At 63 years old, I reflect on the absence of my father, a man I've never known, and how this missing piece of my identity has subtly shaped my life. A chance encounter in church triggers a profound realization that, although I never felt incomplete, the absence of my father has impacted my understanding of myself.

Ultimately, I learned that true self-knowledge comes from embracing the unknown parts of our stories, rather than seeking to fill every gap.d

Key Takeaways

00:00 I never thought much about my father’s absence, as my maternal grandfather filled the fatherly role in my early life. However, at 63, a single moment in church shifted my perspective on this missing piece of my identity.

02:00 The absence of a parent, especially for daughters in single-parent homes, can quietly shape identity, even if we convince ourselves we don't need that missing piece.

03:00 Embracing unanswered questions, rather than seeking closure through filling gaps, allows us to understand our story and to live within that uncertainty.

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