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In this episode we welcomeNikkia Young. Nikkia brings her knowledge and leadership to this conversation. We talk about her role in the Richmond running community and beyond. This is not your regular community runner. Nikkia sees her role as helping rebuild communities from the inside to help make them more equitable for all persons.
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:Nikia Yon Nikia is the president of
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:Richmond, Virginia, and what a great
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:about Richmond, but about her personal
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:and the way that her community and
the community that she has built up,
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:surrounded herself, gotten involved
in the way that they are doing things.
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:To help bring awareness
to different areas.
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:And so you will hear her.
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:She has just a laundry list of things that
she does and ways that she is involved.
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:And so I'm so excited
for this conversation.
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:So let's jump in and hear from Nikia.
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:All right.
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:Welcome in everybody listeners.
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:Today I am joined by Nakia Young.
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:Now this is great because
I met Nakia at the Shamrock
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:Expo back on Shamrock Weekend.
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:It was the first time we met and
immediately I was like, I have got
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:to get her on the podcast ASAP.
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:And so I was glad that she was
able to get in really quickly.
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:So Nakia, how are you doing?
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:Nikkia: I'm doing pretty good.
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:I'm coming off of cherry blossom
weekend, which is a lot of fun.
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:Had a fun meet up there with the game
changers, which I'm excited to talk about.
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:But yeah, I'm doing pretty good.
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:We're recording this on
the day of the eclipse.
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:I'm hoping that that's
some good turnover energy.
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:So yeah,
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:Andrew: Oh, man.
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:And so, yeah, this is great because you
know, my first introduction to Nakia
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:at the Shamrock Expo, you know, we
were just talking and chatting and I
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:guess a mutual friend of ours, Candace,
was there and we started talking
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:about the Richmond running scene.
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:Of course, listeners, you
know, that I moved down here
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:to Hampton Roads from Richmond.
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:And so I just love to be able
to get back to my roots and
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:talk to some folks up there.
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:Yeah.
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:And so Nakia and I connected, but Nakia,
before we get started where are we,
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:where are we love to start this podcast
is to hear a little bit more about you.
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:So what is your community?
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:And again, we just define
it as broadly as you want.
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:What is your community
and what makes it awesome?
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:Nikkia: there are so many different
communities that I'm actually a part of.
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:And when I reflected on that question,
I was like, Oh my gosh, you know,
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:like when you think about it, Okay.
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:I'm kind of lucky where I started
running in that time and frame where
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:like ambassadors started to come across
and like, so like, I have a blended
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:community of not only where I currently
live, which is the Richmond Road Runners
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:Club scene, but, you know, City Stadium
Runners is a team I love to run with.
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:I run with the sports backers half
marathon training team actually.
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:Coach the walking team that we just
built out in the last year or so.
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:And then I have a virtual community of
runners that not only I run with, but I
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:coach so I'm an RCA certified run coach
on top of everything else that I do.
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:And so that virtual community is so neat
because, you know, as you start to travel
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:and go to different places, you, you
finally get to meet people in person.
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:And so like I've got a group of
folks that I'm going to go see out in
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:California for the Orange County Marathon.
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:I'm gonna, I just this past weekend
at Cherry Blossom got to meet people
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:that I've known for four years now
and finally got to meet in person.
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:So it's a nice blend.
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:I'm very lucky to have like that
virtual piece and that in person piece.
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:And then also just being able to support,
be supported and support in that way too.
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:Andrew: And so you kind of talk
about the broadness of community.
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:And so before we kind of dive into
a lot of these different sort of
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:iterations of community that you're
involved in, I want to hear a
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:little bit about Nakia, the runner.
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:So can we back us up to maybe
the beginning of your running
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:journey and what that looked like?
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:And even so, because I can't imagine
that your involvement in community
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:does not stem from the impact that
community bringing you in had.
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:And so can we go back to Nakia the
first time show up at something,
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:or what was the beginning roots
of your journey as a runner?
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:Nikkia: Yeah, so it's
actually a really fun story.
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:I went to college out in Salem, Virginia,
Roanoke College and I am part of a
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:sorority and I'm still very much involved
with the sorority and my sorority sisters
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:are super active, just, like, like, some
of us are super active and some of us
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:were not and we were just so lucky to,
like, have each other in that space.
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:But they, a couple of them were
running the Blue Ridge Marathon,
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:which is infamous and famous.
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:And you know, we're standing at the
finish line waiting for our girlfriends
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:to come back through and we're cheering.
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:And I'm like, you know what?
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:I'm going to do this one day.
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:Now, mind you, at this time, I
probably couldn't walk a mile
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:well and I was in college.
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:And so, you know, I roll into like
the summer before my senior year, I'm
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:staying on campus because I'm working
and I'm like, you know what, I'm going
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:to just start like running on the track.
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:We're just going to start doing the thing.
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:I, I've always been.
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:but I'd never been like runner focus.
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:And we found like a color run that was
happening in Henrico didn't realize at
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:the time Henrico basically is Richmond.
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:And so ended up training for
five K a couple sorority sisters
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:came with me and we did the
color run and it was so much fun.
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:And then I started to pick up a couple
of other five Ks done by like the rent,
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:the mountain junkies out in Roanoke
when I was finished on my senior year.
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:And then when I moved to Richmond,
and people were talking about this
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:10k thing, and I'm thinking like,
well, like, a 5k, like, a 10k is like
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:double a 5k, like, mm, that sounds a
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:Andrew: Mm hmm.
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:Nikkia: little much.
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:And then, you know, as you fold into
the Richmond running scene, you find out
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:that, like, oh, like, this is everybody's,
like, gateway drug into distance running.
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:And I trained with a really
neat YMCA training team.
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:They were so supportive.
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:I was never left alone, even
though I was in the back.
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:But you know, consistently it was like,
Oh, you were putting forth the effort.
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:You are here every week.
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:Like we're going to be here too.
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:And so, you know, even then looking
back, I'm like, Oh my God, the impact
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:the coach had and several years
later I was running a 10 K I was
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:working at running a Turkey trot.
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:And I saw one of the coaches that
was like, Oh, you'll be fine.
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:And he was like, I'm so ready.
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:And he's like, Oh my God, it's so great.
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:And then, you know, just one of those,
like, kind of throwback stories.
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:But yeah, it was, I'm, I got in kind
of on a whim and, and stuck with
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:it is really what it looks like.
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:Andrew: And so you had a lot of folks
who were kind of bringing you along
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:and I love this sort of connection
to college, you know greek life so
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:to say because While I was not in
greek life when I was in college.
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:I was not in a fraternity I think we can
definitely look at greek life in colleges
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:and see sort of the connection that that
builds and and everything that happens
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:in there and so to kind of hear that
that's where it began And that's where
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:it really started to to kind of kick off.
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:So what other sort of
support have you gotten from?
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:From those original, you know sorority
sisters as you've grown in this journey.
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:Nikkia: Yeah.
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:So, I mean, I, I get sheered along.
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:Regularly people reach out.
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:One of my favorite things that happens
is like if people hear that I'm coming
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:to a place cause I, you know, I'm trying
to do the 50 states like everybody else.
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:They're all over, right?
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:Sisters live everywhere.
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:And so I've had a couple of reach
out and be like, Hey, like let
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:me know when you're in New York.
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:Like we're gonna, like I'll be on
the course or like I even have stayed
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:with sisters and outside of like
even folks I went to college with.
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:Because I am involved more
in that like national space.
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:So even, you know, Oh,
I'm going to be there.
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:I'm going to be in this part of town.
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:Like, please come stay with me.
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:You know, so definitely like has saved
me a little bit in, in traveling about.
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:And I mean, even one friend had me
cracking up cause I was like, Oh,
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:like I'm going to Cincinnati and, and
I'm pretty sure Sophie lives there.
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:And like, I ended up running the queen
bee out in Cincinnati and the flying pig.
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:And both times, you know, I caught
like when I get everything booked,
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:I'm like, Hey, Sophie, I'm coming out.
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:I'd love to block off at least like
half a day to see you before the
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:race or after like, let's hang out.
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:And so it kind of has been like not
only traveling, but also kind of
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:reconnecting with folks that maybe you
haven't seen in a couple of years either.
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:Andrew: So when you're going around and
you're receiving this this support I
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:think there's a lot to be said that when
A running journey begins or when a running
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:journey is fostered from that kind of
support it really then kind of works its
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:way back to the support that you offer and
I and I mean It's it might not be the same
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:for all different types of personalities.
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:From You seem like a very outgoing
personality, but I can imagine
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:that support that you receive.
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:How much about your current journey,
and we'll get to that in a minute, but
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:how much about your current journey?
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:Of being supportive, of being there for
athletes that you coach or being there
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:for fellow members of your run club?
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:I mean, I'm, I'm guessing you're
attributing that a lot to what
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:you experienced in the early part.
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:How are you trying to emulate sort
of those experiences that you got
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:early on as you're now fostering this
love for this sport in other people?
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:Mm-Hmm.
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:Nikkia: Yeah, so I will say a lot, like
some of my experiences were not positive.
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:And so I wanted to flip that
energy back and provide that
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:space that maybe I did not have.
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:You know, not everybody is welcoming
to a slower runner in general.
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:And I've obviously, I've
gotten slower over the years.
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:It's funny because people assume like,
Oh, you'll, you'll keep getting faster.
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:You keep getting faster.
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:That's not always necessarily the case,
regardless of injury, what have you.
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:But I will say like being able
to flip those experiences and be
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:like, Oh, or seeing where there's
a gap, not necessarily being like,
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:Oh, this wasn't there for me.
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:So I'm mad about it.
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:But more of a like, Hey, I just
noticed that we are missing a sweeper
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:at the end of our race events.
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:Let's start having that.
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:Like, you know, like what is the impact
of someone that's traveling to an event?
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:Not, you know, they
might not know the area.
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:They just signed up for
something on a whim.
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:We want to make sure
we're supporting that.
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:So.
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:I'm trying to not only like, you know,
collect and hold on and then push back
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:out all the positive, but also see how we
can continue to enhance that experience.
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:Specifically what a lot of my focus right
now is the novice or back of the pack
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:runner or the runner that's coming back
from maybe an injury or some time off.
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:Those are my key core folks right now.
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:Because, you know, even with the
half marathon walking team, what's
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:funny about the walking team is
there are people on the walking
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:team that walk faster than I run.
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:And I mean, like they're speedy.
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:They run, they walk a 13 minute pace.
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:They look like they're
like out on the beach.
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:They're having a good time.
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:And I'm like, you do realize
that you are very fast.
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:And just by changing the word,
Oh, we're half marathon team.
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:And by saying, Oh, we're
half marathon walking team.
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:Now they feel comfortable
enough to be there.
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:Whereas they, they could have
beat the time limit before, right.
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:They, But it is that the
intentionality of the word walking
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:that made them feel welcome enough
to then sign up and then show up.
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:Andrew: Well, and I mean, it's a,
it's a, it is just a huge thing
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:in the running community that we
be able to create a space where
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:a lot of folks can feel welcome.
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:And, you know, it's one of the things
that I often talk about down here with
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:like a lot of the j and a races is, you
know, be the person who goes and drops
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:a a 16 minute 5K, but also recognize
that there are people out there who
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:are doing a 5K in 60, 70 minutes.
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:And we recognize that like both
accomplishments are really great in their
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:own right and you know to see a lot of
the folks like being there You know, I
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:I know even for me when I did my when
I did my half marathon pr at shamrock
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:Not this not this past one But the
one before that, you know I still made
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:sure and I wanted to be out there like
cheering folks on As they were finishing
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:because I mean I did my marriage.
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:I did my half marathon I still had to
wait for the first marathon to finishers
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:to finish You Let alone like some of
the folks, you know, who are, who are,
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:you know, coming in and it's, it might
be the first time they've done 13
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:miles, might be their first marathon.
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:And, and I mean, those are just such
awesome accomplishments to be able to
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:celebrate alongside people, because that's
kind of the space that we want to create.
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:You know, it can be so easy to gatekeep.
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:An activity.
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:Nikkia: simple.
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:It's so, and it, and not
intentionally, right.
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:Cause that's the thing.
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:I think a lot of times, you know,
I, because we work like Richmond
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:Roadrunners Club also works with
a lot of other running clubs.
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:And then I'm also involved in the RCA,
which is the Roadrunners Club of America.
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:And, you know, some of those conversations
that you, they have at the board meetings.
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:It's just, oh, wait a minute, like,
are we potentially cutting off a
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:population without realizing it?
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:And that's why you bring, you know, those
different perspectives to the table.
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:And, you know, ask your community,
like, what they want, or trying to,
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:like, figure that out, whether it's
through, like, surveys, or, like,
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:focus groups, like, trying to figure
out, like, what do people want?
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:And even just kind of having an
open ear to the community, right?
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:Because, sometimes you get
feedback and you're like, Ooh,
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:that's done, but you're not wrong.
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:So then you have to, be like, okay,
well, like what can we logistically do?
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:That's not gonna, you know,
flame out volunteers as well.
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:Cause that's the hard part of
the balance is, what can we do?
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:And then what is realistic given
You know, whether it's, you know,
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:a race location or time limits,
are we bound by what the, the, the
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:files and all that stuff, you know,
permits, are we, what are we bound to?
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:And then what can we negotiate?
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:Andrew: Yeah.
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:And, and to be able to create that space
for folks to be able to experience it,
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:I think it enhances even the experience
for everybody throughout the field.
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:Whether you're front, middle,
back whether you are, like,
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:sprinting jogging, or even walking.
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:I mean, I can't tell you how many How
much like appreciation we get from a lot
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:of folks in our run club because you know
We have this one guy who started showing
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:up early on and he is he is our walker.
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:And he's just like hey who's walking
like anybody who's walking and now we
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:got like a group of like five or six who
walk, and we even have people ask like,
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:Oh, do you have anybody who like, just
wants to walk like one or two miles?
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:I'm like, yes, we do.
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:And you know, unintentionally you create
things and you're just like, there
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:are things you don't even think about.
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:And so let's start with
Richmond roadrunners.
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:Cause I think a lot of listeners will be
familiar because I have had Chris on and
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:I've had a couple of other folks from
Richmond who have come on and, and you're
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:one of and you're one of the Richmond
roadrunners or the current president.
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:What led to this involvement
in Richmond Roadrunners?
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:Was it completely and totally
because you wanted to break through
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:and make sure there are space
created for people who are like you?
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:Was it more of a, I felt
like, they needed somebody.
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:And so I just stepped in.
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:So what kind of went into beginning,
because being from Richmond,
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:that's probably where a lot of this
more like national stuff begins.
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:And so what kind of led to your
involvement with the Richmond Roadrunners?
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:Nikkia: So you know, it's
always, it's always fun.
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:Cause I am a serial volunteer.
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:I am a professional volunteer,
you know, like I have a, I have a
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:job job, but I love to volunteer.
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:So I still get back to my sorority.
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:I still get back to the rec club.
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:I still get, there's all these
different places in my life where I'm
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:like, you know, while I have like the
freedom, I currently don't have any
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:children or a husband or anything.
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:So like while I have those things,
that time, that freedom, I want to
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:kind of put that energy back into.
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:These pieces and parts of the world.
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:Right.
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:So I had been showing up to a couple
of different races, you know, and you
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:don't really realize, especially like
early in your running journey you know,
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:you just kind of like, Oh, I looked
up online and it said there was this
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:race in this event and you don't really
understand all the organizational pieces.
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:Like you don't know the difference
between sports backers and RFC.
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:And so I signed up for a couple races.
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:I kind of kept showing up and then
they're like, you know, if you
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:sign up as a member, you can save
some money and I'm like, Oh, great.
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:You know, and at that time, like
I was fresh out of college and
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:definitely needed to save money, but
love this whole like writing idea.
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:The races were cheap and you know,
you keep showing up and people
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:are like, Hey, would you like
to, you know, be a race director?
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:And it's like, well, how hard could it be?
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:What, you know, what?
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:Yeah.
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:You know, similar to the
start of my running journey.
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:Like, oh, you know, I guess I
could double it and run further.
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:It's like, oh, okay, I can put on, I
can, I know how to put on an event.
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:I've done that before.
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:And so, you know, started as
a race director, was a race
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:director for a couple events.
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:Even actually did some girls
on the run 5Ks that I put on.
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:And I'm now a board member
on that board as well.
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:And then you know, just They started
there and then it was like, oh we need
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:a treasurer and of course like I was
at the time I was a financial analyst.
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:There's a very big difference between
a financial analyst and a like cpa
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:bookkeeper type But we got through it.
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a lot going on at the time.
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:We had over 22 races you know, four
different training teams, just, you
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:know, money coming, money going,
we're, you know, moving things around.
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:So there's a lot of work there.
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:And then when I was treasurer,
the entire executive board,
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:except for me, was rolling off.
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:And I figured.
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:You know, I've been involved, I know
most of the aspects of the club you
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:know, not like I can go out there
and do every single one of them, but
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:I, I have a general knowledge about
everything that's going on, so I was
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:like, I'll run for president and then
we pulled in a full new executive board.
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:And that was December, 2019.
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:And I'm thinking like, we're going to
do, we're going to change the game.
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:We're going to do all these cool things.
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:That's going to be so great.
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:And March hits and
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:Andrew: Oh,
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:Nikkia: having to cancel.
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:I mean, cause I mean,
spring used to be our big.
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:You know, like it's almost every
other weekend we would have an event.
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:We've got a winter marathon theme going.
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:We, there's so much happening.
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:And I mean, we had to cancel and at
the time the guidance had been like,
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:don't have virtual events and, you know,
Virginia being as locked down as we were.
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:We really couldn't even tell people
to gather together to run together
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:because it was like groups of five
or less points of the lockdown.
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:So, you know, you're thinking
like, what do we even do?
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:Like, are we paralyzed by fear?
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:So, once we got the clearance and like,
May, June, we were able to flip a lot
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:of our races to be virtual, but of
course that's not what people wanted.
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:And being president through
that transition was a lot.
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:And so I kind of took a big step back
afterward because I was just so flamed
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:out from that, like 2020 to 2021.
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:I was like, you know what, it's
time I need to take a step back.
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:And that's where Rainy actually
came in and kind of, Really bridge
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:the gap in a lot of ways, took
more of that nonprofit viewpoint.
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:And then for me she kind of
created it to be more of a
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:safe space for me to come back.
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:So we've kind of been
passing it back and forth.
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:But I'm really, I'm, I'm
happy to be back now.
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:Cause I feel like we can take all of the,
all of what we learned from the pandemic.
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:What we learned from having Rainey's
like non profit structure and then
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:seeing how we can kind of layer in
some more Continuity because that's
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:the hardest part I can With volunteer
organizations, regardless of what like
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:atmosphere of that organization it is
in we're seeing it across the board.
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:You know, whether you're on a nonprofit
board, whether you're on a working board,
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:it doesn't matter what the cause is.
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:Everybody's kind of struggling to either
find volunteers or keep volunteers.
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:Because I think a lot of
folks are just burned out.
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:So.
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:Wanting to make sure that we not
only create a fun space where we're
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:providing fun races and events and
groups, but also making sure that we're
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:taking care of our volunteers too.
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:Because, until May, we will be
completely volunteer run for the
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:last, you know, 40 plus years.
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:We are hiring our first executive
director, which I really hope I think
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:will help with that continuity and
also further support that volunteer
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:structure to do all the other things.
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:Andrew: And it becomes such an
important role and task to like
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:be able to parse everything out To
make sure all the needs are being
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:met I remember that time in 2019.
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:I was part of race team rva and we
Definitely had a nice little fun
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:time trying to figure everything out.
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:That was right before I moved to in 2020.
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:And so, you're going through this
process as, race directing as treasurer,
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:you've been serving as president.
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:And so what then becomes this
catalyst for game changers?
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:you talk about it a little bit for
women of color and kind of breaking
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:through in the running scene, and so,
You bring this experience of being a
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:runner you know, as you said, kind of
being more of a back of the pack runner
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:but also being a runner who is not often
well represented folks, remember my
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:conversation with James, you know, there's
literally a list of black female runners.
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:Who have run a marathon in under
three hours and it's like a
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:celebrated achievement for black
women because so few have done it.
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:So what becomes the
catalyst for game changers?
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:What becomes the catalyst
to become a running coach?
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:Nikkia: So I think with Game Changers,
what's cool about Game Changers?
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:So in 2020 Vanessa, who is fantastic,
and I should Connect you with her because
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:she is just a light in this community.
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:She actually by this community, I mean
women of color but she actually is out of
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:philly but she created a program called
game changers and the program basically
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:provides access And equity so that there's
more representation of women of color
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:coaches In specifically the RCA space
what a lot of people might not know about
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:RCA coaching is that while it is, you
know, you can get classes there are two
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:day sessions, but it does have a cost.
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:It's usually around 350.
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:so that is sometimes a barrier
to like, front load that.
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:And then also getting a spot in
some of those classes is so hard.
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:You think you couldn't get
into the New York city lottery.
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:Try being a certified coach through RCA.
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:And I know that they're
working on building out better
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:access for that too, right?
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:Like it's, it's hard,
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:Andrew: i'm only usatf certified
because it is so hard to get into
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:an rrca program and, I definitely
understand that side of it.
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:Nikkia: which cause in my mind, you know,
it's like, Oh, I could have eventually
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:paid the three 50, but like trying to get
into one of those classes was the fight.
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:And so providing that availability and
like blocking off a chunk of, of, of spots
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:so that women of color could come and
take the class, it makes a difference.
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:Like sometimes it's not always.
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:Monetary, right?
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:I think when we think about access, we
immediately always go to money and money
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:is important and groups need money.
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:I'm not going to say that you don't cause
everything needs money, but sometimes
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:it's literally just making the space like,
Hey, we need 18 people to go through this.
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:Oh, okay.
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:Let's block it off.
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:Let's work with, you know, RCA, let's
work with Randy and the organization.
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:So what's really neat about this program
is that it has multiple pieces, right?
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:So not just getting the
certification, but providing a
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:way to get first aid certified.
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:Cause you do need that as part of
your certification, but you know,
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:not everybody lives in a place
like Richmond where, you know, you
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:got five or six different options.
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:You can roll into a you know, a
red cross and get certified today.
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:You know, some folks are.
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:Further out some people, you know, so
providing that and then also providing
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:mentorship and accountability partners.
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:So what was really neat about this
past weekend is that I actually got
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:to meet my accountability partner.
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:She lives out in Oklahoma.
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:She's an indigenous woman named Becky.
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:And we have been like back
and forth on, on Instagram and
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:having conversations since 2020.
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:We are part of the original Game Changers
group, and since then, we have built
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:out and provided mentorship and support
to over a hundred and eight people.
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:Women of color coaches
in the last four years.
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:That's incredible.
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:Like that is, and that's a
significant statistic, right?
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:Cause I think a lot of people
will say like, Oh, there's
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:coaches all over the place.
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:Right.
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:But there is a difference for when you
are certified, you've gone through the
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:process, you likely have insurance.
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:You, cause you know, I was, I was coaching
long before I was a certified coach.
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:And that's very common in Richmond, right?
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:You know, we, we just have folks that
are passionate and ready to support.
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:And then sometimes having that
knowledge to back you up can help
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:you feel more secure in having those
conversations with folks like, Hey,
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:not only have I experienced this,
I've also taken these classes, I've
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:experienced this with other clients.
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:And so having that to
just support is great.
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:And I mean, over 22
states are represented.
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:We are, we're, it's, it's really neat.
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:So.
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:I'm excited to see how it grows.
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:I currently mentor two women.
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:I've been a mentor in the past as well.
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:And I plan to mentor as long as I
have the time and energy for it.
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:Because, you know, there's not a lot of
spaces to ask those questions, right.
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:And, you can get wrapped up in
the internet and Instagram and
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:Tik TOK and like, you know, these.
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:Fast bits of like, you know,
Oh, well you never do this.
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:You should never do that.
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:And it's like, well, actually
it really depends on the
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:athlete you're working with.
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:Cause that's really
what it's about, right?
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:It's not necessarily one size fits all.
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:And that's the beauty of running, right?
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:Is that what works for me might not
work for you and vice versa, but.
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:If we find what works for individuals,
you want to grow old with this sport, or
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:at least I know I want to, and I'm sure
you do too, you know, so I think that
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:sometimes it's, it's nice to be able
to bounce that question or bounce those
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:questions and have them answered and
be like, well, how did you set this up?
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:And it's like, actually, I didn't plan
to have those things set up, you know?
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:I think a lot of times we look on
social media and think, you know, we
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:see people's highlight reel or we see
their finished business and we see
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:their finished, you know, race prorate.
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:I mean, you're like, man,
like I could never do that.
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:And so for us as mentors, we kind
of get to tell them that, like, Hey,
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:it was not all sunshine and roses.
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:I actually had no intention
of taking personal clients.
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:But then I was like, you know what?
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:There is a need, there is a need for
folks that, maybe they want to run
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:coach, but they feel like it's, it's
not for them or they want to run coach,
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:but maybe they mostly use Peloton.
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:Like there's a very interesting, like
subset of people that are entering
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:the run space, not via run clubs or
races that they're running, they're
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:connecting from other communities.
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:That are kind of in their own bubbles,
which is really an interesting place to
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:watch and see and see people like, Oh, I
bought a treadmill and now I'm out here
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:doing, you know, 10 K's and half marathons
and fools even, you know, cause I think
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:a lot of people don't realize that not
everybody has the luxury of stepping
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:outside their front door and then running.
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:However long the distance is, right?
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:There's even some parts of, of
Richmond where I'm like, I would
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:have to, if I lived here, I would
have to drive to the nearest park and
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:then I'd have to finesse my route.
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:You know, and people need childcare,
people, you know, life, different life
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:situations call for different things.
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:So I think remembering that community
is not just what you see, but
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:it's also all these other factors
that are starting to fold in.
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:In our more technological
connection world.
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:Andrew: and especially in a city like
richmond that has experienced and
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:continues to experience the worst of
undergirded racial oppression, right?
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:You know, I mean we can talk with
you know, James and hear all the
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:stories of everything that's happened
in Charlottesville but I know
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:definitely having lived in Richmond,
you know, a lot of the racial kind
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:of things are under the surface.
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:They're not as visible as, you know,
white nationalists marching through your
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:town but it's, it's more of how the city
is built and so I think being able to Be
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:present in the community to show that this
can happen and even to the point of being
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:able to create safe spaces for folks to
be able to trust that things can happen.
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:And so I want to kind of fast forward
to where we are today when we're
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:interviewing of just coming off the back
of the Cherry Blossom 10K or 10 miler.
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:Because before we hopped on,
you were talking about being
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:up there with game changers.
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:You talked about, you know, you said
that you participated in the 5k,
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:but you had athletes in the 10 mile.
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:And so, you know, covering it from
both aspects of, you know, you
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:are a part of this race and you're
representing this brand that is.
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:Trying to bust in to the running space
to create space for women of color.
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:But then also you are a coach for a
lot of these women of color who are
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:coming in and running in this space.
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:So from both, so what did it
mean for you to participate?
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:In the 5k sort of as an ambassador for
this For game changers and then what did
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:it mean for you to also be able to coach?
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:Some of the women who are accomplishing
the task of both the 5k and the 10 miler.
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:Nikkia: So I actually didn't
coach anybody that was in the
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:Andrew: Oh, okay.
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:I thought you said you had
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:Nikkia: So they're also coach,
they're, they're mentor.
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:So I'm actually, I'm mentoring other
coaches, which is a very neat spot.
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:Cause coaching the coaches,
you know, coaches need coaches.
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:I think a lot of people assume like.
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:Once you become a coach, you're
like, Oh, I'm good to go.
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:No, no, I highly, I coaches probably
need coaches more so than people that
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:are just out here living the dream.
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:But I will say like being there
and representing and there was
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:a really neat moment at the 5k.
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:I couldn't make any of the meetups because
I just was struggling to be time bound.
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:But I got into the crowd.
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:We're talking to people we've, you
know, I had met up with someone else
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:from Richmond who is not in the program
and she was like walking in her boot.
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:I was like, you know what?
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:I will walk with you.
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:That is fine.
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:I did my long run on Friday.
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:So we had a conversation.
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:We're standing in there.
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:We're talking.
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:And I turn and I look behind me
because the corral was a little
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:packed on the 5k situation.
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:And I looked at, and I'm, I'm looking
in this woman's face and I'm like,
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:I know you, you know, and of course,
like you, you gather all these faces
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:and people over time and you're
like, Oh, and I did a double take.
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:And then the other woman that was standing
with her goes, Hey, you're Nikita, right?
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:And I'm like, I am.
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:And she's like, you're a game changer.
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:I was like, yes, because I could not
place them because, you know, everybody
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:looks different when we've been meeting
on zoom screens for the last four years.
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:And then you turn, I kept turning.
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:And then there's two more people.
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:So another one's a game changer.
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:She's also an ambassador
for cherry blossom.
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:And then you've got pray
love DC or eat, run, pray DC.
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:And I'm like, girl, I haven't seen
you since, you know, Richmond.
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:And it's so funny because once again, I've
met most of these people virtually, I've
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:not met many of these people in person.
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:So it's just so funny to have
like that presence of like,
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:Oh, people do know who I am.
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:Right.
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:Like and feeling comfortable in that.
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:Cause I think a lot of folks don't,
you know, Either they're trying to
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:like, oh, I'm just going to focus on
the race, but then like having that
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:like, oh, that's just such a nice
way to like, start an event, right?
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:Is, oh, like people, you know, people
around you, you may not have started
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:the race with like, maybe like
get past the start line with them.
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:But be like, so good seeing you.
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:Like, I'll see you at the panel.
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:I'll see you at the thing.
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:That connection was really kind of a
nice way to like start that and then
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:seeing folks on the course being able
to like point out and be like, Hey,
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:like I'll see you in a couple minutes.
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:Like I'll see you at the finish.
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:And, and it was just, it was, it
was a lot of really good energy.
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:Andrew: Mm hmm.
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:Nikkia: And I love, I love
meeting people in corrals.
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:Like I love having like little
conversations with folks.
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:But then like, just be like, Oh,
this is a good way to, to reconnect
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:with folks and see folks in person,
which is, you know, so different.
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:Andrew: And I mean, it's, it's just so
interesting how that connection almost
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:happens just organically sometimes
how, you know, they, they shove us
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:in these corrals with 5000 people.
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:And we're able to kind of, at
some point in time, meet 2 or 3.
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:And then even along the course, it's
like, it's not shared trauma, but there's
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:something that's shared about the journey.
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:And to be able to, to be able to
gather together and to be able to
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:do that and to be able to grow along
the process with others around us.
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:And so as you're, as you're looking out
and you're kind of reflecting on both kind
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:of where you've been and sort of even,
you know, what happened this last weekend
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:at Cherry Blossom, you know, what's
happened at, at Richmond and all these
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:other races, you look towards mentoring.
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:You know, what is the,
what is that difficulty?
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:What is that struggle?
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:What are those, what are those things
that, that you just, you want to, you want
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:so bad for them to, to be there as you
continue in, in working in this space?
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:Nikkia: I personally, I will stand
on this soap box all day long.
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:I want longer time limits.
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:And I mean that in the
nicest way possible.
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:Now, also as a race writer, I do
recognize that you are at the limits of
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:what the police allow you to do because
the permits and the roads, I get it.
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:I don't want people to,
you know, I get that.
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:I understand that.
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:And I've actually been the guest
to like, help explain that.
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:Cause right.
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:People are like, you can
leave the roads open all day.
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:And I'm like, actually like, here's
the story and here's how much it costs.
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:And, and, you know, so I, I, but
I would love for things to be
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:more 18 to 20 minute time limit.
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:And here's why.
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:Not only because even though I've been
running for 10 years now, I still, I, I
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:hang out in that 17 to 18 minute pace.
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:But also because I think that if
people had more time, they would feel
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:more willing to hop into an event.
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:And you know, you always need that
gateway event for some folks, right?
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:Like, no, granted, it does
not matter what race it is.
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:I am going to be passed by a
woman with a stroller and usually
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:one to two children in it.
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:I am going to be passed by a 75
year old man in a pair of jeans.
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:It's going to happen.
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:I mean, like, it is impressive.
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:It's one of those things where you're
like, I want to be you one day.
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:But, you know, I would love
to see longer time limits on,
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:on the longer events, right?
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:You know, barring that it doesn't
disrupt traffic and things like that.
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:But I would love to see longer terms
on some events because I think what
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:happens is that When we think of that
time limit, especially as like race
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:organizers, people have a tendency
to try to rush the end to remember.
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:We want to have the same experience and
the same excitement for the front, right?
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:Celebrating running excellence.
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:I, I want to celebrate it.
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:I love that people are fast and are,
you know, and are out there winning.
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:I also want to make sure that
my folks in the back are.
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:Also being supported also have fuel also
have water also, you know If you have
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:this niche thing on the course, like
for example, like the norfolk harbor
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:lights race, you know Oh, we have pie
at this event and they did have pie for
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:the back You know it makes a difference
because I think what a lot of folks
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:When they look at pamphlets and stuff
and they're like, oh that looks like
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:so much of a good fun experience But
when your experience ends up not being
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:what the pamphlet says You It hurts.
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:You feel like you didn't
get what you paid for.
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:And then it also kind of steers you
away from maybe even trying something
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:else in your own local community
if you traveled for something.
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:So that is my, that is my one
thing that I was like, I would
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:love to see us change more.
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:So I would also love to see
less fat phobia, like less
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:focus on the runner body.
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:What if people can't figure out
I'm a plus size black woman.
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:I am I am large And in charge, but I I
feel like you know, you know, even if
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:it's just like being able to find Fitness
clothing that fits well and fits well
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:consistently like I think a lot of folks
like oh, we'll just lose the weight
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:It's like well you need something to
wear While you're on your way to losing
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:the weight like there's so many pieces
and you know It can get expensive like
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:we're very like we're lucky to have some
of those like discount brands But you
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:know even just thinking about oh you
you signed up for a race And the largest
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:race shirt is like maybe a men's large.
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:Andrew: Yeah.
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:Nikkia: what does that tell me about
my belonging in this community?
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:Right.
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:Or, you know, the sizing is terrible,
but I feel like that's also a, I
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:feel like everybody feels that way.
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:Like, I don't
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:Andrew: That's a
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:Nikkia: what size you are.
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:Andrew: Yeah.
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:Nikkia: you know, making sure that like,
Oh, like, you know, maybe it does cost
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:a couple extra dollars, but is that,
Folding in more people because what's
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:the best way to market an event, right?
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:Is that the shirt that you provided
gets worn again, maybe to another event,
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:maybe to something else but you know
just remembering those things about
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:belonging and remembering like, you know
Just because a body looks a certain way
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:doesn't mean that it isn't capable, right?
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:I'm so grateful that this body in its
current form Has carried me hundreds
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:of miles, maybe over a thousand at
this point, you know, and, and the,
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:the things that it does, I can lift,
I can run, I can do all these things.
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:And a lot of us are grateful
for where we're at today because
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:people don't know, you know, you're
seeing what you're seeing today.
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:You're not seeing the whole journey.
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:So I think a lot of times people are quick
to be like, Oh, well, you'll get there.
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:And it's like, what's there?
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:Andrew: Yeah,
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:Nikkia: I am here.
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:This is me today and I'm going
to love me today and I'm going to
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:hope I'm going to continue to build
and work and grow for tomorrow.
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:But you know, it's okay to love
today and love where we're at today.
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:And not always be
necessarily striving for.
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:What else?
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:Right?
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:Because that can also flame us
out from that runner mindset.
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:Andrew: And again, it becomes a barrier.
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:And, and I think what I want to see
more than anything in this community
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:is that we kind of get away from these
barriers of what we think a runner
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:should look like and what we think a
runner should act like, and I mean,
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:Walkers like y'all are runners like I
don't care you're participating in the
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:same events we're doing you're doing
the distance It's taking you two three
778
:times the time like I cannot tell you
how much respect I have for people who
779
:are doing marathons and it's taking them
seven or eight hours Like you are out
780
:on that course for So long in enduring
everything and and I mean, it's a it's
781
:a testament to how much Care is given.
782
:How big of a desire for you
all wanting to be there?
783
:Whether you want that to to be your PR
forever or you want to better it like
784
:You're out there doing the thing and you
know, I always I get irritated when people
785
:are like Oh, you know, you'll get faster.
786
:You'll get stronger and i'm like, you know
for me I have ways that I push myself and
787
:yes, like someday i'd love to run, you
know x in a half marathon or 10k but I
788
:think that also like you said like there's
so much Respect That needs to be put on
789
:being happy where you are and The progress
that you do eventually make being made
790
:because it's just it's something that you
want to do Not because it's a pressure
791
:that someone else is putting on you I
think of how many folks are in that space
792
:of trying to Make sure that folks feel
welcome in their running spaces And so I
793
:wonder, you know, I mean, you talk about,
you know, making sure that from front to
794
:back, you know, we don't have we don't
have, you know, quickest finish times.
795
:I don't know.
796
:Like you cannot run this race unless
your 5k is slower than 25 minutes.
797
:You know, we don't have that.
798
:And again, like, there are other
logistical things that go into those
799
:kinds of things, but are we even asking
the questions of how are we making
800
:this space as inclusive as possible for
anybody who wants to participate because
801
:we don't want to be we don't want to
be the reason and like, you know When
802
:I talked to john lamagda at rain, etc.
803
:And i've talked to to jeff at lucky
road as well It's you know When we
804
:think about the places where there can
be gatekeeping like those are the most
805
:important places to make sure that things
are inclusive It's like, you know We
806
:need to make sure that we're creating
space for people to feel like they can
807
:participate in this activity because,
whether they, I mean, and then even
808
:whether they lose weight or not, like,
I, I cannot tell you, I mean, I'm not,
809
:I'm not skinny by any means, I'm also
not like fat by any means, if you look
810
:at my BMI, I'm obese, but like, you know,
I carry a good bit of dad weight, and,
811
:and I've just gotten comfortable with it.
812
:I mean, I had someone ask me
like, what's your racing weight?
813
:I'm like, well, I don't really know.
814
:Like, that's a malarkey thing.
815
:But it's like, I feel comfortable here.
816
:If I'm going for a big PR, yeah, I'll
slim down, but only really because
817
:I'm running so much mileage and speed
work, but also, I think the better
818
:question is like, are you having fun?
819
:And what that looks like?
820
:Nikkia: Like joyful movement is
literally, I mean, 'cause you know,
821
:maybe running, walking, whatever
is like not for somebody, right?
822
:But I, I'm always like, look, find
what, make what gives you joy.
823
:And then do that and then, you
know, and, and enjoy that movement.
824
:It doesn't have to be
for anything, you know.
825
:Because we all know, like, oh, we've
gone out for a walk and been like, wow,
826
:I do feel better, you know, like, or you
go out and you, you take a Zumba class
827
:and you're like, you know what, I almost
didn't do that, but that was a good time.
828
:And so I, I want people to really just
fall into this, like, movement that feels
829
:good just for the sake of feeling good
and having a good time and like, you know.
830
:That helps with all those health
outcomes that people are so, so worried
831
:about on the internet about people
and strangers that they don't know.
832
:But you know, like, it's just, I feel like
we have to bring the joy back to running.
833
:I think it's made a resurgence.
834
:I think race cations, I think run crews,
I think run groups are helping with that.
835
:But really just remembering like,
Oh, This is supposed to be a hobby.
836
:This isn't supposed to like, I'm not
supposed to tie my morality to this.
837
:You know, I'm supposed
to be having a good time.
838
:Like I, I, I'm not getting my,
usually you're not getting your
839
:health insurance from this situation.
840
:Or you're not, you don't need the
prize money to, to feed your family.
841
:This is a hobby.
842
:And so I think we have to
remember that piece of it too.
843
:Right.
844
:It's like we're, we're supposed
to have an enjoy ourselves.
845
:And also you want it to be a
longterm or at least I know I want
846
:it to be a longterm thing, right?
847
:I want to be able to do this.
848
:Until I literally qualify for Boston
by age alone just living long enough,
849
:Andrew: say.
850
:understand.
851
:I don't understand why I have to do all
the work to meet a boston qualifier.
852
:I feel like the boston qualifier
needs to do a little work as well
853
:Like I don't mind getting to a certain
point but at some point in time we're
854
:going to need to meet in the middle
855
:Nikkia: we're going to
have to meet in the middle.
856
:Like, and it's not having
it with that fundraiser.
857
:Cause I know somebody in Richmond.
858
:Who has raised over 16, 000.
859
:And I'm impressed.
860
:I am.
861
:I'm very impressed.
862
:But that is literally someone's full time.
863
:That's a full time job.
864
:If you're, you're running a
marathon and fundraising full time
865
:job, I, you are better than me.
866
:Andrew: no, I think this is a, I
mean, this is just a, this is a
867
:whole conversation that kind of
leads us down the path of, what does
868
:the future of running look like?
869
:You know, I think when we look at the
resurgence of the running boom in the 60s
870
:and 70s, you know, we see this hopeful
optimism of just, you know, running being
871
:a pathway to quote unquote, healthiness.
872
:But we don't see it as a way of living.
873
:And I think we're starting to see
that kind of shift and transform.
874
:And as much grief as
they get for doing it.
875
:When I interviewed Jay and Amy, they
talked about getting rid of prize money
876
:at Shamrock and they talk about it being
one of the best decisions because they
877
:could invest more money in the fun parts
of the race, they could, they could
878
:put money in the fun parts of the race,
making sure that there was a lot of
879
:course support that people are on the
course with water stops or cheering,
880
:like right, creating the run club alley.
881
:And then even putting a lot of money
into their after parties where people
882
:can celebrate the fact that they did
the thing and they crushed the thing.
883
:It doesn't matter where they finished.
884
:And so I, and so I wonder as we, as
we move forward, and as we look at the
885
:landscape of what running looks like.
886
:We talk about what it means to be more
inclusive and creating, wider finishing,
887
:not standards, but wider finishing
openings for people to be able to take
888
:longer in races, if that's their ability.
889
:We talk about, the access to things,
just the things that we need to run.
890
:Running is a simple sport.
891
:It does only need a good pair of
running shoes, but at some point in
892
:time, The good pair of running shoes
is only going to take you so far.
893
:And so you do need some of the other
stuff to kind of continue the journey.
894
:And so how do we make
that stuff accessible?
895
:So as you look at this, as you look
at this landscape, and as you think
896
:about maybe, where you're going in the
future, not just with game changers,
897
:not just with Richmond Roadrunners,
but as you think about going into
898
:the future, and you think about these
accessibility things, you talk about
899
:your hopes, you talk about dreams.
900
:What is the dream for Nikia?
901
:Who is nikia?
902
:Who do you want nikia to be?
903
:On the run and not necessarily
like you're running races, but
904
:just like in the running space.
905
:Who do you see yourself
being in this space?
906
:Yeah,
907
:Nikkia: I would love for people to
see me, not only as a like wealth
908
:of knowledge in, in the sport and,
and recognize that that doesn't
909
:necessarily mean like, oh, like Yeah.
910
:Oh, it's because she won X, Y, Z.
911
:Right.
912
:My, I would hope my accolades
are more tangible than that.
913
:Right.
914
:My accolades would be that I left the
running scene, whether it's Richmond,
915
:whether it's a national scene better
than I found it, that, you know, you
916
:know, you think about like, what are
they going to say in your eulogy?
917
:And maybe that's a very morbid thing
to say, but like, you know, I want that
918
:to be like, Hey, she, she, she wanted
and fought for and tried to, you know,
919
:Build out the process and the policies
and all those things to try and better
920
:support that next generation of runners.
921
:And it doesn't necessarily need to
be runners that look like me, right?
922
:Because if some, for example, I
feel like a lot of people have
923
:seen me and been like, okay, if
she can do it, then I can do it.
924
:Like, and it, and I'm not barred,
like, getting into, like, the
925
:inspiration, like, you know, that, cause
sometimes that can get a little icky.
926
:But I think that sometimes you
don't realize what people need
927
:to see until they've seen it.
928
:So, if by seeing me out there and
being like, hey, I, I've done this.
929
:This is where I was at being
honest and open about my journey.
930
:And then that impacts someone else to
either just give it a shot just to try.
931
:I just want to leave this running
space better than I found it.
932
:And not even saying that is bad, right?
933
:Cause who would stick
around if it was that bad?
934
:So, you know, leaving things better than
I found them is really kind of the goal.
935
:And it's a running theme
through my entire life, right?
936
:Is that I want to make sure.
937
:Not only are we making space for that
next generation, but making it more
938
:enjoyable for that next generation, making
it a space where people feel like, oh,
939
:they walk in and it's not a question.
940
:It's not, where did you come from?
941
:It's not, who did you support?
942
:It's, oh, they're here.
943
:And that's what I hope
for, for the future.
944
:Andrew: yeah, and I mean, you even
talked like early on, like you're, you're
945
:beginning to run journey was not the
best, like you, you, you had some ups and
946
:downs and I think that, you know, there's
places for all of us to learn in that,
947
:like, okay, it doesn't need to be perfect,
but I think we can always be striving
948
:to make it better than what it is.
949
:And so what that means for us as
we move forward, I mean, I love
950
:just the visibility of everything,
like, We need to be out there.
951
:We need to be living.
952
:We need to be existing.
953
:We need to, like James said,
we need to take up space and
954
:not be afraid to take up space.
955
:So I mean, it's, I mean, it sounds simple.
956
:I mean, it kind of is, but it's
also like incredibly difficult.
957
:So, all right, well, let's, let's hit
these end of podcast questions here.
958
:So Nikita, what is your
favorite race distance?
959
:Nikkia: Ooh, you know, the half
marathon, absolutely, because you can
960
:still, you can, you can run your race
and still party through the afternoon.
961
:Get that early bedtime.
962
:Andrew: What is your favorite
thing to eat post run?
963
:Nikkia: Ooh.
964
:Okay.
965
:So there's my bougie meal is steak frites.
966
:I love, it just feels like it nourishes
you, it gets everything back to you.
967
:But yeah, steak frites is the,
the post like long run meal.
968
:Andrew: What is, what is
something interesting that
969
:has happened to you on a run?
970
:Nikkia: there was one time when I was
training for one of my marathons and I
971
:had left my neighborhood and I live in
South Side of Richmond, Forest Hill.
972
:And I saw some guys that were
doing like the sanitation work.
973
:They aren't normally out on Saturday,
but they were out this day and they
974
:saw me and they waved and they were
like, yeah, good job, good job.
975
:And that day was one of those long days.
976
:And so I was out on like,
I ended up on Grove Avenue.
977
:Cause it was, it was a long day.
978
:So I had gone like across the
river a little bit and into some
979
:neighborhoods and they were there too.
980
:And they were like, were you
the person we saw earlier today?
981
:I was like, yeah, it was me.
982
:And they were like, you okay?
983
:But it was just really nice.
984
:I would say we're very lucky.
985
:Our, our sanitation workers in
Richmond are very, very friendly.
986
:So
987
:Andrew: all right.
988
:And then last question, why
should someone find and join
989
:their local run group for a run?
990
:Nikkia: it will open up
an entire world to you.
991
:Let me tell you, I, if someone had
told me that most of my friends would
992
:end up being my parents age that, you
know, that these people not only will
993
:run with you, they will cry with you.
994
:They will laugh with you.
995
:They will take you to the
hospital when you need it.
996
:They will use their run stores
trailer to move you from your
997
:first apartment to your first home.
998
:Thanks Jeff and Desiree.
999
:The Lucky Road trailer has moved
furniture to my house more than once.
:
00:53:19,716 --> 00:53:22,156
So, you know, it's that
kind of stuff, right?
:
00:53:22,156 --> 00:53:25,136
It's more than just a, oh,
I run with these people.
:
00:53:25,136 --> 00:53:28,756
Like, they are, they are weaved
into the fabric of my life.
:
00:53:28,796 --> 00:53:31,836
And, you know, it's so funny
because my mom's like, You know, I
:
00:53:31,836 --> 00:53:34,126
always, she prays over her children.
:
00:53:34,126 --> 00:53:35,086
She prays over all of us.
:
00:53:35,086 --> 00:53:37,556
And she was like, you know, one
of the things I prayed for sending
:
00:53:37,556 --> 00:53:41,766
you to Richmond was that you
would have a, you'd have support
:
00:53:41,786 --> 00:53:42,876
and you'd have a support system.
:
00:53:42,876 --> 00:53:45,236
And I'm like, I probably couldn't
have paid for a better one.
:
00:53:45,236 --> 00:53:48,386
So clearly the prayers worked
cause they have been there.
:
00:53:48,576 --> 00:53:51,066
And it doesn't matter how
long between you see people.
:
00:53:51,516 --> 00:53:54,566
They you know, when you do catch them
at that event or you see them again
:
00:53:54,566 --> 00:53:56,316
and like, Hey, what you doing next?
:
00:53:56,316 --> 00:53:56,736
I don't know.
:
00:53:56,736 --> 00:53:58,986
You know, it's just, it's so different.
:
00:53:58,996 --> 00:54:01,536
And I know that, you know, everybody's
like my run comes the best, but I
:
00:54:01,536 --> 00:54:06,366
will say Richmond's running community
is, has come a long way, even in
:
00:54:06,366 --> 00:54:10,966
the last 10 years and I'm excited to
see where it heads for the next 10.
:
00:54:12,211 --> 00:54:17,581
Andrew: And I mean, I think that that is a
wish that just about any community has is,
:
00:54:17,582 --> 00:54:22,576
you know, It's, it's interesting having
moved from, you know, Richmond to Hampton
:
00:54:22,576 --> 00:54:26,816
roads and having left Hampton roads, you
know, I grew up in Hampton roads, a group
:
00:54:26,816 --> 00:54:30,236
of GB since I often talk like the Hampton
roads I left is not the Hampton roads
:
00:54:30,236 --> 00:54:34,316
that came back to and the Hampton roads
that came back to had such a great space.
:
00:54:34,316 --> 00:54:39,686
But then you also have Richmond who like
really just re fostered this whole love
:
00:54:39,706 --> 00:54:43,906
of running just because of the people
around there who created the space.
:
00:54:43,906 --> 00:54:48,226
And so, you know, I love that
sentiment because you never know.
:
00:54:48,691 --> 00:54:50,171
Where this journey is going to lead.
:
00:54:50,181 --> 00:54:54,061
But I think when we start to look at it
now, like we hope that the answer is,
:
00:54:54,061 --> 00:54:58,281
is that when they come and they join
us, they will see a place that they know
:
00:54:58,281 --> 00:54:59,551
it's going to lead to something great.
:
00:54:59,571 --> 00:55:02,481
So well, Nikia, thank
you so much for joining.
:
00:55:02,721 --> 00:55:06,731
I mean, this is probably not going
to be the last conversation we have.
:
00:55:06,741 --> 00:55:07,871
I do not think so.
:
00:55:07,911 --> 00:55:10,491
I think we're going to have to get
you back probably after Richmond
:
00:55:10,501 --> 00:55:12,111
and have a lot more conversation.
:
00:55:12,561 --> 00:55:13,981
But Nikki, it's been great having you on.
:
00:55:13,991 --> 00:55:14,911
Thank you so much.
:
00:55:15,526 --> 00:55:16,346
Nikkia: Thank you.