Grateful for Godly friends that suggest such amazing books to read! I thoroughly enjoyed studying Philemon. Not just because it was short; but because this short "letter" packed a punch.
All right, you guys, welcome
back to I Can't, He Can.
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:We're here for another Sound Mind, not so
series, because this is just one episode.
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:This is a very short book, and we're
going to be reading through the Book
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:of Philemon today, which maybe it's the
Hispanic in me, I always thought it was
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:Philemon, but now I feel kinda ridiculous
after hearing, so many people and my
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:pastor say Philemon instead of Philemon.
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:So it's Philemon, you guys.
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:but we're going to be doing the
Sound Mind series today based off of
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:this book, and I wanted to say thank
you to my very good friend, Heidi,
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:for actually suggesting this to me.
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:We had a very short conversation
a few weeks ago, and I told
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:her, I was like, "I'm not sure
what to do after Ecclesiastes.
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:I have some ideas of some books,
but, I just, I wasn't sure what or
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:take it," and she suggested Philemon.
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:She gave me like a little brief,
description of what, she, was taking
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:from it or what she had heard from it.
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:And if truth be told, I
had never read that book.
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:I had no idea that it
was even written by Paul.
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:It's one of the letters that, that Paul
actually wrote, which I don't know why I
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:thought it was just like bigger letters,
not just like this very small one.
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:But that is neither here nor there.
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:I just, I had no idea, and I'm
very grateful because in this very
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:small 25 verse, book of Philemon,
there's just, there's a lot.
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:There's a lot of valuable lessons,
and it's something that I can't
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:wait to share with you because- We
could use all the help we could get.
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:We could use all the help we could get,
and I truly do believe that we face
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:situations like this that Philemon and
Paul had to, face in this, it's not
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:a short story, but in this situation.
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:and we could just, we
could take so much from it.
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:So without further ado, I just want
to kind of preface this by saying,
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:and rather asking you guys, have you
been faced with a situation where
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:you had to kind of out someone?
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:You kinda had to do the, the
righteous thing, or actually
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:just show good character?
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:You had to show good character and be
upright in doing the right thing, even
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:if it meant kind of outing someone.
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:I certainly have had that, mostly like in
my professional life, as I was training,
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:different people several years ago.
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:And even now, I do have to keep a certain
accord as to how things are gonna go.
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:people have to do things the right way.
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:You can't just kind of slack off,
you can't lie, you can't, you
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:can't do all sorts of things.
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:So you do have to be upright and follow
rules, and this is, in my opinion,
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:what Paul was being faced with.
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:again, you have to always read the Bible
in context, and you have to understand
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:that there are some things that are for
Jews in this time where the, the word
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:was written, and there are things that
obviously we can apply to ourselves today
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:because it was written for what they
call the Gentiles, which the Gentiles
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:are people that are not of Jewish origin.
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:So it was like people of other countries
that were then learning the gospel.
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:So essentially, for whoever is
seeing this, I would like to just
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:assume, that the majority of people
listening to this are Gentiles.
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:We are not Jewish.
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:and that's okay.
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:There's nothing wrong with being Jewish.
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:I would just like to make that very clear.
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:In today's day and age, everyone
is very sensitive about that.
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:However, the point is that you must
always read the Bible in context.
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:When I first read this, again, 25
verses, very short, but when I read it
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:the first time, I skipped through the
little summary that my Bible gives me.
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:I didn't really do a deep dive
to understand Why it was written,
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:I just read through the verses.
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:And I would like to discern
that the majority of people
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:tend to read the Bible this way.
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:And you can, because there are things
that are always going to speak to you.
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:However, when you understand where the
authors of these books in the Bible,
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:came from, what they were enduring,
what they were going through, who
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:they were speaking to specifically,
everything begins to connect a lot more.
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:And that's why, a few episodes ago,
I think maybe two episodes ago,
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:I did that, keep it in context.
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:and it's so important.
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:It's so important.
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:It is relevant to reading the word,
it is relevant to everything that
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:we have on social media platforms
today, and it's even relevant
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:into how we speak to our children.
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:We can't, we can't teach our
children or, reprimand them
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:without giving them a reason.
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:They need to know why they are in trouble.
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:They need to know, why things are done.
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:And sometimes even for us, if we are
in trouble, if the roles are reversed,
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:we need to be taught or we need to
be spoken to in a way where we can
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:understand, "Okay-" Sometimes you
may not be wrong, but it could be a
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:situation where, "All right, I understand
your reasoning for why you did this,
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:however, in my context, in my job,
in my office, we do things this way.
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:Your way is not wrong,
but it's not my way."
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:So anyway, I say all these things to
say that context is important, and
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:the more you understand why things
are written a particular way or why
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:things are said a particular way, the
backstory behind anything, it will
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:make a lot more sense, and I truly do
believe it will help you grow as well
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:as an individual because you get to
put yourself in other people's shoes.
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:And, that just kind of draws me
to a little side note that we all
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:suffer, through different things.
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:We all come from different walks
of life, and what seems very big
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:or very small to someone does not,
diminish that feeling for that person.
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:so I just kind of, I don't
know, had that thought right now
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:and just wanted to share that.
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:especially me, I'm very emotional, so
a lot of times I have a lot of anxiety
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:for certain things, and those problems
are very real and very big to me.
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:But in hindsight, they end up being
very small because they're always
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:resolved, and we always come through.
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:So anyway, that's that.
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:But with Philemon in mind, I want
you all to remember that I...
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:And I, off the top of my head, I don't
recall exactly, but some of the books
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:in which Paul wrote, he was imprisoned.
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:He was literally kept in lockdown.
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:He couldn't go anywhere.
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:he had to go basically plead his case,
to, whoever was ruling at that time.
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:I'm not gonna get into details because
I truly don't remember that right now.
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:But I do know that context, that
he was Under arrest, during the
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:majority of the time that he was
writing some of these letters.
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:So in this instance, there was a
slave, and I don't wanna mispronounce
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:it, I have it circled right here.
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:It's a little confusing, and I
s- when I read this the first
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:time, I was like, "One-simas?"
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:O- Onesimus.
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:Onesimus.
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:I'm not sure how you pronounce that
100%, but read it for yourselves.
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:O- let's just call him Onesimus.
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:Okay?
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:Onesimus.
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:The more I say, the more wrong it sounds.
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:But again, neither here nor there.
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:So Paul actually receives this
runaway slave, and this man, Onesimus,
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:was actually a slave to Philemon.
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:Now, Paul is the common denominator
between the slave and Philemon.
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:Philemon actually was a person
who Paul discipled, a person who,
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:started, to be a follower of Christ,
so you know, thank, thank God that
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:Paul came into Philemon's life.
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:So Philemon has that, understanding of
forgiveness and grace because he heard
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:the gospel and he accepted Jesus, Jesus
Christ into his heart and into his life.
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:So with that being said, Paul
takes Onesimus into his home.
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:Again, this is already an individual,
Paul, who is under arrest.
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:He is dealing all of, with all of
these, situations where he's being,
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:seen as a person who's preaching
the gospel and is a problem, and
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:essentially he's already in hot water.
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:So you would think any person who is
in this kind of situation would be
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:like, "Nope, sorry, not today, buddy.
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:you, you gotta go.
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:Gotta go.
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:I don't want any problems, and
you have to go back to your,
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:your owner," in this case.
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:And he didn't do that.
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:Of course he didn't, he didn't
do that, because he's, he's Paul.
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:and side note, I would love to say
that I am like Paul in that sense.
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:I don't know.
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:You know, one day if I encounter
something like that, I could only
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:strive to, to be like Paul, who
is also, very much like Christ and
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:embody the Holy Spirit in that sense.
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:But anyway So he dealt with that,
and he took Onesimus in, and at
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:that time, Onesimus, Onesimus, the
slave, let's just say the slave,
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:the slave, the runaway slave rather,
was not a follower of Christ.
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:So he ended up molding him.
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:He ended up discipling him.
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:He preached the gospel to him.
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:He taught him how to be an upright
person and follower of Christ.
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:So all in all, the end of the
story is that Paul basically says,
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:"Okay, slave, Onesimus," not really
in those words, but you get me,
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:"you need to do the right thing.
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:You need to go back to Philemon, plead
your case," and I believe that because
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:Philemon is a man of God, is a follower
of Jesus Christ, I believe he will
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:find it in his heart to also forgive
and give grace, and we're all good.
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:in a nutshell, that is how
I interpreted the story.
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:now, before I read through the text,
I'm just giving this background
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:because this is such a crazy situation.
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:You're already in hot water,
and you're dealing with a person
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:who essentially committed a, a
big crime as well in that time.
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:you could, like, literally go through...
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:I would say you could be
hung, but that's not...
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:You could probably be crucified,
and Lord knows what else, they could
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:have done to them at that time.
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:And just put yourself in those
shoes, like, if you were dealing with
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:someone who committed a crime, but
you knew the person that was gonna
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:deal with them, could perhaps maybe
give them some grace because they're
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:followers of Christ, would you do that?
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:Or would you say, "I'm sorry,
figure it out on your own"?
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:So just ask yourself that question.
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:And I made a few notes on here,
as I was reading, that some of the
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:things that really stood out to me,
the words that I got from these 25
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:verses in Philemon, was that this is
a story of, number one, forgiveness.
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:it's a story of redemption.
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:It's a story of selflessness,
of knowing right and wrong, or
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:acknowledging right and wrong,
rather, and also of discipleship.
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:So if we are already strong in the Word,
if we are not just strong in the Word,
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:but we really are making an effort every
day to be a better person, be more like
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:Christ, and, really, carry the cross,
like Jesus did, or obviously not like
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:Jesus did, but that we, we bear our own
cross and we die to our flesh every day.
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:if we are truly being those kinds
of people, we can properly disciple
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:other people and say, "Hey, I
know exactly what you're going
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:through, but there is another way.
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:There is the right way."
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:And sometimes, even though the right
way may still, encompass having some,
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:Oh, what's the word I'm looking for?
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:May encompass having some, some
lash back, s- consequences.
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:Like, you may have some consequences
from doing the right thing.
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:At the end of the day, if you
wouldn't have done that wrong thing,
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:you wouldn't be in that position.
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:But Through the mercy of God and
through God's grace, if we do the
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:right thing, we would most likely
still end up where we have to be
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:and it's going to be good for us.
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:Because even if there aren't
any consequences, we will
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:learn and we will grow from it.
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:not to mention that we will be testimonies
for other people, and that itself
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:is just so amazing and so beautiful.
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:So those are the things and the words
that kind of like I thought about when I
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:finished Philemon and really understood,
what was behind the letter to Philemon.
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:so again, Paul disciples this runaway
slave that belonged to his friend
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:Philemon, and when he is already, firm
in, in Jesus Christ and the Gospel,
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:he sends him back with this letter.
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:So imagine, the runaway slave
holds this letter from Paul,
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:'cause Paul again is imprisoned
and he can't actually go anywhere.
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:He sends him back to face his
owner at the time, per se.
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:and he's going to ask for
forgiveness and for grace.
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:So I'm going to go ahead and,
begin reading Philemon, eh,
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:I was gonna say chapter one.
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:It's not even...
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:It's chapter one, but it's only 25 verses.
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:so we'll go back, eh, into some of the
notes that I had on here once we're done.
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:But in a nutshell, that is basically a
summary, and I really wanted you guys
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:to know that because it is so good.
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:Anyway, Philemon, verse one.
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:Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and
Timothy our brother, to Philemon our
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:beloved friend and fellow laborer, to
the beloved Apphia, Archippus our fellow
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:soldier, and to the church in your
house: Grace to you and peace from God
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:our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
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:I love that little line.
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:Sorry, side note.
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:I've been using that so much more.
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:It's such a, a, a beautiful small
prayer, that just goes such a long way.
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:That was verse three.
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:Grace to you and peace from God our
Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
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:Verse four.
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:I thank my God, making mention of you
always in my prayers, hearing of your love
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:and faith which wi- which you have toward
the Lord Jesus and toward all saints,
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:that the sharing of your faith may become
effective by acknowledgement of every good
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:thing which is in you in Christ Jesus.
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:For we have great joy and
consolation in your love, because
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:the hearts of the saints have
been refreshed by you, brother.
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:Therefore, though I may be very bold in
Christ to command you what is fitting,
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:yet for love's sake I rather appeal to
you being such a one as Paul, the aged,
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:and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ.
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:I appeal to you for my son Onesimus,
whom I have begotten while in my chains,
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:who once was unprofitable to you, but
now is profitable to you and to me.
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:I am sending him back.
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:You therefore receive him, that is, my
own heart, whom I wish to keep with me,
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:that on your behalf he might minister
to me in my chains for the gospel.
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:But without your consent I wanted to do
nothing, that your good deed might not be
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:my compulsion, as it were, but voluntary.
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:For perhaps he departed for a while
for this purpose, that you might
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:receive him forever, no longer as
a slave, but more than a slave, a
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:beloved brother, especially to me.
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:But how much more to you, both in the
flesh and in the Lord If then you count me
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:as a partner, receive him as you would me.
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:But if he has wronged you or owes
anything, put that on my account.
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:I, Paul, am writing with my own hand, I
will repay, not to mention to you that
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:you owe me even your own self besides.
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:Yes, brother, let me have
joy from you in the Lord.
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:Refresh my heart in the Lord.
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:Having confidence in your obedience,
I write to you, knowing that you
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:will do even more than I say.
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:But meanwhile, also prepare a guest
room for me, for I trust that through
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:your prayers, I shall be granted to you.
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:Epaphras, my fellow prisoner
in Christ Jesus, greets you.
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:As do Mark, Aristarchus, Aristarchus, oh
my gosh, Demas, Luke, my fellow laborers.
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:The grace of our Lord Jesus
Christ be with your spirit.
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:Amen.
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:That's it.
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:That's all Philemon is.
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:This one book has so many lessons,
and I already explained what I had
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:gotten in the beginning, but now I just
wanna go through some of the verses
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:and the notes that I wrote on here.
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:As always, you guys can
see my little scribbles.
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:They're all over the place,
and I just, I love it so much.
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:I love it so much going back and just
getting these little details and be like,
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:"Man, like, Paul's a really cool dude.
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:Like, I wish I could do that."
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:But anyway, all right.
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:So as I said, I had some notes on here
that this is a book about forgiveness,
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:redemption, selflessness, knowing
right from wrong, and discipleship.
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:However, I'm gonna go towards the
end of the scripture, th- towards
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:the end of the, of the letter.
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:The biggest and most selfless thing,
that I caught on there, maybe you guys
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:caught it, too, but we'll go back to that.
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:the very first verse that I have
outlined on here is verse six, and
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:it says that, "The sharing of your
faith may become effective by the
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:acknowledgement of every good..."
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:Oh, excuse me, "... of every good
thing which is in you in Christ Jesus."
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:So, my little side note says,
"Paul's hope for Philemon."
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:So that's basically his hope.
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:He's saying that, "I'm sending this
guy back to you, and I truly hope
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:that because you are in Christ and
that acknowledgement of everything
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:that is good in Jesus Christ, I
hope you make the right decision."
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:so that was his hope for
Philemon, in my opinion.
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:and then I put that the word
consolation in verse 7, I underlined
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:it, and I put, "Has faith."
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:so verse 7 says, "For we have great
joy and consolation in your love,
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:because the hearts of the saints
have been refreshed by you, brother."
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:So I, like, when I read it, I,
consolation, obviously, like, to
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:console someone, like, we, we're
trying to, like, make something easier
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:or something better for that person
because they're going through something.
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:When I read it, to me, I understood
as consolation is that he has faith.
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:so read it again with that in mind.
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:"For we have great joy and consolation,"
or, or faith, "that in your love, in your
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:love, because the hearts of the saints
have been refreshed by you, brother."
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:So anyway, that was that,
little side note there.
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:And we move on to verse eight.
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:I actually have a few
things circled on here.
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:I have the word fitting, what is
fitting, which I circled fitting, and I
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:put, "What is right," meaning the law.
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:So what is fitting a lot
of the time is, the law.
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:Like, you have to do the right thing.
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:then I put, I circled, "Yet for
love's sake," yet for love's sake,
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:and then I put a little square
around, "I rather appeal to you."
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:all these things are just,
like, little keywords that,
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:jump out at me as I'm reading.
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:My side note on here says let me see.
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:Yeah, Onesimus, whom I have begotten.
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:Oh, in verse 10, "I appeal to you
for my son Onesimus, who I have
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:begotten while in my chains."
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:And then my side note to that
says, "Takes responsibility,
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:Christ-like, just like Jesus."
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:So the same thing.
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:So he even says that while he was in
chains, while he was imprisoned, he
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:took Onesimus as it was his own son.
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:So he's taking responsibility
for knowing that he ran away, and
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:holding him, and just trying to
teach him like a father would a son.
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:so let's read eight through 10 again,
keeping in mind the little things that I,
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:scribbled, and underlined, and all that.
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:Verse eight: "Therefore, though I might
be very bold in Christ to command you
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:what is fitting," again, what is right
or what is the law, "To command you what
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:is fitting, yet for love's sake," so even
though this might be right, the fitting
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:thing, the lawful thing, "Yet for love's
sake," because you have love in you, you
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:have Christ in you, you know right from
wrong as well, "I rather appeal to you,"
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:he chooses, instead of sending him to
whoever was going to detain him or if
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:he was also gonna be imprisoned 'cause
he ran away, Paul, "I rather appeal to
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:you," Paul rather appeal and write to
Philemon "Being such as, being such a one
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:as Paul, the aged, and now also a prisoner
of Jesus Christ," verse 10, "I appeal
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:to you for my son, Onesimus, whom I have
begotten while in my chains, who once was
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:unprofitable to you but now is," and I
circled is, "profitable to you and to me."
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:So Paul is clearly outlining
that before Onesimus was no good.
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:He was bad.
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:He did all things wrong.
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:He ran away.
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:But now he's sending him back, and he's
saying, "I am taking responsibility.
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:This is my son, who, while I was
in chains, I basically brought him
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:up and showed him a better way,
and now he is profitable to you."
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:So in a way, like, this is also kind
of like what we do for our kids.
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:One day our kids are gonna leave the
nest, they're gonna get married, and
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:this is basically what we're doing.
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:We're saying to their future
spouses, "Hey, you know, maybe
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:they weren't profitable to you
before, but I think I did a good
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:job and they're, they're good to go.
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:They're ready to be adults in, in society.
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:They're ready to get married.
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:They're..."
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:You know, you could only hope that they're
just good, upright, young men and women.
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:So it's basically the same thing
that Paul did for Onesimus.
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:Moving on, I have here in, let me
see, in verse 15, "This purpose".
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:I put to be saved, so I feel like Paul
meant when he said, "For this purpose",
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:I feel like he meant that the purpose
of Onesimus running away and going
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:through all of these things that, this
debacle that they're all in, is for him
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:to be saved, for him to come to Christ
and, and to be another soul saved.
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:So verse 15 says, "For perhaps he departed
for a while for this purpose, that you
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:might receive him forever," verse 16, "no
longer as a slave, but more than a, but,
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:but more than a slave, a beloved brother,
especially to me, but who much more to
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:you, both in the flesh and in the Lord."
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:So not only was he a slave to him, but
now he's returning, again, still as
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:a slave, he may still work for him,
but he's also a brother in Christ.
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:Now they have that even
bigger purpose for each other.
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:and they can carry each other in
other ways, not just, employee
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:and employer, for example.
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:my little side note here says,
"Not only as his slave again, but
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:also saved and brother in Christ."
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:So exactly I have verse 17, I put
side note, "We are all the same,
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:especially in Christ's eyes."
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:And verse 17, I put, the words count me.
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:I circled count me, and I put right
next to that, to accept or believe.
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:So verse 17, Paul says to Philemon
in the letter, "If then you
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:count me as a partner, receive
him as you would me," verse 18.
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:"But if he has wronged, if he has wronged
you or owes anything," and I underlined
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:this in bold, "put that on my account."
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:Okay, if you're listening audio only,
I, like, opened my eyes very wide.
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:"Put that on my account."
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:I just pause for a reaction.
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:Okay?
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:So my side note there, I, going back
like how I said, side note, we are all
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:the same, especially in Christ's eyes.
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:So if you count me as a
partner, receive me as you would
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:receive him, as you would me.
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:And in Christ's eyes, we're all the same,
so it doesn't matter what we do, doesn't
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:matter what we say, we are all the same.
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:One's sin is not bigger than the other's.
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Jesus Christ is our Lord and
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:Savior, he is going to accept you
and take you into his kingdom and
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you're better than another person.
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:God loves us all the same.
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same if the heart is right.
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:so I don't know, I just had
that little side note there.
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"Put that on my account," my little
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and when I talked about selflessness,
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:this is where I got selflessness.
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:This is the most selfless
act that one can do.
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:Even though Paul has nothing to do
with Onesimus until now, when he was
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:discipling him and showing him the gospel
and how to be a, more Christlike and
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:how to be better, this is the ultimate
lesson because he is saying to Philemon,
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:"Listen, accept me," accept, pardon me,
"accept Onesimus as you would accept me.
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:Because we are brothers, you
know the gospel-" You should
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:know grace, you should know love.
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:Accept him as you would accept me.
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:But if he does owe you something,
if he did steal something, put it
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:So if there was a problem of theft,
if there was a problem of, also just
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:running away, okay, running away he
can forgive because he is in Christ.
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and w- we're called to forgive.
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:But what about the issue of theft?
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he owes, put that on my account."
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have been, like, a theft, type, verbiage.
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just to really ask him to truly
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just say, "Look, put it on me.
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:I'm taking the burden of this man to show
him and to teach him how to walk upright."
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think that this is the ultimate, ultimate
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other people's problems for ourselves?
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:How many of us would take
other people's debts?
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:And if you think of the Man that
took everyone's debt, that washed
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:away and wiped away everyone's
sin, that was Jesus Christ.
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:So how beautiful and how grand and
how amazing that this one man, Paul,
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:would be willing to do something not
as grand as, as Jesus, but still a very
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:and selflessness
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:True surrender of giving your
all, in my opinion, is, is love
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:And if you're watching, if you're
listening, I'm pausing 'cause I'm a little
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:I'm sorry that I'm struggling right now.
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:I'm trying not to, I'm trying
not to bawl my eyes out.
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:Love is action
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:Sorry, guys.
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:Love is action.
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:Love is selfless
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:Love is just giving your all.
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:And, and yes, of course, you know,
what was done to Jesus on the cross
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:was horrific and just wrong on so
many levels, and no one would ever
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did it Because he loves you
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:And again, very much like Jesus,
Paul had the Holy Spirit within him.
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:Paul was in him, and through Jesus, he
was able to, be selfless and disciple
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:Onesimus and teach him and also remind
Philemon of the gospel and put him
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:in a position where he had to make a
decision, as to what he was gonna do.
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:Was he gonna choose to,
give more consequences?
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:and Paul still said, "But if there
is, if there is something still
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:that you need, I will take it.
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:Put it on my account."
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:He took all our sins and
he put it on his account.
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:He put it on his account,
and we are now debt-free.
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:We live in a sinful world, but
there is no condemnation in our
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:I hope that is clear.
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:so thank you, Lord, for teaching all
of that to us through your sacrifice,
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:for teaching that to Paul, for leaving
him with that, and for him Through you,
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:through your Spirit, just leaving us
these nuggets and these books and these
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:letters, that can teach the world so
much of your love and grace and your
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:selflessness and everything that you are.
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:my side note here for verse
21 and 22, I wrote for verse
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:21, "Paul affirms his faith in
Philemon making the right choice."
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meaning him having faith in Philemon,
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:"Having confidence in your obedience,
I write to you, knowing that you
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:will do even more than I say."
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already know because you're firm
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:in the faith, I already know
you're gonna do the right thing."
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"Paul even asks to have a room made for
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:him because through prayer, he has faith
that he will be released from prison."
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:so verse 22 says, "But meanwhile,
also prepare a guest room for
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:me, for I trust that through your
prayers, I shall be granted to you."
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:And man, if that's not
faith, I don't know what is.
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:But I pray that we can
all have Paul's faith.
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:I pray that we can all be as in prayer
and as just in the mud with our, our
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:faith and just, like, rolling around
in it, and just trying to continue
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:to cover ourselves in prayer because
the power of prayer is, is amazing.
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:And while we think sometimes
that our prayers go unanswered
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:and God is quiet, He's not.
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:He's working.
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:There's two choices.
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:He's either working or His silence is an
answer, but it's up to you and to me, it's
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:up to us to decipher what is from God.
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:Is it that He's just working and I need to
be obedient and patient, or is He silent
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:because deep down in my heart, I know this
is not for me, and the Lord is telling
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:so anyway, so I truly hope, as I
always say, I truly hope that you
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:guys, learned something from this book.
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:There's just no way that you guys didn't
learn anything because this book was
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:short, 25 verses, but it was beautiful,
and it was amazing, and there's just
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:so many wonderful lessons that we
can also pass on to our children.
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:If there's something that we may want
our children to be, it's we may want our
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:children to learn from this book one day.
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:obviously, the Bible as a whole,
this right here, there's just
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:everything in here is worth
teaching to the entire world.
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:But- I say to you that there's a lot
of amazing lessons, especially of
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:selflessness and forgiveness, Too many
times we hold on to things of the past.
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:Too many times we hold on to grudges,
and forgiveness is the most amazing gift
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:that we can give ourselves in trials.
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:We don't have to blame ourselves
for other people's wrongdoings.
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:We don't have to blame ourselves
for our own wrongdoings.
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:Sometimes that's just
how we're gonna grow.
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:Sometimes that's just how we're going
to evolve and move on to the next level.
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:If we have our own businesses,
sometimes we have to test the waters.
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:We failed, it's okay.
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:It's okay.
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:Through prayer and supplication, ask
God to continue to guide you, and to
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:give you the tools and to give you
the knowledge to take your business
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:and yourself to that next step.
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:Through prayer and supplication,
if you have something that you are
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:struggling with, with your children,
with your couples, your spouse, your
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:husband, your friend, your family, pray.
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:And I myself need to follow that
because I've been praying a lot more
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:lately, but I wasn't praying enough.
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:I wasn't praying enough, and believe
me, the Lord Jesus Christ and God
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:the Father and the Holy Spirit guide
us, and they show us, and they speak
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:to us, but it's up to us to tap into
this, this gift that resides in us.
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:It's, it's up to us to u- to use
it, to use it and to call on Him to
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:give us that supernatural strength
that Jesus Christ can give us.
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:It's up to us.
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:It's up to us
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:to stand firm in our faith, to forgive,
to be selfless, to love, to teach.
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:So anyway, my friends, thank you all.
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:Thank you all.
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:I am so happy and so blessed that
you guys are here week after week
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:listening to the I Can He Can podcast,
to listening to the Sound Mind series.
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:I can't wait to have our next
episode, and I truly hope,
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:again, that this has blessed you.
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:I love you all.
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:Take care.