This week topics include: Botham Jean’s murder being convicted and what grief & forgiveness look like, trolling marginalized groups of people under the guise of “I just wanna understand” when really all you want to do is make jokes, Sober October, can Latina people say the N-Word?, annnndddd Pandora’s Box gets a little personal as the ladies discuss the ever prevalent question: spit or swallow? (Outro: Daisha McBride — If You Really Knew Me)