In this episode of the 'Giddy Up' segment, the Lesa shares updates and excitement about the future direction of their business. Despite technical issues during recording, the host returns to talk about their website under construction and upcoming focus on 'Saddle Up Live.' They will continue offering divorce mediation and co-parenting courses while introducing a new element to help couples make a last effort to save their marriage. Lesa, who is also a certified life coach, emphasizes the importance of personal growth and effective communication, sharing insights from her own 33-year marriage. Additionally, the host announces a forthcoming reasonably priced online course aimed at transforming lives and improving marriages, and invites listeners to subscribe to the podcast and share their stories.

00:00 Welcome to the Giddy Up Segment

00:06 Technical Difficulties and Determination

00:36 Exciting Business Updates

00:48 New Offerings and Services

01:35 Life Coaching and Personal Growth

02:14 Marriage and Communication Insights

02:31 Personal Experience and Advice

04:08 Helping Individuals and Couples

05:29 New Online Courses and Resources

06:30 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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Welcome to the Giddy Up segment.

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I'm thankful that you're here

and you're going to love this.

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You know, when you kind of produce

your own podcasts, things can happen.

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I already recorded this and I did it

in the barn and I ran in the house and

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I was going to set it up so that it

would come out tomorrow and The whole

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thing was recorded with no sound.

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So I almost didn't come back out and

do this, but I have to feed the horsey

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and the donkey and the chickens anyway.

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So here I am.

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And I think the reason that

I wanted to come out here is

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because I'm really excited about.

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where my business is going and

what I'm going to be offering.

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And so I do want to share that with you.

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Um, my website is under construction and

I will continue to serve you with doing

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divorce different, although I'm going

to be focusing more on saddle up live.

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I still will do divorce mediations

and that parenting co parenting

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course will be there along with.

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The DIY divorce course for Minnesota.

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So that's still a piece of the work that

I do, but I also have something set up

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so that if things get really busy and

people want to work with someone right

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away, I've got someone that I've trained

that I can slide those folks over to if

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necessary because there's a new part of

my business that I'm really excited about.

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And yeah, it has to do with life.

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And how things happen and how you

reexamine things sometimes when you go

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through something that's life changing.

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And I'm just thrilled to be beginning

to help people maybe take one last

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ditch effort in their marriage.

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It's so fun.

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I've always wanted to do it.

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I am a life coach.

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So not only am I an attorney, I

did get certified as a life coach.

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And the reason that I did that and

the reason that I love to learn and

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grow is just because it's how I am.

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But also it makes me a better mediator.

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It helps me help people

communicate better.

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And Such a huge part of

marriage is communication.

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And, you know, I think therapy can be a

piece of this and that's not my piece.

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I want to help couples move forward.

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Because I've had such amazing luck with

it in my own, I think it's 33 years of

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marriage and it's, we have an anniversary

coming up in a couple of months, no, next

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month or soon, even sooner than a month.

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So I have my experience and I'm not

saying the ride was always smooth.

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We have been through things and there

are amazing things that you can do to

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help yourself In your marriage too.

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So I want to make sure, because I think

one of the biggest things my clients come

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to me about is they kind of don't know

for sure if they're ready to get divorced.

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Whenever I ask them, yeah,

you know, I think so.

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So let's do one last ditch effort.

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And I really.

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If you, it's something you've been

thinking about for a long time, you

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might as well put your all into it.

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Even if it is just for a month, I've

got some tools that can help you.

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And you know what?

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It doesn't always take two people.

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This is really weird.

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It takes you changing yourself.

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And I have learned that when I have

changed how I respond and react

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and my kind of get control of my

emotions, it's helped my marriage.

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It's It's pretty amazing.

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And of course there's that God focus too.

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That's, that, um, is probably the most

important thing to me is surrendering

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to him, um, because he knows what's

best and that just kind of takes the

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worry piece out of it, but that's,

what's leading me to another aspect.

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It's kind of.

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where I'm going to be helping

individuals as well as couples.

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And, you know, I love ladies my age.

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I have been, I have been through so much.

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Um, and I know a lot of us have,

and I used to feel like, Oh, I

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want to help you suffer less.

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And I think I said that before.

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I want to help you suffer less.

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Well, that's true.

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But what I have learned

is in life, there's good.

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Things that happen and there's bad

things that happen and we can't you

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know, that's that's life I want to help

you do better through the hard things

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and I want to teach you what I did what

I didn't do Right, and so that can be

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you as an individual if you can work on

yourself individually sometimes that's

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gonna just blow through and help your

marriage or help you in a new life after

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your marriage or transitioning from kids

going off to college or transitioning

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into starting a new business.

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I mean, I really didn't get into this

business really powerfully until I

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think I was 49 or 50, which is pretty

cool and fun and you can do it and life

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is so good and we just want to suck

all that joy and goodness out of it.

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So that's what I'm doing that.

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That's where my website, if you go look

at it now, you'll see that it's under

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construction, but I have all kinds of

new freebies on quizzes on your mindset

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and um, tools to transform your marriage.

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I've got a new online course that

I'm going to keep them really,

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um, reasonably priced so that you

can learn what I have learned.

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I've been coached by the best and

it's not just from one person.

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It's me putting together

everything that I have learned.

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into a process that has changed my life.

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And so that's a new online course that

isn't quite done yet, but it almost is.

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And it's not anything super in depth

that doesn't take a lot of time.

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It's your first step in this journey

with me to delving in to having a

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better life, to feeling our feelings

and learning how to navigate.

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the good times and the times that

are a little bit more difficult.

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I just want to help you on this journey

and I'm so thankful for all of you.

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Please hit subscribe to this podcast.

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I want to be here for you.

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I want you to reach out.

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I want you to.

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Come on my podcast.

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If you have an amazing story, I want you

to share what you want to know about.

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I got some great things

coming, um, in the future too.

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I just wanted to get on here quick

and share this with you because I just

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feel so blessed and I'm so grateful.

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So you just, I'll take good

care and I'll see you next week.