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Episode 4625th May 2026 • I Can't (HE Can) • Sarai Collado
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Grateful for Godly friends that suggest such amazing books to read! I thoroughly enjoyed studying Philemon. Not just because it was short; but because this short "letter" packed a punch.

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All right, you guys, welcome

back to I Can't, He Can.

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We're here for another Sound Mind, not so

series, because this is just one episode.

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This is a very short book, and we're

going to be reading through the Book

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of Philemon today, which maybe it's the

Hispanic in me, I always thought it was

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Philemon, but now I feel kinda ridiculous

after hearing, so many people and my

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pastor say Philemon instead of Philemon.

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So it's Philemon, you guys.

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but we're going to be doing the

Sound Mind series today based off of

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this book, and I wanted to say thank

you to my very good friend, Heidi,

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for actually suggesting this to me.

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We had a very short conversation

a few weeks ago, and I told

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her, I was like, "I'm not sure

what to do after Ecclesiastes.

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I have some ideas of some books,

but, I just, I wasn't sure what or

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take it," and she suggested Philemon.

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She gave me like a little brief,

description of what, she, was taking

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from it or what she had heard from it.

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And if truth be told, I

had never read that book.

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I had no idea that it

was even written by Paul.

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It's one of the letters that, that Paul

actually wrote, which I don't know why I

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thought it was just like bigger letters,

not just like this very small one.

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But that is neither here nor there.

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I just, I had no idea, and I'm

very grateful because in this very

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small 25 verse, book of Philemon,

there's just, there's a lot.

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There's a lot of valuable lessons,

and it's something that I can't

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wait to share with you because- We

could use all the help we could get.

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We could use all the help we could get,

and I truly do believe that we face

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situations like this that Philemon and

Paul had to, face in this, it's not

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a short story, but in this situation.

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and we could just, we

could take so much from it.

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So without further ado, I just want

to kind of preface this by saying,

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and rather asking you guys, have you

been faced with a situation where

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you had to kind of out someone?

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You kinda had to do the, the

righteous thing, or actually

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just show good character?

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You had to show good character and be

upright in doing the right thing, even

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if it meant kind of outing someone.

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I certainly have had that, mostly like in

my professional life, as I was training,

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different people several years ago.

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And even now, I do have to keep a certain

accord as to how things are gonna go.

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people have to do things the right way.

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You can't just kind of slack off,

you can't lie, you can't, you

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can't do all sorts of things.

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So you do have to be upright and follow

rules, and this is, in my opinion,

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what Paul was being faced with.

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again, you have to always read the Bible

in context, and you have to understand

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that there are some things that are for

Jews in this time where the, the word

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was written, and there are things that

obviously we can apply to ourselves today

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because it was written for what they

call the Gentiles, which the Gentiles

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are people that are not of Jewish origin.

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So it was like people of other countries

that were then learning the gospel.

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So essentially, for whoever is

seeing this, I would like to just

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assume, that the majority of people

listening to this are Gentiles.

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We are not Jewish.

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and that's okay.

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There's nothing wrong with being Jewish.

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I would just like to make that very clear.

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In today's day and age, everyone

is very sensitive about that.

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However, the point is that you must

always read the Bible in context.

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When I first read this, again, 25

verses, very short, but when I read it

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the first time, I skipped through the

little summary that my Bible gives me.

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I didn't really do a deep dive

to understand Why it was written,

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I just read through the verses.

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And I would like to discern

that the majority of people

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tend to read the Bible this way.

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And you can, because there are things

that are always going to speak to you.

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However, when you understand where the

authors of these books in the Bible,

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came from, what they were enduring,

what they were going through, who

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they were speaking to specifically,

everything begins to connect a lot more.

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And that's why, a few episodes ago,

I think maybe two episodes ago,

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I did that, keep it in context.

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and it's so important.

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It's so important.

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It is relevant to reading the word,

it is relevant to everything that

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we have on social media platforms

today, and it's even relevant

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into how we speak to our children.

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We can't, we can't teach our

children or, reprimand them

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without giving them a reason.

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They need to know why they are in trouble.

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They need to know, why things are done.

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And sometimes even for us, if we are

in trouble, if the roles are reversed,

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we need to be taught or we need to

be spoken to in a way where we can

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understand, "Okay-" Sometimes you

may not be wrong, but it could be a

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situation where, "All right, I understand

your reasoning for why you did this,

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however, in my context, in my job,

in my office, we do things this way.

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Your way is not wrong,

but it's not my way."

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So anyway, I say all these things to

say that context is important, and

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the more you understand why things

are written a particular way or why

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things are said a particular way, the

backstory behind anything, it will

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make a lot more sense, and I truly do

believe it will help you grow as well

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as an individual because you get to

put yourself in other people's shoes.

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And, that just kind of draws me

to a little side note that we all

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suffer, through different things.

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We all come from different walks

of life, and what seems very big

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or very small to someone does not,

diminish that feeling for that person.

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so I just kind of, I don't

know, had that thought right now

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and just wanted to share that.

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especially me, I'm very emotional, so

a lot of times I have a lot of anxiety

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for certain things, and those problems

are very real and very big to me.

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But in hindsight, they end up being

very small because they're always

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resolved, and we always come through.

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So anyway, that's that.

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But with Philemon in mind, I want

you all to remember that I...

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And I, off the top of my head, I don't

recall exactly, but some of the books

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in which Paul wrote, he was imprisoned.

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He was literally kept in lockdown.

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He couldn't go anywhere.

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he had to go basically plead his case,

to, whoever was ruling at that time.

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I'm not gonna get into details because

I truly don't remember that right now.

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But I do know that context, that

he was Under arrest, during the

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majority of the time that he was

writing some of these letters.

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So in this instance, there was a

slave, and I don't wanna mispronounce

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it, I have it circled right here.

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It's a little confusing, and I

s- when I read this the first

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time, I was like, "One-simas?"

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O- Onesimus.

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Onesimus.

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I'm not sure how you pronounce that

100%, but read it for yourselves.

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O- let's just call him Onesimus.

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Okay?

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Onesimus.

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The more I say, the more wrong it sounds.

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But again, neither here nor there.

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So Paul actually receives this

runaway slave, and this man, Onesimus,

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was actually a slave to Philemon.

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Now, Paul is the common denominator

between the slave and Philemon.

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Philemon actually was a person

who Paul discipled, a person who,

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started, to be a follower of Christ,

so you know, thank, thank God that

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Paul came into Philemon's life.

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So Philemon has that, understanding of

forgiveness and grace because he heard

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the gospel and he accepted Jesus, Jesus

Christ into his heart and into his life.

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So with that being said, Paul

takes Onesimus into his home.

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Again, this is already an individual,

Paul, who is under arrest.

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He is dealing all of, with all of

these, situations where he's being,

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seen as a person who's preaching

the gospel and is a problem, and

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essentially he's already in hot water.

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So you would think any person who is

in this kind of situation would be

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like, "Nope, sorry, not today, buddy.

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you, you gotta go.

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Gotta go.

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I don't want any problems, and

you have to go back to your,

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your owner," in this case.

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And he didn't do that.

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Of course he didn't, he didn't

do that, because he's, he's Paul.

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and side note, I would love to say

that I am like Paul in that sense.

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I don't know.

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You know, one day if I encounter

something like that, I could only

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strive to, to be like Paul, who

is also, very much like Christ and

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embody the Holy Spirit in that sense.

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But anyway So he dealt with that,

and he took Onesimus in, and at

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that time, Onesimus, Onesimus, the

slave, let's just say the slave,

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the slave, the runaway slave rather,

was not a follower of Christ.

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So he ended up molding him.

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He ended up discipling him.

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He preached the gospel to him.

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He taught him how to be an upright

person and follower of Christ.

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So all in all, the end of the

story is that Paul basically says,

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"Okay, slave, Onesimus," not really

in those words, but you get me,

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"you need to do the right thing.

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You need to go back to Philemon, plead

your case," and I believe that because

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Philemon is a man of God, is a follower

of Jesus Christ, I believe he will

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find it in his heart to also forgive

and give grace, and we're all good.

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in a nutshell, that is how

I interpreted the story.

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now, before I read through the text,

I'm just giving this background

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because this is such a crazy situation.

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You're already in hot water,

and you're dealing with a person

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who essentially committed a, a

big crime as well in that time.

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you could, like, literally go through...

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I would say you could be

hung, but that's not...

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You could probably be crucified,

and Lord knows what else, they could

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have done to them at that time.

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And just put yourself in those

shoes, like, if you were dealing with

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someone who committed a crime, but

you knew the person that was gonna

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deal with them, could perhaps maybe

give them some grace because they're

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followers of Christ, would you do that?

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Or would you say, "I'm sorry,

figure it out on your own"?

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So just ask yourself that question.

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And I made a few notes on here,

as I was reading, that some of the

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things that really stood out to me,

the words that I got from these 25

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verses in Philemon, was that this is

a story of, number one, forgiveness.

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it's a story of redemption.

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It's a story of selflessness,

of knowing right and wrong, or

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acknowledging right and wrong,

rather, and also of discipleship.

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So if we are already strong in the Word,

if we are not just strong in the Word,

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but we really are making an effort every

day to be a better person, be more like

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Christ, and, really, carry the cross,

like Jesus did, or obviously not like

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Jesus did, but that we, we bear our own

cross and we die to our flesh every day.

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if we are truly being those kinds

of people, we can properly disciple

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other people and say, "Hey, I

know exactly what you're going

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through, but there is another way.

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There is the right way."

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And sometimes, even though the right

way may still, encompass having some,

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Oh, what's the word I'm looking for?

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May encompass having some, some

lash back, s- consequences.

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Like, you may have some consequences

from doing the right thing.

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At the end of the day, if you

wouldn't have done that wrong thing,

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you wouldn't be in that position.

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But Through the mercy of God and

through God's grace, if we do the

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right thing, we would most likely

still end up where we have to be

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and it's going to be good for us.

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Because even if there aren't

any consequences, we will

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learn and we will grow from it.

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not to mention that we will be testimonies

for other people, and that itself

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is just so amazing and so beautiful.

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So those are the things and the words

that kind of like I thought about when I

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finished Philemon and really understood,

what was behind the letter to Philemon.

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so again, Paul disciples this runaway

slave that belonged to his friend

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Philemon, and when he is already, firm

in, in Jesus Christ and the Gospel,

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he sends him back with this letter.

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So imagine, the runaway slave

holds this letter from Paul,

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'cause Paul again is imprisoned

and he can't actually go anywhere.

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He sends him back to face his

owner at the time, per se.

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and he's going to ask for

forgiveness and for grace.

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So I'm going to go ahead and,

begin reading Philemon, eh,

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I was gonna say chapter one.

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It's not even...

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It's chapter one, but it's only 25 verses.

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so we'll go back, eh, into some of the

notes that I had on here once we're done.

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But in a nutshell, that is basically a

summary, and I really wanted you guys

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to know that because it is so good.

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Anyway, Philemon, verse one.

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Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and

Timothy our brother, to Philemon our

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beloved friend and fellow laborer, to

the beloved Apphia, Archippus our fellow

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soldier, and to the church in your

house: Grace to you and peace from God

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our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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I love that little line.

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Sorry, side note.

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I've been using that so much more.

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It's such a, a, a beautiful small

prayer, that just goes such a long way.

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That was verse three.

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Grace to you and peace from God our

Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Verse four.

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I thank my God, making mention of you

always in my prayers, hearing of your love

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and faith which wi- which you have toward

the Lord Jesus and toward all saints,

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that the sharing of your faith may become

effective by acknowledgement of every good

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thing which is in you in Christ Jesus.

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For we have great joy and

consolation in your love, because

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the hearts of the saints have

been refreshed by you, brother.

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Therefore, though I may be very bold in

Christ to command you what is fitting,

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yet for love's sake I rather appeal to

you being such a one as Paul, the aged,

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and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ.

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I appeal to you for my son Onesimus,

whom I have begotten while in my chains,

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who once was unprofitable to you, but

now is profitable to you and to me.

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I am sending him back.

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You therefore receive him, that is, my

own heart, whom I wish to keep with me,

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that on your behalf he might minister

to me in my chains for the gospel.

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But without your consent I wanted to do

nothing, that your good deed might not be

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my compulsion, as it were, but voluntary.

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For perhaps he departed for a while

for this purpose, that you might

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receive him forever, no longer as

a slave, but more than a slave, a

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beloved brother, especially to me.

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But how much more to you, both in the

flesh and in the Lord If then you count me

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as a partner, receive him as you would me.

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But if he has wronged you or owes

anything, put that on my account.

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I, Paul, am writing with my own hand, I

will repay, not to mention to you that

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you owe me even your own self besides.

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Yes, brother, let me have

joy from you in the Lord.

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Refresh my heart in the Lord.

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Having confidence in your obedience,

I write to you, knowing that you

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will do even more than I say.

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But meanwhile, also prepare a guest

room for me, for I trust that through

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your prayers, I shall be granted to you.

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Epaphras, my fellow prisoner

in Christ Jesus, greets you.

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As do Mark, Aristarchus, Aristarchus, oh

my gosh, Demas, Luke, my fellow laborers.

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The grace of our Lord Jesus

Christ be with your spirit.

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Amen.

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That's it.

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That's all Philemon is.

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This one book has so many lessons,

and I already explained what I had

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gotten in the beginning, but now I just

wanna go through some of the verses

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and the notes that I wrote on here.

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As always, you guys can

see my little scribbles.

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They're all over the place,

and I just, I love it so much.

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I love it so much going back and just

getting these little details and be like,

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"Man, like, Paul's a really cool dude.

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Like, I wish I could do that."

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But anyway, all right.

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So as I said, I had some notes on here

that this is a book about forgiveness,

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redemption, selflessness, knowing

right from wrong, and discipleship.

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However, I'm gonna go towards the

end of the scripture, th- towards

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the end of the, of the letter.

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The biggest and most selfless thing,

that I caught on there, maybe you guys

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caught it, too, but we'll go back to that.

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the very first verse that I have

outlined on here is verse six, and

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it says that, "The sharing of your

faith may become effective by the

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acknowledgement of every good..."

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Oh, excuse me, "... of every good

thing which is in you in Christ Jesus."

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So, my little side note says,

"Paul's hope for Philemon."

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So that's basically his hope.

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He's saying that, "I'm sending this

guy back to you, and I truly hope

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that because you are in Christ and

that acknowledgement of everything

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that is good in Jesus Christ, I

hope you make the right decision."

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so that was his hope for

Philemon, in my opinion.

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and then I put that the word

consolation in verse 7, I underlined

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it, and I put, "Has faith."

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so verse 7 says, "For we have great

joy and consolation in your love,

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because the hearts of the saints

have been refreshed by you, brother."

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So I, like, when I read it, I,

consolation, obviously, like, to

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console someone, like, we, we're

trying to, like, make something easier

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or something better for that person

because they're going through something.

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When I read it, to me, I understood

as consolation is that he has faith.

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so read it again with that in mind.

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"For we have great joy and consolation,"

or, or faith, "that in your love, in your

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love, because the hearts of the saints

have been refreshed by you, brother."

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So anyway, that was that,

little side note there.

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And we move on to verse eight.

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I actually have a few

things circled on here.

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I have the word fitting, what is

fitting, which I circled fitting, and I

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put, "What is right," meaning the law.

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So what is fitting a lot

of the time is, the law.

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Like, you have to do the right thing.

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then I put, I circled, "Yet for

love's sake," yet for love's sake,

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and then I put a little square

around, "I rather appeal to you."

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all these things are just,

like, little keywords that,

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jump out at me as I'm reading.

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My side note on here says let me see.

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Yeah, Onesimus, whom I have begotten.

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Oh, in verse 10, "I appeal to you

for my son Onesimus, who I have

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begotten while in my chains."

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And then my side note to that

says, "Takes responsibility,

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Christ-like, just like Jesus."

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So the same thing.

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So he even says that while he was in

chains, while he was imprisoned, he

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took Onesimus as it was his own son.

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So he's taking responsibility

for knowing that he ran away, and

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holding him, and just trying to

teach him like a father would a son.

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so let's read eight through 10 again,

keeping in mind the little things that I,

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scribbled, and underlined, and all that.

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Verse eight: "Therefore, though I might

be very bold in Christ to command you

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what is fitting," again, what is right

or what is the law, "To command you what

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is fitting, yet for love's sake," so even

though this might be right, the fitting

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thing, the lawful thing, "Yet for love's

sake," because you have love in you, you

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have Christ in you, you know right from

wrong as well, "I rather appeal to you,"

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he chooses, instead of sending him to

whoever was going to detain him or if

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he was also gonna be imprisoned 'cause

he ran away, Paul, "I rather appeal to

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you," Paul rather appeal and write to

Philemon "Being such as, being such a one

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as Paul, the aged, and now also a prisoner

of Jesus Christ," verse 10, "I appeal

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to you for my son, Onesimus, whom I have

begotten while in my chains, who once was

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unprofitable to you but now is," and I

circled is, "profitable to you and to me."

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So Paul is clearly outlining

that before Onesimus was no good.

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He was bad.

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He did all things wrong.

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He ran away.

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But now he's sending him back, and he's

saying, "I am taking responsibility.

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This is my son, who, while I was

in chains, I basically brought him

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up and showed him a better way,

and now he is profitable to you."

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So in a way, like, this is also kind

of like what we do for our kids.

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One day our kids are gonna leave the

nest, they're gonna get married, and

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this is basically what we're doing.

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We're saying to their future

spouses, "Hey, you know, maybe

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they weren't profitable to you

before, but I think I did a good

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job and they're, they're good to go.

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They're ready to be adults in, in society.

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They're ready to get married.

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They're..."

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You know, you could only hope that they're

just good, upright, young men and women.

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So it's basically the same thing

that Paul did for Onesimus.

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see, in verse 15, "This purpose".

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I put to be saved, so I feel like Paul

meant when he said, "For this purpose",

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I feel like he meant that the purpose

of Onesimus running away and going

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through all of these things that, this

debacle that they're all in, is for him

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to be saved, for him to come to Christ

and, and to be another soul saved.

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So verse 15 says, "For perhaps he departed

for a while for this purpose, that you

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might receive him forever," verse 16, "no

longer as a slave, but more than a, but,

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but more than a slave, a beloved brother,

especially to me, but who much more to

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you, both in the flesh and in the Lord."

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now he's returning, again, still as

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a slave, he may still work for him,

but he's also a brother in Christ.

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Now they have that even

bigger purpose for each other.

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and they can carry each other in

other ways, not just, employee

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and employer, for example.

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my little side note here says,

"Not only as his slave again, but

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also saved and brother in Christ."

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So exactly I have verse 17, I put

side note, "We are all the same,

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especially in Christ's eyes."

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And verse 17, I put, the words count me.

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I circled count me, and I put right

next to that, to accept or believe.

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So verse 17, Paul says to Philemon

in the letter, "If then you

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count me as a partner, receive

him as you would me," verse 18.

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"But if he has wronged, if he has wronged

you or owes anything," and I underlined

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this in bold, "put that on my account."

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Okay, if you're listening audio only,

I, like, opened my eyes very wide.

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"Put that on my account."

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I just pause for a reaction.

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Okay?

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So my side note there, I, going back

like how I said, side note, we are all

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the same, especially in Christ's eyes.

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So if you count me as a

partner, receive me as you would

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receive him, as you would me.

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And in Christ's eyes, we're all the same,

so it doesn't matter what we do, doesn't

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matter what we say, we are all the same.

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One's sin is not bigger than the other's.

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If we profess with our lips that

Jesus Christ is our Lord and

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Savior, he is going to accept you

and take you into his kingdom and

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reconcile you back to God one day.

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So it doesn't mean, that, that

you're better than another person.

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God loves us all the same.

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Jesus will forgive all the

same if the heart is right.

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so I don't know, I just had

that little side note there.

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But in verse 18, where Paul says,

"Put that on my account," my little

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side note says, "The ultimate lesson."

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To me, this was the ultimate lesson,

and when I talked about selflessness,

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this is where I got selflessness.

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This is the most selfless

act that one can do.

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Even though Paul has nothing to do

with Onesimus until now, when he was

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discipling him and showing him the gospel

and how to be a, more Christlike and

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how to be better, this is the ultimate

lesson because he is saying to Philemon,

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"Listen, accept me," accept, pardon me,

"accept Onesimus as you would accept me.

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Because we are brothers, you

know the gospel-" You should

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know grace, you should know love.

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Accept him as you would accept me.

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But if he does owe you something,

if he did steal something, put it

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on my account, put it on my tab.

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I got it, don't worry.

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I will pay you back.

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So if there was a problem of theft,

if there was a problem of, also just

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running away, okay, running away he

can forgive because he is in Christ.

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He should have the Holy Spirit,

and w- we're called to forgive.

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But what about the issue of theft?

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Paul said, "If there is anything that

he owes, put that on my account."

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And I'm also assuming that it may not just

have been, like, a theft, type, verbiage.

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It...

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I feel like it may also have been,

just to really ask him to truly

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forgive and surrender that, and

just say, "Look, put it on me.

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I'm taking the burden of this man to show

him and to teach him how to walk upright."

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So however you wanna look at it, I do

think that this is the ultimate, ultimate

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lesson, and it's the most selfless of all.

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Because how many of us would take

other people's problems for ourselves?

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How many of us would take

other people's debts?

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Probably not many.

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And if you think of the Man that

took everyone's debt, that washed

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away and wiped away everyone's

sin, that was Jesus Christ.

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So how beautiful and how grand and

how amazing that this one man, Paul,

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would be willing to do something not

as grand as, as Jesus, but still a very

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Christ-like gesture, in my opinion.

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and selflessness

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True surrender of giving your

all, in my opinion, is, is love

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Oh my God.

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And if you're watching, if you're

listening, I'm pausing 'cause I'm a little

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emotional, but every time I think of Jesus

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Every time I think of Jesus and

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The magnitude of what he did

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It just gets bigger every time.

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I'm sorry that I'm struggling right now.

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I'm trying not to, I'm trying

not to bawl my eyes out.

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Love is action

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Sorry, guys.

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Love is action.

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Love is selfless

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Love is just giving your all.

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And, and yes, of course, you know,

what was done to Jesus on the cross

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was horrific and just wrong on so

many levels, and no one would ever

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endure that ever again to that extent.

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But, but the reason why He

did it Because he loves you

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And again, very much like Jesus,

Paul had the Holy Spirit within him.

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Paul was in him, and through Jesus, he

was able to, be selfless and disciple

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Onesimus and teach him and also remind

Philemon of the gospel and put him

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in a position where he had to make a

decision, as to what he was gonna do.

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Was he gonna choose grace?

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Was he gonna choose to,

give more consequences?

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and Paul still said, "But if there

is, if there is something still

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that you need, I will take it.

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Put it on my account."

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And that is exactly what Jesus did for us.

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He took all our sins and

he put it on his account.

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He put it on his account,

and we are now debt-free.

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We live in a sinful world, but

there is no condemnation in our

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sin because we are forgiven.

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Our slate was wiped clean on that cross

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So I hope that is clear.

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I hope that is clear.

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so thank you, Lord, for teaching all

of that to us through your sacrifice,

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for teaching that to Paul, for leaving

him with that, and for him Through you,

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through your Spirit, just leaving us

these nuggets and these books and these

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letters, that can teach the world so

much of your love and grace and your

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selflessness and everything that you are.

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my side note here for verse

21 and 22, I wrote for verse

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21, "Paul affirms his faith in

Philemon making the right choice."

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So verse 21 says, "Having confidence,"

meaning him having faith in Philemon,

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"Having confidence in your obedience,

I write to you, knowing that you

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will do even more than I say."

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So like Paul is saying, "I

already know because you're firm

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in the faith, I already know

you're gonna do the right thing."

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Verse 22, on my side note, Paul says,

"Paul even asks to have a room made for

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him because through prayer, he has faith

that he will be released from prison."

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so verse 22 says, "But meanwhile,

also prepare a guest room for

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me, for I trust that through your

prayers, I shall be granted to you."

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And man, if that's not

faith, I don't know what is.

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But I pray that we can

all have Paul's faith.

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I pray that we can all be as in prayer

and as just in the mud with our, our

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faith and just, like, rolling around

in it, and just trying to continue

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to cover ourselves in prayer because

the power of prayer is, is amazing.

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And while we think sometimes

that our prayers go unanswered

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and God is quiet, He's not.

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He's working.

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There's two choices.

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He's either working or His silence is an

answer, but it's up to you and to me, it's

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up to us to decipher what is from God.

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Is it that He's just working and I need to

be obedient and patient, or is He silent

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because deep down in my heart, I know this

is not for me, and the Lord is telling

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me, "It's not for you," in His silence.

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so anyway, so I truly hope, as I

always say, I truly hope that you

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guys, learned something from this book.

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There's just no way that you guys didn't

learn anything because this book was

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short, 25 verses, but it was beautiful,

and it was amazing, and there's just

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so many wonderful lessons that we

can also pass on to our children.

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If there's something that we may want

our children to be, it's we may want our

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children to learn from this book one day.

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obviously, the Bible as a whole,

this right here, there's just

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everything in here is worth

teaching to the entire world.

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But- I say to you that there's a lot

of amazing lessons, especially of

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selflessness and forgiveness, Too many

times we hold on to things of the past.

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Too many times we hold on to grudges,

and forgiveness is the most amazing gift

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that we can give ourselves in trials.

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We don't have to blame ourselves

for other people's wrongdoings.

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We don't have to blame ourselves

for our own wrongdoings.

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Sometimes that's just

how we're gonna grow.

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Sometimes that's just how we're going

to evolve and move on to the next level.

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If we have our own businesses,

sometimes we have to test the waters.

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We failed, it's okay.

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It's okay.

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Through prayer and supplication, ask

God to continue to guide you, and to

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give you the tools and to give you

the knowledge to take your business

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and yourself to that next step.

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Through prayer and supplication,

if you have something that you are

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struggling with, with your children,

with your couples, your spouse, your

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husband, your friend, your family, pray.

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And I myself need to follow that

because I've been praying a lot more

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lately, but I wasn't praying enough.

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I wasn't praying enough, and believe

me, the Lord Jesus Christ and God

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the Father and the Holy Spirit guide

us, and they show us, and they speak

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to us, but it's up to us to tap into

this, this gift that resides in us.

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It's, it's up to us to u- to use

it, to use it and to call on Him to

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give us that supernatural strength

that Jesus Christ can give us.

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It's up to us.

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It's up to us

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to stand firm in our faith, to forgive,

to be selfless, to love, to teach.

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So anyway, my friends, thank you all.

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Thank you all.

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I am so happy and so blessed that

you guys are here week after week

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listening to the I Can He Can podcast,

to listening to the Sound Mind series.

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I can't wait to have our next

episode, and I truly hope,

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again, that this has blessed you.

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I love you all.

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Take care.

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