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Your Team's Best Ideas Are Hiding Behind This Simple Question
Episode 11718th May 2026 • The Modern Humanitarian and International Development Leader: Make a Greater Impact During Uncertainty as a NGO Leader While Avoiding Stress, Burnout and Overwhelm • Aid for Aid Workers
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What if the reason your team isn’t bringing better ideas isn’t a lack of creativity—but the way you’re leading conversations?

Many leaders unintentionally shut down deeper thinking by jumping in too quickly with solutions. In this episode, Torrey explains why simple questions often create the most powerful breakthroughs and how one small shift in communication can help your team think more creatively, solve problems more effectively, and take greater ownership of their work.

What you'll learn:

  • Learn why the simple question “What else?” can unlock deeper creativity and problem-solving within your team
  • Discover how silence and patience help people move beyond surface-level answers into innovative thinking
  • Understand how to create more ownership, confidence, and resourcefulness without constantly providing solutions

Press play to discover how one simple leadership question can transform your conversations, strengthen your team’s thinking, and unlock ideas that may already be waiting beneath the surface.

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WHAT IS YOUR LEADERSHIP STYLE?

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What if I told you that your team already has better ideas inside of them?

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The problem is, you just may be asking the wrong question.

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Find out how to get better ideas on today's episode./

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Hi, my name is Torrey, and welcome to the Modern Humanitarian and

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Development Leader podcast.

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In today's episode, you're going to learn why simple questions are the

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most powerful, one question that helps people move beyond surface-level

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thinking, and how to use this question to create more ownership, innovation,

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and problem-solving within your team.

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So why are simple questions often the best ones?

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Because they create clarity.

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There is no confusion about what you are asking, and they help focus the brain.

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Sometimes as leaders, we think we need complicated questions to get meaningful

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answers, but often the opposite is true.

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Some of the simplest questions create the deepest thinking because instead of

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overwhelming the brain, they create space.

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And the question I want to share with you today is simply this: what else?

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Two words, that's it.

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And yet, I have seen this question completely shift conversations

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because here's what often happens.

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Most people stop thinking after the first acceptable answer, or maybe the second.

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Not because they are incapable of deeper thinking, but because

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our brains like efficiency.

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Once we come up with something reasonable, we tend to stop there.

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But when we are pushed by asking someone, "What else?" our brain

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has to go back and search again.

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And often that is where the more creative, innovative, and

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meaningful ideas begin to emerge.

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I remember one time one of my students practicing the PACT coaching

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conversation structure that I teach in my course Part of the structure

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involves continuing to ask, "What else? What else? What else?" And honestly,

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I could tell that they were skeptical.

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They looked uncomfortable continuing to ask the same question repeatedly.

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I think a part of them probably thought, "Mm, this can't possibly

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keep working." But they kept going, and something fascinating happened.

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Each time they asked what else to the person they were coaching, the

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person being coached came up with a new idea, and another, and another.

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At first, the solutions were surface level, but eventually the person started

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uncovering ideas that they genuinely had not thought of before, and I could

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see the visible surprise on my student's face as this happened in real time.

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At the end of the exercise, the person being coached said, "I

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didn't realize I had so many ideas."

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This is the power of creating space for people to think, and this is important as

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leaders because many of us unintentionally stop our teams' thinking too early.

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We ask one question, we hear one answer, and then we jump in with our own ideas.

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Why?

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Because silence can feel uncomfortable.

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We want to help.

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We want to move quickly.

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We want to rescue.

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But sometimes our discomfort is what limits the team's resourcefulness.

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So the more we quickly step in, the less opportunity our team has to develop their

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own thinking, confidence, and ownership.

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Of course, sometimes you will ask what else, and the person

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will just stare at you blankly.

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I've had that happen before.

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But other times, that simple question, what else, unlocks ideas,

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solutions, risks, possibilities, and perspectives that they would

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not have discovered otherwise.

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So here are a few tips for using this question effectively.

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First, use it when you wanna deepen your thinking.

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For example, if a team member comes to you with a project delay and

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says they're not sure what to do, instead of immediately giving advice,

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ask, "What ideas do you have?"

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And after they answer, ask, "What else?" And then again, ask, "What

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else?" But remember also to allow the silence to allow them to answer.

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You may notice an urge to fill the space while they think, but don't.

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Count to five in your head if you need to, because often that breakthrough idea

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comes a few moments after the discomfort.

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And third, keep going until they naturally stop.

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Usually people will eventually say, "That's all I can think of." Perfect.

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That is when you know they have fully explored their thinking for now.

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And here's a pro tip.

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Use this on yourself as well.

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The next time you are planning a presentation, designing a

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meeting, or trying to solve a challenge, ask yourself, "What else?

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What else?

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What other ideas can I come up with?

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What else?

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What else?

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What else?" And keep asking.

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You may be surprised what your brain comes up with once you

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move past the obvious answers.

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So to summarize, simple questions are often the most powerful because

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they create clarity and focus.

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The question, what else, helps people move beyond surface-level thinking

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into deeper creativity and ownership.

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And sometimes the biggest thing limiting our team's thinking is our

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own discomfort with silence, patience, and allowing people space to think.

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So here's my challenge to you.

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Try using this question today.

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Notice your resistance to repeating it if it comes up.

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Notice what happens when you allow silence instead of talking.

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And most importantly, notice what becomes possible when you trust

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that your team may already have more wisdom and creativity inside

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of them than you initially realized.

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All right.

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Until next week, keep evolving.

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Bye for now.

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Are you the type of leader that tells others what to do or do you let

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them figure it out for themselves?

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Understanding your leadership style is the first step to deciding what's

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working for you and what's not.

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To find out your leadership style, take my free quiz, What is Your Leadership Style?

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You'll immediately find out your default style, how it may be impacting

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your team, and a few practical ways to become an even better leader.

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Just click on the link in the show notes, www.aidforaidworkers.com/quiz,

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fill out your quiz, and click submit.

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So what are you waiting for?

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Go to www.aidforaidworkers.com/quiz and discover your leadership style now.

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Your team will thank you for it.

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