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Building Confidence and Inner Wisdom
Episode 15 • 14th February 2023 • Inner Peace Meditations • Steven Webb
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For the day you have a decision to make and no confidence in yourself to make it.

About 11 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.

Nothing gets pushed away in this one. Thoughts come, sounds come, and you watch them like a leaf floating down a river. The calm is not a reward for stopping the noise. It is what is left once you stop wrestling with it, and that gap is where your better decisions live.

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Thank you for sitting with me.

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Just while you're making yourself comfortable and getting settled in, I just want to tell you about another podcast I

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have. It's called Stillness in the Storms Podcast. And it's a podcast that helps you to get a little inner

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peace when you need it most and you probably have it least.

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And it's just... Seeing life from a different perspective. And I'm also choosing not to have any

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sponsors for either of these podcasts. So if you would like to treat me to a coffee, you can head

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over to StevenWebb.uk or if you'd like to download the five simple practices for inner peace, also head

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over to StevenWebb.uk. You are awesome. Settle in and enjoy the meditation. I won't disturb you

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after the meditation.

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Just make yourself comfortable. Just allow your body to relax. Shake out your arms a little. And

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just imagine a wave coming down over you from the top to bottom. Just recognising any bits of tension within

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your body.

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And when you notice any of these bits of tension, just imagine them fading away.

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And bring your awareness to your breath.

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I'm breathing in.

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I'm breathing out.

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You don't have to do anything with your breath.

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Just recognise that it's happening.

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The same as everything else inside and on the outside. It is all just happening.

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You may notice your breath slowing down gently.

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I'm breathing in. I'm

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breathing out.

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And you may notice some thoughts coming in your head. Just recognise them as a thought and do nothing with

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them.

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Just like a leaf floating down the river, you can recognise the leaf. You can enjoy the nature

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of that. It's just floating by. And

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you don't have to do anything with a leaf. Just the same as you don't have to do anything with

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your breath. You

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don't have to do anything with your thoughts.

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Just allow it to come and go.

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Just the same as every breath comes.

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And then it goes.

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And you're constantly making way for new ones.

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Making way for a new thought to come along.

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A new feeling. A new breath.

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It's all the same with a subtle difference.

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Just the same as the sound coming in,

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Just like my words and my voice.

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My words are just coming and going.

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And even with meditation you don't have to do anything with it. You can just allow the meditation to be

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what it is. Just

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sitting here, observing, becoming aware.

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Just allowing everything to be just as it is.

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You're not going to stop the thoughts coming. Any different than you're going to stop the breath coming.

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You're not going to stop the little bit of wanting to do something, the intention.

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You're not going to stop the sounds coming in or the sensations coming up through the body.

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These things will keep happening to us.

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When we learn to just sit and

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be at one with it all and not have to do anything with it,

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We naturally remain calm.

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We naturally become wiser. We

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have deeper insights

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When we're not trying to push everything away, trying to force a type of meditation.

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We just allow it to be what it is,

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Just a pure awareness.

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And as your awareness moves from one thing to another, from a thought to the breath, to a

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sound, to an emotion, to my voice,

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it'll keep fleeting from one thing to another. Just allow it to do it and just smile.

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As if you're entertained by

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it. And recognise it is what it is.

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It's what the mind and the body does best.

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And from this place we have a deeper wisdom. A wisdom that we can respond throughout the day.

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That we can know with this deep insight that we have a little gap and a little more extra time

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to make the wiser, deeper decisions.

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Just by taking a breath,

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you can then analyse what's really happening in the moment. And

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you can make better decisions.

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You can feel calmer and you can have more confidence in your decisions and

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your wiser thoughts.

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From this deeper sense of who you are,

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there's a wonderful quality to the deeper,

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wiser person within you.

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And when we just allow the moment to be exactly be what it is.

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Allow the thought to be what it is and just watch it.

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Allow the breath to be what it is and we just watch it.

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It's the same as the sounds from the external world.

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Any sensations from within.

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We just allow them to be what they are.

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We learn.

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We become wiser.

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We become our own teacher.

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And from this deeper, wise perspective,

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You can make better decisions

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And be more confident throughout the day.

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And in a moment I'm going to come back from five. But bring this deeper, wiser sense of you back

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with it.

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Whenever you need to today, you can call up on your breath to

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create a little space between you and the decision and

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you know you'll make a deeper, wiser

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choice.

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Five. Four. Gently move your arms. Three. Gently open your eyes.

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Two. Shake out your body a bit One. And smile and take a look around the room and just know

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that there's a Wise teacher within you. Whenever you just bring your attention to your breath and you

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just pause and you can approach any problem you have today from this level of deep wise

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insight teacher. Have a wonderful day.

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