The true definition of the words we use sometimes escapes us when we use them, or we just don't consider their meaning in detail. We often find the words we choose not to be the perfect fit for the moment, but we use them anyway with little thought as to the appropriateness of our choice of words. In this episode, I will look closer at the words “change” and “reveal” as they are associated with the word grief. The base question regarding these words is deceptively simple; “Does grief change you or does grief reveal you?” Better yet, have you ever considered that grief can actually reveal you, or something in you, that you otherwise hadn’t been aware existed? Let's discuss how or why grief might change you and reveal you as you walk your own path with loss.