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Why I Hated the Lost Sheep Story
9th October 2025 • Unforeseen Journey • Sarah Scott
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I’ve hated this scripture for as long as I can remember. But when I finally dug deeper, I found something I didn’t expect — a story about being seen, carried, and celebrated.

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I have a confession: there’s a piece of scripture I’ve hated my whole life — the parable of the lost sheep in Luke 15. Every time I heard it, something inside me bristled. Why does heaven throw a party for the one who wandered off while the faithful ninety-nine get no celebration?

In this episode of Unforeseen Journey, I unpack that tension. I dig into what this story meant to the people who first heard it, how it connects to our modern sense of community (or the lack of it), and why I think it still matters today.


I also share my own story — a season when I drifted from the places and people who once felt like home, and what it felt like when no one noticed. It’s a story about being lost, about noticing who’s missing, and about remembering that we’re all worth being found.


💡 What You’ll Hear

  • The truth about what a shepherd’s search really meant in Jesus’ time
  • How I learned this parable isn’t about punishment — it’s about belonging
  • The moment I realized I’d been drifting too
  • A simple action you can take today to reach out, reconnect, and be seen


🔥 This Week’s Spark

While you’re listening, open your phone and scroll your contacts.

Send one quick text that says: “I miss your laugh.”

Or, if you’re the one who’s been quiet, send a message that whispers: “I’m still here.”

One text. One spark. That’s all it takes to shift the story.


💛 Let’s Stay Connected

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend or tag me on social.

I’d love to hear your own “found” moments.

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Can I admit something like there's this scripture I have

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hated my whole life and not just like a mild dislike, like, Hey, duh, it's

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Luke 15 and it's the lost Sheep story, and every time I hear it, something

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inside me just completely bristles like.

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It's this whole idea of like, wait a minute, I've been faithful.

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I've been steady, I've been showing up, and yet somehow I don't get the party.

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Like, meanwhile, anybody who wanders off gets some massive celebration.

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Excuse me, I'm one of the 99.

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Why don't I get noticed too?

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Hi, I'm Sarah Scott and welcome to Unforeseen Journey, where each week

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we take a piece of scripture, even the ones we hate, and challenge what we

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thought we knew and discover one way to live it out in our everyday lives.

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So if you know Luke 15, then you know the story that comes alongside of this.

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Um.

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I'll read the scripture here really quick if you've never heard this

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one before, just so you can kind of get a sense of where we're at.

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So in Luke 15 chapter, I think it's, it's chapter 15, I think

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it starts on verse three.

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It says, then Jesus told them a parable.

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Suppose one of you had a hundred sheep and loses one of them.

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Okay, so we're only losing one of a hundred things.

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Doesn't he Leave the 99 in open country and go after the

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lost sheep until he finds it?

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Like, really, we're gonna leave the rest of the 99 just sitting around.

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Out in the open country waiting to be snatched up by wolves.

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I mean, come on.

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And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home.

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Then he calls his friends and together.

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And in the same way, there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one

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sinner who repents than over the 99 righteous persons who do not repent.

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Okay, now I get it.

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I do.

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I understand.

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We want to go capture those who have been lost, but at the same time.

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If you are not somebody who has ever felt like you've been lost entirely

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in your faith, this one slaps a bit.

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Okay?

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I gotta admit it slaps a bit for me.

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So when I sat in church recently, and I listened to this particular

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scripture, I needed to sort of sit back a little bit and tell you to

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myself, okay, let's challenge this.

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I've hated the scripture for so long.

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How do I challenge this?

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How do I make it better?

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How do I find meaning for me?

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In this particular set.

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So I did a bit of research to figure out what did the people

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who were listening to the story originally know that I don't know.

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So that was kind of my first question.

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And so as I started digging a little bit into the culture and what was going

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on in that particular time, there was this piece that comes up that, you

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know, 100 sheep would not have been.

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Something a single shepherd would've ever been watching over, it

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would've been a team of shepherds.

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So they never really would've ever been left alone, and people would've understood

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that in this particular scenario.

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And a hundred sheep was also communal property.

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So like the whole village owned those 100 sheep.

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And so it was really important to the community.

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If one even went lost, it could mean a loss of livelihood, could mean a

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loss of a number of different things.

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So putting that into context and thinking about, okay.

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Now as we look at this, like how does that really reflect in our today lives?

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Because most often when we hear the scripture preached this, or the lost

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coin that comes after it, um, into the prodigal sun, one of the things that

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is preached often is, you know, you lose your phone, you lose your keys.

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And to me, I'm like, yeah, okay.

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I've lost my phone, I lost my keys.

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I know that.

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Panicky feeling of I've lost something, but it's not to the point where

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I'm going to call my neighbors and rejoice because I found my keys.

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I probably, half the time, don't even tell my family I've lost my keys.

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So where is the comparison in our lives today that allow us

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to really absorb this idea of.

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You know, the whole community would've been rejoicing with us

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when something lost was found.

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And truly the only thing that could come to my mind at this point was

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something so dramatic, but I'm hoping it resonates with you, is

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think about if a child went missing.

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If it was your child, how would you react if it was your child or a child

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that you knew in the neighborhood?

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But if one of my children went missing.

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You know, I have three kids, so just because one went missing,

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you know, it doesn't mean the other two aren't valuable.

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They're just safe.

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I know they're okay.

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I know where they are.

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I don't know what's happening to the one that's lost.

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And we are gonna do everything we can to get back that lost child.

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We are gonna call neighbors.

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We're gonna be yelling up and down the street.

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I can guarantee you that everybody in my little neighborhood is going

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to know that that child is lost, and as many people as I can pull in are

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going to be helping me look for them.

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And.

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Once that child is found, there really isn't going to be this sense of punishing

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that child for whatever it was, right?

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There's really gonna be this relief that kind of rushes over you and.

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Then there's the celebration that comes afterwards that says, oh

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my gosh, we found this child.

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They're here.

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We really need to love on them.

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We need to make sure that they're safe and everybody is going to

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celebrate in that homecoming.

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And this is the piece that I really think that we want to lean

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into when we look at this is.

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Oh my gosh.

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We really wanna be able to feel that.

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It's not that the 99 weren't important, it's just that we

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know the 99 are safe right now.

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They're being protected, they're taken care of.

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We know where they are, and we are desperately worried about the one that we

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don't know whether or not they are safe.

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Now granted, I'm gonna say that losing a child is very,

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very, very, very rare, I hope.

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You know, in our lives this doesn't happen, but you know,

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it happens in a store once in a while, we've lost our kids, right?

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They go missing you panic.

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Everybody in the store knows you're looking for that kid, right?

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But what about every, like, what about in our everyday lives?

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How does this actually translate a little bit deeper into the

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everyday lives that we live?

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And I come back to a story that happened to me a few years ago.

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I lost a very dear friend, a band mate who was somebody who always made me stronger

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and made music fun and made it better.

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And when he passed, I found I couldn't keep singing.

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It just hurt so badly to have to try to get up on stage and in front

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of a microphone without him there.

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And once I stopped singing, I started noticing, I started drifting away

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from a lot of other things in my life.

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Um, I stepped away from church.

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I stepped away from volunteering.

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I stepped away from a lot of different things.

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And what became really difficult about it was that nobody even noticed that I had.

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All of these things.

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I used to do all of these things I used to be a part of just solely

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slipped away and nobody even noticed.

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I would get phone calls from people in these places that would say to

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me, Hey, could you help with this?

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Hey, can you organize that?

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But it was really like very task oriented.

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It was really what can you do for us?

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Can you do this thing for us?

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How are you?

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How can we help you?

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And that's as somebody who feels lost, is so deeply painful that the only thing we

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feel is what we do when we show up, right?

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The things or the tasks or the activities that we do, it's

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not just you that we miss.

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It's not your mind, your conversations, your laughter, the sound of your voice,

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and that's a deep kind of hurt that I think is something that we can look at and

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spin to this, this particular scripture.

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And I think this is where the heart of the scripture really comes from.

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You know, when we look at shepherding and God is a shepherd, you know, he's really.

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It's not that he's ignoring us if everything is good, it's

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just that he knows we're safe.

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And so he is going to be looking for the ones he feels

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are not safe to make them safe.

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And in the meantime, as you know, the hands of God in the world, we

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can then make it our job to find those people that are lost, right?

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The people within our communities, within our own lives who are.

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Drifting a little bit.

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We can help with that.

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Bringing them back and helping to show people that they are

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valued for who they are and their missing presence in our lives.

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So what do we actually do with this, right?

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So at the end of the day, one of the promises I make with this podcast

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that I want us to be able to take scripture, see it in a new light,

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and then do something with it.

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So what do we do with this?

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If you feel like you are one of the 99, you are safe and you

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are steady and you're present.

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I'm so grateful for you and I'm so glad that that's how you feel in this life.

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But I want you to take a minute and look around.

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Look around and see who's missing, who might have gone a little bit quiet.

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And what I want you to do right now, 'cause I know you're listening

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on your phone, go ahead and pick up your phone, go to your contacts

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and start scrolling through.

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Find someone you haven't heard from in a really long time and text them something

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that just says, I miss your laugh.

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That's it.

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Simple, light, powerful.

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No explanation.

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I miss you.

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Okay.

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Now, if you are somebody who is feeling lost right now,

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don't wait forever to be found.

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I know what it feels like to be lost and unnoticed, and I know we really,

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really want somebody to see us, and we really want someone to reach out to us.

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But if we raid around forever, we will become very, very lost.

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So if you or somebody who is in need of some attention, find somebody.

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You open your phone too, scroll through, find the most comfortable

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person you know on your list, and just write, Hey, I'm here in my family.

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It looks like this.

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It's a text to my sister that says, I love you.

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Nothing else, no preamble.

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And it's almost always a signal from us that says, I need

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a little bit more support.

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So find someone in your network.

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Text them.

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Let them know you're still there.

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And if you're ready to talk, tell them you need to talk.

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But don't let yourself wander lost.

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None of us were ever made to disappear in this world, and that

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was really the heart of the parable.

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Not one single person in this world was ever meant to disappear.

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You matter enough to be noticed.

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You matter enough to be carried home and you matter enough to be celebrated.

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This is Unforeseen journey and thanks for being here.

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And remember that your faith was never meant to be contained.

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See you next time.

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