The saddest song in the world: A piece so full of despair that many are rumored to have taken their own lives while listening to it. Music doesn’t get much darker than that, and in today’s episode we explore the history and legend behind Rezső Seress’s “Gloomy Sunday”.
Frequently referred to as “the Hungarian suicide song”, Gloomy Sunday has been covered by many artists in genres spanning from classical (Kronos Quartet) to punk (Dead Milkmen). We share our own version of the song at the end of the episode.
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Speaker:Wendy, I'm looking at the window here, and all I see are
Speaker:clouds. And all I have seen is clouds all
Speaker:day and raining. It is the perfect
Speaker:day for a sad song. How how's the weather where you are right
Speaker:now? Well, it's sunny, but,
Speaker:you know Okay. Great. Not everybody is always happy
Speaker:in the sun. So No. I'm vampires talking about sad
Speaker:songs. Okay. Vampires hate it. No. I had a great moment today.
Speaker:It was it's been just gloomy, gloomy all day
Speaker:long, but I live right next to a daycare. Right?
Speaker:So I live right next to a daycare, and it must have been recess time
Speaker:or whatever because I could hear the kids playing and everything outside
Speaker:in a cloudy day. But then all of a sudden,
Speaker:it started pouring. Like, out of nowhere, it just started pouring, and
Speaker:you could hear them all scream. That's funny.
Speaker:Just so just the sound of just terrified screaming
Speaker:children out the window made for
Speaker:a just an excellent day and an inspiring day. No. It
Speaker:didn't think so, Mike. That's a scenario I had never contemplated
Speaker:before. It just so I just couldn't stop laughing because I'm
Speaker:like, oh, man. They're getting wet. Cruel.
Speaker:So, no. It's been terrifically gloomy today, which I think is the
Speaker:perfect day to talk about sad songs. What's the
Speaker:saddest song you think you've ever heard? Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Like, one, every time you hear it, you're like, oh, well.
Speaker:Oh, gee. Now you're putting me on the spot, and I can't think of 1.
Speaker:Well, while you think of it, the saddest songs that I ever hear now there's
Speaker:modern bands that make sad songs. You know, I think Radiohead just Mike that's their
Speaker:business is that Tom York, whenever you hear an interview with him, he sounds like
Speaker:it, like, oh, I'm a happy well adjusted guy, but he he writes songs
Speaker:Mike as soon as the song's done, I'm just gonna go walk off off this
Speaker:window. You know? See you. Bye. Like, he's like, I'm you know, I hope
Speaker:my elevator doesn't you know, I just I think that, Thom Yorke as a
Speaker:Radiohead writes some really sad songs. That's true. But
Speaker:nothing is sad. And there's a lot of folk artists that are kinda
Speaker:sad. Damien Rice writes some sad songs with the violin, but
Speaker:the saddest music is music from the Civil War.
Speaker:Yeah. You know, you listen to a song from the Civil War. You ever
Speaker:hear anything like that, and you just picture somebody laying in the grass
Speaker:or whatever. You know, it's like, ah, no. I need my leg amputated
Speaker:or something like that. I just shot my brother. Like, it's it's horrible.
Speaker:Okay. So Well, that that brings to Mike, actually, Mike, the Schindler's
Speaker:List theme song. Oh, yeah. Yeah. That's
Speaker:particularly heart Wendy. I mean, because movie
Speaker:that's one I'd have to say is in the top. Right. Nobody nobody's Mike, hey,
Speaker:there's a party tonight. And it's Mike, well, put on the Schindler's List soundtrack. You
Speaker:know, let's get it started. Right. Right. Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah. But that's so there's some sad really sad stuff. That's the saddest
Speaker:music I can think of. It's probably the associations with the civil war are the
Speaker:associations of dying, you know, and, obviously,
Speaker:Schindler's List has an association with the holocaust. You know?
Speaker:But, you know, I I think we should talk about a little bit about the
Speaker:saddest song in the world. Oh Mike gosh.
Speaker:And how do we how do we figure that out? Like Well, I I
Speaker:think we can figure it out because there's a song that's
Speaker:absolutely so sad that
Speaker:they said it led people to killing themselves. And
Speaker:we'll talk about subliminal we'll talk about subliminal messages and backwards
Speaker:masking in another episode where
Speaker:people were saying that certain bands were trying to get their trying to
Speaker:get their fans to kill themselves and stuff like that with subliminal messages. This is
Speaker:a song with no subliminal messages or anything like that. This is a
Speaker:song that's just so completely depressing that you
Speaker:hear it and the notes and the words, make you wanna
Speaker:kill yourself. That's crazy. Like, it it accesses a little
Speaker:spot in your brain that that makes you. Yeah. It's it's music is
Speaker:mind control. It's Wow. Kinda thing. So Okay. So
Speaker:there is such a song. You're saying there's a song out there. We probably shouldn't
Speaker:air it. Well, okay. We'll we'll talk about that in a second.
Speaker:Okay. And we're not there's also a movie called the saddest song in the
Speaker:world that came out a few years ago. This is there's nothing to do with
Speaker:the movie or anything like that. This is the saddest song in the world,
Speaker:and it's known as the Hungarian suicide
Speaker:song. And that's, like, a depressing thing right there just to be,
Speaker:like, yeah, the Hungarian suicides. Because,
Speaker:Hungary is not known as a happy
Speaker:place. Right. Right. When you think of Hungarian music, you
Speaker:think of kind of a Mike key and that type of
Speaker:Yeah. You think of gypsies, actually. I think I think the hungary or, you know,
Speaker:I think of gypsies or the the Roma people. Sure. Yeah.
Speaker:So okay. Let's talk a little bit about in the in the US, it
Speaker:was it was known as Gloomy Sunday. So that's I like that name
Speaker:a little bit better. Than the Hungarian suicide song? Yeah. It's
Speaker:weird. When you try to buy, you know, on record, it wasn't really a popular
Speaker:record. It was Mike, this song will make you kill yourself.
Speaker:Like a marketing point? Yeah. Mike, you know, like, that would be on the poster
Speaker:or whatever. Like, you walk into Sam Goody or Virgin or
Speaker:whatever, and you're, like, hey, you got that new Suicide track. Oh. It what? No.
Speaker:It was really popular among goths and cutters.
Speaker:It's not. Okay. No. I no. It's not. Alright. But let's just
Speaker:start a little history of the Hungarian suicide
Speaker:song. Okay. And it was written by Hungarian composer,
Speaker:Retso Sarres in 1933.
Speaker:So it is 81 years old this year. I mean,
Speaker:so that was very early on in the when the
Speaker:first when were the first recordings, like, accessible to
Speaker:people? Mike, the Victorola and whatnot. Mike Well, no. They were doing I
Speaker:mean, they were doing that in the early 19 100 in the late 18th Okay.
Speaker:And stuff like that. I mean, I just I was wondering if if, like,
Speaker:if it had to be played live, you know, that would that would change the
Speaker:dynamic of Right. That would make everything like, it's like, yeah.
Speaker:Yeah. No. We're gonna play for your song. It's gonna make you kill yourself tonight.
Speaker:Nobody did that. Right. Because we've you know, I've see I've done shows where
Speaker:people leave the room, but that's an all altogether different kind of
Speaker:experience. No. There's I've themselves. I've been at shows where I wanted
Speaker:to kill myself because of listening to the band. I mean, that's that's not
Speaker:even that weird. Okay. So there's a couple of different accounts about
Speaker:how this song came to be. One was that he wrote it as
Speaker:the song was called The World is Ending. Mhmm. That that
Speaker:sounds that sounds very Cheerful track. Yeah. And that's
Speaker:a that's a song about war, and, obviously,
Speaker:1933 were not too far after the end of the First World War,
Speaker:where Hungary was part of the empire that lost. So there's, you know
Speaker:Okay. That's you know, the Germans and the Austro Hungarians and the Turks
Speaker:all lost together on that one. It's a it's
Speaker:a depressing song written in a depressing place at a depressing
Speaker:time in 1933. And that's that's one of the
Speaker:the rumors of how the song was created. The other rumor is
Speaker:that his girlfriend left him before it was written, and that's what inspired the
Speaker:sad melody. So those are both pretty depressing things.
Speaker:Or maybe the combination of of awful things in that
Speaker:guy's life Let him to write it. Add to the really
Speaker:sad melody about the gloomy Sunday became. But, there was
Speaker:a Hungarian poet, Laszlo Javor, who added his own
Speaker:lyrics after the song was released, and that's when the song became
Speaker:popular. And let me go over a little bit with you
Speaker:the English translation of the lyrics to gloomy
Speaker:Sunday. Alright. Lay it on me. On a sad
Speaker:Sunday with a 100 white flowers, I was waiting for you, my dear,
Speaker:with a church prayer, that dream chasing Sunday morning, the
Speaker:chariot of my sadness returned without you. Okay.
Speaker:Pretty sad so far. Ever ever since then,
Speaker:Sundays are always sad. Tears are my drink, and sorrow
Speaker:is my bread. Sad Sunday.
Speaker:Getting a little sadder. Last Sunday, my dear.
Speaker:Please come along. There will even be a priest, coffin, a
Speaker:cattle falc. I don't know what a cattle falc is. A
Speaker:hearse cloth. Even then flowers will be awaiting you. Flowers
Speaker:and coffin. Under blossoming trees, my journey shall be
Speaker:the last. My eyes will be open so that I can see you
Speaker:one more time. Do not be afraid of my eyes as I am blessing you
Speaker:even in my death last Sunday. Oh my
Speaker:gosh. Yeah. Guy needs a hug so bad. I was gonna say, Laszlo,
Speaker:brother. Like, we are a date or something like
Speaker:that to cheer him up because that yeah. That was a I wanna, like, buy
Speaker:some Ben and Jerry's and go over to his house and, like Right.
Speaker:Give him a hug and Sure. No. I mean, let's just go through and let's
Speaker:watch some Netflix and relax. Right. Exactly. You can wear your
Speaker:sweats. It'll be fine. Like Yes. We've all had those moments. It's like,
Speaker:hey. There's chips. Mike. It's a I mean,
Speaker:someone dies and their lover contemplates suicide, they join them in death.
Speaker:So it's a fairly, yeah, gloomy Sunday. It's it's pretty sad.
Speaker:It's very sad. And so,
Speaker:it got the newer version gets recorded in 1935, and that's
Speaker:when it becomes really popular. And that's when it becomes
Speaker:linked to different suicides in in Hungary. And so they're
Speaker:writing about this in the newspaper, and it's claimed that a woman in Vienna
Speaker:drowned herself and was clutching clutching the sheet music in her hands to the
Speaker:song. Oh my gosh. In Budapest, the shopkeeper killed himself
Speaker:and quoted this song in in his suicide note.
Speaker:So much so I mean, Time Magazine writes about the song twice.
Speaker:Once in 9 once in 1936 and once in 1937.
Speaker:They talk about a woman that hung herself and laid the sheet music at her
Speaker:feet. There's a claim that it's been banned
Speaker:by the police in Budapest. They
Speaker:say a man in Indianapolis hired a soloist to play this song to him while
Speaker:he drank a glass of of poisoned beer. Oh my
Speaker:gosh. No. And it get you're right. It gets mentioned by the Los Angeles
Speaker:Times in 1936 as well. And so this is up I mean, this is a
Speaker:song where even back in the 19 thirties, they're saying people
Speaker:are killing themselves after listening to Gloomy Sunday.
Speaker:But do you think it's because, like, after they listen to it or do you
Speaker:think they listen to it and they related to it so much? Or,
Speaker:you know, they're depressed people, so they're listening to sad things, and then
Speaker:they're like, oh, this resonates so much with what I'm going through. I'm gonna clutch
Speaker:it in my hands Yeah. As I drown myself or whatever. Right. I
Speaker:think these are people who are living through the depression. They're waiting
Speaker:for a chance to kill themselves. They I mean, that's the whole thing, and
Speaker:they're it's a it's a sad time. I mean, there's no money.
Speaker:It was. The depression. Like, it's just the it's the worst time to be alive.
Speaker:And Yeah. I mean, well, the civil war is probably worst
Speaker:time to be alive because people are shooting at you, but that's where the other
Speaker:sad music comes from. That's true. I mean, the great depression is
Speaker:terrifying. I mean, when you think about it, you think about the, like, the dust
Speaker:bowl and I mean, just it sounds like a everything sounds horrible during the
Speaker:great depression. Like, you grow up and you're like, oh my god. Everybody's so
Speaker:dirty. People are jumping out of buildings. There's no money. Guys are
Speaker:living in Hoovervilles, whatever they used to call them. People don't know where
Speaker:their next nickel is gonna come from? Right. Every people
Speaker:are starving. They're trying to take care of kids. There's no Internet. This is living
Speaker:in hell. Oh my gosh. And and so, I
Speaker:just I think these people were waiting to kill themselves, and then they hear a
Speaker:song that's so sad. A song that talks about suicide. They're Mike, you know what?
Speaker:Laszlo, you're right, man. Let's do it. Let's get let's get it. So it, like,
Speaker:pushes them over the edge as opposed to being something
Speaker:like, oh, I thought of another sad song. What's that? That Donnie
Speaker:Darko song. The, Oh, mad world or whatever?
Speaker:Mad world. Yeah. That is a sad song. That one makes me, like,
Speaker:every time it gives me a chill. It is. That's a good one. That's a
Speaker:good one. That's a great movie too. We'll
Speaker:talk we'll talk about time travel and time travel in music and movies and stuff
Speaker:like that. Oh, so much to talk about. Okay. A million things to talk about.
Speaker:But we're staying on the sad sad song, gloomy. Right. We're saying we're not
Speaker:talking about happy things Mike traveling through time. We're talking about sad things like killing
Speaker:yourself in the dust bowl in the Great Depression, drinking a glass of poisoned
Speaker:beer while violinist plays this song for you or somebody sings it to you. That
Speaker:must be a just cold hearted stone
Speaker:violinist. Like, sure.
Speaker:I'll do it. Give me $5. Right. It's a musician getting the paycheck. You think
Speaker:they're gonna turn that down and, like, he's gonna kill him. I mean, that sucks.
Speaker:Shit. That sucks. He's gonna Mike, but, I mean, at least as long as the
Speaker:check's good. Sort of like a Kevorkian of the
Speaker:music world. Yes. Right. Doctor doctor Kevorkian of the music
Speaker:world. I will play the sad music for you. And drink your glass of
Speaker:poisoned beer. Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Okay. So they made an English language version soon after, and it was written
Speaker:by Sam Lewis. Okay. Now Sam Lewis, we don't know about him too much today.
Speaker:I mean, we he's like, nobody sings his songs all the time today. Like, they
Speaker:might sing an Irving Berlin song or something like that. But he was a,
Speaker:a composer and a songwriter kinda at that level. So
Speaker:I think has anybody seen Mike Gal? That might be his most
Speaker:famous song. Or How You Gonna Keep Them Down in the Farm after
Speaker:they've seen Perrie. Never heard of either either of those. I I know the how
Speaker:can you keep them down on the farm Okay. Song. My mother used to
Speaker:quote that song because it was popular when she was a youth. They're gonna regale
Speaker:us with a little, little line of the music? I don't really
Speaker:I don't know. It's just Mike, how do you keep them down on the farm
Speaker:now that they've seen Perry? I don't I'd I just made that to sound
Speaker:old. Okay. I do I remember a little bit, but I that was just made
Speaker:to sound old timey. Yeah. I can Google it. No problem.
Speaker:Okay. So and the thing is he adds a
Speaker:3rd verse to it. So the English we you can look over the English lyrics
Speaker:to it. He adds a 3rd verse that kinda cheers it
Speaker:up. Aw. So it kinda just says, Mike, so
Speaker:so Sunday is gloomy. My hours are slumberless.
Speaker:Dearest, the shadows I live with are numberless. Little
Speaker:white flowers will never awaken you, not where the black coach
Speaker:of sorrow has taken you. Angels have no thoughts
Speaker:of ever returning you. Would they be angry if I thought of joining
Speaker:you? Gloomy Sunday.
Speaker:Gloomy Sunday with shadows I spend it all. My heart and I
Speaker:have decided to end it all. Soon, there'll be candles
Speaker:and prayers that are sad, I know. Let them not weep. Let them know
Speaker:I'm glad to go. For death is no dream. For in death, I'm
Speaker:caressing you with the last breath of my soul. I'll be blessing
Speaker:you. Gloomy Sunday. So right now
Speaker:Right. That's it. K. Yourself. Certainly does take a different twist, doesn't it?
Speaker:Dreaming. I was only dreaming. I wake and find you
Speaker:asleep in the deep of my heart here. Darling, I hope that my dream
Speaker:never haunted you. My heart is telling you how much I wanted you.
Speaker:I know it is more cheerful, but it's still a pretty morbid thing because it's
Speaker:like, hey. Guess what I had this dream about? Well, in the dream, you
Speaker:died, and so I wanted to kill myself, and then I did.
Speaker:Hi. Let's have a great day together. Like, no. You if I said that in
Speaker:the morning to my wife, she'd be like, wow. Go back to sleep, Frigo.
Speaker:That's true. I mean, at least the effort was made to make
Speaker:it not end quite so darkly. Yeah. And the melody
Speaker:at that part too. Like, dreaming, I was only dreaming.
Speaker:It's, like, meant to be like, hey. Guess what? You know, let's let's pick this
Speaker:one up before, you know, somebody drinks a glass of poison beer
Speaker:around here. But no. I mean, this
Speaker:so when they redid the American version or the English version, they
Speaker:wanted to make it more cheerful, and so gloomy Sunday kinda they picked it
Speaker:up. And and the most popular version of the song, I think the one
Speaker:that a lot of people have heard, well, the people that didn't kill themselves that
Speaker:are still around, was by Billie Holiday.
Speaker:Oh. So Okay. So the Billie Holiday version,
Speaker:is from 1941, and that's probably the most famous popular
Speaker:version of Gloomy Sunday. Now Wonder how she decided to
Speaker:record that one. Well, it was I mean, it's a it's a popular song,
Speaker:and, it just, Mike, maybe she was just
Speaker:looking to make her, make her fans
Speaker:kill themselves. I'm not sure. Or or right. Like, what do oh,
Speaker:let's pick this one. Yeah. Probably was. It was just was the
Speaker:guy wrote a version of it. They're like, hey. Let's, you know, give it to
Speaker:Billy and see what she thinks. It's a it's a nice melody, and you'll hear
Speaker:it you'll hear the song in a little bit. So you'll hear it's a really
Speaker:nice melody, even if it is kind of a sad one. But she
Speaker:she certainly isn't the only person to record it. I mean, there's a there's a
Speaker:lot of versions of Gloomy
Speaker:Sunday, including another jazz. Great Lou Rawls did
Speaker:it in the 19 sixties. Ray Charles did a version
Speaker:in 1969. That sounds fun.
Speaker:Elvis Costello did one in 1981. Wow.
Speaker:Big names. Right. A band called Christian
Speaker:Death did it in 1986, and, the Dead Milkman,
Speaker:tongue in cheek, put it in a song called Oh, so the
Speaker:blood orgy of the atomic fern. Man, it's Mike
Speaker:every genre has covered it. That's pretty incredible. Yep.
Speaker:Marianne Faithfull who now she used to be I remember
Speaker:her. Yes. Mike so Marianne Faithful was, Rod's
Speaker:not not Rod Stewart. The lead singer of The Rolling Stones. The guy at the
Speaker:lips. Mick Jagger? Mick Jagger. Yes. That's right. He just he escaped me for a
Speaker:second, but she was Mick Jagger's girlfriend for a a while. Oh,
Speaker:yeah. So that's and that's why she was famous. And she was in
Speaker:that Metallica song. Yeah. She's
Speaker:That's right. So just hearing her sing that song made me wanna kill myself so
Speaker:I could see how her version of gloomy Sunday would do it
Speaker:too. Gosh. That shouldn't be allowed.
Speaker:Sinead Sinead did it. That gloomy Sunday
Speaker:is the song that made her shave her head. She was so
Speaker:sad. She's like, I'm I'm gonna shave my head.
Speaker:Anton LaVey, who was the, Anton
Speaker:LeVay was the founder of the church of Satan
Speaker:in the United States. And we're gonna talk more about Anton LaVey because before the
Speaker:end of his life, he became friends with Marilyn Manson and stuff like that.
Speaker:And he's great because Anton LaVey would
Speaker:have, like, show tune old time jazz sing
Speaker:alongs and stuff like that. So really fun. I mean, jazz hands.
Speaker:Like Anton LaVeya. Well, we'll talk about the church of Satan when we talk about
Speaker:the Sing about Satan. Oh, boy. A 2. Oh, 1, 2, 3,
Speaker:go. That's that exactly. Like, he's saying happy music and
Speaker:everything, and we'll talk about that because the church of Satan is isn't what
Speaker:people think it is. Okay. And so Interesting. And so
Speaker:and because he's Wendy he he was friends with all these guys and that were
Speaker:actually, like, you know, Sammy Davis junior was a member of
Speaker:the church of Satan. And who did not know. And who was a happier guy
Speaker:than Sammy Davis junior? Right. Who I mean, he's the guy everybody wants to party
Speaker:with. Yeah, man. Right. It's
Speaker:jazz hands. Who knows jazz hands like Sammy Davis? Oh, man. We'll we'll get
Speaker:there. Sarah McLachlan,
Speaker:who knows sadder songs than Sarah McLachlan? Good point.
Speaker:Oh, that one commercial with the dogs? Yeah. It it, like, I can't even
Speaker:I have to change his station when that comes on. Right. How many times has
Speaker:that commercial with the dogs made you wanna slit your wrists? You cannot
Speaker:see it without a tear Mhmm. Appearing in your eye. In the
Speaker:arms of an angel. Oh my gosh. And then they'll all those puppy
Speaker:dogs with the sets. Presents. Unless you donate money, you are a
Speaker:horrible creature. Like Mike, what are you doing,
Speaker:Sarah? It's very effective, I think. I think it is too.
Speaker:So her version of Gloomy Sunday, I think, was that was just a,
Speaker:that was a warm up for the arms of the angel, and they should put
Speaker:that song in the well, no. You know It could've maybe it inspired her
Speaker:to write that one. Who knows? It could've been. The
Speaker:Smithereens did it. Jeez. This list is huge.
Speaker:Yeah. They did it in the nineties though. So who knows we cared. Is
Speaker:is this, like, the most covered song ever? No. No. No. Of course not. Yeah.
Speaker:Yes. Yesterday is the most covered song. Okay. I believe that. I believe
Speaker:song. I believe in yesterday. The
Speaker:Hey. Thanks for the softball. Just a bit outside. Okay.
Speaker:So, the Kronos Quartet, that string quartet.
Speaker:Oh, yeah. I like the Kronos Quartet. Sarah Brightman
Speaker:did it. Yep.
Speaker:Yep. There's a a bunch of bands I haven't heard of after
Speaker:that. Bjork. Oh, yeah. Bjork, I think I've Nice. Bjork did a
Speaker:video for it too, I believe. Cool. So you can see Bjork do it in
Speaker:her weird quirky Icelandic way.
Speaker:And, oh, yeah. And then it became
Speaker:a bigger hit just this year. Hold on. Let's see if I can
Speaker:find this. What? On a Norwegian talent show.
Speaker:Like American Idol, something like that? Yeah. But this is Norwegian
Speaker:Idol. This is a really young girl. It's Mike a 7 year old girl sings
Speaker:gloomy Sunday, and that it was making the rounds on the viral videos and
Speaker:stuff. And so, actually, when you look up Gloomy Sunday Oh my gosh. You will
Speaker:find of a child singing that song is children shouldn't have to
Speaker:think about those things. Well, if you think about Romeo and Juliet, though,
Speaker:like, Romeo and Juliet's a story. And how does I mean, spoilers for
Speaker:Romeo and Juliet in case you haven't. You You know, I don't mean to spoil
Speaker:you on it, but, you know, they get they get so
Speaker:sad. They kill him you know, she kills herself. You know? And he's like, hey.
Speaker:Just faking. Too late. So that he kills himself too,
Speaker:which is a total bummer. Gotcha. Oops. Mike
Speaker:you'd think that I mean, it's just speaking of you know, you
Speaker:think it's an overload of sad and that we're kinda we find that ridiculous
Speaker:or whatever. But did you see that precious movie?
Speaker:No. I didn't. The one that got a bunch of Oscars. Yeah. It it's it's
Speaker:very well acted. Yeah. No question. It's well acted. It's well put together.
Speaker:It it it touches all the right heartstrings and and the girl puts
Speaker:on a really great performance and it's a it's a
Speaker:good film, but it's almost too unbelievable because it's
Speaker:sad after sad after sad. You know, this girl has a horrible
Speaker:relationship with her mother, and she's a victim of incest
Speaker:with her father, and she's been and then she's got AIDS,
Speaker:and then she needs help. Because, like, all these things come in, and you're just
Speaker:Mike My precious. Right. You just I expect this thing to
Speaker:stop, like, and just go worst day ever, or it's just a
Speaker:or it's just a commercial. Are you having a bad day? You know, that's the
Speaker:kinda but so at the same time, these things
Speaker:where we just pile on the sad after sad, that hasn't changed that
Speaker:much over time. Even from Shakespeare's time, we think, like, if
Speaker:we heard a story like Romeo and Juliet, which gloomy Sunday is
Speaker:just like the ending of Romeo and Juliet,
Speaker:that we're Mike, well, it's all ridiculous. We wouldn't buy it. But we still buy
Speaker:that stuff, and we still eat that stuff completely up even 100 of years
Speaker:later. Right. That's true. So but, no,
Speaker:if if you look up, you know, Gloomy Sunday, 8 year old or whatever, amazing
Speaker:okay. It's it's Mike on YouTube. Let me see how many views it has. It's
Speaker:got 8,000,000 views What? On
Speaker:YouTube. Amazing 7 year old sings Gloomy Sunday,
Speaker:Billie Holiday, Angelina Georgian. And my favorite,
Speaker:the name of the talent show is Norsca Talonter.
Speaker:Norsca Talonter. Well, you win big.
Speaker:Oh my goodness. Oh, I love it. And so it's just like America's Got
Speaker:Talent or Britain's Got Talent or whatever.
Speaker:But no. And so she won real big with her the whole
Speaker:season and her version of gloomy Sunday.
Speaker:So Angelina Jordan does not sound like a Norwegian name whatsoever.
Speaker:Does it? It really does not. It sounds like an American name. No. I'm in
Speaker:I'm in Minneapolis right now and everything I mean, everything sounds Norwegian.
Speaker:And I'm like, Angelina Jordan. She's from Norway?
Speaker:So Billie Holiday records the most popular version,
Speaker:and, that version gets banned by the
Speaker:BBC for being too disturbing. These are
Speaker:right. These are adults that make this decision. It becomes banned by the
Speaker:BBC until 2,002 for being too disturbing.
Speaker:That's very recent. Right? And when you think about all the disturbing
Speaker:things on the television nowadays Mhmm. I
Speaker:mean, wow. That's quite a statement, really. Yeah. And
Speaker:so I think that's so it gets banned in 1941, right in the middle of
Speaker:the second World War. And going back to talk about the 2nd World
Speaker:War a little bit, the composer of the song, the original
Speaker:composer, did kill himself in
Speaker:Budapest by throwing himself out a window.
Speaker:It's not a rumor. It's just not one of those things Mike you're like, oh,
Speaker:yeah. This guy killed himself. No. He killed himself. He was in the New York
Speaker:Times, which, you know, I don't I don't know how much he trusted, but I
Speaker:trusted their obituary section enough. He had a tough life
Speaker:though. He was Jewish, and he went to a Nazi prison camp in the Ukraine
Speaker:Gosh. And his mom died there. Then after the after the war, he became a
Speaker:trapeze artist and a circus performer. So he was he was multi
Speaker:you know, he's he's multitalented. He was, you know, performing,
Speaker:But he said he was depressed. He'd never write a song as popular as gloomy
Speaker:Sunday ever again. Aw. And so He's depressed that the depressing
Speaker:song was, oh. In the late sixties, he killed. Gosh.
Speaker:Well, man, that guy, I I feel really sorry for him. I do
Speaker:too. Whenever you feel like that. So What a miserable way to
Speaker:live. A germ they made a German film about the song
Speaker:in 1999. A
Speaker:Song of Love and Death. And so you can see
Speaker:that. I don't think it's on Netflix, but I think you can, it's on the
Speaker:the DVD version, so you can get it that way. And,
Speaker:yeah, the saddest song in the world. So a a little bit Wow. A
Speaker:little bit into something we went through, before. So what was
Speaker:going on that made people kill themselves in that time?
Speaker:Number 1. Hungary, historically, has had the highest suicide rate
Speaker:among Western nations. So, you know, that's it's a
Speaker:place where more people kill themselves than than others. And then,
Speaker:also, we were talking about America in 1937, 1938. We had an
Speaker:increase in suicides because of the economic downturn. I'm in the
Speaker:middle of the Great Depression, and we weren't yanked out of it until the second
Speaker:World War. Why was it banned in England? Well, in England,
Speaker:they were just coming off the blitz. This is 1941. They're in the middle of
Speaker:the war. I mean Yeah. There I mean, London was
Speaker:bombed every day by Germans for a long Mike, and it was terrifying that
Speaker:the v two rockets and everything. So you were in a place
Speaker:where was just a a Terror already down. It was a terrifying time to
Speaker:live. And so, you have a song that's really sad and sometimes
Speaker:things just become cultural touchstones. And this was one of them.
Speaker:So Well, that was a very interesting bit of
Speaker:Yeah. A little bit history and and the saddest song in the world.
Speaker:So why don't we listen to our version of it, Wendy? Alright. I think that
Speaker:sounds like a great idea. Okay. Get your handkerchiefs.
Speaker:Thank you for listening to today's episode. You can find
Speaker:us online at othersidepodcast.com. Until
Speaker:next Mike. See you on the other side.