaker:You know, but they're making no money.
Speaker:There's zero money, but they're working their butts off.
Speaker:And to what end?
Speaker:They end up becoming a slave.
Speaker:What?
Speaker:They become shackled.
Speaker:They become indentured to the business.
Speaker:And, um, I was never willing to live that life.
Speaker:how do you feel like, uh, because I feel like, uh, yeah, starting is, of
Speaker:course, it's probably easier to figure out what the outcome is 'cause it's a
Speaker:little fresher and with less momentum.
Speaker:But let's talk to the people right now who are in the middle of this.
Speaker:They're feeling a little shackled to their business, to
Speaker:exactly what you just described.
Speaker:Like, how would you, how would you lead them right now?
Speaker:good question Mo and most people who end up, now I wanna be clear to your audience.
Speaker:I'm not a consultant.
Speaker:I'm a guy who's been buying companies for, um, 30 years, over 30 years.
Speaker:Uh, I was starting companies before that and I had one big in a three year
Speaker:period between 29 and 32 years old.
Speaker:Had a, a big, uh, economic boost.
Speaker:And about 32, 32 and a half I started buying businesses and I
Speaker:owned Laughlin Associates 'cause I bought it, it was 29 years old.
Speaker:Ferry Company.
Speaker:Yeah, 29 years old when I bought it.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:So it wasn't new.
Speaker:And whenever, any, any day, any day, no matter where you are in the continuum
Speaker:of your business, you can say, okay, hold on, let's evaluate for a second.
Speaker:What was Steve Jobs?
Speaker:He, he said that, um, if he, if he three or four days in a row, would look in
Speaker:the mirror and think, I'm not looking forward to what I'm gonna do today,
Speaker:he would say, then I knew I was off track.
Speaker:If I'm not enjoying this, if I'm not having fun, if I'm not excited
Speaker:about this, then something's wrong.
Speaker:And most business owners I know and that I come in contact with
Speaker:are just kind of showing up again.
Speaker:It's like they're, they're, they're not a business owner.
Speaker:Oh, this is a good designation.
Speaker:They're not a business owner.
Speaker:They are self-employed.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:They have a job.
Speaker:They're the boss, but if they don't show up and do the work, there's
Speaker:no business, there's no money.
Speaker:They don't get an income.
Speaker:It's like the box I'm, I'm visualizing it's like, oh, are you employed self?
Speaker:It's like, or do you want to put something else there?
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:Is there
Speaker:I mean, is your business your job, or is your business an
Speaker:asset that makes money for you?
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Are you the goose laying, laying the golden eggs, or do you have a whole
Speaker:flock of geese that lay golden eggs?
Speaker:I have a flock of geese.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's a
Speaker:I'm not the one doing the work.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Other
Speaker:than
Speaker:doing things.
Speaker:like, in the middle of it, it's, it sounds like it's a shift mentally, right?
Speaker:So it's a mind, it's, it's a, you gotta obviously shift with the mind and, and
Speaker:I guess your heart too, and connect the person, you know, you as the leader.
Speaker:But how, um, like are there parts of this, you know, because you mentioned,
Speaker:you know, if there's predictable revenue, it's tough to turn off sometimes.
Speaker:Or even if you feel like you're pretty shackled, I would imagine,
Speaker:you know, you have systems.
Speaker:I don't know if there'd be enough systems going on.
Speaker:I'm just thinking where is, um, would you start in one area of the business
Speaker:well, you're gonna probably start in the, in the area of the business where
Speaker:there's the greatest lack, right?
Speaker:So if you don't have systems, if you're good at selling, you're good
Speaker:at transactions, but you're not good at building systems that make that
Speaker:start to, um, make it possible to do more transactions and service more
Speaker:people, then if you're really good at sales, but you have no systems, then
Speaker:you need to look at your systems.
Speaker:If you're really good at systems.
Speaker:You're really good at sales, but you have no customers, then you
Speaker:need to look at marketing, right?
Speaker:If, if you have tons of clients coming at you and you've got systems, but you
Speaker:can't afford to hire people to bear the, the burden of the work, we're
Speaker:doing that right now at Laughlin.
Speaker:I went out, found a great, um, contact for us, uh, set up a really good with
Speaker:my team, a really good affiliation with a really successful company, and
Speaker:we find ourselves now buried in work.
Speaker:We're scrambling.
Speaker:I've got the president of the company doing client intake calls, right?
Speaker:it's, it's definitely buried then.
Speaker:And so, and we're rapidly trying to hire, but because we're so buried,
Speaker:because we all of a sudden went to double the amount of work in, in one day.
Speaker:It just turned on the faucet, right?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:so now we're hiring and we're going, but who's gonna train?
Speaker:Because everybody's on the phone working, right?
Speaker:So what you always want to do is make, always want to do is make sure,
Speaker:and this is gonna seem me a little counterintuitive to what I just said.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:So take three steps back and let me tell you how you get ready to
Speaker:deal with a windfall like that.
Speaker:How you get ready to shift a little bit where you're gonna go or identify
Speaker:this new target or a specific target, and you're gonna start going toward it.
Speaker:First thing I ask people, um, I have, I don't know, at least
Speaker:a dozen companies that I own, somewhere between five and 20% of,
Speaker:and those are things I didn't start.
Speaker:They've come to me and said, will you help us?
Speaker:And we'll give you equity in the company for helping us and
Speaker:we'll pay you for helping us.
Speaker:Um, when I first look at, I would say a hundred percent of these companies.
Speaker:The first thing I, I look at and I go, okay, you don't have any surplus money,
Speaker:but I see that your, your, um, books show.
Speaker:When I look at three years of financials or 12 months of financials
Speaker:or whatever they've got, I see that your, you're taking a significant share
Speaker:or all of the profit of the company,
Speaker:mm-hmm.
Speaker:does that sound familiar to a small entrepreneurial business?
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:Oh, we just got some money and finally I can pay myself back,
Speaker:or I can get an nicer car.
Speaker:I'm gonna give myself a raise, or I'm gonna take that $20,000
Speaker:that's just sitting there and pay down some debt or whatever.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:That's cool.
Speaker:That's fine.
Speaker:But if you don't have anything left over, if you're just cash flowing it
Speaker:right, how do you hire somebody to be.
Speaker:Um, kind of, uh, every bit as good as you, but in a complimentary side.
Speaker:So I'm great at sales, but you're good at operations and I need you,
Speaker:but I have no money to pay you.
Speaker:So my first question to those owners is always, are you ready to take a pay cut?
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Are you willing to take a pay cut?
Speaker:You know what?
Speaker:They always say no.
Speaker:They always say no.
Speaker:And they wonder why they're treading water because they can't grow because
Speaker:they're, they're, they haven't left any meat on the bone for somebody else.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And so you're gonna, what you end up doing is going into a death spiral
Speaker:down because you pretty soon can't fulfill the, the sales you've made,
Speaker:you can't fulfill them as easily.
Speaker:You're not doing a good job with customer service.
Speaker:You're not renewing that customer a year later or whenever their, their
Speaker:engagement with you is over 'cause you're so busy with other stuff.
Speaker:You are.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:You started out strong, but over the time you got less and less
Speaker:communicative because you were busy dealing with other problems, right?
Speaker:Or New, New, yeah, new new clients coming in.
Speaker:So you're forgetting about the old,
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:You bite off more than you can chew and you can't afford to get the help you
Speaker:need, so you end up actually getting a worse reputation in the market instead
Speaker:of being this glowing success story.
Speaker:So the first thing is, if you, if you're today and you're going, okay, well I've
Speaker:been treading water, or I haven't been growing the way I want to grow, and
Speaker:something Aaron May have said, made the hair go up on the back of my neck
Speaker:a little bit, like, uh, that was me.
Speaker:Then I would say the first thing you do is say, what, what sacrifice are you
Speaker:willing to make for a short time to leave some money in the company to go, okay,
Speaker:what is the next thing I need in order to move up in, in the, you know, revenue?
Speaker:Move up in profit, uh, move up in adding another affiliate or adding a
Speaker:new, um, you know, demographic to who I'm trying to attract, whatever it is.
Speaker:What, what am I willing to do?
Speaker:Am I willing to sell my nice car or turn it back in?
Speaker:Or when the lease is up, I'm not gonna get another one and I'll go get a
Speaker:five or 6-year-old car or 10-year-old car that's still nice and, um, not
Speaker:have a payment on it, have lower insurance, um, and, and leave an extra
Speaker:thousand bucks a month in the company.
Speaker:Am I able to not have this fancy office?
Speaker:I had this beautiful office one time, beautiful, half of a floor of the
Speaker:largest office building, 26th floor.
Speaker:I had half and Prudential Securities had half, they had
Speaker:all these people in cubicles.
Speaker:I had like seven people and half of a freaking floor.
Speaker:You could sit there and, and you know.
Speaker:Put
Speaker:across the,
Speaker:game.
Speaker:you can.
Speaker:It was, and it was the stupidest ego thing I ever did.
Speaker:'cause I always wanted to have my name on the big old door come up
Speaker:way up in the tower and get off.
Speaker:And there's the company, there's a beautiful reception and a beautiful
Speaker:receptionist sitting by the desk.
Speaker:And guess what?
Speaker:I got all of it.
Speaker:I got all of it.
Speaker:My name on the door, this beautiful young woman, Kylie, I remember this.
Speaker:She looked like a model.
Speaker:Super cool girl, 20 years old or something, answering the phones,
Speaker:greeting people when they came in.
Speaker:Then they'd come in.
Speaker:I had this giant office with a conference table in it and
Speaker:the, you know, the whole wall.
Speaker:Huge.
Speaker:I mean, a big room, all windows looking out at the mountains and the cityscape.
Speaker:Well, it was, it was absolutely stupid that I did that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:What did it get you?
Speaker:Nothing got me a big old bill, got me a big fat lease bill every month.
Speaker:And, um, about three years into it, I thought, what the hell am I doing?
Speaker:I, I checked the box, I had my name on the door, I had the whole setup
Speaker:and we ended up, um, subletting the space, getting out from under it.
Speaker:And from then on I thought, I never need that again.
Speaker:And look where I'm sitting, I'm sitting in my beach house, you know,
Speaker:in our little library here with
Speaker:the pig and
Speaker:Where you live, right?
Speaker:Like it's not, yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:We've, this has been, we built this house here at the beach 24 years
Speaker:ago and, um, and always had a, a house in town, well in the suburbs.
Speaker:And then we'd come here and hang out for a month at a time or
Speaker:a week at a time or whatever.
Speaker:Matter of fact, the idea for unshackled came here.
Speaker:'cause we stayed for six weeks, one summer.
Speaker:And after a while people were going, how are you still there?
Speaker:How can you still be there?
Speaker:Well that's what I want to get at is like,
Speaker:let's go for it.
Speaker:I'm telling stories and maybe I'm not getting to your meat.
Speaker:no, no, you're great.
Speaker:Because I think this is, it's relating to what people experience
Speaker:and I think that's the big thing.
Speaker:'cause you definitely have, you know, I want to talk about some of the,
Speaker:you know, the bits of, of maybe the frameworks that count, but I want
Speaker:to make sure that, uh, you also go deeper into how this proves out.
Speaker:You know, you said the ultimate proof of concept.
Speaker:You have an interesting story there.
Speaker:Beach.
Speaker:Beach House is, six weeks is one thing, but how about 14 months and a week?
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:Well, if you wanna go, if you wanna go there right now, I can definitely do it.
Speaker:So let me just say this, I had had this long run of, of
Speaker:pretty good successes, right?
Speaker:And, and, um, we, we'd purchased Laughlin, um, in August of 2001, we
Speaker:had purchased the land that this house sits on, um, in 2001, got the permits.
Speaker:I designed the house on a yellow pad, then gave it to an architect to do it,
Speaker:but I said, here's the house we want.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:Cool,
Speaker:Um, they built the house.
Speaker:Now it's, it's December, 2002 and we had a tradition for many, many,
Speaker:many years of renting a house and coming down on Christmas afternoon.
Speaker:So later in the day on December 25th and staying for as many days
Speaker:as we could afford or justify.
Speaker:You started out early in our marriage.
Speaker:Two, two or three nights, and then it kind of got to be like
Speaker:at four or five or six nights.
Speaker:And uh, so anyway, we were staying two doors up and uh, I woke up on the
Speaker:morning of the 26th and I came outside.
Speaker:This was when I bought it and there was the land, and we bought the land,
Speaker:and now it's the next Christmas,
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:First time staying in our beach house.
Speaker:We just got the keys, it's done.
Speaker:And I'm standing upstairs, looking out at the ocean, December 27th, 2002.
Speaker:And I get a call from the receptionist at Prudential Securities
Speaker:'cause my big office downtown.
Speaker:And she says, Erin, call your office.
Speaker:And I thought, well that's never happened before.
Speaker:I knew the lady, she was a super nice lady.
Speaker:Um, call your office.
Speaker:So I said, okay.
Speaker:I said, what's the matter?
Speaker:She goes, just call.
Speaker:So I call and instead of Kylie, that young woman I just described a minute
Speaker:ago, I get special agent in charge, somebody from the FBI answering the
Speaker:phone and I said, what's going on?
Speaker:And they said, we're exercising a search warrant.
Speaker:Um, I said, is it about me or my companies?
Speaker:Nope.
Speaker:It's about this customer of yours that you've been doing business with.
Speaker:You.
Speaker:We used to do business, we hadn't for two years at that point.
Speaker:We'd stopped working with them on the last day of 1999.
Speaker:So now it's almost 2003.
Speaker:So we've gone all of 2000, 2001, 2002, not working.
Speaker:So three years.
Speaker:Um, and the reason I'd stopped working with him is 'cause I
Speaker:had concerns about some of his activities that I was observing.
Speaker:Um, I never saw anything illegal, but I saw stuff that was sneaky
Speaker:and I thought, eh, maybe it's time to just back off of this.
Speaker:I still really liked him.
Speaker:I admired him, but just thought we better back off.
Speaker:And, um, still like him to this day actually.
Speaker:So I haven't talked to him for years, but I still think he's an interesting guy.
Speaker:Anyway, um, they wanted to drill the safe.
Speaker:They were, they wanted me to give him the combination.
Speaker:I, I said I didn't want to give him the combination.
Speaker:They said, we'll just drill it.
Speaker:I said, well, am I, am I part of this?
Speaker:No, not at all.
Speaker:So gimme two hours.
Speaker:I'll drive into town and I'll open it for you.
Speaker:Which we did.
Speaker:And my wife to her credit said, don't call your lawyer.
Speaker:I'm like, it's not about us.
Speaker:This is, I, I am not surprised that this is happening and it's not about me.
Speaker:We haven't done anything wrong.
Speaker:If I go talk to the people, open the safe.
Speaker:They're very polite, very apologetic.
Speaker:We have very limited conversation.
Speaker:They did ask me two or three questions about, do you know this logo?
Speaker:Do you know this signature?
Speaker:Do you know who this person is?
Speaker:And they were all his general manager, his company's logo, you
Speaker:know, whatever that it's like nothing.
Speaker:Four months later I get indicted on conspiracy and in a conspiracy charge.
Speaker:I thought it meant we conspired.
Speaker:The government explained no conspiracy is you had to have materially assisted,
Speaker:even if you didn't know about a crime, if you did something that in some way.
Speaker:Helped then you can be indicted on conspiracy.
Speaker:That's so broad.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And we had formed companies for law firms who were, he was working with
Speaker:for their clients, Nevada companies.
Speaker:Nothing illegal.
Speaker:The judge said that throughout the case, but there's nothing
Speaker:illegal about that is there.
Speaker:But the government especially, and this was an IRS case, so it's the DOJ, the
Speaker:the FBI and, and the criminal enforcement of the IRS doing the investigation.
Speaker:We fought the case three and a half years.
Speaker:Um, ran outta money, spent about $2 million in legal fees, ran outta money.
Speaker:The lawyers tried to get out of the case, my lawyers and, um, the judge
Speaker:said, no, no, you can't get out.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And they said, well, you can't pay us.
Speaker:We're like, too bad you're in.
Speaker:So that was where I got the clever idea to then play chicken with the government.
Speaker:Just say, we're going to trial.
Speaker:We're going to trial.
Speaker:Nope, no, no plea bargain.
Speaker:I'm going to trial.
Speaker:Now, before that, I was considering plea offers that I thought were too
Speaker:big, and they started at seven years and were trying to work their way down.
Speaker:Finally, I said, I'm gonna go to trial.
Speaker:I don't care.
Speaker:I don't care how long it takes.
Speaker:I didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And, um, scared to death.
Speaker:Freaking out.
Speaker:Freaking out inside, trying to be tough outside, like a
Speaker:total disaster area inside.
Speaker:Anyway, that got everybody's attention.
Speaker:All of a sudden, DOJ, you know, went down and said, how about 36 months?
Speaker:And I thought, okay, at this point, 36 months, you end up doing like
Speaker:a little less than 30 months.
Speaker:You know, because of good time and the way they calculate so
Speaker:that we just need to end this.
Speaker:It's taking over my whole life.
Speaker:Can't focus on anything.
Speaker:They didn't want my business.
Speaker:They didn't want, they never froze bank accounts, never took a passport.
Speaker:There was no fraud.
Speaker:There was no restitution.
Speaker:Nobody lost any money.
Speaker:It was just this weird deal.
Speaker:So we did the plea bargain.
Speaker:We went sentencing.
Speaker:The judge reduced it down even further to 18 months, which means you actually
Speaker:serve 14 months in a week in minimum.
Speaker:Security is what it, and then you have a little halfway house
Speaker:time and then you're done.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:There's way more to the story, but for the interest of time, I will just say this
Speaker:off, I went and so did my business partner for 14 months and change to prison.
Speaker:You can't have one phone call about business.
Speaker:Can't talk business at all.
Speaker:Can't write letters about business.
Speaker:Uh, there was no email at that point.
Speaker:Um, there is now, but even then, everything's monitored.
Speaker:No business, you cannot do any business.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:I didn't know that.
Speaker:no phone call, no, no meetings, no nothing.
Speaker:No nothing.
Speaker:If your system doesn't work without you, it'll all just die.
Speaker:Thankfully, the same principles that I teach about we do in our companies,
Speaker:it's not this fluffy, conceptual thing.
Speaker:This is what I've been doing for 40 years in business.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:And so
Speaker:you said ultimate proof of concept when you can go to prison.
Speaker:And my take home pay for that full year I was in prison was $974,000.
Speaker:So if you can do that now, I'm not saying this just magically happened.
Speaker:We had a team of people in place.
Speaker:We left my wife as the, as the president.
Speaker:mm-hmm.
Speaker:Speaks volumes about my wife because we had the founder of WebMD
Speaker:and the CFO of Intel, who are my friend and my partner's friend.
Speaker:Um, both say they would be, they would look over the company for us, take
Speaker:care of it, didn't want any money, just as a solidarity thing would help us.
Speaker:My partner said the person I would most like to be left in charge,
Speaker:if she's willing, was my stay at home wife, stay at home mom,
Speaker:wife with a bunch of little kids.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And she did.
Speaker:And to her credit, um, she did a very good job of keeping track of
Speaker:stuff and making some hard decisions against very challenging odds.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:The point is the sy, she didn't know how to need to know
Speaker:everything about the company.
Speaker:'cause the system was built.
Speaker:The team was built.
Speaker:She just had to be there to go.
Speaker:You know, who's gonna sign the big check to the IRS?
Speaker:We had a tax bill, and I remember her talking to me on the prison phone and
Speaker:saying, it's like, you know, $400,000.
Speaker:I mean, does that sound right before I signed this check?
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:That's pretty important.
Speaker:you know, um, but she was, she had the presence of mind and the maturity and
Speaker:the intelligence to look at things and go, that seems like maybe we could change
Speaker:this, or, I don't think they're actually doing what they're supposed to be doing.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:'cause the system was built and she was smart enough to be able to read
Speaker:the, read the, the, the documents and understand what's going on.
Speaker:So I did, I'm not saying that I magically did this alone,
Speaker:but if you leave all your people and you've been the only one with
Speaker:the keys to the kingdom, you're the one, you've always been the end, the
Speaker:last word, you're, you're machine can fall apart very quickly or.
Speaker:Get stolen away from you.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So I mean, you, it had to be set up prior to all of this, and
Speaker:I mean, it's just fascinating.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Just the fact that you literally had your hands tied, you know,
Speaker:all in all ways, and you had no.
Speaker:Wait, the fact that it all ran and it's still around it, you were Yeah.
Speaker:Over
Speaker:$900,000 take
Speaker:didn't get ruined.
Speaker:The marriage didn't get ruined, the employees stayed on.
Speaker:I had two, my two vice presidents threatened.
Speaker:You can either be a witness or you could be a co-conspirator.
Speaker:They were both threatened with jail time by grand juries.
Speaker:They still work for me today, all these years later.
Speaker:Interesting.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, the law firms, the account, we didn't lose anybody 'cause we'd built a good
Speaker:reputation, but the system had to work.
Speaker:And I know we're getting short on time.
Speaker:Um, do you have any, any clarifying questions or do you
Speaker:want any specific bullet points?
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:I'm curious on, um, well, I'm thinking of like with that 14 months in a week, like
Speaker:what, did you have any big aha thing?
Speaker:I mean, I figured you just had so much time to kind of just, you know, marinate
Speaker:on what has been, but did anything new, fresh come out, um, that, that
Speaker:you're applying to your life still?
Speaker:well let me give you the downer message.
Speaker:okay
Speaker:That's okay too.
Speaker:Yeah,
Speaker:I wasn't afraid to drive in that day in 2002 'cause I believed
Speaker:that my behavior had been legal in alignment, not in the gray areas.
Speaker:Actually bending over backwards to tell people, these are the rules.
Speaker:You know, you're doing this thing and here's a white paper that
Speaker:talks about this is after tax, or this is how you have to report, or
Speaker:here's a form you need to fill out.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:I, we did all that stuff and it was all in the 400 boxes of discovery.
Speaker:Um, the downer thing I learned there was, um, I learned that I couldn't
Speaker:just trust my government anymore, that I needed to be, um, that, that was
Speaker:another angle that I hadn't considered that could come after me or hurt me
Speaker:for things that even they said, we know you didn't know about the crime.
Speaker:It is just part of the system, right?
Speaker:It's just
Speaker:And yeah.
Speaker:And it was never about this man, this human, it was a file that
Speaker:was moving on a conveyor belt.
Speaker:Nobody was trying to be mean to me.
Speaker:It was, I was a name with, connected to a thing in a file.
Speaker:The file had to be completed.
Speaker:The completion put me into a, a place, and,
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:and then when it was over, they were like, Hey, we're glad, you
Speaker:know, glad you landed on your feet.
Speaker:Glad everything worked out okay.
Speaker:You know, and, and so that was the big thing I learned.
Speaker:The other thing I learned was, um, when you, when you've done the work to get
Speaker:yourself organized, to not only have a good team, but empower the team, let them,
Speaker:even if they don't have legal ownership, have emotional ownership and a say so
Speaker:that they become creative and innovative and collaborative with one another so
Speaker:that they, they, they want to give you.
Speaker:I heard a guy named Keith Cunningham say one time we've done some work together.
Speaker:And he said, he said, when you hire people, you hire their arms and legs.
Speaker:The goal is to win their heads and their hearts.
Speaker:And I've strived to do that.
Speaker:That's why our average tenure of our employees is over 14 years.
Speaker:People stay working for us.
Speaker:I've got my, my VP of operations been almost 36 years with us.
Speaker:Dang, that says something right
Speaker:and he's brilliant and he keeps giving his all.
Speaker:He's not bored.
Speaker:He's not marking time because he knows, he has tremendous freedom
Speaker:to, to do things, to innovate.
Speaker:And, and when you have people that trust each other, they come up with
Speaker:their own ideas and they figure out things you would've never thought of.
Speaker:And they come back to say, what about this?
Speaker:And you go, I love it.
Speaker:What do you want me to do?
Speaker:Do this.
Speaker:Okay, cool.
Speaker:Let's go.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:And, um, when you have that kind of an environment, it can, it can survive, even
Speaker:thrive through all the ups and downs.
Speaker:Just at Laughlin, I've had the.com bubble bursting.
Speaker:I've had the real estate growth, you know, from all the, all the incentives,
Speaker:low interest rates that happened after the.com bubble burst, then the real
Speaker:estate marketing burst I had, um, I just had come off of Y 2K with all my other
Speaker:companies, you know, 'cause I've been doing this since 90, um, seven, right?
Speaker:So I'd gone through Black Monday.
Speaker:I've been through all that stuff.
Speaker:I've been through the COVID, I've been through, I've been through
Speaker:all this stuff over the years.
Speaker:And you know what, if you have a good system and you have good
Speaker:people, you'll just ride the waves.
Speaker:And the other thing I'll leave for your listeners,
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:part of what I've decided was I'm gonna be the biggest recipient of
Speaker:value from these things I build.
Speaker:I'm gonna get Rich doing this.
Speaker:And I have, I have done that.
Speaker:And when we had the um oh eight crash.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:We looked at, we lost about two thirds of our revenue in in a year.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:My partner and I were by far the highest paid people in the company.
Speaker:We made a decision to take a 75% pay cut, right?
Speaker:And not fire anybody.
Speaker:Not let anybody go.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:We quit doing the match on the 401k, but we kept, but we kept paying
Speaker:health insurance, kept doing all that.
Speaker:We both ended up short selling our homes,
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:right?
Speaker:'cause we took a big pay cut.
Speaker:Everybody was down in nine, 10, the end of eight, nine and 10 were bad years
Speaker:in business unless you had a bunch of cash and you were buying everything.
Speaker:But for people like us who were counting on all these business owners
Speaker:that we did services for, we just went like somebody turned off the spigot.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:But guess what happened in 11?
Speaker:Business started coming back and the team was there and could receive.
Speaker:And you know what people that you hold onto and they know the revenues in the
Speaker:toilet, but you keep them employed,
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:do you think those people feel loyal?
Speaker:Oh,
Speaker:Oh, man.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Oh
Speaker:And when that business comes in, they're ready.
Speaker:And if they need to work late or come in on a Saturday, they do it.
Speaker:And, and as things came back, we took more money again.
Speaker:And, you know, if, if you treat your team, your company, not as your, um,
Speaker:like your obligation or your, your pain in the butt responsibility, but
Speaker:as important assets that you like a machine, that you're gonna keep it
Speaker:oiled up and you're gonna keep it, ma, you're gonna do maintenance on
Speaker:it, you're gonna make sure it works.
Speaker:You treat your employees like your most important asset in the company.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:You'll, you'll be able to survive over years.
Speaker:I'm now,
Speaker:how many years?
Speaker:40. I started in 1983, so 42 years of making a payroll.
Speaker:There you go,
Speaker:That's real employees.
Speaker:That's not me selling some.
Speaker:That's me with employees on W2 paychecks.
Speaker:You can
Speaker:right.
Speaker:That's not just working for yourself
Speaker:you can do it over time.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:Right systems, right mindset, right partners.
Speaker:My life partner and my business partner have been great.
Speaker:And, and, um, work towards a specific outcome.
Speaker:If you know where you're going, it's much easier to get there.
Speaker:If you kind of know generally where you want to go, you end up groping around.
Speaker:Blind in the forest
Speaker:Someone else is probably leading you, right?
Speaker:no, I'm saying if you don't, well, you might be.
Speaker:Blown around by different ideas.
Speaker:But if you know, if you know what the outcome is, that's what I said
Speaker:earlier in this interview, know what the outcome is, why are you doing it,
Speaker:and what's the reward you plan to get?
Speaker:Not just then, but along the way.
Speaker:What's the reward you get for the risk you're taking?
Speaker:If you, if you think that way, you'll make very rapid progress toward the outcome.
Speaker:'cause you know exactly where you're going.
Speaker:You don't even look at other crap that gets in the way.
Speaker:You don't worry about all the extraneous ideas.
Speaker:I've got this big idea.
Speaker:No, no, no.
Speaker:You're here, you're focused.
Speaker:And when this thing works like a Swiss watch, it's just, it's a machine.
Speaker:Then you can go, if you're set up right with like unshackled, now
Speaker:you can do this the next thing.
Speaker:And once you have this one working where you're.
Speaker:Foundation is solid.
Speaker:You can get involved in all kinds of cool stuff and take more risk because your
Speaker:foundation is taken care of and people get too diverted by too many things.
Speaker:I always say get one thing really working well before you do the next one.
Speaker:So is that why you, you refer to Laughlin?
Speaker:Because it is that one thing, right?
Speaker:It's that one that you've kind of had for, what'd you say, 29 years, 30 years?
Speaker:Uh,
Speaker:I bought it 29 years.
Speaker:I've had it for 24 years
Speaker:almost.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:'cause we bought it in August, so I think next week it'll be the 24th year.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:So yeah.
Speaker:And that's the one consistent thing, but you also own
Speaker:percentages of all these other
Speaker:Oh.
Speaker:I make money from a lot of companies.
Speaker:Um, and I, and I make a lot of money speaking and so I'm, Laughlin is
Speaker:the thing most people know me for.
Speaker:Uh, it's not always my most valuable thing I'm doing.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:But it is, but it is solid and I get to meet a lot of cool people.
Speaker:You know, I met, uh, Duffy and, and, and Greg Reid, Scott Duffy and
Speaker:Greg Reid because I was out speaking on behalf of Laughlin at an event.
Speaker:All three of us were speakers.
Speaker:That's how I met them.
Speaker:And so that's the thing, it's like, yeah, if you can generate
Speaker:or you know, create one thing that then almost creates its own little
Speaker:ecosystem of referrals and networks.
Speaker:'cause I know you're a big referral guide, deal maker, and, but then like
Speaker:it presents opportunities, like you said, you're given equity percentage.
Speaker:And, uh, what you play, you said you call yourself, you're always
Speaker:in the chairman role, right?
Speaker:Or something that's not on the org chart.
Speaker:Like you're not, you're not being called on day to
Speaker:I am at the top of the org chart.
Speaker:I'm the chairman of the board.
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:We always have to have a president or, or general manager, whoever the boss is.
Speaker:You're reporting, they're reporting to you, right?
Speaker:Then the, you have your lieutenants, or your generals, whatever you wanna
Speaker:call 'em, and then you have your org chart by, let me, do you have
Speaker:time for me to give you a couple things for people to take away?
Speaker:Please.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Let's, let's do
Speaker:it
Speaker:right.
Speaker:Let me just give you, let me give you the seven critical
Speaker:steps that I teach in unshackled.
Speaker:Okay?
Speaker:The first one is, begin with the end in mind.
Speaker:Define in, in nauseating detail exactly what life will be for
Speaker:you when you hit the that goal.
Speaker:I mean, where do you live?
Speaker:How much money's in the bank?
Speaker:Who are you hanging out with?
Speaker:What does the company look like?
Speaker:Just what is it?
Speaker:And you'll, if you keep your eye on that and you read that vision statement
Speaker:every day, you gotta keep it short.
Speaker:Keep it to one page, record it so you can hear the whole thing in
Speaker:two and a half minutes, you know?
Speaker:But it, your subconscious will live there.
Speaker:Your, your subconscious doesn't know the difference between real and imagined.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:That's why we, we, we jump when the shark comes up and jaws right, we're
Speaker:in a movie theater in our house.
Speaker:We know there's no shark logically, but our subconscious is in the moment
Speaker:and believes the shark is real.
Speaker:So we react.
Speaker:If you can keep your subconscious mind just fixed every day on this outcome,
Speaker:you will start getting it very fast.
Speaker:Number two, what am I great at and what do I suck at?
Speaker:Okay?
Speaker:So I'm only gonna do stuff I'm good at.
Speaker:Anything I'm crummy at, I gotta get somebody else to do it.
Speaker:And maybe it's part-time, maybe it's a consultant, maybe it's a va, I don't know.
Speaker:But stay in your freaking lane.
Speaker:'cause if you try to do a bunch of stuff you suck at, you're, you are gonna quit
Speaker:doing what you're good at and you're gonna probably make a lot of mistakes
Speaker:with things you should never be touching.
Speaker:Like I should never touch accounting or information, you know it.
Speaker:I should never touch it.
Speaker:I should not try to mess with my, I shouldn't set up my email in my computer.
Speaker:I suck at this stuff, but I know where I'm great.
Speaker:I'm a good presenter, I'm a good speaker, I'm a good, uh, I make good deals.
Speaker:I'm good at biz dev.
Speaker:I'm good at that.
Speaker:I'm good at seeing the big picture.
Speaker:Stay there.
Speaker:That's where I stay.
Speaker:That's number two.
Speaker:Three is design the company on an org chart so that it, it describes,
Speaker:it demonstrates the company at the time of hitting the goal.
Speaker:Not what it is today, but it's like if you're gonna set up a baseball team,
Speaker:you know, you need at least nine players, right?
Speaker:So if you say, well, okay, I have a pitcher, that's what I've, or
Speaker:I've got a right fielder, okay.
Speaker:Put them on there.
Speaker:But I know I need a pitcher, a catcher, first, second, third,
Speaker:shortstop, and I, and I need left and center field as well, right?
Speaker:I need these nine things.
Speaker:I only have one of them right now.
Speaker:So then as I'm going along, I'm gonna go, okay, of the nine or
Speaker:the eight missing pieces, what's the most important one to add now?
Speaker:Hm.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:then you fill that.
Speaker:So you're always looking at going, I know I'm gonna need basically this thing, and I
Speaker:only have these three pieces of these 20.
Speaker:What's the next Right hire?
Speaker:What's the next right?
Speaker:Move When you, I had the guy running m and a for Boeing
Speaker:Uh huh
Speaker:who took the course, and he said, Aaron, I learned about org charts in
Speaker:high school, in undergrad, in grad school, and I used them every day buying
Speaker:and selling companies with Boeing.
Speaker:Nobody ever taught me how to use an org chart like that.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:It makes perfect sense.
Speaker:You're starting with the ending goal or in in mind, so build
Speaker:Everything is leading to the outcome.
Speaker:It's all number three is use a formula that Steven Covey taught me.
Speaker:Um, D-G-R-A-C.
Speaker:Desired results, guidelines, resources, accountability, and Consequences.
Speaker:If your job description is, here's the desired result, here are your guidelines,
Speaker:here are the resources we provide, here's how you're gonna show accountability,
Speaker:reports, meetings, whatever, and here's consequences for success and failure.
Speaker:Then anytime you're dealing with your, your team member, you go, let's
Speaker:go back to your job description.
Speaker:Read it to me.
Speaker:Where, what's going on based on what I'm seeing and what's in the job description.
Speaker:Oh, yeah, right there.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So what do you, what do you need to do about that?
Speaker:Now, I'm not gonna tell you what to do.
Speaker:What are you going to do about this problem?
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:Oh, I'm gonna do this.
Speaker:Okay, that's acceptable.
Speaker:Consequences for success could be more money.
Speaker:Title, promotion, consequences of failure could be retraining,
Speaker:repositioning in the company could be replacing them, could be firing them.
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:Number four, you want to talk about having scoreboards so that everybody on the whole
Speaker:team knows every day how we're doing.
Speaker:We always know individually and collectively how we're doing.
Speaker:Number five, we talk about building an intentional
Speaker:culture, not an organic culture.
Speaker:Organic culture will always go to the lowest common denominator.
Speaker:It'll be the worst.
Speaker:Complainer, gossiper, pain in the ass in the company.
Speaker:You will go down if you have an intentional culture.
Speaker:This is how we do it.
Speaker:This is why we do it.
Speaker:This is how we treat each other.
Speaker:This is how we treat the client.
Speaker:This is why what we do matters.
Speaker:This, and we get the, get the employees involved in it and demonstrating it and
Speaker:giving awards and giving acknowledgement.
Speaker:Um, based on our culture.
Speaker:It, I'll tell you what, people that come into the culture and
Speaker:are not a good fit will leave.
Speaker:It doesn't matter how good they're at the job, they'll leave.
Speaker:They won't feel comfortable.
Speaker:Once you build the culture, you don't need to be there anymore because the
Speaker:team goes, well, that's not how we do it.
Speaker:We do it like this.
Speaker:We talk to each other like this.
Speaker:We show up for the client like this.
Speaker:We use words like this.
Speaker:We fulfill our promises like this.
Speaker:You don't need to babysit it anymore because it's ingrained
Speaker:and the people that are there want to be there 'cause they like it,
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Then you need to understand your financials, your balance sheet, your
Speaker:statement of cash flow, and your p and l, and you need two p and Ls.
Speaker:One that's the regular p and l that you're using for taxes, and one is the reality
Speaker:check p and l that shows all the below the line stuff that you as the owner get
Speaker:your cell phone, you know, your loans, your car allowance, you know the cash that
Speaker:you travel, all the things you're getting and benefiting from, that you really love
Speaker:that you're getting from the company.
Speaker:But you need a reality check that you look at and go, Hmm, am I taking too much out?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So, so when you're ready for that windfall right, you have the cash
Speaker:flow back to what you said earlier.
Speaker:the last part is empowering your management team so that they
Speaker:can function without you always knocking 'em off at the knees.
Speaker:You know, if you cut 'em off at the knees all the time, pretty soon they will just
Speaker:wait for you to tell 'em what to do.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:If you celebrate risk, celebrate mistakes, learn from the mistakes.
Speaker:Don't keep repeating them over and over, but have a, a culture that says, Hey, I'm
Speaker:so glad you tried something different.
Speaker:Um, remember this folks, the only way to give exceptional
Speaker:service is to make exceptions.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:That means your team has to have the permission to make an exception.
Speaker:mm-hmm.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Think about that.
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:Most companies don't let their po they, they, if you don't follow
Speaker:the process, the SOP or whatever.
Speaker:You're in trouble.
Speaker:I'm like, no.
Speaker:If you can solve a problem right now, do it.
Speaker:If I don't like your solution, we'll go back and evaluate, was
Speaker:your solution better than mine?
Speaker:Maybe we should change our process or procedure, or, thanks for doing that.
Speaker:Here's why I want to keep it this way.
Speaker:Here's some of the results that could, could happen from the
Speaker:choice, but good for you for trying.
Speaker:Good for you for solving the problem.
Speaker:Let's evaluate, talk about it, make it into a learning moment for
Speaker:everybody of how we can improve.
Speaker:Either change our processes or reinforce our processes.
Speaker:And, but if you're too, um, egotistical to think you're the only one that
Speaker:knows what the hell's going on, you're never gonna have good people with you.
Speaker:You're always gonna have a crummy group.
Speaker:And that's where you gotta get that longevity.
Speaker:Like you said, they're gonna go with you on the ups and downs throughout it all.
Speaker:Like, like, uh, the person you have there for what, 37
Speaker:years.
Speaker:36 years.
Speaker:36? There you
Speaker:he's our chief strategy guy.
Speaker:He's the one that, all the lawyers, all the accountants, all the investment
Speaker:funds, everybody's like, I know I have this rep, but I can still talk to Brent.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:it.
Speaker:You need to have multiple of those, but at least one.
Speaker:I mean, that just shows the culture's tight and, um, yeah,
Speaker:can weather literally any storm?
Speaker:So I think, uh, Aaron, this is, this is awesome.
Speaker:I'm gonna be, I'm gonna deep dive into Unshackled, um, get the book
Speaker:by the way, and actually how, how do people get the book and then
Speaker:also go deeper with what you got.
Speaker:The, my encouragement would be, um, you could certainly go to Amazon and buy it.
Speaker:I always encourage people to go to Barnes and Noble and the, and that's for.
Speaker:Maybe a silly reason.
Speaker:I think it's cool that we still have at least one major book chain out there that
Speaker:you can go in and look at books and flip through stuff and, um, and you're gonna
Speaker:probably pay two or three more dollars at Barnes and Noble than you will at Amazon.
Speaker:I love Amazon.
Speaker:I work with Amazon.
Speaker:Amazon uses the software based on unshackled in their, um, medical division.
Speaker:That's one of my, their chief medical officers, one of our students.
Speaker:Um,
Speaker:but, but, um, so I love Amazon buy from Amazon, but I like Barnes Noble Plus.
Speaker:Barnes and Noble has me on a book tour right now, so I
Speaker:want, I wanna support them.
Speaker:I like that they're the last company standing as a major bookseller.
Speaker:Major book.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So go in there if you wanna see some books, touch books.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, get it in Barnes Noble.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:Um, what's your, what's your website though, just so people
Speaker:They can go to Laughlin USA and if they want to connect with me or the
Speaker:team or ask a question or find out about the course or find out about
Speaker:what other services, 'cause we're a, we're a major asset protection company.
Speaker:You know, we're, we're, we've been all these years helping people not only start
Speaker:a business about protect their business.
Speaker:And, um, so then just write to me at aaronYoung@laughlinusa.com.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:Aaron, this is, this is so cool, and thanks for being so open too, and, and
Speaker:giving with stories, lessons and all that.
Speaker:Uh, last thing, like what are you, what are you most excited
Speaker:for in like, the years to come?
Speaker:And we'll just like kind of wrap on this.
Speaker:I am very involved with several companies, uh, in crypto, in
Speaker:ai, and in advanced wound care.
Speaker:And I'm working at very, very high levels on all three of those industries.
Speaker:And, um, I am so excited to see, to be witnessing and your, of course, your ai.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:So, you know, this, um, I'm so excited to be witness to a fundamental shift
Speaker:and how the world is gonna work, how money works, how businesses grow,
Speaker:how information is a, a accessed and distributed, um, quantum computing.
Speaker:I'm not involved with that, but I'm thrilled that the industries I'm involved
Speaker:in will all be significantly impacted by quantum computing that I'm 61, my
Speaker:dad and mom both died at 80 years old.
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:My doctor just told me, he said, unless you step out in front of a
Speaker:bus or do some crazy, get in some terrible accident, the odds of you
Speaker:living a very highly productive.
Speaker:Active life over a hundred years old is, is in your, you are gonna have
Speaker:that if you just don't do something so dumb that you kill yourself.
Speaker:But health wise, we are going to be, cancer will be cured.
Speaker:All these, you know, heart disease, all this stuff is, they'll be able
Speaker:to drop microbots in and fix things.
Speaker:You're not gonna have to cut your body open for most kind of repairs.
Speaker:I mean, the world is such an exciting place and if you've, if you position
Speaker:yourself where you become successful enough to get invited into rooms where
Speaker:a higher level of conversation is taking place, and then if you're successful
Speaker:enough there to go to the next level.
Speaker:You know, right now I have two good friends who are part of the World
Speaker:Economic Forum who've built massive multi-billion dollar companies and.
Speaker:I'm not invited to that room yet, but I'm hanging out with them, right.
Speaker:And I'm, I see opportunities where I'm gonna get into that even higher
Speaker:level conversation to, it starts by getting something, working well
Speaker:enough that you get freedom and you have some, a little bit of money.
Speaker:You don't need to be real rich.
Speaker:You need to have enough curiosity about the world and enough money
Speaker:to be able to leave day to day and do something else that you start to
Speaker:elevate and the world becomes much more interesting and much smaller.
Speaker:And the people that you know, where there's big crossover, you know, um,
Speaker:when I entered, introduced the chief medical officer at Amazon, one of the
Speaker:big, the biggest seller in the world, one of the biggest companies, to the guy
Speaker:that created telemedicine and built his company to $34 billion and annual revenue.
Speaker:When I was able to put those two guys together, and they were both going.
Speaker:You know him, you know him.
Speaker:I'm like, I do know him.
Speaker:And the only reason is because I got my act together.
Speaker:So I had time to go do other more interesting things, meet interesting
Speaker:people, get out into the me into the world, show up in front of humans.
Speaker:Don't just be online all the time.
Speaker:It's how I know you.
Speaker:'cause we both went somewhere and stood face to face, eye to eye and talked.
Speaker:that's
Speaker:if I could give one piece of encouragement is what my dad always taught me.
Speaker:My dad was a great sales guy and beloved.
Speaker:And I said, what's the trick all these people respect you so much, dad?
Speaker:And he said, you gotta get out and see the people.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Go out there with something to say, something to offer in the conversation.
Speaker:You'll be amazed at how big your life gets
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Aint that the truth?
Speaker:That's how I created my business from the very beginning.
Speaker:It was like, I'm just gonna go to conferences and start talking with people.
Speaker:And that's literally all I did.
Speaker:And, you know, went into debt for it.
Speaker:Always the goal was to, I just wanna break even on this trip.
Speaker:Get one client, whatever it might be.
Speaker:You know, it's, that was my target and just kept stacking.
Speaker:Uh, but to this day, yeah, you can't live behind your computers.
Speaker:They all, and with ai, you know, it gets so easy to just get all the information,
Speaker:but you know, the human connection, that's what I'm talking about all the time,
Speaker:And you've gotta, and you've gotta challenge what you got from ai.
Speaker:Is this, because I've had two different magazines, write articles about me.
Speaker:90% of it was right.
Speaker:10% of it was like, who are they talking about?
Speaker:That's
Speaker:not me.
Speaker:That's somebody else.
Speaker:That's, they're not, they're saying, I did this, I did not do that.
Speaker:That had nothing to, and I'm talking about started this company or
Speaker:went to school here or whatever.
Speaker:It's like there, there's a, um.
Speaker:If there's a father and son, Aaron Young out there who are both in prison for the
Speaker:rest of their lives, for murder, there's, um, a football player named Aaron Young.
Speaker:There's a musician named Aaron Young.
Speaker:Um, there's a lot of people named Aaron Young who if AI just goes out and gathered
Speaker:stuff that seems like it would be me,
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:you know?
Speaker:So I'm not knocking ai.
Speaker:I use it every single day.
Speaker:I believe in it.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:it's not perfect.
Speaker:uh, but it's, but there, there is something about looking somebody in the
Speaker:eye, having a human conversation with them, creating your notes, and then if
Speaker:you want AI to clean 'em up, if you've got a really good idea and you want AI to,
Speaker:you know, expound on it or expand on it,
Speaker:mm-hmm.
Speaker:Yeah, yeah,
Speaker:But don't, don't, don't abdicate your own thinking to a machine because then
Speaker:you'll become the slave of the machine, instead of the machine being the
Speaker:magnifier of the things you are doing.
Speaker:And that's how I look at AI as a way to magnify.
Speaker:My goals
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:It makes you super human and what you're best at, what you know, and enhances that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Versus a shortcut to not have to think.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And I, yeah, that's where I worry, where there's a lot of other, probably
Speaker:not us listening to the show po you know, but you know, the people
Speaker:looking for the shortcuts, the not having to really use their minds.
Speaker:There's definitely gonna be an interesting handful of years ahead of us where
Speaker:there's probably a split happening.
Speaker:Um, I don't know.
Speaker:It's gonna be interesting.
Speaker:That's a whole nother conversation.
Speaker:It'll be, it'll be a, it'll be obvious stuff until it becomes not obvious at all.
Speaker:It becomes so built into the fabric of what we do.
Speaker:We're no longer thinking, oh, I'm gonna pick up chat GPT and ask, you know, posit
Speaker:some question or give an assignment.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:just, I, it'll become just built into everything.
Speaker:yeah, yeah.
Speaker:Uh, and we will not have the chance to influence the way we can now.
Speaker:Now is the time,
Speaker:Now is the time and you're at the cutting edge.
Speaker:So I'm delighted you would bring me on to a such a progressive program
Speaker:with such a cool company and tell you about my ideas of just how to
Speaker:structurally build the foundation.
Speaker:Doesn't matter how, how big of a company you wanna build.
Speaker:If you do these things, your odds of success just go up exponentially.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:It's timeless.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Thank you, Aaron.
Speaker:I appreciate you being so open, man.
Speaker:So we'll, we'll connect again and, and, uh, let's go on this radio
Speaker:together, you know, it's gonna be
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:All right,
Speaker:Have a good, one.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:Thank you too.