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We are talking about 2 keys to becoming more attractive to women. Every man wants to be attractive to women, but we often work on it from a man's perspective and not a woman's perspective. This has a bearing on both single men and married men. Your work in these two areas will help you grow as a man and be more attractive to women if you are a single man or your wife if you are married.

Being More Attractive Fits Single Men and Married Men

• Single men desire to be more attractive to women, but the biggest problem is they think about attractiveness from a man's perspective
• So what many single guys do is focus on their physical in order to get women
• This may attract some women but if we aren't mature emotionally they will often be shallow women
• Single men should focus on all the other areas of their life as much or more than their physical
• Smart married men would work to stay attractive to their wife
• All relationships are journeys and they can go to deeper and deeper levels of intimacy depending on how much the couple chooses to work on it
• Growth is a big key to a great long-lasting relationship
• They should grow themselves so they can love their wife better

The Authentic Journey

• Men must go on the authentic journey if they want to realize their full potential as men
• Too many men will put on different masks based on the situation and what they need to be
• Authenticity is attractive to women
• Women want a man who is genuine in his abilities and reactions
• A man's authentic self will attract the type of woman he is naturally attracted too
• An authentic man knows who he is and has a pretty good bearing of himself
• Authentic men want a real relationship and not just sex
• Being authentic helps us be more attractive to women and gives us the ability to experience deeper levels of intimacy with our wives

Security: The Secret Sauce

• One of the biggest weaknesses in men today is insecurity
• One of the biggest and most obvious reasons for insecurity is the lack of role models in boy's lives
• We must recognize our insecurities as men or they will enslave us
• Insecure men do not attract strong secure women
• Security gives us our own minds
• Security gives us the ability to stand against outside pressure
• Security gives us power over perfection
• Security gives us the propensity to grow
• Security is the secret sauce of attraction