In this classic Mailbag Episode Dr Talia and Doug tackle two tough but relatable relationship issues. In the first, Amy gives Jake an ultimatum; either he quits his dangerous air courier job in Alaska after he lost two of his best friends doing the same dangerous job, or she leaves. But this career is his soul filling passion. What to do? And in the second mailbag Jess messed up with her serious long distance boyfriend of 6 months when she started up a “platonic” in-person friendship with her ex lover. She has been incredibly transparent and has done everything to honor her boyfriend’s feelings short of ending the friendship. Dan says he has had enough. What to do? Can these couples be saved? Tune in to find out!

00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer

01:20 Recap of Previous Episode and Live Event

10:19 Introduction to Mailbag Episode

11:43 Jake's Dilemma: Convincing Girlfriend About Job Safety

18:12 Navigating the Balance Between Passion and Relationship

23:42 Understanding Different Tolerances for Risk in Relationships

25:55 Addressing Anxiety and Fear of Abandonment in Relationships

26:51 The Importance of Open Communication and Compromise

28:17 Accepting the Inherent Risks in Certain Professions

31:59 The Importance of Transparency and Trust in Relationships

34:19 Learning from Past Mistakes

37:26 Navigating Long-Distance Relationships

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