Welcome to episode sixty-six of the Phone Sex Show with your host Mari.
In today’s episode Mari and Mia talk about a fun new way for men to connect with them over on NiteFlirt – an ignore line. That’s right, men pay to be ignored!
Mari and Mia are also celebrating three years in the world of spicy content creators.
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Welcome in, gentlemen. You're listening to the Phone Sex Show. I'm Mari, a sensual domme who takes clients exclusively by phone. You'll be hearing from me and my fellow femdom sisters as we talk about experiences with submissive And some not-so-submissive men just like you. If you've ever wanted to lean into submissive kinks or you're erotically curious, you're gonna love spending time with us. And who knows, maybe you'll decide to give one of us a call. Find us on the web.
Mari [:Welcome back to the Phone Sex Show. You're here with Mari and Mia. How are you today, Mia?
Mia [:I'm good. How are you, Mari?
Mari [:I am so good. I've been having such a blast with something brand new, and, uh, I wanted to share it with the guys. A new option for connecting, a little different. So, uh, by the way, Mia, we just celebrated our 3rd anniversary.
Mia [:As— that's so crazy.
Mari [:Spicy gals. 3 years of being professional phone sex goddesses, and I love that 3 years in that there are still like brand new things to play with. Not that What I'm going to talk about today is brand new. This has actually been around for a long time, but I just recently decided to give it a try. And that is the ignore line. Can you believe that that's a thing?
Mia [:No.
Mari [:I know.
Mia [:But there's a lot of things I can't believe are a thing.
Mari [:Yeah, there's a lot. But when we were first getting started and, and I was doing my initial research into what do people do in the world of phone sex, and I saw the, quote, ignore line, and, and my brain was twisted. I thought the whole point of phone sex is that you're communicating with someone.
Mia [:Right.
Mari [:You're having some kind of interpersonal connection, whether it's fantasy or like something really sweet and intimate and genuine. There's a human on the other line, but it turns out the ignore line is just another form of domination. It's, it's, it's a form of submission. So I recently started my very first ignore line over on Night Flirt.
Mia [:And have you had any calls?
Mari [:I have had some calls. It's still very early, just so y'all know. This is very early, but I created the ignore line, and I call it an attention deprivation line. That's the title of the listing— attention deprivation.
Mia [:Such a good title.
Mari [:And I— this is my approach to it. What can I say? You're not worthy of my time at any price. But you crave a deep understanding of that truth, don't you? Pick up the phone and call. I'll answer, but I won't address you. You'll rub your cock. And I'll know that's why you've called. You'll feel the delicious weight of my total lack of attention, and it will only serve to increase your pleasure. I'll do whatever the fuck I want while you pay for my time that does not belong to you.
Mari [:What the fuck are you waiting for?
Mia [:I love it.
Mari [:I love it too. I do whatever the fuck I want. That phone rings. So, okay, I recorded a little teeny tiny goodie. For the line that says, why call to be ignored? And this is a very tiny priced goodie, and it's only a 1-minute audio. And those of you listening to the podcast, you can save your dollar or 2. I'll tell you, like, I don't answer the question. The question, why call to be ignored? I don't answer the question because I don't know why men want to call and be ignored.
Mari [:I don't know why. And here's the thing, feel it deep down. I don't need to know. I don't give a fuck. You are paying me to ignore you. I don't need to understand anything about your dynamic because I'm not gonna talk. I'm not gonna think about it. I'm going to answer the phone and say nothing.
Mia [:So was it weird to answer the phone and say nothing?
Mari [:Yes.
Mia [:Yeah.
Mari [:The first caller, uh, the moment that that ignore line was active and the goodie was available to buy, it was purchased by 2 different men right away. And one of those men called, and we had— these are brief calls so far, these are brief calls. Um, but I was working on an art project here, and I just picked up the phone and kept working on my project. I did not— That's so weird. —interact with him. He could hear me breathe. He could hear the sounds of my desk. He maybe could hear the art project, but He was quiet too.
Mari [:I was curious, like, I'm imagining that there will be silent callers like that. He was very quiet. I did not hear him orgasm. That's a tiny bit disappointing because, you know, I love to hear a man blow.
Mia [:Mm-hmm.
Mari [:Um, but he was quiet for several long moments and then Then he hung up, but then he messaged me, and I realized that we had chatted once before quite a long time ago.
Mari [:Mhm.
Mari [:So that tickled me. Um, but he just messaged. He said, thank you, Miss Mari, for taking my ignore call, and he left a brief, sweet review. Nice 5 stars. What a good boy. And says he'll be back. So my first ignore call was brief, easy, and got, you know, followed up with a little text, thank you, which I would— I appreciate that.
Mia [:Mm-hmm.
Mari [:But I did before I realized that we had chatted before, because, you know, over on the Night Flirt platform, guys, you have to send us a chat in order for us to ever send you a chat. We cannot initiate the first chat. Um, So before I received his chat, I— as soon as we hung up from the ignore line, I'm— I was grinning, and I sent him a pay-to-view email, $2, just to say, I would love to know what you got out of being ignored.
Mia [:Mhm.
Mari [:So he— but he chatted. Like, I no sooner sent that pay-to-view email and he chatted me, and I was like, oh, Oh, he's in my chat. This is wonderful. That's my intention going forward, Mia. And I know you've created an ignore line as well.
Mari [:Mhm.
Mari [:Um, but it is my intention because, well, because I am so curious about what a man is thinking about wanting to be ignored, wanting to pay for the privilege of not being spoken to. Um, I'm going to follow up calls with a pay-to-view email.
Mia [:Mm-hmm.
Mari [:Uh, low cost. And I'm just gonna ask that question, what did you get out of being ignored today? Um, and I'm gonna tell 'em, you, you can respond to this email or you can tell me in your feedback. Either, either way is beautiful. That— because I am curious, and if you— if they want to tell me privately, that's great, but if they want to tell me publicly, that's great too. So I can't wait to have more experiences like this. But I did have another ignore line call just this morning. Um, and he left me sweet feedback too.
Mia [:Mhm.
Mari [:I don't think that ignore lines are a huge niche, like, like feminization or, um, or jerking off instructions are super popular, but I do think that the ignore line satisfies a certain deep urge that some men have to honor a woman's time, to validate their submission.
Mia [:Mhm.
Mari [:Literally paying to be ignored. What I'm fascinated about and what I really look forward to one day reporting back in Is, is, are there ignore calls that last longer, and are there ignore calls where they're talking?
Mia [:That's, that's my curiosity, is there are going to be men that call and they sit there and they yap, yap, yap, trying to get you to engage with them. Yeah. Knowing that it's an ignore line. Yeah.
Mari [:Will they use it as a confessional where they just share something that they know you won't respond to?
Mari [:Ooh.
Mari [:Or will they be a desperate little simp going, please talk to me, please don't ignore me, please, I'll do anything? Like, the idea of them like imagining themselves at my feet begging for attention and I'm just walking around and doing something else. Like, that is such a tickle. But guys, uh, the ignore lines are up on both of our accounts. We'll make sure that they're linked to if you want to give them a try and see what being ignored feels like. Uh, and then, um, I'll, I'll definitely report back a few months down the road when we have a little more experience. with it. So awesome, guys. Thanks for spending a little bit of time with us today.
Mari [:And if you don't want to be ignored, you know, we're there for that too. Bye, guys.
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