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"Resilience Is Built Through Personal Experience" Darren Cahill
Episode 24822nd January 2025 • The Functional Tennis Podcast • Fabio Molle
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I randomly came across the Yonex popup while in Melbourne and inside Darren Cahill (Coach of Jannik Sinner) was having a Q&A with some people so I joined in briefly.

Darren a former player has previously worked with Lleyton Hewitt, Andre Agassi and Simona Halep.

  • The importance of resilience in tennis success
  • Building strong habits for consistent performance
  • Why Yannick Sinner’s parents stayed out of coaching
  • Turning setbacks into opportunities for growth
  • The transition from player to coach and team-building

The sound quality is lower than normal as I only had my phone and it was noisy but there's plenty to learn in this short recording.

Finally a big thanks to Asics Tennis for flying me down to Melbourne to help launch their new Asics Gel Resolution X.

Fabio

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Fabio Molli:

Welcome to the Function Tennis Podcast.

Fabio Molli:

I'm your host Fabio Molli and I bring you insights and lessons from players, coaches and parents and experts who are ingrained in the world of high level tennis.

Fabio Molli:

And sometimes I randomly come across an interesting chat on my travels.

Fabio Molli:

I'm just back from the Aussie Open.

Fabio Molli:

If you've never been, I recommend you add it to your bucket list.

Fabio Molli:

It's a well run event, the weather is great most of the time, players are excited with the start of a new year.

Fabio Molli:

There's plenty of fun to be had on the court and outside the court and I can see why it's called the Happy Slam.

Fabio Molli:

Also, if you don't have access to the main courts, the top players often practice on the smaller courts.

Fabio Molli:

It's a great chance to get up close to them on match days.

Fabio Molli:

I've seen Yannick Alcaraz, Novak, IGA Sabalenka all practice on the small courts and they practice there when they're playing that day and also on their off day.

Fabio Molli:

So it's really great if you want to get up close.

Fabio Molli:

I was lucky there with our podcast sponsors Athex, who were launching new Gel Resolution X.

Fabio Molli:

I'll have another episode talking about them and introducing a great new player to the lineup.

Fabio Molli:

Lorenzo Musetti.

Fabio Molli:

I arrived a bit earlier and left a bit later, so it gave me a bit of time to get to the Aussie Open to check out practices and watch some matches.

Fabio Molli:

But one day on my way back to the Essex Hotel, I came across the Yonex Pop up store which was near my original hotel and the drop off for tourman transportation.

Fabio Molli:

I'd heard about it but hadn't paid much attention to it.

Fabio Molli:

So I decided to go in and there I saw Darren Kyle having a casual Q and A chat with six or seven people.

Fabio Molli:

I was like, whoa.

Fabio Molli:

It was an organized event that I should have known more about.

Fabio Molli:

If you don't know Darren, he's the current coach of Jannik Sinner along with a former guest actually Simone Vaniozzi and Darren has worked with Leighton Hewitt, Andre Agassi and Simona Halep in the past.

Fabio Molli:

Anyway, I said to myself I better take out my phone and get recording as well as ask my question.

Fabio Molli:

I did the other day put a short clip of him talking about resilience on the functional tennis Instagram account which people loved and yeah, did really well.

Fabio Molli:

He also during the chat talks about what he loves about Sinner, what Agassi sees in Sinner, Jannik's parents not getting involved in his tennis as well as transition from a player to a coach and how he likes to build a team.

Fabio Molli:

It's short as I was running late for an event and the quality is not up to our usual standards, as recorded on my phone.

Fabio Molli:

And it was quite loud there.

Fabio Molli:

I promise though, you're able to hear it and you'll definitely pick up one bit of advice from it.

Fabio Molli:

Hope you enjoy it.

Darren Kyle:

As a coach, like how do you normally prepare the player?

Darren Kyle:

Like, obviously like Yannick Singer in terms of my set on the day of tournaments.

Darren Kyle:

So that starts well before the day of the tournament.

Darren Kyle:

The mindset is something you can't just switch on and off.

Darren Kyle:

It has to be doing it over and over, the little things over and over and over.

Darren Kyle:

From the first day, you start working with a plan and after a good amount of time, those little habits start to sink in and become more natural for the player.

Darren Kyle:

So it's the little things.

Darren Kyle:

It's eating at the right time, watching enough video about your opponent to find out what you're going to do on that match day, treating everyone well, treating your teammates with respect.

Darren Kyle:

And it's the culture within tennis that makes you feel good as a person.

Darren Kyle:

And if you can make a better person, you can make a better tennis player, in my opinion.

Darren Kyle:

So just some little things make it good.

Darren Kyle:

And coaches and then how do you access your feet?

Darren Kyle:

And also how do you accept winning as well?

Darren Kyle:

How do you take winning?

Darren Kyle:

Do you take winning with being humble, having class, being respectful?

Darren Kyle:

And do you take losses in the same way as well?

Darren Kyle:

So a lot of that comes down to good communication and learnings through experience.

Darren Kyle:

That's why we talk about resilience all the time and building up resilience in a tennis player.

Darren Kyle:

You can only do that through personal experience.

Darren Kyle:

And then you talk your way through those, those moments.

Darren Kyle:

Janik, last year at the US Open, after what he went through at the US Open, for him to be able to put himself in a bubble and play some of the best tendencies ever played speaks a lot to his maturity and his resilience and the qualities of him as a human being as well.

Darren Kyle:

And that's what I admire most about.

Darren Kyle:

It's not the results, the results.

Simone Vaniozzi:

All the great champions have great results.

Darren Kyle:

But it's how you accept and handle those results.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And.

Darren Kyle:

And that'll be his legacy 10 years time, when he finishes playing tennis, it'll be champion.

Darren Kyle:

Yes.

Simone Vaniozzi:

What is he.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yeah, he crushes every single tennis player.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Every is good friends with Andre Agassi.

Simone Vaniozzi:

You remember Andre, you're a little bit young, but do you remember Andre?

Darren Kyle:

Yes.

Simone Vaniozzi:

One of the great players.

Simone Vaniozzi:

He won eight major number one in the world, Olympic gold medal.

Simone Vaniozzi:

He did everything in tennis and he did everything before I started working with him.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So he was already a legend.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And he speaks to me a lot about Yannick is when he sees Yannick play, he sees every ball as an opportunity to finish the point.

Simone Vaniozzi:

That's what Yannick.

Simone Vaniozzi:

You know, most players like myself will get onto the court and you have to try to find a weakness.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And he puts a ball into a certain part of the court where you feel like you're safe.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But no ball is safe against Yanick.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And that's his greatest strength, is that he can generate pace, power, angle and precision from any part of the core.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And he's improved his game.

Simone Vaniozzi:

He's coming to the net more now, transitioning more, sensing opportunities.

Simone Vaniozzi:

His serve has improved.

Simone Vaniozzi:

We changed a little bit with his serve.

Simone Vaniozzi:

He went from a platform to a step up serve.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So he's willing to take chances within his game to become better.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Not everything we give him is good for him and we'll quickly work out whether or not it works for him or not.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But the stuff that we're giving him, he's willing to try.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And I think Even if he's 15 in the world, 10 in the world, 5 in the world, 1 in the world, it doesn't matter what your ranking is.

Simone Vaniozzi:

You have to continue to look for improvement in your game and then you will have a long, successful career in America.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Correct.

Speaker D:

Hi.

Speaker D:

I heard Janik's parents were like super important for him.

Speaker D:

They gave him tough love lessons.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Did I.

Speaker D:

They make.

Speaker D:

That's what I heard, yeah.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I'm not sure.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I think they were very honest.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Well, in a good way.

Speaker D:

No.

Speaker D:

What they did was really was tough, but it made him a stronger person.

Speaker D:

And how important are parents in success of a tennis player on and off the court?

Simone Vaniozzi:

I think parents are incredibly important for any athlete in any sport.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But tennis maybe a little bit more so because a lot of parents are hands on in tennis and they have access to change the course of their players or their children's career because the access to the coaching and the parenting and they travel a lot, sometimes it's a necessity.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Right.

Simone Vaniozzi:

You have a young 15, 16 year old daughter that's a really good tennis player and you don't want to send them around the world for 40 weeks of the year.

Simone Vaniozzi:

You like her parents bigger than.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I understand that it's, it's normal, but you have to find that balance between being a parent and being a coach or a mentor as well.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And that's a tricky thing for a parent.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I have two kids and I went through exactly the same thing.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I would step on the floor with my kids when they were young, 12, 13, 14 years of age, and I'd try to tell them something and they'd say, no, dad, that's not right.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It's the same challenge for me as.

Darren Kyle:

It is for all the parents.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But their parents never got involved.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Sorry.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yannick's parents never got involved in the tennis.

Simone Vaniozzi:

They always left the tennis to the people who were the coaches.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So whether that be Ricardo Piatti or.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I don't know if you guys have seen his latest documentary that came out, which was an amazing watch.

Simone Vaniozzi:

They speak a lot to his original coaches back in Italy.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And the parents never got involved in that.

Simone Vaniozzi:

They realized that his dad's a chef and an amazing chef.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So if you're next to walking into the kitchen and try to tell the dad about cooking, dad's going to go stop.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Same for Janik and the tennis.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So they have a really healthy respect.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And I think that Yannick's parents did an amazing job of giving him a perspective that this is just a sport.

Simone Vaniozzi:

This is not real life.

Simone Vaniozzi:

This is a moment in your life that you're going out and doing something you love.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Go out, have fun doing the best you can, and then when you're finished, then you'll step into what is real life.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And it's having a family, raising children, having a real job, making sure there's enough food on the table for your kids.

Simone Vaniozzi:

That's what they did as parents.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So that's more important than going out there.

Speaker D:

And the quickest story I heard was he was in the car one day with Piazzi and he rang his mom.

Speaker D:

He's like, mom, I can't do this.

Speaker D:

He was beaten like he's 15, 14, 15.

Speaker D:

He's like, this is not for me.

Fabio Molli:

He was homesick.

Speaker D:

And his mom goes too.

Speaker D:

Like, what time do I come home every night?

Speaker D:

And he goes, 11 o'clock.

Speaker D:

Do I moan about that?

Fabio Molli:

And do you hear me moan to you about that?

Speaker D:

And he goes, no.

Speaker D:

And then she was like, I miss you.

Speaker D:

You've been away for two years.

Speaker D:

Do I ring you up and tell you how much I miss you?

Speaker D:

And he goes, no.

Speaker D:

And he sort of got the message.

Speaker D:

He's like, just get on with it.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yeah, I don't know that story specifically, but that wouldn't surprise me.

Simone Vaniozzi:

His mum doesn't speak great English, so I don't get to speak to them one on one very often.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But you can tell the connection they have as a parents and a son, but they have two, two sons.

Simone Vaniozzi:

He's also got an older brother as well.

Simone Vaniozzi:

They are a very tight family, a very tight knit family.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Good people, humble feet on the ground.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And they come from a small town in northern Italy.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Watch the documentary.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It's amazing.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It's about 52 minutes.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It just came out on what channel?

Simone Vaniozzi:

No, I think it's on YouTube.

Speaker D:

Okay.

Darren Kyle:

Yep.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And you can get a real good sense of his upbringing and why he is the person he is today.

Speaker D:

Great, thank you.

Speaker E:

How do you manage like work, life, balance?

Speaker E:

Because obviously tennis is pretty much an all year round sport.

Speaker E:

Do you get many holidays?

Speaker E:

Like do you get to spend a lot of time with your family?

Speaker E:

Like you're doing a lot of travel.

Speaker E:

So any.

Speaker E:

What's your way of managing that?

Simone Vaniozzi:

I have a great job.

Simone Vaniozzi:

For me, being a coach and especially of a touring professional is the next best thing to play.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And my career got cut a little bit short because I have bad Knicks.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I finished when I was about to play easily.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So for me to step coaching and start coaching good players, for me it's a dream.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I don't feel like I'm going to work any day that I need work.

Simone Vaniozzi:

But there are some sacrifices you make being a professional tennis coach and that is you're probably away from your family for 30, 35 weeks of the year.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I travel 35 weeks.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Maybe my family, my wife comes on the road 15 of those weeks and I see her for the other time.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So we're seeing half the year, we're seeing each other.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And then I see my kids a little bit less because they're both in college in the States.

Simone Vaniozzi:

That's no different to a lot of families.

Darren Kyle:

Right?

Simone Vaniozzi:

See, a lot of families are exactly the same.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I think if I was home more than three weeks, my wife would probably because I ruined her routines and her way of life.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And this is what we're used to and this is what we signed up for.

Simone Vaniozzi:

She met me when I was a professional tennis player and we got into coaching straight away.

Simone Vaniozzi:

This is all we know.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I have a lot of support from her.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I have a lot of support for my kids.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Really proud of my family and what my kids have been able to achieve.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And so as I said before, for me it's not work.

Simone Vaniozzi:

This is a love and I enjoy doing it.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And I've just been lucky that I've been able to, to work with highly ranked players which is a bonus.

Speaker E:

I have another question.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yeah.

Speaker E:

Obviously you played before you coached.

Speaker E:

What was the transition like from player to coach?

Speaker E:

Like, how did that happen?

Simone Vaniozzi:

So for me it was really tough because I was 25, I'd had about 12 knee surgeries, I was out for three years training every day to try to get sacked to play.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And then I came back for six months, got my ranking back from zero to inside the top 200, I think 150.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And then I busted my knee at Wimbledon.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So after six months.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So it was.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yeah, I was a bit wrecked after that as well.

Simone Vaniozzi:

After fighting so hard to get back onto the court and then having to stop.

Simone Vaniozzi:

One door closes, another one opens.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It was about a year later, two years later, I went back, I worked in a bar in Adelaide, invested a little bit of money, I put a beers for a couple of years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I did things what normal people did, went out a little bit, had normal life.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And then I got a knock on my door From a young 12 year old called Lake Hewitt and said, can we get a few balls?

Simone Vaniozzi:

And from there I got into coaching.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I was also a little bit lucky that my father is quite a well known Aussie rules coach back in South Australia.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Came over here and coached Collingwood for a couple of years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I got to grow up in a football environment.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So a lot of the stuff that I learned from him and a lot of the stuff coaching stuff that I learned from seeing the way we went about it, I brought it into my tennis coach.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I took an individual sport and took a lot of my football stuff that I learned from my dad and tried to create teams within all my coaching jobs.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And I think it's helped because it provides a way to look at other sports, see how they do things and then try to get better for what we are as well as tennis coaches.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So I was kept busy with that.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It worked pretty well.

Simone Vaniozzi:

As I said before, when we talk about the coaching relationships, I was with late for about eight years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

The three of those years were full time on the road.

Simone Vaniozzi:

I was with Andre Agassi for five years, Simona for about five years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Simona Howe, five years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

And this will be my third or fourth.

Simone Vaniozzi:

Yeah, two and a half.

Simone Vaniozzi:

It'll be two and a half years.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So going into our third year.

Simone Vaniozzi:

So they're not huge long relationships, but if you do it right, I think that's about right.

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