What if the key to lasting transformation isn't more willpower or positive thinking—but actually rewiring your brain with 2-minute "mental muscle" exercises throughout the day?
Lauren Kinghorn, calling from Cape Town, joins Shannon to introduce the science of Positive Intelligence—a clinically proven method that uses MRI scans to show how you can literally move gray matter from your survival brain (limbic system) to your sage brain (prefrontal cortex) in just 6-7 weeks.
Working primarily with women over 50 (her current group averages 70 years old!), Lauren guides clients through identifying their personal saboteurs—from the master "Judge" to the "People Pleaser," "Controller," "Hyperachiever," and more—then teaches them PQ Reps (Positive Intelligence Quotient exercises) to intercept these patterns and access their empathy circuitry instead.
You'll hear:
- The 80/20 rule of transformation: Why 20% is insight and 80% is building mental muscle—and why most people get stuck at insight
- Your personal saboteur mix: How to identify whether you're driven by victim, people pleaser, controller, hypervigilant, or other patterns
- PQ Reps explained: Simple 2-3 minute exercises using breath, heartbeat, fingertips, and sound to instantly shift from stress to presence
- The people pleaser breakthrough: Lauren's journey from not knowing what pleased her to setting firm boundaries while staying loving
- Real-world application: How Lauren and her 81-year-old mother both used 12-minute PQ sessions before delivering eulogies at her father's memorial
- The ripple effect: Why changing yourself changes everything around you without force or pushing
This conversation offers hope for women feeling worn out from caring for everyone else, showing how accessible tools can create profound shifts in confidence, assertiveness, and inner peace.
Connect with Lauren Kinghorn
Website: laurenkinghorn.com
Facebook: Lauren Jean Kinghorn
YouTube: @laurenkinghorn
LinkedIn: Lauren Kinghorn
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