If you’re dating after 40 and tired of chasing unavailable partners or following bad advice, this episode is for you! I’m sharing the framework I’ve used as a dating coach (and in my own life) to go from a "hot mess express" to married to the love of my life in my 40s. You'll learn how to stop chasing love and start letting it in with my three-pillar approach: Let, Love, and In.
In episode 8 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I also address the biggest myths in dating—why “knowing” what to do isn’t enough, how action changes everything, and why the “right guy” won’t just fall into your lap (spoiler: you have to put yourself out there).
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
The Let Love In Technique: My 3-pillar approach to finding love by letting go of old patterns, embracing self-acceptance, and trusting your heart.
- Awareness (The Let Pillar): How to detox from unavailable partners and recognize the patterns that keep you stuck.
- Self-Acceptance (The Love Pillar): Why loving yourself unconditionally is key and how to stop beating yourself up for past choices.
- Heart Wisdom (The In Pillar): How to connect to your heart, tune into your intuition, and radiate confidence that attracts authentic love.
The difference between dating from your head vs. your heart—and how to shift to a grounded, joyful approach to meeting the right person.
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