What is your authentic voice here to share??? That the Narcissist has tried to suppress?

In this episode, I share how to win an argument with the Narcissist and, reveal what your Human Design throat center means if it's white, colored, and what those numbers mean.

Empaths and sensitive individuals often experience deep wounds in their ability to express themselves authentically after enduring such trauma. We explore how understanding the Throat Center in Human Design can be a powerful tool for healing and reclaiming your voice.

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So you found your human design chart, you see all these different shapes

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on there and you go, yay, I'm so excited.

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What does this mean?

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So today I'm going to be covering the

throat center and the numbers that are

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circled in your throat center define

what you are here to speak about.

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So let's dive into this today.

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Welcome back to the empath and

narcissist podcast where I share

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messages about spiritual healing from

narcissistic abuse with human design.

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Because I believe your karmic

experience has awakened you to

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your authentic soul, you just need

the map to call your power back.

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I am your host, Raven Scott,

and I'm an author and trauma

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informed spiritual mentor.

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Raven: In human design, the

throat center is a vital energy

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that governs communication.

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Just like it's related to the throat

chakra, self expression and manifestation.

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Nothing can come into being unless it

is informed and spoken into existence.

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So it serves as the bridge between our

inner world, our thoughts, inspirations,

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ideas, and the external reality,

influencing how we express our unique

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selves to others in relationships and

about projects, how we want to be loved.

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What we are here to share as far

as ideas and within the throat

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center There are several gates each

representing a specific aspect of

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communication and expression Those I

will be covering in the membership.

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I'll save that to the end.

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But today I wanted to cover What does it

mean when you have an undefined throat

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center having an undefined throat center?

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Looks just like this.

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Briefly, I will share with

you what you speak about.

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I have a graphic here you can

read this what you speak about

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on the blog at Ravenscott.

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show and your undefined throat

center looks just like this.

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If you're listening on the podcast,

you can watch the YouTube video

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to take a look at the graphics.

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So the throat center is a third one down

from the top, and it is a white square

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when it is undefined, but there are

circles or purple circles coloring in at

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least one of the numbers in the throat.

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That is technically an undefined

throat center in the human design.

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It can both be , a

blessing and a challenge.

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And this configuration means

that you amplify the voices and

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energies of those around you.

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You often feel the pressure to speak up

and communicate, even when you might not

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feel entirely ready or sure what to say.

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So you may be that person who's filling

in that radio silence because you're

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feeling the pressure to fill in the gap,

which sometimes can be good in awkward

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social situations and other times not good

when you just need the space to be quiet.

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So with this undefined throat center,

instead of meticulously planning your

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words in advance, Your design actually

is talented at and is gifted at trusting

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in your innate wisdom and saying things

off the cuff, depending on what and

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who you are amplifying in that moment.

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And your intuition will tell you this.

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That's why it's important to practice

your strategy and your inner authority.

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By leaning into your strategy, you and

authority, you can discern when the

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time is right to share your insights

and express yourself authentically,

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allowing your natural flow of

communication to unfold organically.

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So when you do this, it honors your

unique interacting with the world,

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emphasizing the following your

strategy and responsiveness over

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the social norms of premeditation.

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And this can be tricky when you are

dealing with a toxic person or a really

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difficult Conflict or a narcissist, you

might think, well, I need to premeditate.

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I need to be prepared.

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I need to have all the answers.

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, but like , I have loved saying

lately is if you want to win

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with a narcissist, don't play,

you don't need to say anything.

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So with your undefined white throat,

you feel the pressure to speak.

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Your communication style.

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influenced by the environment.

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So just go with the flow.

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, you can speak in a variety

of different voices.

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You can mimic who you're talking

to depending on the situation

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or the other person, and you may

feel powerless to take action.

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You and others close to you can't

always predict what the what

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will come out of your mouth.

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That's another thing

because you're amplifying.

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It's not consistent.

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, you just are always

surprised by this person.

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So to thrive with the undefined

throat and the open throat, which

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I'll cover , a little bit later.

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To thrive with this undefined throat,

instead of feeling like you always

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have to speak, instead of feeling

powerless, instead of feeling, , like

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you don't know what you're going to say.

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And it really frightens you, especially

when you're dealing with someone

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toxic that you're interacting with.

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Get comfortable with the silence,

get comfortable with saying nothing

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and wait to be asked to speak.

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And that is where the magic lies.

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The next one is your defined throat.

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So that third center down from the top,

if you have this throat center colored

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in, it usually is always brown, the color

doesn't matter what color it is colored

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in, that's why there's different charts

with different colors, that doesn't

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matter as long as it's colored in,

then you have a defined throat center.

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And this signifies a surrender.

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To your inner authority, guiding

you on what to say or do.

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So it suggests a natural flow of energy

that allows you to express yourself

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confidently and authentically trusting

in the clarity of your communication.

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So build on doing hard things, your,

, discipline and your self confidence.

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Then building upon your self, , esteem

essentially to feel confident

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and authentic, trusting yourself

that you are communicating

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what you need to communicate.

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And sometimes you're channeling messages

from source through your throat, , either

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if it is open and you're doing it through

the amplification or if it is defined and

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doing it consistently within yourself.

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So when you have a colored N, you have

a consistent way of expressing ideas.

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You can speak when you need to and

maybe feel moved by the spirit to do so.

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You're using your inner authority,

remember, and also your strategy.

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If you have a motor connected, well,

number one, you're a man gen, you're

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a manifesting generator, but you can

take Consistent action after informing.

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So the motor that may be connected to

your throat through a colored line,

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called a channel is, , the heart, which

is this center, just this tiny triangle

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down below the diamond to the right.

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If that connects to the throat

or the solar plexus, the bottom

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triangle on the right connects

to the throat or the sacral, the

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second up square from the bottom.

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When connected to a motor center,

it can feel the impulse to talk

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and do too much, too much power,

too much doing, too much, right?

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There's motors pushing, pushing.

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So just be mindful of that as

well and step back and observe

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and say, do I need to say this?

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Does this need to be said right now?

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Is this really necessary?

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And then delete that text or delete

that email or bite your tongue, right?

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So, when also connected to the

Ajna, which is the triangle, upside

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down triangle just above that.

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Or the G center, that diamond

just below the throat.

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You can have a tendency to babble

on and not listen to others.

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And, , if you're not listening to

your inner authority and you're not

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using your strategy, when people

ask you, share, don't worry, don't

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worry about being too concise.

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But if you are not being asked or you're

not being invited in, and you're just

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babbling on about something, people

zone out, they won't listen to you.

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Okay.

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And it won't be productive in your

communication and in your relationship.

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Now, this may happen a lot with

a narcissist because they don't

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tend to invite opinions in because

that's scary, that opens up to how

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they have to take responsibility.

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So what you may find is as you

practice using your inner authority

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and your strategy by waiting to

respond or waiting to be invited,

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depending on what type you are.

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And you're in authority,

like, does this feel good?

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Should I say this?

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Yes or no?

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If you're sacral or emotional, if

you're emotional, how does it feel?

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You'll find yourself not

actually communicating.

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When you're responding to this because

the narcissist won't be inviting you

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in you may be responding But you're

responding to something negative.

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So our inner authority kicks in and says

is this something I really respond to?

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No This is negative energy, right?

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So you actually find yourself not

communicating with this toxic energy

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Just by following your strategy and inner

authority and that therefore plays into

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if you want to win with a narcissist

You know Don't play, don't talk, don't

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interact, don't argue, don't say anything.

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So this next one is completely open,

no gates to find throat center.

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The third center down here,

it is white in this image.

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Also you can look at the graphics

on the blog at Ravenscott.

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show.

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So for those with a completely open

throat center, surrendering to the inner

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play with the outside world is key.

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trusting the time and flavor

of your relationship or the

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activity and expression.

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This openness allows for a fluid

exchange of energy with others.

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So if you're really good at

surrendering and waiting.

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For the action, this is magic and it's

really emphasizing the adaptability and

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responsiveness to the present moment.

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This is key being in the present.

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If you have a completely

open throat center, you must

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practice being in the present.

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Don't plan ahead.

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Don't fear the past.

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Don't think about the future.

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Be in the present.

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Because again, that's

where the magic happens.

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And I've witnessed this

firsthand in my husband.

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He has this and he is the

most eloquent speaker.

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He is the most dynamic speaker.

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He is the most amazing salesperson

that you can even imagine with anyone

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he interacts with because he has

harnessed the, the comfortability of not

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speaking when he doesn't need to speak.

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He is.

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A man of very few words, yet when

he does speak, he is utilizing all

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of those talents and amplifying the

energies to achieve whatever task

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he's at or communicate something

with me or the girls or whatever.

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He knows what to ask in the moment.

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He knows when to ask it.

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And he delivers such an amazing mic

drop when he's presenting ideas.

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I see it in his story and

his coaching our daughters.

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I can imagine how incredible

he was in the courtroom.

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Like there's all these different talents

that you can have, no matter what.

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We're doing in your life, whether

it be work, whether it be in a

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relationship, whether it be with your

children to be able to really lean

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into the present moment and amplify

what is needed to be asked or said.

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It's beautiful.

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There's no, he thinks about it

a lot, but there's no rehearsal.

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It just comes out in the right timing.

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So I want to encourage you if

it's open and you have nothing,

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that doesn't mean that you are

not here to speak about nothing.

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You are here to speak

through a channeled source.

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You are here to speak inspiration

and , ebb and flow in the present

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moment with the energy around you,

energies that you're dealing with.

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So the gates and channels in the

throat, , this is going to be

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something I'm diving deeper in, in

the episode today for the membership.

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So if you want to understand how does this

a supply to me, what does it mean when

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I have, when I have gate 15 highlighted

and it being red, what does that mean?

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And why do I see gate 15

over on the left in the red?

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So this is something to

really take a look at.

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You can't see it in the visual because

it's all the way at the bottom, and I've

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cropped the bottom of the chart off.

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I could use another example.

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Gate 8 is also in the throat

center, highlighted in this chart.

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It has a red line, Going down

towards the G center and it's next

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to the moon over here on the chart.

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So that's what I'm diving

into today in the membership.

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If you want to learn more about all

the gate descriptions and how they

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interplay and give you that flavor

of what you're here to speak about,

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what your authentic voice wishes

to share and really is here to do.

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So then you can learn about that

in my book , about each gate.

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Empath's Guide to Rising Strong.

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You can grab your paperback there and

do your own self study, or you can join

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So both of those are in the link

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If you'd love to learn more and

dive deeper into how these help

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you, this is what I'm here for.

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This is why I've created a membership.

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And just to give example, I have so many

gates, , defined in my chart, but the

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one that really resonates with me is

the one that brings community together.

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And that is gate 35 31.

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I also have as well to, you

know, serves in a democratic

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leadership role and 45s leadership.

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The 35 is this, , community.

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My voice has an authority to teach, to

share and to bring people into community,

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hoping to bring all of those who are

healing from narcissistic abuse, , to

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heal spiritually and by understanding

your unique blueprint, your unique energy.

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To bust out of the lies and the

conditioning that the narcissist

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is trying to keep you down.

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The darkness is trying to keep

you down, but your human design

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chart shows you your light.

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It is your flashlight to break

free from the narcissistic, toxic,

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social, societal conditionings.

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And I'm teaching you how to do that

in your chart in the membership.

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All right.

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