Rob and David engage in a meaningful conversation with two special guests, Dr. Keith Daniel and Steve Swain. Dr. Keith Daniel, co-founder of Resilient Ventures, and Steve Swain, Director of St. Francis Springs Prayer Center, share personal stories and insights into their leadership journeys, emphasizing the necessity for intentionality, proximity, and non-violence in leadership. They underscore the concept of creating a culture of belonging to enable cities and communities to truly rejoice.
00:00 Introduction to the 11 Ten Leadership Podcast
01:11 Meet Our Special Guests: Dr. Keith Daniel and Steve Swain
04:00 The Journey of Friendship and Leadership
11:56 The Power of Shared Experiences and Hospitality
17:37 Creating Margin and Intentionality in Leadership
24:08 Rejoicing the City: Leveraging Power and Influence
31:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Resources
I think that you spend a lot of your twenties, thirties, and forties.
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:Just pounding away at stuff there's
zero margin but once suffering hits
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:And you realize.
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:That life is really short.
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:That everyone is gonna suffer.
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:It's just a matter of when that
suffering's going to take place.
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:And then the bigger question
is, what are you doing with it?
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:Rob: Welcome to the 1110
leadership podcast, where we tackle
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:issues at the intersection of
leadership, faith, and culture.
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:I'm your host, Rob Shields, vice
president of strategy,:
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:And I'm joined by my co host, founder and
CEO of:
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:Proverbs 1110 lays out a bold
and counter cultural vision.
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:When the righteous
prosper, the city rejoices.
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:We're here to ask, what does it look like
practically to be this type of leader?
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:Leaders willing to invest
everything they have so that
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:everyone around them can thrive.
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:Join us on the journey as we
lean in, listen, and learn
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:how to become Proverbs 11.
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:10 kind of leaders.
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:The kind of leaders that
make our cities rejoice.
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:David.
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:David: Hello, Rob.
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:Rob: Welcome back to the
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:My friends,
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:David: good to be back.
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:I'm excited about our guest today.
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:Rob: Oh, very excited.
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:We're going double trouble.
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:So we're gonna just go ahead and
jump straight into the conversation,
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:which I hope our listeners won't mind
at all, because this is a fun one
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:with some good friends of ours that
I think bring a lot of perspective
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:that, our listeners will really value.
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:So we've got two guests joining us today.
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:Dr.
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:Keith, Daniel and Steve Swain.
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:Two very good friends who are gonna be
joining and talking about both their
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:friendship and all things leadership.
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:So just a quick bio on both these guys.
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:If you're not familiar with their work.
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:Keith Daniels, the co-founder and
managing director of Resilient
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:Ventures which launched its first
fund in:
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:by African American founders.
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:They just launched their second fund in
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:Leads Madison Consulting Group and
brings over three decades of leadership
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:experience in higher education,
nonprofit management, public service.
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:Keith lives in Durham and
has two adult children.
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:Steve Swain is currently
the director of St.
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:Francis.
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:Springs Prayer Center, a role he
started in:
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:introduced there on a silent retreat.
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:Steve's got a lot of leadership
experience, both in the
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:for-profit and nonprofit sectors.
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:He currently owns three businesses.
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:And was formerly the director of
StepUp Ministries for nine years, which
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:StepUp, if you're not familiar, teaches
job and life skills to unemployed
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:adults in Raleigh, Greensboro,
Wilmington, and Durham, North Carolina.
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:Before that he ran and
sold a publishing company.
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:He operated a young life camp.
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:He worked for a couple MBA teams
as their director of marketing
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:and community relations.
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:That list is pretty long.
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:Both of these guys just bring such
a wealth of leadership experience
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:and knowledge to this conversation.
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:David?
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:David: Yeah just to build on that they're
leaders who have won just varied, diverse
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:backgrounds of leadership environments
as well as just always being on mission,
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:they're just always on purpose with the
way that they're leading and doing so.
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:With the real intentionality
of being close to things in our
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:communities that need to be addressed.
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:So it's just a really
refreshing time with them today.
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:Rob: Yeah.
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:They bring some fresh perspective
and I'm really glad that we were
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:able to have this conversation with
the both of them together because
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:it was really something special.
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:So here is our conversation
with Keith and Steve.
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:Steve and Keith, welcome to
the:
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:So happy to have you both.
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:Thank you.
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:Thank you, Rob and David.
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:Glad to be here for sure.
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:David: Yeah, Steve and Keith, it's
so great for us to have you guys.
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:We're excited about this conversation.
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:We've just introduced you with your
bios and the backgrounds that each
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:of you bring to this are so dynamic.
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:And so as we get into this, we don't
know where this conversation will go
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:because we can go in a lot of different
directions, but we're just gonna.
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:Tee it up and let you guys go.
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:So as we begin, I'd love to just hear
how you guys met what brought you
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:together and how have you pursued
relationship with one another.
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:Keith, can you begin, and Steve, if you
want to add to that, we'd love to just
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:hear how you guys have become friends.
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:Keith: So not sure the exact first
encounter with Steve, but what stands
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:out to me is the work of Step Up and
meeting him through , that story that
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:as it was emerging in Durham, a few
of our friends were committed to.
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:Making sure that StepUp didn't just come
to Durham with its prescribed mission
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my circles who were concerned about
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:the reflection and the investment
and, what StepUp Derham would
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of, the North Carolina Step Up mission.
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:For those who don't know, it's a amazing
nonprofit seeking to address job readiness
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:for those who have barriers to employment.
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:And that spoke to my heart, my career and
part of my career in helping people find,
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:I can't remember if you first
was in Raleigh or in Durham.
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:Steve.
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:I know we have another good friend, John
Parker, who I'll name as a co-conspirator
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:around, all things trying to address
those who are most vulnerable and
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:typically the most impacted by some of
the oppressive realities of our world.
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:I think the thing I remember about our
friendship being solidified was the trip
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:that we made down to Montgomery, the
50th anniversary Selma to Montgomery.
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:Celebration at Dexter
Avenue Baptist Church.
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:And just the gift that was to beat John
Lewis and to be in that worship service.
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:And in a sense to experience a little bit
of, what the Kingdom of Heaven looks like
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:when you can really celebrate Jubilee.
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:David: Steve, when was that?
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:Keith: We had gone down to Quine
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:Steve: Farms.
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:Haven't
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:Keith: been there before.
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:I highly recommend going down there to see
where Habitat for Humanity got started.
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:And we just happened to be over there and
a friend of ours called us and asked us
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:if we wanted to go to that service, and
so we booked over to Montgomery and got
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:the privilege of being a part of that.
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:David: So Steve, what is it about
Keith that you would say, if you
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:were to describe Keith to your
friends, how would you describe him?
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:Oh Lord.
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:Shake his head.
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:He starting to shake his head direction.
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:I
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:Rob: might need to go on mute.
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:Oh man.
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:It's the newly we game
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:. Steve: Keith is the most, humble
wise, justice minded Christian
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:that I could rub my shoulders with.
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:He has a passion to see the kingdom
of God lived out on this earth in
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:a way that is remarkable to me.
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:Some of the things that he has said
over his life to me, just, you just stop
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:and go, oh my gosh, o only God could
do and say those things through him.
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:And he just lives his life with
such conviction and character and
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:all of that is, is a deepening and
a deep relationship with Jesus.
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:But he.
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:So freely shares that with
people and it's a gift.
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:David: Keith, your turn.
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:Keith: It's hard to live up to that.
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:I first say that, Steve is
willing to go to jail for me.
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:A couple times and that's no small thing.
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:Being born in 1968 and knowing the
sacrifices that many people had
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a relationship across the color
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to it is an amazing grace of God.
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:For a man like myself and him to have
a relationship of respect and mutual
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:admiration mutual holy admiration
for one another, and knowing that
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:we are by no means perfect men.
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goly perfection as, as elusive
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:Yeah, Steve has taken some risk with
his own wealth and influence and yeah,
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:God has given us the chance to do
some quote freedom rides together, be
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things happen right in front of us.
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:Knowing some of the stories
of the people we get to.
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:Do life with.
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:I just listened to the episode
you had Natasha on and a litany
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:of other women like her have been
so deeply influential in my life.
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:And Steve has also had the
enjoyment of that with fearless,
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:courageous, compassionate, humble.
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:And when you're around enough people
like that, hopefully some of that
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:actually truly comes off on you.
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experience with me as a acknowledgement
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:of the broader community that's
been so influential in our lives.
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:And I'm thankful for Steve and.
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:His ongoing commitment.
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:To go to jail.
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:Rob: To go to jail.
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:Steve and Keith, it really is a privilege
to talk to people who I know just have
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:such a wealth of wisdom and knowledge
to offer our listeners and even myself,
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:I reflect back on how I met each of
you as I was cutting my teeth as a
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:new nonprofit leader in Durham and.
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:Got connected with each of you, Steve.
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:I remember it was on the front
porch over in east Durham.
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:And you just opened up your,
wealth of relationships and
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:said, yeah, what can I do?
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:What can I do to connect you?
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:Who do you need to be connected with?
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:And, you just took an hour and just rocked
on a rocking chair with me someone who had
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:much less social capital than yourself and
just was willing to leverage that for me.
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:And then Keith I vividly remember
us being at re city, we may not have
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couple tables and chairs.
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me to be able to really help me think
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:through how to be inclusive with the model
of re city and make sure that we really
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:swim against the current to make sure
that people on the margins were brought
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:in and centered into that story in ways
that just wouldn't happen automatically.
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gave the gift of time when you didn't
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time in my leadership journey.
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:it makes me very grateful for
the role and now that we're full
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:circle here today, having this
conversation, CS Lewis talks about
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:friendship being something like that.
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:You two moment, right?
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say, oh yeah, we share this.
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:The friendship itself isn't
what we're here to talk about.
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:We're almost like we're caught up in
this common mission, in this story of
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:what we wanna see happen in the world.
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:I wonder if you guys could
articulate that and from both of
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:your perspectives what that is.
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:What is that through line
that brings you to that table?
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:What is that mission?
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:What is that why that you feel like
you each share that really feels like
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:Keith: Yeah, I'm try to give a little bit
of thought to where this might lead us.
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:Steve and I were talking before about
this, this word hospitality, right?
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:I was shaped in a community at the time,
was very much about the black community,
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the heritage of my family here,
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:going back multiple generations.
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porch with people and to watch the
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:community pass you by and actually
know what it like, to never see
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:a white person come through your
neighborhood or community, all
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:that has changed tremendously.
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:In some ways that are, that
we're still all reckoning with,
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:what does integration look like?
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:That true full integration versus a few
folks who come and, raise the property.
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:Taxes and the influence around
the economic justice, right?
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:What does it mean to be
hospitable to people?
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:A stranger shows up at your door.
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:People on the corner who are
struggling with addiction,
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:struggling with joblessness.
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:You have a heart for that.
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:I'm still thinking about the people
I pass that faces loom large.
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:Each day that I know are unemployed,
they don't have work, housing, insecure,
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:my brothers and sisters who are coming
back from prison, the relationship
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:has God given me with people in all
these different sectors of life.
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:I think we share that wanting to
be open, use our privilege in a
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:way that makes it less possible
for anybody to not have enough.
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:Are a lot of through lines to the story.
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:But when I got a letter from Steve
and for those who read his background,
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:when he said he was gonna be the
director of this place called St.
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:Francis that I had not heard of, and
ironically, I not sure why I hadn't
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sight because I do a lot of spiritual
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pre right before the pandemic,
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:When you took over Director of St.
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:Francis, and he letter in the
mail was like, I'm director.
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:What?
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:The spiritual retreat center, Steve the,
the master fundraiser, I need that, I
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:need a place to go, rest, heal, get away.
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mine had the keys to that and then he
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into this very flourishing,
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:library that is there.
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:Dedicated African American
authors, storytellers the former
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is really critical is experiences
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are critical in this.
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life is just going so fast that
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grind that we are missing things.
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impacted me about black space.
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being on someone's porch.
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I didn't know this growing up.
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how important it is.
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context and sitting on a black
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white people don't do it.
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to be, somewhat contrarian.
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man, can I come hear your story
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into college, right?
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him on his porch, and I'm only at his
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of his life, which I know a lot of.
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of shared experience.
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too that hits me all the time
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learn how to be a great active
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particular in spaces of color, like it is
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try to understand wait, this isn't what I.
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I thought I was the teacher.
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I almost deconstruct what it means
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what it means to be a student.
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:David: Yeah.
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:I wanna build off of what you guys
have both said because I wanna make
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:sure our listeners understand that
both you guys are really busy people.
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:You're leaders, you've had
incredible leadership in spaces
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:In the nonprofit space, Keith,
you're committed to providing
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African American entrepreneurship
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:Steve leading St.
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affordable housing, among all
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have done in your careers,
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:you guys have had to create
margin for what you just said.
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:So many of our leaders are just
in the throes of all the demands
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that their people require.
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we're working with just to even
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said deconstruct the way you think.
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deconstruct how you even live and what is
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level of leadership and outcomes
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you're leading while creating
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:Steve: I think just being really
as authentic as I can possibly be.
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twenties, thirties, and forties.
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describing, just there's zero
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can't control that anymore and you
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clearly and you realize.
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suffering's going to take place.
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is, what are you doing with it?
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realm of just looking at culture.
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going how do you not engage this?
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became a discipline.
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every time I book a meeting with
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a meeting with a black person.
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ridiculous to say that.
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life of intentionality that when
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like I'm trying to make it about
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:Steve: to a lot of people.
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life to, to make that a priority.
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from him every time I'm with him.
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him is this notion that I see the beauty
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about others, and it attracts me to 'em.
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things came to mind for me.
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I can't, I just, the amazing grace of
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I need you to think about something.
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when I graduated from Duke, I came
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I'll run through a barrier.
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was formed around that sport from
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until my last season in college.
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junior year and that's, I think that's
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running, starting kick returner.
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my wrist down in Tennessee.
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the brakes off of Tennessee, by the way.
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crying underneath my breath.
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in the hospital bed and God was like,
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than this sport than with football.
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eyes a little bit began because anybody
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for something you've trained so hard
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suddenly I'm, God is having a
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spiritual directors in my life.
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had a lot of mentors who do a lot of work
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hopefully hearing from God and responding.
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about my interior life, and has
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interior work is and I tell my son, who
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one, I said, all the work we put into
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control of things, man, that stuff got
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let God do the interior work because we're
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me are gonna feel it.
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by the kind of person I'm becoming
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:Rob: I appreciate both of those
answers, and I think in many ways,
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:this is a podcast about a tiny
little verse in Proverbs, right?
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:Proverbs 1110, when the righteous
prosper, the city rejoices.
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with the leaders we work with,
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of those handful of words.
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:What does it mean to be, in
the Hebrew of the sad Akeem.
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:The people who are leveraging whatever
amount of power, wealth, and influence
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:I'm really struck and I want to just
make sure that our listeners, digest
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:the through line of both of your most
recent answers there of, we talk a
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proximity and we talk about needing
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:to cross lines of difference, whether
that be race, whether it be class
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:There was a really this, the way
that there was a holy displacement.
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:Both of your lives, the way that God
uses suffering, allows suffering to
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empathy for those who are displaced.
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:I know that has definitely been true
in my story and David's story as well.
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:I guess as we draw the conversation
to a close here, would love to have
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about what it means to rejoice the
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:Who are in places where they
can have influence and leverage
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:power, wealth, and influence?
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:What are obstacles to
them rejoicing the city?
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that need to be honed from your
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:vantage point, and they, maybe even
some that you're currently trying
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:to hone yourself to really be the
akm that verse is talking about.
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:Keith, we'll let you go first this time.
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:Keith: Yeah, I think for me it's I've
been called to do a lot of teaching
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:around the spiritual life, the interior
life and reckoning around race and
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:racism and the violence in our world.
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:I have to see the violence
within my own community.
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often is being trained to be a
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:nonviolent responder which is
predicated on this aic love, right?
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:This vision of AIC love, which is.
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:My love will out, endure your hate,,
I have a lot of that in my veins
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:from the Civil Rights movement.
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:'cause I know how violently opposed
it was both within our community and
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:without, I had to wake up every day and
decide that I do believe that we can
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:participate in an integrated society.
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:That's a decision that
does not come without cost.
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:'cause what we're facing now politically
and economically makes me think
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:about where do I feel most safe?
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:Whether it's the black church, the
black college institutions, the
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:places that we say were built for us.
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:A lot of my peers we're not
going to white schools anymore.
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:We're not making ourselves subject
to these spaces that have made
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:it clear that it's not for us.
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:People moving out of the country.
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:People, there, there's it's a different
kind of pandemic happening right now
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:that we have to guard ourself against.
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:There is more of an uprising around
hate and hateful language and
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nonviolently peacefully.
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:How do I channel my own rage
and hate that's within me and a
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:part of my sinful nature, that
it's easy for me to retaliate?
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:And again, I said I played
the sport of football.
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:You ain't gonna just push me.
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:I, that just not happening, but
what does it look like when I do
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:get pushed and I choose not to
shove back in a certain way, right?
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:I still have to be militant about
my dignity and stand firm in that.
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:It's a mystery that Jesus
surrendered to the cross.
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:It's a mystery that we
call it Good Friday.
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:If I'm being real as a human
being what's the good and the
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:But then we go to the mystery of theology
and God's providence and the Odyssey
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:about, why God, do we have to wait 400
years and then go back again to deal
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:Steve, how about you?
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Keith knows this, but on a book written
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:by Henry Nowan called Reaching Out, and
there is this moment in the book that
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:The second section is on moving
from hostility to hospitality.
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:And when you think about, a city
flourishing, a city really has to
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:flourish when the city understands,
no, we're not gonna be hostile
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:to each other, we're actually
gonna be hospitable to each other.
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:And , he says this now, and
emphasizes that true hospitality.
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:Involves creating a free space where
strangers can encounter acceptance
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:and ultimately become friends
rather than remaining enemies.
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:The distinction between host and guest
becomes fluid as this transformation
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:occurs revealing a shared humanity
and a newfound unity between people.
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:Who were once fearful of each other.
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:And I just think about
that, especially at St.
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:Francis of like, when a guest says to
us, gosh why does this feel like home?
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:Like I feel like I'm.
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:Part of this place, like I almost
wanna run over and hug 'em because I
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:realize they're realizing like, oh,
they don't feel like a guest anymore.
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:They feel like they're part of this.
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:And I think when you look at scripture
is just full of Jesus being hospitable.
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:That's who the brother was.
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:Woman at the well.
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:Paralytic man good Samaritan.
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:The list goes on and on of how
Jesus modeled hospitality and.
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:I think that's where a city flourishes
is when True Kingdom hospitality
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:just rains all over the place.
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:David: Yeah.
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:This is good.
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:As I'm listening to you guys talk,
that's stuff we all long for.
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:And to get there, is through a means
that is very counter-cultural or even
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:counter, what I am am prone to do myself.
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:I think about the leaders that
we're working with and how they're
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:wanting to build culture where
people feel like they belong.
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:At work and feel known.
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:And so I just wanna highlight that
as people are listening to you guys,
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:that there's some real takeaways
in terms of our leadership for how
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:we create a culture of belonging.
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:And then that leads to ultimately the kind
of impact that allows the city to rejoice.
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:And it takes some, steps of being
uncomfortable and moving into spaces
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:we wouldn't normally do as leaders
to create that culture of belonging.
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:Just can't thank you guys enough.
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:Thank you for your stories
and what God is using them.
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:Thank you for sharing things
that you may not have said
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:to others before our podcast,
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:but that just shows your
openness and your vulnerability.
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:Because you're so passionate
about these things.
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:So really appreciate that.
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:Stephen Kee.
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:Thank you all so much for the work you're
doing and ways you're leading it's
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:Rob: beautiful.
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:Grateful, grateful for both of you.
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:Thank you so much.
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