ADHD Coach Katherine Sanders
In this episode of ADHD: Powerful Possibilities, Katherine explores why traditional productivity systems fail for those of us with ADHD.
We explore the struggles many ADHD brains face when trying to follow typical planning methods and shares practical, ADHD-friendly alternatives to make productivity more flexible, sustainable, and enjoyable.
🐸 If you've ever felt frustrated with traditional advice like "eat the frog," this episode is here to provide you with insights and supportive strategies that actually work.
🧡 Key Points Discussed:
Why Traditional Productivity Systems Fall Short for ADHD Brains
The Role of Executive Dysfunction in Productivity Struggles
Understanding Dopamine and Motivation
Then we explore alternative, ADHD-Friendly Productivity Alternatives
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Smith, A. M., & Johnson, R. L. (2021). Co-working and ADHD: Boosting productivity through shared spaces. Journal of Adult ADHD, 10(4), 323-332. DOI: 10.1080/15534510.2021.1874512 (https://doi.org/10.1080/15534510.2021.1874512).
Welcome back.
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:My friend.
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:It is ADHD.
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:powerful possibilities.
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:I'm Katherine, your coach and friend.
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:And today we are going to
talk about productivity.
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:In particular, why are so
many productivity systems?
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:No good for people with ADHD.
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:If you are a bit of a planner addict and
you've tried one solution after another.
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:And you're still struggling to get
started on things or to stay on
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:top of the many tasks you face.
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:This is the episode for you.
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:We are going to unpack why
traditional productivity systems.
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:Are so challenging for people with ADHD.
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:And, more importantly, I am
of course, going to share some
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:ADHD friendly alternatives.
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:The key is to understand how
your particular brain works.
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:Or if it doesn't work.
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:What can we do to support it?
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:This is key.
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:When we want to design a system
that is going to be sustainable,
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:flexible, and supportive.
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:So, if anyone has ever told you to eat
the frog and you have, frankly said,
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:frogs are gross and slimy and walked away.
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:Hang around.
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:Let's start with a big question.
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:Why did traditional productivity systems.
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:Really not suit our brains.
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:There are so many parts of this,
uh, that we could be here for
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:ever really talking about it.
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:The first one is, how are
these systems designed?
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:Most of them assume we all have average.
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:Adult executive functions.
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:Which means we find it easy to
plan, organize, sustain attention.
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:Set our priorities manage our emotions.
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:Have flexibility around
priorities and changing things.
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:And that we can finish projects
without too much trouble.
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:We've talked many times before
about how this just isn't the
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:average picture for somebody with
a neurodivergent or ADHD brain.
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:And Dr.
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:Barkley has said many times executive
dysfunction is the core of ADHD.
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:It's literally how you are diagnosed.
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:And of course, when we struggle with
things like task initiation, Motivation
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:sustaining attention, being consistent.
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:All of these are related to executive
functions, but that is what most
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:productivity advice relies on.
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:If you think about the classic
to do list - it is linear.
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:You go from one item to the next.
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:You're supposed to write out
each task, be able to prioritize
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:them logically in order.
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:And then work through them
one by one until "hurray!".
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:Your work is done and you
can sit down and relax.
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:For ADHD brains, that
linear process in itself.
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:Is a significant cognitive demand.
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:Our attention moves from
one thing to the other.
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:We are drawn by things
that catch our interest.
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:It doesn't take account of how overwhelm.
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:Can shut us down and make us.
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:You know, just unable to do anything more.
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:And it completely ignores the hyper-focus,
where we get sucked into something.
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:That is interesting, but
not important or urgent.
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:In fact, I would say the more
overwhelmed and anxious you are,
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:the more enormous your to do list is
the more likely that is to happen.
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:And that's because the prefrontal
cortex and those neural networks
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:that are connected to organising,
attention, prioritising, planning.
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:They are different when we have ADHD.
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:The reduced physical volume of the
grey matter, literally a smaller or
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:thinner connected part of your brain.
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:Has been shown in many studies.
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:And that means that we are going
to struggle more to do all of these
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:things that are just kind of average.
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:At the same time, people with ADHD.
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:Do to incredible things every single day.
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:I see it in my work.
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:Every single day, there are ADHD adults
who struggle with planning and organizing.
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:But who can do incredible things
when they are interested and
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:passionate about a subject.
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:And again, traditional
organization systems don't factor
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:in emotional dysregulation.
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:That "hot" circuit, the ' Why?"
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:That lies at the heart of everything.
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:You could have the most
perfectly executed a logical.
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:, broken down list of tasks to do that.
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:If your emotions are running very high.
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:You had an argument with somebody
that you care about, or somebody did
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:something that was really unfair at work
and you feel like you're under attack.
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:That's not going to happen.
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:Is it.
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:when do we feel frustrated?
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:Anxious.
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:Even bored.
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:Boredom is such a strong emotion.
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:The ability to follow through and finish
things, especially the last 10 to 20%.
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:It's not there and it's not
because we don't want to.
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:And we don't understand that
it's our job and it's important.
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:The dopamine.
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:The neurotransmitters are not there.
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:When you throw in our
competing priorities.
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:Like we know that tax
returns are important.
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:but they're not urgent right now.
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:And they're definitely not interesting.
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:They're going to go to
the end of the pile.
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:Aren't they.
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:So things like the Eisenhower matrix,
where we are told to categorize
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:things like important, important, and
urgent, not urgent, not important.
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:That's so difficult for adults
with ADHD because not many things.
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:Are interesting on that list
but they could be important
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:and there could be urgent.
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:And if we end up relying on
things, being urgent, we're
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:in a constant stress response.
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:And that's when we get into the habit
of using shame and guilt and panic
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:and deadlines to get things done.
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:And it feels horrible.
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:So then your brain removes the
neuro-transmitters you need.
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:To actually get things done.
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:Let's talk about what's
going on in your brain.
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:So we know that dopamine is
really important for rewards.
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:And it's the anticipation of that
reward that makes us feel good
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:and allows us to continue the
action to achieve that reward.
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:With ADHD brains.
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:All bets are off.
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:Our transporter cells remove the dopamine.
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:Before we are finished a
task, we may not get any more.
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:If we are experiencing
any anxiety or shame.
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:And that inability to maintain a stable
dopamine level required for a task.
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:It's why so many of us
reach for the quick fixes.
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:The quick scroll on the phone, the quick
snack at the fridge, the cigarette.
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:The betting the gambling or more.
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:We're constantly trying
to stabilize our dopamine.
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:So when people talk about
dopamine detox and dopamine
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:diets and avoiding these things.
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:Generally speaking, they are not dealing
with a neuro divergent audience who
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:have a physically different brain.
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:Dr.
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:Nora Volkow explained that
this reward deficiency.
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:as, she called, it means that for
many people, with ADHD, traditional
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:planning and productivity advice.
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:It's just impossible for an ADHD brain.
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:Because planning for a future
reward is too far away.
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:And the return on investment isn't enough.
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:And that's why we can
do incredible things.
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:If we're interested and we're motivated.
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:But nine times out of 10, it's very rare
for something that's important and urgent.
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:To also be interesting enough for
us to have access to that dopamine.
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:So we know why traditional planning and
productivity advice just doesn't work.
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:and, we can ignore the people
that say, well, you know, you
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:just need to wean yourself off
of dopamine producing activities.
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:So, what can we do?
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:How can we work with our brains?
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:The first thing is, of course, understand
which of your executive functions
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:you need to build a support for.
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:I know some people with ADHD
who can plan incredibly Z.
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:They are really good at organizing.
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:They have trained themselves.
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:They've got a system and it works.
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:I know other people who are so time
blind, it's really dangerous for them.
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:And it has cost them dearly.
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:You don't need to be an, either of
these extremes, but you do need to know.
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:Which executive functions,
your particular structure and
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:productivity needs to support.
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:For example.
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:Let's look at time.
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:Time is something that many
of us find a challenge.
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:And one of the suggestions
is time blocking.
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:And it time blocking can be brilliant.
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:But it has to be done.
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:In an ADHD friendly way.
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:That does not mean you literally fill
your diary from six 30 or 7:00 AM
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:until 10:00 PM with blocks of color.
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:Because your brain is going
to look at that and say, Nope.
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:I think I've said this before, but.
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:Give yourself some space.
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:And try to think in.
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:Group blocks.
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:So you might want admin time.
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:You might want creative time.
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:You might want.
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:House cleaning time or family time.
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:It doesn't need to be a specific
thing, but it can live inside
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:that general bucket or category.
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:And then make sure you have enough time.
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:Many of us struggle with
anything less than an hour.
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:And that's because it takes time
to focus and then it takes time
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:to shift onto the next activity.
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:Neuro-typical brains that they've studied
and, you know, productivity, um, research.
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:Task switching, going from one
site to the next takes you 20
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:minutes to regain your focus.
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:So when we are planning blocks,
anything less than an hour.
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:You're going to lose a big chunk of that.
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:Just being absorbed in the
task and getting started.
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:And there was a study on ADHD and
structured flexibility (I have
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:included the link in the show notes).
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:that showed the flexible planning, reduces
the pressure, the emotional pressure.
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:of a really rigid timetable.
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:And we knew that when we are
less emotionally pressured,
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:We can get things done.
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:The more pressure we put on ourselves
with these very rigid outline plans.
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:The more procrastination we're going
to experience because we're trying
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:to avoid that negative emotion.
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:You might have also heard of the Pomodoro
technique and some people swear by it.
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:Personally, I find that 25 minute
blocks are just not quite right for me.
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:Experiment with what works for you.
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:See if it works used to the
group task idea you know, say
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:if, you've got your admin.
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:A couple of hours.
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:But have a way of making it
fun and flexible for you.
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:You might say ". Hmm, I'm going
to try a 15 minute focus block.
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:And see how you feel at that.
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:Did that go well?
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:Then how would you feel, do you want to
do another 15 minutes and extend it to 30?
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:Or do you actually need a break?
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:Because how much energy and focus you
have is going to change from day-to-day.
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:Personally I work for about 45 minutes
and then I need a 15 minute break.
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:Then I can go back.
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:and related to the Pomodoro technique.
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:You want to add some
gamification and rewards?
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:with does the Pomodoro technique?
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:I found a website called
the Pomodoro kitty.
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:Where you actually have a cat
that helps you with the timer.
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anything that makes it fun.
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:Uh, confetti animals,
whatever works for you.
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:That is going to allow
you to be more productive.
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:And the reason is we respond
better to immediate rewards.
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:So when you get to the end
of a time period, does the
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:kitty give you a high five?
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:Maybe you're the kind of person
who's motivated by points.
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:And if you earn, say 10 points over the
course of a day, you can watch an extra
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:half hour of your favorite TV show.
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:What is going to work for you?
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:Try not to stretch it out
over a day - if you do.
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:Pay attention to when
that starts to wear off.
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:When you stop doing it.
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:Remember short term, immediate
rewards are more effective for ADHD.
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:For me.
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:I give myself five minutes of
knitting time for every admin task.
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:I start.
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:If I actually finish it.
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:And yes, I use one of my sticky
notes to keep track of it.
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:Another thing that is really helpful for
many people with ADHD is body doubling.
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:body doubling is exactly
what it sounds like.
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:You know, if you're in the library
and everybody else is sitting
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:quietly reading and studying.
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:Suddenly.
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:That feels a lot more possible because.
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:We're all doing it right.
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:And our brain wants to copy
what other people are doing.
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:We want to be part of a community.
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:A lot of people think that a
co- working environment would
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:It can be helpful, but you need to
think about distractions from noise.
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:From people coming and going.
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:From not having your
own desk to go back to.
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:So co-working in person can be terrific.
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:But it can also bring some
challenges for people with ADHD.
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:Sometimes when I am really struggling
to get something finished, like my
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:recent course function junction.
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:I got to the point where I
just had to edit the videos.
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:That I had recorded a couple of weeks ago.
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:And upload them to the website.
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:I literally could not bring
myself to do it because it
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:was the last part of the task.
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:And I was nervous to be honest about
sharing the course with people.
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:So I ended up giving myself
a 10 points every time.
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:I edited a section and then uploaded it.
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transcript for the course.
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:And if I go to a certain number
of points, I could sit and watch
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:my favorite film by myself.
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"pamper" kind of evening.
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:It was brilliant, but it took that
level of conscious reward within one day
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:But be aware of your processing
modalities and notice which
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:If you are somebody who has a very
strong visual processing modality.
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:You might find that being in an
environment with other real life
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:people is too distracting because your
body's using all that information.
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focus on the task in front of you.
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:So virtual coworking and body
doubling may be better for you.
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:So traditional productivity,
we can take parts from it.
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:In general, it's going to need a
bit of a bit of tweaking if it's
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:going to work for people with ADHD.
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:And if somebody knows how
to spell Please let me know.
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:I have no idea how that's going
to look in the transcript.
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:The important thing is to find
the one that works for your brain.
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:with flexibility for it to feel
sustainable and allow you to
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:have enough interest in there.
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:As well as fun.
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:So when we tweak traditional
productivity advice for ADHD.
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:It means?
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:Yes, we use time-blocking but we
make the time blocks bigger, we use.
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:Groups of tasks or buckets as I call them.
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:And we make them flexible.
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:We give ourselves permission to do
something different if we need to,
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:so you can swap them in and out.
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:You know what?
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:In printers, you have
to change the cartridge.
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:We're swapping one thing for another.
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:That we need to be doing
that wholeheartedly and on
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:purpose with permission.
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:And I'm going to talk
about permission in future.
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:But for now.
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:What else can we do?
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:Remember your brain is not
designed to be forced into a mold.
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:Nobody's is, but some brains find
it less stressful than others.
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:Our brains.
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:Don't like productivity, molds that
are designed for other kinds of brains.
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:So you're going to have to do a
little bit of tweaking upfront.
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:If today's episode was useful,
I would be so grateful if you
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:would share it and leave a review.
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:I've also created a
function junction course.
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:Where you can learn about your
own executive function profile.
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:Your strongest processing
modalities and bring them together.
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:To help design a system
that works for you.
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:Until next time.
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:Remember that progress is progress.
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:It doesn't matter how small it is.
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:You can do this and I'm cheering you on.
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:stay curious.
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:stay powerful and take care of yourself.