Join Allison and Joe DuBois as they delve into the complex world of psychic mediums and unsolved murder cases, with a focus on the haunting JonBenet Ramsey case. They explore why, despite the presence of psychics, some mysteries remain unresolved and discuss the challenges that arise when law enforcement and psychic insights intersect. The conversation also touches on the spiritual implications of reincarnation and the afterlife, particularly regarding those who commit heinous crimes against children. With rich insights and personal anecdotes, Allison and Joe aim to shed light on the connections between the living and the deceased, emphasizing the importance of healing and moving forward after loss. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of life, death, and the mysteries that linger in between.

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Today on the Dead Life, I'll be taking questions from my listeners who have questions about murder and about mediums communicating with victims who have passed.

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Well, Joe, welcome.

Hi.

Hi.

Good to have you back.

It's been a little bit, but I'm excited.

It's been busy.

Yes, it's been busy, yes.

So we had a lot of call ins from the cold case segments that we had done in the past last year.

And so we're going to be answering some of the questions they have today.

Great.

Okay.

Do you want to jump right in?

Yep, let's do it.

Hi, this is Lyndee calling and I've been a follower of yours for quite a while and I'm just a little curious because I am interested in the JonBenet case and I wanted to know why it is that there isn't a psychic out there to that may have contacted her on the other side to try to find out the answers to all of these unsolved questions that are out there about her and maybe others.

I know you have done an awful lot of work with the police and investigations, so I thought maybe you could shed some light on that for me because I'm very confused.

I've been watching a lot of YouTube videos about it and Netflix and I'm trying to grasp on to just that basic question.

Why is it that somebody hasn't already talked to her?

Because I do know there's a psychic in England that said that Princess Diana was actually in an accident.

It was not, you know, designed to kill her and all that fun stuff.

Anyway, thank you very much, Allison, and I look forward to hearing your answer.

Okay, so as far as the psychic in England, I can't really comment on that because I'm not in that person's head.

I.

You know, they.

Their sense is that it's an accident.

Other psychics have different takes, which is why I teach my students to always follow your own information and not listen to the information from other people that are in the same business, because it can skew what your natural impressions are that you get on a case.

So I've actually brought Princess Diana through before.

I didn't know that's who I was gonna bring through, but you'll remember, Joe.

I do.

When I was studied by scientists at the University of Arizona, she ended up being one of the people.

And I came out of the lab room five minutes after being in there, and I was just like, if this isn't Princess Diana, just stop the test.

Because that's all I keep getting.

And it ended up that on the other side of the partition was a friend of Princess Diana because it was a blind test where we couldn't see who.

Right.

I remember that because you were.

And they didn't even tell you right away.

You're like, this better be this, or just stop it.

Well, they still had Laurie Campbell that had to go in and give her impressions, so they don't want to taint us.

So she got the same thing.

She walked in the holding room afterwards, and she's like, did you get Princess Diana?

She's like, that's all I was getting.

I was like, me, too.

So it's funny, with Laurie Campbell, she and I, our information always backed up the other one.

We just were on the same wavelength when it came to cases and bringing through the dead.

As far as JonBenet goes, I know that that Netflix special that they had, and speaking with the dad.

And then I'm friends with Ashley Flowers, who has her own theories and podcast Crime Junkie.

And so I know a lot's been out there.

I will say I think it's important to add JonBenet when she went missing or not went missing when she was murdered.

That was, I believe, like 97 or late 90s somewhere in there and somewhere around there.

And I was a young mom.

I was, like, 25 or 26 at the time.

So everything on her case was publicized and on the news, which is why I don't comment on JonBenet, because I was completely tainted by every news special that every network ran at that time.

And so I couldn't come in completely clear with no information, which is how I like to work cases, because I had seen everything, because that predated me actually being a professional psychic medium.

I was gonna Say that was before you were working cases, and.

And so you.

Yeah, right.

You watch the news like everybody else.

I was just a civilian at the time.

And so, yeah, we saw everything on that little girl.

And it was highly, highly publicized, which even all these years later, it still is because people wanted some conclusion to it.

In addition to that, in my opinions on her case, any that I might have, I will say I think the police that were working the case messed a lot up.

No offense to them.

I'm sure they did the best they could, but there seemed to be some politics involved in the area that she had disappeared in in Colorado.

And I.

Psychics and mediums can give you their impressions, but if you don't have law enforcement that you can work with that's going to apply your information directly and accurately, you're not gonna get anywhere on a case.

Because we're not policemen, we're not police detectives.

We have no power in the legal arena when it comes to cases.

So we can only assist if the opportunity is there to do so.

So that would be a problem.

That's a big hurdle with her case.

We did just go into a nine year.

So with it being a year of endings, you may be seeing cases such as hers either come to a conclusion or finally have answers this year.

I know that this case is highly sensationalized and people really want some justice for her.

All these years later, the murderer, whoever assaulted and murdered her, has already gotten, you know, 25 plus years to actually be able to live their lives.

And it shouldn't have gone that way with all the DNA that we are.

We have at our disposal now, however, because of how it was worked at the time, and they kept focusing on her father, I think that created problems in how it was worked when it came to that.

But the family's naturally the first place for them to look.

Understood.

And of course that's rightful, that they should start there.

You need to eliminate suspects.

And that's what they were trying to do.

I think the ransom note made things very confusing and seemed to maybe point towards the parents, because the ransom note was in the home.

And how do you not go through every square inch of the house that she disappeared from her bedroom?

I mean, we would say as parents, we would go through every square inch of the house in that first hour of recognizing that she wasn't in her bed.

And that didn't happen.

But even the police went through the house and also didn't go to that basement room until later hours, hours into the investigation.

And that raises some questions right there because there should have been quite a bit of DNA.

I believe they have some that was left behind from the sexual assault.

I don't have all the answers because I don't know what they're doing behind the scenes.

I will say I am shocked that they weren't able to run that DNA and at least plug it into.

I know that they can do family trees where they plug it in and they start connecting the dots, working backwards through certain relatives that pop up until they are able to get to a suspect that they can run DNA on for a comparison to whatever material they were able to collect from her crime scene.

So with that being the case, I am shocked that that hasn't happened, given that we have the tools at our disposal now to do that.

And that would be the best bet in ironclad being able to say it was this person that left the genetic material at the crime scene where she was murdered.

So I wish they would do that.

They didn't mention that on any of the, on the new shows.

You know, I'm going to have to talk to Ashley about that because Ashley flowers, because I don't understand how they weren't able to run.

And you know, again, she's a podcaster, I'm a podcaster.

We don't have the power or the control the say so or the access to the actual DNA information to do what we think would ultimately give the suspect and put a face and a name to the person that killed JonBenet.

They're saying that the genetic material did not belong to anyone in her family.

I would like they would know that.

They would know that.

But we would all like to see some of the proof of that, the paperwork, especially given that the police seem to have kind of had a messy investigation in the press for years and also saying we're working on it, and then having years and years and more years passed.

And I've seen TV specials, as many people have, where they do take the DNA and are able to assemble a family tree and trace back to a suspect who was living in the area at the time that certain crimes happened.

And so that would give us a concrete answer.

Now they're saying that they put the DNA into the system and it didn't hit, meaning that it wasn't already in the system because the person was in prison or worked for the government or already had previously been entered into the system.

But even if that's the case, even if they, their DNA wasn't already in the system, you can still construct a family tree from the DNA and through process of elimination, develop a suspect.

So I would like to see that happen.

I don't know if that answers Lindsay's question, but I'll say the psychic mediums can give impressions, but at the end of the day, it comes down to proof, the evidence, and whether or not our information is actually followed up on.

Could we talk to JonBenet?

Here's the thing.

If I'm sitting there with somebody who loves her, that's related to her, connected to her, I could bring her through.

She's going to want to talk about how she feels about that person.

She would talk about memories she made with them.

She would talk about things, the moments that made her happy.

Her versions of heaven on Earth.

That's what she would talk about.

Do they give some details around crimes?

Sometimes if I ask and they will start giving me impressions of.

Of what was the motivation to a crime or whether or not they knew very young and whether or not they knew the person who was part of that crime.

But especially with children, they don't want to go back to the moment they were raped and murdered.

That's the place, the part of their life that they stay away from because they're everything good, everything pure.

And it's.

It's scary for them to have to revisit those moments.

So often after they pass, they absolutely move on into moments of their life where life was kind to them, where life was, you know, warm and happy.

So getting the deceased, their spirit, to want to revisit the crime is often difficult in that they are repelled by that ending to their life, especially if it's violent.

So you did warn me this was going to be a heavy week.

You have delivered next week.

I know you'll have a lighter week.

So everybody stay tuned for that.

So the question, I guess to wrap up JonBenet, you kind of said earlier that maybe something with it being a nine year, there might be a shift this year.

Do you feel that?

Or is that you're just reading that the year in itself brings a lot.

Well, this year is going to bring a lot of conclusion to questions that we've had.

So who killed jfk?

This would be a year that you would get the answer to something like that.

Who killed JonBenet?

This would be a night.

So when people are afraid of nine years, because as.

As we know, it is a year of endings.

A year of endings can put an end to things that were painful in the past and had no Conclusion.

So I think you're going to see a lot of secrets be revealed this year.

I think the news cycle is going to be insanely interesting to follow.

Most importantly, I think we're going to get answers to a lot of the questions we've had as secrets start to be uncovered, including in our own government, in other governments, in other countries.

You're going to see a lot of answers that will disturb you on some levels, but give you the answers you're looking for.

So with JonBenet, no matter who they are able to connect to her murder, it will be disturbing given that we know all the details around what was done to that little girl.

And the same goes for with JJ.

Who killed JFK.

And do we really want those answers?

Well, yes, we do.

So one could sort of spitball that his file's been kept under wraps for so long because it's highly likely that there was some government interference around his assassination.

Yeah, that is a big mystery because it has been long enough that anybody really that was alive isn't or is certainly not still on the job.

So.

And then even other countries that we dealt with have changed administrations or even government enough that that can't be it.

It has to be an implication of one of our own bureaucracies, one of.

Our own government institutions.

Yeah.

Because otherwise, if it was an individual, they wouldn't have had a problem unveiling who did it.

Because they'd be like, yeah, they'd be like, this is who did it.

Not our fault.

We did the best we could.

But that's not what's happened over the last 60 years.

What we've seen is a lot of will get elect me and I'll open the file.

And then it never gets open.

Well, now we've got a new administration coming in that doesn't seem to be afraid of cracking heads.

And so we'll see what happens there.

They could have opened it the last time too.

I mean, devil's advocate, right?

Timing is everything.

And I'm telling you, this nine year is gonna reveal a lot.

And I just wanted to re emphasize the astrological episode that I did with Tom McMullen.

He did talk about the fires.

I talked about it being California because unfortunately, California doesn't do the proper deforestation and the taking out of dead shrubbery and maintenance of the land, nor the do the people around their own homes.

So to me, when he said there were gonna be fires, it felt obvious that it was gonna be in California.

I do wanna remind people he also talked about earthquakes.

So maybe Go back and listen to that episode.

Because the last thing California needs is an earthquake on top of that fire in Pacific Palisades.

And after living in California, there are things, and they do publish it.

Things for people to be prepared, have some water, have your little kit of some food and things that you might need.

A full reservoir would help.

But yeah, for earthquakes, for the earthquake, yeah, there's everything.

Be prepared, be prepared, as prepared as you can be.

With an earthquake, there's a lot less you can do for that than you could for, say, a fire.

But there is going to be a lot of upheaval in areas in our own country and in other countries that will involve fire and as Tom said, high winds and then earthquakes.

So I asked him about that because I was getting ready to go on Danica Patrick's podcast this week and he said it's not even close to over.

Oh, no.

So that was hard to hear from him.

So needless to say, we're going to see more involved in this.

It is very revealing.

You're going to see people shift in their beliefs through their anger and dissatisfaction.

You will see governments change.

So it's going to be a very powerful year.

But remember, next year's a one year, a year of new beginnings and we get to write a whole new nine year cycle chapter.

So we're just going to see the trash get taken out this year.

Yeah, yeah.

Okay.

Little house cleaning.

Okay, let's go on to Felicia.

Great.

Hi, Allison, My name is Felicia.

My question is, and I've been a fan of yours since the medium.

Of course.

Yeah.

So my mom, she passed away 25 plus years ago and my sister and I no longer feel her around.

So we were wondering if she's been reincarnated.

Possibly.

Maybe that's why we don't feel her around anymore.

I felt her in the beginning and maybe sometimes I still feel her.

My sister no longer feels her at all.

And so we're wondering, maybe she's been reincarnated.

I thought that you being reincarnated does not mean that you're no longer with your loved ones.

I thought that you could split yourself.

Maybe that I heard wrong.

And my next question is, where does one go?

Who harms children sexually?

Do they go to heaven?

Do they have a life review and then go to heaven?

Yeah.

So wondering where to go.

Who harms children sexually?

Thank you so much.

So I told you it was going to be a little dark in this week's podcast episodes, but all important questions to be answered at the same time.

Absolutely.

So Felicia, thank you for calling in.

I think this is a question that will be helpful for a lot of people to hear that they have the same question she does.

So Felicia and her sister no longer feel her mother around.

This is very common.

Often when people die the first few years after they die, they really make their presence known.

They're around.

They give you signs.

They really try and let you know they're not gone.

You're not an orphan.

I'm still part of your life.

All of those beautiful aspects, too, that there is no end to our connection or our love.

So sometimes, and actually quite often, if someone who passed feels like you're not healing, you're not moving forward in that process since they passed, they'll pull their energy back so that you don't feel them.

It doesn't mean they're not around, but they'll pull their energy back to try and get you to engage in life and not sit in the misery of mourning them and in the grief of their death.

But rather you're sort of forced to re engage with the living because you don't have them there as much to try to engage with.

So people who start disconnecting with the living world because they want to be more in the world with the person they love that died, you'll see a pullback from the person that died of their energy and the signs, because they're trying to get you to jumpstart your life back to the land of the living.

Now, once you do that, they make their presence known again, and you'll get more of the signs and the communication, but for the time being, and my sense is Felicia's sister's having a really hard time with the mother's passing.

If they feel like you're not healing and that their presence is somehow hurting you because it's making you miss them even more, and it becomes destructive in that way, they pull their energy back.

So I'm not surprised to hear that happen.

But again, Felicia, it doesn't mean Mom's not around.

Keep talking to her and just move through your life and say, hey, mom, look, I'm taking that cruise we always wanted to take together and we didn't get a take.

And when they see that their presence in your life is a positive thing, they'll actually start re engaging with you where you're able to see that they're there through signs and communication.

So, second part, people who harm children sexually.

So this is what I've seen on the other side because I have brought through a few fathers, unfortunately, who molested their daughters, and now their daughters were grown and had come to me for readings, obviously unbeknownst to me what the relationship was.

But it ended up coming out in the reading once I started sensing that there was no remorse from some of the.

The men who had passed who had committed these heinous offenses.

So what I saw in those readings is that they were around people that had like energy to theirs.

So in other words, all of the child molesters, all of the people who rape were in the same area, same low frequency energy area that.

So they all resided in that same low energy place which was very dark.

So you create your own hell.

So in a sense, that's what it seemed to be because they had no victims there.

So for them, unfortunately, not all souls learn on the other side or want to evolve.

And I can't explain why that is, but there is movement in our souls and some of us feel compelled to be better people or to help those around us.

And that grows your soul and it raises your frequency.

Some people choose to not engage in that way and are destructive in that they want to tear down things around them that are bright light or that are higher frequencies.

They resent you.

They want to destroy that happiness and peace of mind within you.

And when I see pedophiles and people who rape, there seems to be some sense of enjoyment for them that they're going to be able to tear down your soul and lower your energy frequency.

So I just wanted to.

Everything comes back to frequencies.

Oddly, it does.

So I wanted to go over that.

Yeah, I mean, that's really deep.

It was an interesting addition to what we'd just been talking about with the previous caller.

And as far as people not feeling their loved ones, I've heard that I schedule your calls from time to time and I hear that from people.

And do you ever think that they get so accustomed to them being around that it just feels, in a sense, normal?

No, they can feel them around and they can feel an energy shift when their presence isn't felt.

But again, it doesn't mean they're not there.

They intentionally pull their energy back so you can't feel it, but they're still seeing your life unfold.

And then I wanted to add one more part to people who harm children.

And this is the big question that I have that I'd like an answer to when I die.

I do see that there are some souls that are destructive and again exist to tear down biologically.

If somebody's brain isn't put together right and I know that they've started studying the minds like the brains of killers.

And I know that they had asked for a donation of Jeffrey Dahmer's Brain for Science because they want to look at this biologically.

If you're impeded and you're doing things that you in a sense can't control, if you have no built in mechanism in your brain and that in any way affects the decisions you're making and the crimes you're committing, I do wonder if their souls, if they're in a healthy physical body, if they were to come back, if they would live a different life.

So I do have a question around that when I pass that, I'll want to know.

I think if they came back and had that history, that that would haunt them at some level.

And then what is that?

You know, if they have that energy of guilt that they're born with, what do they become?

Do they become a priest that wants to help people or a doctor who wants to save people to somehow karmically make up for the destruction that they caused in a past lifetime?

So there's just so many facets to the universe.

I can only look at what I know to be true from my own experience, but also some questions that I have around this particularly difficult topic.

And I do know that biology can affect a soul's experience in this world, but I also know that some souls don't have remorse that are on the other side.

So that leaves me with a lot of questions.

Tune in next week for part two of our conversations from my Collins about murder and psychic mediums and how we connect with deceased victims.

What do they say to us?

What do the souls of murder say?

So, Joe, thank you for your intellect and time.

Oh, you're welcome.

And thank you to my listeners for tuning in.

Tune in next week for part two of a fresh episode of the Dead Life.

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