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Have you ever wondered –
How to Connect with your guides?
In this fun and enlightening conversation with an Angel and Spirit Guide communicator Melissa Kitto, she discusses just that. But not only how to connect with your guides, we also disucss what our soul is and life purpose.
It’s important for us to learn about these if we want to lead a satisfying, meaningful life. Following someone else’s dream for us doesn’t lead to our own happy life.
In this episode you’l learn:
- What the four spiritual gifts are
- The nature of Guides and Angels
- What coincidences mean
- The nature of our soul
- The proper way to ask questions of your Guides
About Melissa:
Melissa Kitto is a certified spiritual coach and workshop facilitator.. With over 30 years experience in the field of spiritual growth and development; Melissa teaches practical tools to develop your intuition, connect with your guides and live your unique life purpose. She is the author and creator of the How to Communicate with your Angels Online course and the Authentic and Aligned Program to find your deeper soul’s calling.
Learn more about Melissa at her website CommunicateWithAngels.com and on her YouTube Channel.
More information on how to hear your angels: https://communicatewithangels.com/hearyourangelssignup/
More information on her class Authentic and Aligned https://communicatewithangels.com/authenticandaligned
I really hope to connect with you personally so please send me a message here or join me in my Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/connectednesswithrevkaren. And in the meantime, enjoy the show!
Transcripts
So basically you are energy, you are a soul with a
Rev Karen:body, not a body with a soul.
Rev Karen:And so you, um, you have a unique purpose.
Rev Karen:Your guides, you kind of have a contract with them, so to speak.
Rev Karen:You attract these helpers before you are born.
Rev Karen:So you can, they can help you master the lessons that you've
Rev Karen:come to learn this lifetime.
Rev Karen:Hello and welcome to the Connectedness Podcast.
Rev Karen:Just as you might have guessed, I talk about connection and connectedness
Rev Karen:on this podcast, our connection with everything in the world around us.
Rev Karen:Whether you see it or not, we're all connected, and it doesn't matter if it's
Rev Karen:our dog, our cat, our God, our body.
Rev Karen:And I'll also talk about some more.
Rev Karen:Abstract connections like our career or our land, our community, our emotions,
Rev Karen:your body life is all about connection.
Rev Karen:So the sooner we recognize that, the sooner we can have an
Rev Karen:easier, more meaningful life.
Rev Karen:I will talk about these connections through different lenses.
Rev Karen:Things like synchronicities and coincidences are just.
Rev Karen:Everyday little bits of magic and miracles that we, we usually dismiss.
Rev Karen:It's really important that we pay attention to all of this so we can
Rev Karen:live an easier, more meaningful life.
Rev Karen:So welcome to the show.
Rev Karen:I'm your host, Karen Cleveland.
Rev Karen:Welcome back to the show everyone.
Rev Karen:I'm super excited to introduce my guest today.
Rev Karen:She's an associate of mine.
Rev Karen:Melissa Kitto is a certified spiritual coach and workshop facilitator.
Rev Karen:She has over.
Rev Karen:30 years experience in the field of spiritual growth and development.
Rev Karen:She teaches practical tools to help develop your intuition, connect with your
Rev Karen:guides, and live your unique life purpose.
Rev Karen:Welcome to the show, Melissa.
Rev Karen:It's great to have you.
Rev Karen:Thank you for having me.
Rev Karen:I'm so excited to be here.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:I'm so excited to talk to you about this today because a lot of people,
Rev Karen:you know, will dig into it, but.
Rev Karen:Need help knowing how to connect with, with some guidance
Rev Karen:and living a life purpose.
Rev Karen:So why don't you give us just a little bit of story about how you
Rev Karen:got started into it, and if this has been a lifetime, um, journey or if
Rev Karen:it started later in life, whatever.
Rev Karen:What, how, how did you get here today?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So for me it did start early on.
Rev Karen:I was.
Rev Karen:You know, I had some mystical experiences when I was about four
Rev Karen:or five years old, but I kind of put them outta my mind because my
Rev Karen:parents told me, you're making it up.
Rev Karen:It's just your imagination, you know?
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:But my real journey started around when I was 12 years old.
Rev Karen:My mother at that time had, was really searching for herself, and so she started
Rev Karen:telling me some of the things that she was learning about, spirituality guides,
Rev Karen:intuition, oh US lives, all the things.
Rev Karen:But I was 12.
Rev Karen:I was nearly a teenager.
Rev Karen:It's little, sounded a little strange to me.
Rev Karen:I wasn't sure about this, but I think I was curious.
Rev Karen:So when she asked if I wanted to have a session to learn about my
Rev Karen:angels and my intuition, I said yes.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:And during that session, which is the same thing I now do for my clients, um,
Rev Karen:I learned a technique to communicate with my angels, and I still didn't
Rev Karen:really expect anything to happen.
Rev Karen:I didn't know if this was even real.
Rev Karen:And I had in that moment an experience that I couldn't deny was not me.
Rev Karen:I felt, oh, I could sense that we live in two worlds.
Rev Karen:At one time, I could see the table and chairs in front of me in the
Rev Karen:material world, but I could also feel like I tapped into the spiritual
Rev Karen:connection and it felt just as real as, you know, the, the physical room.
Rev Karen:So that was sort of now what I would describe as a spiritual awakening.
Rev Karen:I didn't realize that at the time.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And that really set me on a path in my teenage years of just really searching,
Rev Karen:taking a lot of classes and reading a lot of books and learning how to, you
Rev Karen:know, develop my own gifts, knowing that I have a unique life purpose.
Rev Karen:And for me, you know, having a connection with my guides helped me to make a.
Rev Karen:Those decisions that are big turning points in our life.
Rev Karen:You know, I left my home country of New Zealand.
Rev Karen:I first moved to England, I then moved to the United States.
Rev Karen:All of those things that feel really scary and risky.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:But I, you know, because I had that spiritual connection, I was able to,
Rev Karen:you know, do those things with trust.
Rev Karen:Wow.
Rev Karen:That's amazing.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Uh, to go through your teenage years like that.
Rev Karen:So I have a couple of questions about that.
Rev Karen:One.
Rev Karen:What about your friends?
Rev Karen:Did they think you were weird?
Rev Karen:Did you not have friends, or were you able to find people that.
Rev Karen:Thought that was cool, or how did that go?
Rev Karen:Well, that's a great question.
Rev Karen:I was in the spiritual closet.
Rev Karen:I didn't tell anybody.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:I was doing this.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:The only person I told was a boyfriend and.
Rev Karen:I mean, he wasn't really interested himself, but he was fine for me to do it.
Rev Karen:And yeah.
Rev Karen:But other than that, I, at that time, I was really scared of anybody
Rev Karen:knowing about this stuff, I'm sure.
Rev Karen:Right?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And so that was a big thing.
Rev Karen:I had to heal within myself and now I'm on YouTube and talking about it all day long.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:It's amazing how, you know, when you heal a block like that,
Rev Karen:it can really open some doors.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And then so you had mystical experiences at four or five years old, and I know
Rev Karen:you have a child, and I'm sure you have other children in your life are,
Rev Karen:do you feel like you're more open to what they're saying, you know,
Rev Karen:to what their experiences might be?
Rev Karen:Yeah, and my son has always known that he's a soul and he's always
Rev Karen:known that he has guidance and when he was little, he would.
Rev Karen:Tell stories about past lives and, oh, just as a matter of fact conversation.
Rev Karen:Wow.
Rev Karen:I think, to be honest, I was a little too fascinated and wanting him to say
Rev Karen:things that he sometimes just didn't.
Rev Karen:Um, but I think that, you know, he has that foundation and a big.
Rev Karen:Kind of value for me and how I work with my clients and how I raise my
Rev Karen:son is, you know, you have your own unique life purpose and it's about
Rev Karen:getting in touch with your own hearts desires and making your own decisions.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Because so much of the way that we are raised in this society is everybody
Rev Karen:else telling you what to do, you know?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:We lose touch with that in guidance.
Rev Karen:Exactly.
Rev Karen:Exactly.
Rev Karen:So speaking of getting in touch with our inner guidance, um,
Rev Karen:How does a person do that?
Rev Karen:How do you recommend you know, the listeners if they don't know,
Rev Karen:or if they don't really even know what Spirit guides are?
Rev Karen:Can you just do like a brief explanation or a long one?
Rev Karen:Either way.
Rev Karen:Yes.
Rev Karen:So basically you are energy, you are a soul with a body, not a body with a soul.
Rev Karen:And so you, um, you have a unique purpose.
Rev Karen:Your guides, you kind of have a contract with them, so to speak.
Rev Karen:You attract these helpers before you are born.
Rev Karen:So you can, they can help you master the lessons that you've
Rev Karen:come to learn this lifetime.
Rev Karen:They've kind of graduated from planet Earth level.
Rev Karen:They don't need to come back here, but they're still mastering themselves
Rev Karen:by being a guide or a helper to you.
Rev Karen:But they just have a little more experience in some areas.
Rev Karen:So they.
Rev Karen:We live in two worlds at one time.
Rev Karen:We live in the physical world and the spiritual world.
Rev Karen:You are a spiritual being, having a physical experience, but your guides
Rev Karen:aren't really part of the physical world.
Rev Karen:They don't have a physical body, so the way to connect with them is
Rev Karen:through your own spiritual abilities.
Rev Karen:So it means that you need to be in touch with that and
Rev Karen:develop that within yourself.
Rev Karen:And a lot of us, I still struggle with this sometimes, right?
Rev Karen:A lot of us are way more in our head.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:We basically have two parts to our nature, the intellect and the feelings.
Rev Karen:Your feeling nature is the real you as a soul.
Rev Karen:And it's the part of you that is very sensitive and senses energy
Rev Karen:and feels things and knows things.
Rev Karen:You know?
Rev Karen:You can get premonitions.
Rev Karen:You can get hunches.
Rev Karen:But we're so used to being in our intellect that a lot of people talk
Rev Karen:themselves out of that don't trust it, think it's weird, wrong, right?
Rev Karen:And so the first step is to learn to pay attention to what's already there
Rev Karen:because it's not actually something new that you need to learn, right?
Rev Karen:It's.
Rev Karen:Already you as a being, right?
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:So it's learning.
Rev Karen:What am I feeling?
Rev Karen:What am I sensing?
Rev Karen:What am I picking up?
Rev Karen:There's actually four spiritual gifts that we have, and a person will have
Rev Karen:one of those that's their primary.
Rev Karen:Oh.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:And that's one of the things I do in a consultation for people to help them to
Rev Karen:know which one is their primary gift.
Rev Karen:Oh, really?
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Vision.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So if you're visionary, like I am, I'm always getting a lot of pictures.
Rev Karen:I'm seeing things, I'm seeing people's faces that I need to
Rev Karen:contact or something like that.
Rev Karen:You know, if you're more clear audience or intuitive, it's hearing guidance.
Rev Karen:I'm prob you're probably higher in that one, I would guess.
Rev Karen:Um, words popping in your mind.
Rev Karen:You need to understand things.
Rev Karen:Prophetic people just know things without being told, and they're
Rev Karen:really sensing energies and knowing.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:And feeling type people are, you know, their feelings.
Rev Karen:They have those gut hunches and they're the ones that are really, really sensitive
Rev Karen:to feeling, you know, what everybody else is feeling in the environment.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:So that's, wow.
Rev Karen:Through these avenues we have our own gifts too.
Rev Karen:But we need to sense and pick up that guidance and it will just kind
Rev Karen:of pop in your mind out of nowhere when your angels are contacting you.
Rev Karen:So, so you just said angels and you talked about spirit guides.
Rev Karen:Are they one in the same?
Rev Karen:Yeah, so I kind of use those words interchangeably, really.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:The idea is that these are master souls and you have a personal team.
Rev Karen:So in my work, I really help people with that personal team, and we're not
Rev Karen:talking about contacting Arch Angels or you know, gods or goddesses or
Rev Karen:anything like that, where I'm just really helping you with your personal team.
Rev Karen:So whether you decide to call them guides or angels or helpers,
Rev Karen:I don't think it really matters.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:But, okay.
Rev Karen:It's like you have those guides that are there for you.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Are there things that, that they do help us with versus things
Rev Karen:that they can't help us with?
Rev Karen:You know, are there limitations on the guidance?
Rev Karen:There are some, you know, there's kind of this, these ethics that they work with.
Rev Karen:The big thing that they can really help us with is, They can see things
Rev Karen:that we can't see because they're not part of planet Earth Energy.
Rev Karen:It's like they have a bird's eye view on our life.
Rev Karen:So they can help us to be in the right place at the right time to do the things
Rev Karen:that are in alignment with your purpose.
Rev Karen:And you know, when I'm making decisions about things now, I'm often saying, okay,
Rev Karen:is this a high priority for my unique life purpose, or is it a medium priority?
Rev Karen:And if I get from my guidance, it's a medium or a low priority, it's
Rev Karen:usually I feel obligated to do it.
Rev Karen:Somebody else is telling me to do it, but it's not really in alignment.
Rev Karen:Okay?
Rev Karen:So as you start, you know, and I teach people how to ask direct questions, to
Rev Karen:speed up this process and get confirmation right away from your guides, you know?
Rev Karen:And as you work with that, you can start to see, okay, this
Rev Karen:is the roadmap for my life.
Rev Karen:These are my next steps.
Rev Karen:So the things they, oh, go ahead.
Rev Karen:Sorry.
Rev Karen:Go.
Rev Karen:Go ahead.
Rev Karen:I was gonna say, the things that they don't help us with is things,
Rev Karen:there's some things you wanna avoid, like, I think predicting
Rev Karen:the future is kind of dicey, right?
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:And for some reason, psychics are supposed to predict the future, but
Rev Karen:the future can always change, right?
Rev Karen:Based on other people's free will.
Rev Karen:And they won't help, they won't interfere with another person's free will, right?
Rev Karen:So you wanna find out if that person's, you know, gonna date you or like that
Rev Karen:just doesn't, they just won't work with that kind of thing, and they
Rev Karen:really won't tell you what to do.
Rev Karen:So if you're saying, should I do this, tell me they won't
Rev Karen:make your decisions for you.
Rev Karen:What they're doing is they're giving that bigger picture guidance so that you
Rev Karen:can make the best decision that you can.
Rev Karen:So how would you ask a question if, if they're not gonna tell you what to
Rev Karen:do, is it going to be, what's gonna be the easiest outcome for this?
Rev Karen:You know, what should I do for my, my highest purpose?
Rev Karen:Or, , as opposed to an exact answer.
Rev Karen:. So it's the way that you phrase the question.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:So if you are asking their opinion, and then you can take
Rev Karen:it or leave it as an opinion.
Rev Karen:And it's really good to first decide what is it I really want?
Rev Karen:You know, I do in my life, I phrase a lot of questions based
Rev Karen:on my unique life purpose.
Rev Karen:But you can also ask, Hey, if you have a, a business goal, you
Rev Karen:want to get 10 new clients, or, um, a relationship goal, right?
Rev Karen:Like, I manifested a partner a few years ago, and so you say,
Rev Karen:this is what I really want.
Rev Karen:Then they can help, you know, what is the best first step toward that?
Rev Karen:That's going to be smooth, smooth.
Rev Karen:But the other thing is we're here to learn and grow in this lifetime.
Rev Karen:So your angels aren't gonna take all your problems away and make it easy for
Rev Karen:you because sometimes they're actually leading you to the growth that you need,
Rev Karen:the things that you need to heal in order to then manifest your true hearts desires.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:You had mentioned earlier something about them helping you be at in
Rev Karen:the right place at the right time.
Rev Karen:So would you say they help orchestrate things like what we call coincidences?
Rev Karen:Yes, definitely.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Yes, yes.
Rev Karen:And that's when a lot of people start coming to me is they're
Rev Karen:saying, I'm seeing, I'm having coincidences all the time.
Rev Karen:I keep seeing number sequences and having dreams like, it's like when we are ready
Rev Karen:for this spiritual path, It seems to go on turbocharge, like it's everywhere, right?
Rev Karen:Your angels wanna get your attention.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:Um, but yes, there's so much help and backing that we have that's unseen.
Rev Karen:And so when you start to acknowledge that and trust it, it can open
Rev Karen:things up in amazing ways.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Now, you've talked about life purpose a couple times, and or , are souls calling.
Rev Karen:Are those one and the same, and do they change over our lifetime
Rev Karen:or do we come to earth with just one thing, one primary goal.
Rev Karen:Do you think.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Uh, it's, so, it's a big topic and yes, we have a unique life purpose.
Rev Karen:There's actually lots of aspects to that.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Um, and so this is what I help people with in my authentic and aligned program.
Rev Karen:And so we have, first of all, we have a unique spiritual vibration, and that is
Rev Karen:your, Essence, your uniqueness that you're here to express, and you can actually
Rev Karen:learn a statement that describes that.
Rev Karen:That's the energy that we sense in people and that we miss when they're not around.
Rev Karen:Okay?
Rev Karen:And that we have a mission.
Rev Karen:There is something that you're here to accomplish.
Rev Karen:It's that driving force.
Rev Karen:Why am I here?
Rev Karen:Right?
Rev Karen:What am I here to accomplish?
Rev Karen:And I feel like that will unfold over time.
Rev Karen:But what I teach people, the first step is to get in touch with your desires.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:And that sounds simple, but for a lot of people, it's really hard to do.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:They don't know what they want.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Because there's so much programming from family, upbringing and
Rev Karen:society and whatever else that's saying, this is what you should do.
Rev Karen:Exactly.
Rev Karen:But what do you want to do?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And when you start uncovering that and following it, even if it's messy and
Rev Karen:it's not perfect along the way, that is actually the path to your purpose, right?
Rev Karen:Some people think that their purpose is this elusive thing that they
Rev Karen:haven't found yet, but it's actually inside of us if we start to look
Rev Karen:within and and acknowledge it.
Rev Karen:Oh, right.
Rev Karen:That makes sense.
Rev Karen:And this is something that you can help people.
Rev Karen:Learn how to connect with their guides to, to find that, right.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So the guides can help help a person identify it.
Rev Karen:Is that what I'm hearing?
Rev Karen:Yes.
Rev Karen:So your guides can direct you to it.
Rev Karen:Your guides know what your purpose is, I suppose so and
Rev Karen:so a lot of times when, yeah.
Rev Karen:And so a lot of times when you're consulting with them, they will
Rev Karen:be answering based on that.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And everybody's purpose is unique, so this is why we, we need to have
Rev Karen:these helpers because you can't compare yourself to anybody else.
Rev Karen:You know, your path and purpose is unique and you have to do
Rev Karen:what feels right for you, right?
Rev Karen:, I meant to ask you this before we got on air, but um, have you written any books
Rev Karen:about this, or you have your courses and you do personal, , one-on-one
Rev Karen:work, that kind of stuff.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:It's interesting that you say that because I think I'm getting some signs that I
Rev Karen:need to, I had an ebook a few years ago.
Rev Karen:It was co-written with somebody that you know, is not what I
Rev Karen:wanna put out there anymore.
Rev Karen:So it's time for.
Rev Karen:A refresher to, you know, to reach more people.
Rev Karen:But yes, I've put all of the, you know, I used before Covid, I used to travel
Rev Karen:all around the world teaching workshops.
Rev Karen:And I really have worked, understood what people's challenges can be
Rev Karen:with connecting with their angels.
Rev Karen:Like they're second guessing, they're not trusting.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:You know, and I've put all of that experience in really simple tools.
Rev Karen:Um, and to my communicate with Angels course.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:I, I was thinking about that before the show because it's like,
Rev Karen:I haven't heard that she has a book, so I need to ask about that.
Rev Karen:Well, I'll know that's coming out.
Rev Karen:Thank you for following your hunch.
Rev Karen:And that's a great example though of how it works like.
Rev Karen:If I, there's a part of me that wants to put that on the shelf and not look at it.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Human nature.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:But this is like the third or fourth time that somebody's mentioned that
Rev Karen:to me within a few weeks, Uhhuh.
Rev Karen:And previous to that, nobody said book to me at all.
Rev Karen:So it's like when, when things show up, they start showing up
Rev Karen:to get our attention, you know?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah, that's right.
Rev Karen:Okay, , two-sided questions.
Rev Karen:So two answers I guess.
Rev Karen:But what do you wish people would stop doing?
Rev Karen:Like when it comes to our purpose or connecting with our guides, and what
Rev Karen:do you wish they would do instead?
Rev Karen:Interesting.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So I think that the main challenge that people have is that they're wanting
Rev Karen:their angels to tell them what to do.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:And, um, and that's kind of a religious concept.
Rev Karen:A lot of religious concepts permeate our society and we
Rev Karen:don't even realize we have them.
Rev Karen:Um, and it's like somebody else is, is my boss.
Rev Karen:Somebody else needs to tell me what to do.
Rev Karen:Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Rev Karen:And so, It's like really knowing that this, yes, I, I help people connect
Rev Karen:with your guides, but really it's more about you at the end of the day,
Rev Karen:trusting yourself and being aware of that spiritual part of you that
Rev Karen:is so suppressed in our society.
Rev Karen:You know, it's, we're starting to.
Rev Karen:Come back to the balance, but our society right now is way overly
Rev Karen:masculine, way overly intellectual.
Rev Karen:And the the more feminine, intuitive part of us is almost seen as weak and silly.
Rev Karen:But it's actually where your power lies, right?
Rev Karen:That's what's going to create your success, your abundance, your happiness
Rev Karen:is following that part of you.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:So when it comes to connecting with your angels, it's like, um, use that as an
Rev Karen:advisor and they are going to help you to.
Rev Karen:See possibilities that you can't see for yourself.
Rev Karen:They can see things that we can't see.
Rev Karen:They're stretching us sometimes, you know, sometimes I get an answer from
Rev Karen:my guides that I don't understand and I have to just kind of sit with it.
Rev Karen:And even, um, it might take a couple weeks to understand, okay, this is
Rev Karen:why, oh, they're directing me in that direction because there's a
Rev Karen:bigger picture reason for it that.
Rev Karen:I couldn't say initially.
Rev Karen:Right, right.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So sometimes think we might think we get the wrong answer or we get a crazy answer.
Rev Karen:And it's just because we don't know the whole story yet, right?
Rev Karen:We don't Exactly.
Rev Karen:I mean, how many times we had that experience where in hindsight you
Rev Karen:see like something that seemed like a real challenge and you're a failure.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:In hindsight, you see, it was exactly what needed to happen.
Rev Karen:Yeah, I'm getting chills.
Rev Karen:As I say that, that's another sign that your angels are around.
Rev Karen:That's a really good one for people to know about is when you feel chills
Rev Karen:or tingling or goosebumps, that's your angels kind of giving you confirmation
Rev Karen:that you're on the right track or that there's truth Oh, occurring.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Interesting.
Rev Karen:Interesting.
Rev Karen:, and you mentioned a lot of people seek you out when they start seeing like numbers
Rev Karen:repeating or, or different patterns.
Rev Karen:So I suppose that is the guides just really saying, listen,
Rev Karen:is that what's going on?
Rev Karen:Or, because they, they don't have any physical way to
Rev Karen:physically do anything, right?
Rev Karen:Like, they're not, not that they would shake us and say, wake up or
Rev Karen:anything like that, but, , so it, it has to be something that makes,
Rev Karen:makes us notice, is that right?
Rev Karen:Make us, makes us stand up and say, what is this all about?
Rev Karen:Yeah, I think some people need that.
Rev Karen:It's, it's like that awakening stage.
Rev Karen:You are learning to pay attention and acknowledge it and having your own
Rev Karen:experiences, because that's why when I had that experience connecting with
Rev Karen:my angels at 12 years old, that's why it stuck with me so strongly
Rev Karen:because it was my own experience.
Rev Karen:It wasn't just my mother telling me stuff that I thought was weird.
Rev Karen:It's like, oh.
Rev Karen:Okay, now I've experienced this and I can feel that it's true, you
Rev Karen:know, and that's the key for people.
Rev Karen:So I think, you know, if it's just the mundane every day,
Rev Karen:you're not gonna pay attention.
Rev Karen:But when I remember when I first moved into my apartment after getting divorced,
Rev Karen:it was a really big deal and a really big manifestation for me to, to do that.
Rev Karen:And the first month or two, I lived in that apartment.
Rev Karen:I saw pennies everywhere.
Rev Karen:Mm.
Rev Karen:Like there was just pennies in every room.
Rev Karen:And logically you think who is walking through this?
Rev Karen:Nobody is walking through this apartment throwing pennies everywhere.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So I realized that was my guides just really, you know, wanting
Rev Karen:to get my attention and to say, Hey, you're in the right track.
Rev Karen:You're right where you need to be.
Rev Karen:Cuz it was a scary thing at the time.
Rev Karen:But you know, I got that information, you know?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Yeah, that, yeah, that's good Now, and now that you mentioned it, I can
Rev Karen:remember times in my life seeing.
Rev Karen:Things repeated when I wasn't sure I was doing the right thing.
Rev Karen:Yes.
Rev Karen:So, yeah, that's good to know.
Rev Karen:Yes.
Rev Karen:And then the next stage is then to actually start communicating.
Rev Karen:So people are starting to connect, but they don't know
Rev Karen:how to interpret the messages.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And so then, um, you know, I have a free minicourse that I have where you
Rev Karen:can learn to hear a message from your angels and actually start to receive
Rev Karen:that communication directly rather than it being cryptic and confusing.
Rev Karen:Like pennies on the floor.
Rev Karen:When you say here, you mean it could be, visions or words or however we are.
Rev Karen:. Not necessarily word hearing it because you mentioned there's
Rev Karen:four spiritual gifts, right?
Rev Karen:So it might not be actual words.
Rev Karen:Or Yeah.
Rev Karen:Well everybody has all four.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:So in that course I just focus on hearing, cuz that's one.
Rev Karen:Oh, okay.
Rev Karen:Yeah, it is one that's easier to start with simply because we're used to
Rev Karen:communicating with words with people.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:You know, so when you hear a word it can be a little quicker
Rev Karen:and easier to pick up at first.
Rev Karen:But yes, we definitely receive messages through all four of them.
Rev Karen:And you have one that's your primary?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:That sounds, that sounds super interesting.
Rev Karen:Where do they find that course at, if they're interested?
Rev Karen:Um, yeah.
Rev Karen:So my website is communicate with angels.com.
Rev Karen:You'll find it on there and then, and there's also the slash Hear Your Angels.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:But it's right there on my website.
Rev Karen:Communicate with angels.com.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:Hear your angels.
Rev Karen:Okay.
Rev Karen:I just had to ask that.
Rev Karen:So, if you could let everyone know in the world, , you have
Rev Karen:a message for everyone that.
Rev Karen:Something we need to know, we need to start doing or whatever it is.
Rev Karen:What would your message to the world be?
Rev Karen:Hmm.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:I think it's that you have a unique purpose, and I know we hear those
Rev Karen:words, but if you really feel into that to know that you are
Rev Karen:important, that your contribution is needed, there are people who.
Rev Karen:Need what you have.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And if this doesn't have to be standing on stage or writing a book,
Rev Karen:it can be as simple as the people that you interact with every day.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:But knowing that.
Rev Karen:You have a, a mission here to accomplish and something important to share?
Rev Karen:I think that we have, you know, an epidemic of low self-esteem
Rev Karen:in our world, you know?
Rev Karen:And if people can just start to realize that you are special, you are unique,
Rev Karen:your gifts are important in whatever way that you choose to share them, you know?
Rev Karen:Nice.
Rev Karen:I, I believe that as well.
Rev Karen:I think you're right on.
Rev Karen:So . So why don't you talk about your auth.
Rev Karen:Is it authentic to aligned?
Rev Karen:Is that what it's called?
Rev Karen:Your course.
Rev Karen:Yes, so it's called authentic and aligned and I have a training through an
Rev Karen:organization called The Way She College, and there are some amazing materials that
Rev Karen:I'm certified to present through that.
Rev Karen:And what I did was I pulled together the key, um, tools that a person needs to know
Rev Karen:to really understand their authentic self.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:So just as I was saying, you're special, you're unique, but it's
Rev Karen:sometimes we don't know how we take for granted what we're good at.
Rev Karen:So in that, the first part is knowing your authentic soul self, and that includes
Rev Karen:learning that spiritual mantra, your vibration that I talked about before.
Rev Karen:What your mission and purpose is, and then some other things that, the words kind
Rev Karen:of probably don't have a lot of meaning.
Rev Karen:You don't know what it is, but it's like, what is your, we call it your policy.
Rev Karen:There's an energy that fuels you to do what you come to do.
Rev Karen:So my first policy, for example, is strength.
Rev Karen:Hmm.
Rev Karen:So if I, I have, that's my inner pivot at the core.
Rev Karen:If I lose my inner strength, I'm really not on a good place.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And so people have different ones.
Rev Karen:Um, You learn about, um, where you fit with opportunities.
Rev Karen:Are you the go-getter starter like I am with a lot of entrepreneurs of that?
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Or are you more a builder where you learn to refine things or A
Rev Karen:consolidator works with systems, so Wow.
Rev Karen:There's all these kind of different aspects that people learn in the
Rev Karen:course through PRI private sessions that I offer them, and we also have
Rev Karen:group calls where you share with each other and then when, when you really
Rev Karen:understand and know that authentic self, then you can start aligning your work,
Rev Karen:your relationships, everything that you're involved with in the material
Rev Karen:world with your true, authentic self.
Rev Karen:Mm.
Rev Karen:And because what I started seeing over and over again is that people are looking
Rev Karen:outside of themselves for answers.
Rev Karen:They're really trying to find happiness and fulfillment, right?
Rev Karen:But what they're doing is they're saying, okay, what career am I supposed
Rev Karen:to be doing that's gonna make me happy?
Rev Karen:What relationships and friends can I have that are gonna make me happy?
Rev Karen:And that.
Rev Karen:All of that is important, but it's only half the equation and people are totally
Rev Karen:missing the spiritual part of themselves.
Rev Karen:And so you really get to learn who you are.
Rev Karen:So then, you know, like the, I just finished this course about a month ago,
Rev Karen:and there was about two or three women in there who were really looking for
Rev Karen:a new job, and they were interviewing.
Rev Karen:And they said, you know, now that I've been through authentic and aligned, I
Rev Karen:can see these job opportunities come up and I can say that one just isn't for me.
Rev Karen:And they're not gonna waste their time, right?
Rev Karen:Because they know truly what they're good at, what they're gifted at,
Rev Karen:what's gonna be fun for them.
Rev Karen:And they can then, rather than going trying, so it's like we feel
Rev Karen:like a square, pagan around hole.
Rev Karen:So you're trying to move yourself and change yourself to fit the job.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Rather than going, this is me and I'm good with me.
Rev Karen:I'm not gonna change cuz it's who I am.
Rev Karen:So what is the job that's a match for me.
Rev Karen:Hmm.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And we do that in relationships too.
Rev Karen:I did that in my marriage.
Rev Karen:I was changing myself to fit somebody else.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And that just will eat you up inside over time.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:So this is what authentic and aligned helps people with.
Rev Karen:And it's a process that you don't know, that you don't know, to really
Rev Karen:find that authentic self self.
Rev Karen:So then the things that you are involved in, in your material life then become
Rev Karen:really happy and fulfilling and joyful.
Rev Karen:And that at the end of the day is what we're seeking.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:Exactly.
Rev Karen:What we're seeking.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:So you, you don't even, A person doesn't even have to go down
Rev Karen:the wrong path to start with.
Rev Karen:And change it time and time and time again.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:They have a good idea what direction to go.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And it becomes like this hamster wheel that people do like, oh,
Rev Karen:well that job didn't make me happy, so what else can I do?
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And they're really, again, they're looking out there and if you know your authentic
Rev Karen:self and those gifts and where you belong, where you fit your niche in life.
Rev Karen:You know, then you can just seek that opportunity.
Rev Karen:That's a good match for you, right?
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:When you're in your niche in life, there's this natural growth and expansion and flow
Rev Karen:that happens and life becomes fun again.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:You know, a lot of people go it, there's a cliche now of saying, I'm
Rev Karen:s I love what I'm doing so much.
Rev Karen:I can't wait to get up outta bed in the morning.
Rev Karen:And that's what people are actually looking for when they tell me
Rev Karen:they want their life purpose.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:That's not your purpose, that's your niche.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:It's that place where you fit so that you can express your
Rev Karen:purpose and your uniqueness.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:I was reading, , during the Great resignation of the last couple of
Rev Karen:years, all these people that have resigned and either have new jobs
Rev Karen:or whatever they have, they're.
Rev Karen:No more happy, or perhaps a large percentage of them are,
Rev Karen:um, less happy than they were prior to the great resignation.
Rev Karen:So yeah, we need to know what we're looking for before we actually do it.
Rev Karen:I guess I, I completely resonate with that.
Rev Karen:Yes.
Rev Karen:It's that inner work.
Rev Karen:Mm-hmm.
Rev Karen:That self understanding.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:And I've been lucky enough to learn tools that really help a person to do that.
Rev Karen:So by going through this process, you know, people come out the other
Rev Karen:side and go, okay, now I know.
Rev Karen:And there's just that this calm that was on these women's faces when
Rev Karen:they had graduated from the course.
Rev Karen:Um, because they know who they are.
Rev Karen:Yeah.
Rev Karen:And they're not willing to prove anything anymore.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Right.
Rev Karen:Well that's awesome.
Rev Karen:I thank you for sharing that and thank you for being here.
Rev Karen:Tell us where to find that course at.
Rev Karen:Is that also on your website so you, yeah, so you can go to communicate
Rev Karen:with angels.com/authentic and aligned.
Rev Karen:Um, and there's a wait list on there right now, but I'm going
Rev Karen:to be opening up enrollment soon.
Rev Karen:So it's a really good time to get on the wait list so that you can get the
Rev Karen:best, you know, best pricing and the best deals on there if it resonates.
Rev Karen:Fantastic.
Rev Karen:All right.
Rev Karen:Communicate with angels.
Rev Karen:Well, thank you Melissa Kitto.
Rev Karen:It's been a pleasure.
Rev Karen:I love learning about some of this, and, I, I will look forward perhaps talking
Rev Karen:at a deeper level someday about some of the, more of the soul's purpose and such.
Rev Karen:But anyhow, thanks for being here and I just wanna say goodbye to the
Rev Karen:listeners and we will connect again soon.
Rev Karen:Thanks for having me.
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