This week on Dallas, Texas, What's Good, host Brianna Jovahn sits down with Amber D’Yone, a journalist-turned-realtor whose passion for empowering others shines through in everything she does. Amber shares her journey from working in media to navigating the real estate world, all while balancing single motherhood and personal growth.

With a focus on helping underrepresented families achieve homeownership, Amber dives deep into the importance of generational wealth, real estate education, and authenticity in business.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Amber transitioned from entertainment to real estate and found her calling.
• The challenges of starting a career in real estate and building your network.
• The power of perseverance and believing in your path.
• Real estate programs and resources for first-time buyers, including USDA and Habitat for Humanity.

Key Quotes:

• "Be yourself no matter what. If you lose yourself, you can’t show up for others." – Amber D’Yone
• "Generational wealth starts with education and opportunity." – Amber D’Yone

Topics Covered:

• Navigating real estate as a new agent.
• Resources for buyers without traditional qualifications (e.g., USDA programs, credit repair).
• The importance of community and mentorship in real estate.
• Balancing personal challenges with professional growth.

Call to Action:

Feeling inspired? Listen to Amber’s episode and take your first step toward real estate success!

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:46 Icebreaker Question

02:04 Getting to Know Amber D’Yone

03:00 Transition to Real Estate

05:56 First Client Success Story

10:04 Challenges in Real Estate

11:45 Building a Real Estate Team

13:54 Programs for Homebuyers

19:11 Sharing Knowledge and Breaking Barriers

19:30 Habitat for Humanity: A Decade of Service

22:30 Personal Triumphs and Challenges

23:18 Navigating Grief and Finding Strength

29:03 The Power of Being Yourself

33:33 Final Thoughts and Motivational Moment

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Hey ladies and gents, this is your girl Brianna Jovahn and we are

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here with another episode of What's

Good Podcast and we are in season eight.

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We have another guest with us today.

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Her name is Amber D’Yone.

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Thank you so much for being here.

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Amber: I'm so excited.

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Thank you for having me.

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Brianna: Indeed.

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Why have we, like this is meant

to be because We have been

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back and forth for a few years.

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The whole time I've been podcast and

we just talked about that, right?

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So we are finally here and I'm

super excited to be here with you.

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Amber: Yes, me too.

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Brianna: All right.

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So usually we get started

with an icebreaker.

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Are you ready for your icebreaker?

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Amber: I'm ready.

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Brianna: Okay.

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So your icebreaker is, if you

could choose any famous historical

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figure to have a real estate

client, who would it be and why?

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Amber: Oh, goodness gracious.

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Dead or alive.

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It doesn't matter.

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Dead or alive.

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Oh.

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shoot, that's a hard one.

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I'm gonna go with the only person I said

I would ever fan out if I met and that's

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Oprah and everybody say, why do you be

so, you know, this, I guess that's kind

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of like a space, a safe space, but I

really, Oprah started out as a journalist.

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I started out as a journalist.

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she had a TV show.

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I've been doing TV.

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I want to produce more TV shows.

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and she, I just.

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It's just her persona.

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It's like when she walk in the room

and I feel like when I walk in the

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room, I get the same type of, respect.

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So I would say Oprah, because she

knows a lot about real estate.

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She has a lot of, her, catalog of

real estate is probably humongous.

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So yeah, so, um, it probably would be her.

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Nice.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Brianna: So not just cause she

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Amber: got a TV show and she famous.

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No, it's more of a

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Brianna: personal connection

because of the journey that you've

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gone on and journey she has.

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Correct.

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Amber: Correct.

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Nice.

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Brianna: Okay.

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So, as we know, we're talking about

real estate, so we're going to get

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to know you a little bit better.

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We're going to get started

with our genuine conversation.

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Background: Okay.

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Brianna: So, for you, who is Amber?

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Amber: I am, a woman of God, first of all.

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Brianna: Love that.

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Amber: I'm a mother, mother of two.

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I have a 18 year old who's getting

ready to go to Kansas State.

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let me, let me rephrase that.

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I'm a single mother of two.

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so I'm very proud of myself because I put

my son through private school by myself

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and now he is going to Kansas State

University, which is a very good school.

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I have my 18 year old and

I have my 12 year old.

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My daughter is, autistic.

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So, I'm very involved with

my kids, my kids life.

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I am a journalist.

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That is my love.

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I love to write.

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I write books.

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I started out in the

entertainment industry writing.

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and then I have an entertainment

company, which is Your Media

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Bae Entertainment Group.

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That's how we met.

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Yes, correct.

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Correct.

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I feel like I'm a real chill, cool person.

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I'm all about the, my

business, all about the money.

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I know how to keep business

and personal separate.

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I think that's why I have

so many relationships.

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but yeah, that's me.

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Brianna: I love that.

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So, as we mentioned, when we first

met, you were into media, right?

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But now you have transitioned

into real estate.

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Yes.

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What does that transition

look like as far as industry?

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Because that's two different things.

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So, how did you transition and

what made you get into real estate?

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Amber: So, my dad passed

about two years ago.

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and the reason why I got into real

estate was because my dad was really

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big about generational wealth.

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Right.

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I had been taking real estate

classes since I started college.

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Like literally I was taking

a class here, a class there.

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So I've always been

intrigued by real estate.

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I used to work for Habitat for

Humanity for over 10 years.

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So I was very, I'm very intrigued

by real estate and helping people

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get somewhere that they love.

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So, that's always been

at the back of my mind.

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And then during COVID, the entertainment

industry, just like all other

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industries, they took a big hit.

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And so, although we were surviving.

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It made me think about I need

to do something different.

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And so when my dad passed,

I said, you know what?

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I'm not, I'm not waiting anymore.

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And I went and passed my test.

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Nice.

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Brianna: So I know they say

the test is really hard.

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How did you prepare for it?

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Amber: Girl, people would be exaggerated.

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, I swear.

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Like the test.

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You

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Brianna: just good with tests?

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Amber: No, I'm horrible with tests.

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I have bad anxiety when

it comes to tests, really.

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But the thing about it is, if

you really want something, and if

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you really, really pay attention

to what they're saying in class.

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And if you take the, there's like a prep

you do, that it's like a two day prep and

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they basically go through the entire test.

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You don't know what questions are.

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Is this known

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Brianna: or?

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Amber: Yeah, yeah.

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Everybody, this is a,

it's like a test prep.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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And they go through the entire test.

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You don't know what questions are

going to be on there, but like they

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tell you, they're just going to change

up the wording of the question, but

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it's going to be the same thing.

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and so I went through

that and I passed my test.

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I passed it in the, well, so the very

first time I was focused on it, I

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was like, oh my gosh, the state part,

they just came like the federal part.

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The main part of it was the

hardest part and I was like,

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okay, well let me focus on this.

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So I focused so much on that, I didn't

really pay attention to the state

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and so when I went in there, I passed

the first part of it, I passed it

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with flying colors, but the second

part, I missed about two points.

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I studied for a week, I went back in

there and I passed the test in 23 minutes.

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And the man, yeah, the man was like,

ma'am, are you sure you're done?

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I was like, yes, I'm done.

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But because you, as long as you

pay attention to what you're doing,

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the verbiage does not change.

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It goes the same, the same verbiage

throughout the entire test.

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So it's like, as long as you understand

the stuff that you're reading and you

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are retaining the stuff that you are

reading in, I think that, you know,

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it's not, you don't have to be scared.

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I literally had bad test anxiety,

so it was nothing like that.

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But I went in there and

I passed the test and.

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I was done.

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Brianna: Congratulations.

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So how long have you been in the industry?

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Amber: Um, as of October,

um, it will be two years.

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Brianna: I didn't know that.

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I'm super

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Amber: fresh.

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Brianna: So what is a success

story that you can share?

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Cause I know based on your bio, I

was reading, doing a little research.

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You work with entrepreneurs, you work

with creatives, like anybody that

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really needs assistance and don't

feel like they can actually get it.

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A new home.

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You make sure that they have those

resources and those opportunities to

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make sure that they do get a new home.

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Amber: Okay.

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Brianna: What has been

a success story for you?

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Amber: I'm glad you asked this because

I just, I'll be on cloud nine every

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time I tell somebody about this story.

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my very first client, her

husband spoke no Spanish.

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she was not a citizen.

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She was on DACA.

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Her husband had no citizenship.

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I'm new, I'm fresh.

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I don't even think I can get

them a house to be honest.

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But it was something I guess the

Lord just kept telling me you can get

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them a house Don't give up on them.

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And so I had met the lady and

we were talking she was young.

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She had young kids two young boys

And she kept she she I would go show

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her house And so one day we were at

a house and she was like Amber She's

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like first of all, I just want to thank

you because she spoke English very

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good English And she was like Amber.

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I just want to thank you because most

of the time when I tell realtors I have

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DACA, I don't have citizenship, they

don't answer my phone calls anymore.

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And I, in the back of my

mind, I was like, why?

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Because that's the purpose of what

we're doing is trying to help people.

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But it's harder to get someone

who doesn't have citizenship.

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She didn't have I 10,

she didn't have anything.

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they just had the cash money

to be able to buy a house.

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And so I stuck with her and stuck

with her she got to the point where

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she was getting kind of down and

depressed because she was thinking

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like I'm never going to find a house.

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And I'm telling you at the point I think

maybe she called me maybe a week before

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and that weekend we went out and looked

at a house and we got her a house.

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And so one thing she told me,

she was like, I don't want to get

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a house when my kids are older.

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I want to be able to raise my kids

in a house where they can go outside

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and they can run in the yard.

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And so I ended up getting her, I think

it was three acres of land and a house.

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And so she's planning on putting another

house on the land, but it's enough

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room for her, her family, her kids.

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and so that will always be my success

story because I was able to help someone

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whose husband couldn't ever understand me.

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Right.

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And sometimes when you're

translating, It's hard because

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the language is so different.

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When you're buying a home, it

may be something that I'm telling

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her, she may not even understand.

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And then she's trying

to translate it to him.

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But at the end, he was

very thankful to me.

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They both were.

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I was able to get their kids.

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I got them some little plaques with

their names on it to put in their rooms.

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That was their gift that I gave them,

something that they could grow up with.

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and it was just like, just helping them

knowing that, we had nothing in common.

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I didn't, I didn't know these

people, nobody referred them.

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and that was my very first client.

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Brianna: So how did they find you?

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Amber: So I was a part

of this referral program.

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Brianna: Okay.

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Amber: because at beginning as a

realtor, it's a hard thing because

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You're building your own business,

but at the same time you're building

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this business, you have so many fees.

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Starting out, you have that.

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I think that's harder than the

test is realizing how many fees.

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And as soon as you pass the test, the

minute you pass your test, you start

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getting emails, text messages from all of

these different companies and you don't

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know, should I put my money over here?

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you don't know what's

right and what's not.

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So at first I was spending money

over here, spending money here

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until I sat back and I'm looking.

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You know.

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I'm like, well, I'm a part of all

these different programs, but none

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of them are helping me focus on the

real estate and getting people houses.

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So I think that was a really big

issue for me when I very first started

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was when you first start that test,

I mean, when you first pass the

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test, it's so much stuff coming at

you and then you have these fees.

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So but you're not selling a house yet.

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You haven't sold a house.

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you have fees for your license.

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You have fees for your broker.

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You have fees for the

different systems you use.

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That stuff's not free.

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So that's the hardest part I think

of starting real estate is not

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having a clientele to start off

with, but then having to, maintain.

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I mean, if you haven't sold a house and

you're not selling a rental, I was lucky

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to sell two houses in my first year.

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Some people don't sell any

houses in their first year.

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Some people don't sell any

houses in their two years.

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I was lucky to sell my two

houses in my very first year

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and then I caught on to rentals.

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So that's kind of what helped me

survive, but some people, they

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don't make it past the two years.

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They don't make it.

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Cause that two years we have to renew.

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So a lot of people drop out before.

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Brianna: continued education where

you have to take the test all over?

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No.

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Amber: Well you got to take continuing

education, but not the test all over.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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We have to have a certain amount

of hours that we have to complete.

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Yeah.

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Cause at this

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Brianna: point it's like

keeping up your license.

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Amber: Correct.

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Brianna: Right.

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Amber: And so if you're not selling any

houses, you can't keep up with them fees.

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You can't keep up with the fees.

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And then when it comes to renewal, there's

a whole big old fee when you renew.

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and then you have to take those

continuing education classes costs.

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Brianna: Okay.

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So we have not talked about this.

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This is on a whole nother end

because I've realized even watching

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TV when it comes to real estate,

it's always like a luxury thing.

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I mean, every agent, they got their Louis

on, they got their YSL, they looking

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real good and looking real cute, right?

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But on the other end, like

behind the scenes, it's real.

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Amber: It's very real.

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Just your face change.

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Brianna: So what else, have you learned

on that, as far as the agent side?

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Amber: so it's very, I

wouldn't say it's cliquish.

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I think that.

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People get in and they try to find, you

know, you want to find the right mentor.

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because again, you're coming

into an industry where it's

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just like any other industry.

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Just like the entertainment industry.

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If you're not a part of it, you

have to become a part of it.

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But you also have to have individuals

who are already in it who can

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refer you so people can trust you.

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Because that's with anything.

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when I first started the

entertainment industry, I didn't

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get in just by writing stories.

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I actually had someone who was already in.

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They started referring me to

doing this, referring me, and

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that's how I built my connections.

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So it's just the same

way with being a realtor.

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You have to be able to find those

individuals that will actually,

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guide you through it, to be able to

connect you to certain individuals,

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As long as you do the work,

you're going to be able to

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connect with the right people.

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So networking is like a huge key.

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if you don't know how to network, Do

not go get your real estate license.

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Brianna: That's real.

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Amber: Like if you don't know

how to, if you do not know how to

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network, you cannot be a realtor.

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So it's a

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Brianna: situation to where

like it's a legit team.

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Cause I know I've talked to other

people that's been on the podcast.

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They were saying, you know, they

have this person on their team.

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They got this person on their team.

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Who would you say builds your

team or as far as mentorship?

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Amber: You have to build your own team.

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Okay.

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And I'm going to be honest, so

there's two different things.

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every realtor, when you start, you have

to have a broker, but brokers sometimes

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have different teams that you can be on.

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I'm not on a team.

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I'm still individually doing it by

myself, but I have individuals that

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I work with that accountability team,

So when it comes to building my own

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team, you have to think about it.

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When you buy a house, what

kind of things do you need?

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You need a lender.

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You need somebody to finance you.

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you need a title company.

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I have to go find all those things.

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Brianna: Okay.

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Cause that's what we, when we were

talking about teams at that, those are

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the people that they were mentioning.

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Like they had these go to people

that they can go to to make

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sure that the client is good.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Amber: But if you didn't know any

mortgage loan officers or any lenders

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or any plumbers to begin with, you're

having to build all of that up.

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So, I mean, with my broker, I'm

with Rogers Healy, which is a

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very good brokerage, may I say.

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I've been through two others

before this, and this is the

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one that I love this brokerage.

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but they have a lot of stuff built in.

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So, I can go into a database, and I can

say, people can say these are the trusted

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individuals, and you can choose from those

individuals, then you can start building

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your relationship with those individuals.

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So that makes it a little bit easier.

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if your brokerage is too big, you'll

notice like it's really hard to get help.

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I was at a very big broker and,

they put me with a mentor who

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had not sold a house in 10 years.

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Brianna: So is it because they retired?

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Yeah.

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Amber: still, why would you have mentors

who have not sold a house in 10 years?

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The real estate industry does like this.

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It's more, it's like a maze.

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You know, those mazes we

used to do back in the day.

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That's how real estate industry is.

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It's nothing straight about it.

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But if you have a mentor who haven't sold

houses in 10 years, how do they know?

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How do they know what

the current industry is?

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You can read the news all day, but

if you're not in it, actually on

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the ground in the neighborhoods, you

don't actually know what's going on.

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That makes

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Brianna: so much sense.

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Like Leah, cause you just, like

you said, it's a current market.

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So what happened 10 years ago was totally

different than what's happening right now.

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years

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Amber: ago.

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What happened last year is

totally different than now.

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What's happening right now is

going to be different from what's

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going to be happening in six months

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Brianna: Yeah.

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Okay.

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So let's get into the investing

side of being a buyer, right?

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When your client comes to you and say hey

i'm looking to buy a house or i'm looking

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because you know You mentioned rental as

well What does that look like to for them?

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You need to have this thing these

type of things in order What

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would you say they need to have?

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Amber: So, I think what scares people

the most is that you start off saying

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that they have to have the credit and

the income, but nobody ever really says

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anything about if you don't have the

credit, do you have the work history?

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Because there's so many different

lenders, so many different programs

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out there that can help individuals.

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And that's part of the reason why I

wanted to do this because people think

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it's just you go to a bank, you go to

Bank of America, you go to Wells Fargo

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and you get a loan for your house.

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there's other programs out there that can

help people who have low credit scores.

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there's, programs out there that

will help individuals who have

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been on their job a long time, but

maybe they don't make enough money.

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So there's a lot of different

programs that people don't even know

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about, and it's not widely exposed,

because I feel like more people

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would want to get their own space.

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so starting out for me, I think

you have to have the drive

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and the want to want a house.

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you have to come in and you want to be

educated on the proper way to buy a house.

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because I think a lot of times

people, they go to individuals and

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they want to purchase a home, but

they don't even know the process.

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And so they get into this process and

then something starts happening and they

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don't know if they should back out or if

they should continue to go because they're

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not being educated on what is happening.

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So, I think for me, as long as you

have the drive of wanting to get a

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house, of course you have a job, you

have to have some type of income.

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Even if you're self employed, we

have to be able to prove your income.

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so I think for me, as long as you

have some type of income, you have

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the drive, and actually want a home.

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I think that's for me because you

can work on your credit score.

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there's different programs out there where

we can get some down payment assistance.

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where we can get some

closing cost assistance.

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So there's, I don't think, you don't

have to have 20K built up for me.

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You don't.

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Because I'm the one that's going to go out

there and try to find the lender or find

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the home or find the owner who's willing

to work with the buyer to get them a home.

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Brianna: I love that.

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So, let's tap into that educational

piece that you mentioned.

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There are different programs.

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What would be one program that you worked

with recently when it comes to the closing

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costs or credit repair, whatever the case

may be, that you could share with us?

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Amber: So, USDA, which is a program

for homebuyers, and it basically,

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it's called a USDA Rural Development.

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and it was created to

develop the rural areas.

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but it helps individuals who have

low income, but who have been on

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their jobs for a very long time.

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The main focus is individuals who are

teachers, anyone in the, medical field,

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if you're a firefighter, rescue, anyone

in the rescue, field, those are the

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individuals that they like to focus on.

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And so that's one that I just

got certified in and I've

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been helping individuals find

homes through that program.

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with that program, you can actually

buy land, you can buy a house,

427

you can get a new house built.

428

and it's, it, you don't really,

you don't have a down payment.

429

And then they try to make your

monthly payments to where you can pay

430

Background: So

431

Amber: it's a government program, it's

a federal program, and it's a program

432

that a lot of people don't know about.

433

especially if you're a teacher, there

are a lot of teachers that do take

434

advantage of it, but there's a lot

of teachers that, that aren't aware.

435

There may be some single moms out there

and this is the way you can get a home.

436

This is what they want to do.

437

They want to give teachers homes.

438

Brianna: That's beautiful.

439

So why do you think, is it just a

situation where you have to know a certain

440

person or they just don't make it public?

441

Because I know a lot of times we see

things, but we don't pay attention

442

to it until we're actually in that

situation or other times we just don't

443

know until coming across somebody

like you and then we get educated.

444

So is this publicly known or would

you say you would have to be in

445

these type of spaces to understand?

446

Amber: So, this goes back to my, my

media, my branding background, right?

447

So it's definitely publicly long known.

448

the thing about it is, is there

a lot of awareness behind it?

449

No.

450

So they don't, yeah, there's

not a lot of people pushing it.

451

a lot of realtors.

452

They are in it for different things.

453

And so, if the USDA does not pay a

certain percentage of the home, they may

454

not even tell you about that program.

455

Brianna: Hmm.

456

Amber: So, You know, that's

where we get our niches from.

457

You know, everybody has their own niche.

458

And so, I think for me, because I worked

for Habitat for so long, and I helped

459

so many people get into homes, I wanted

to be able to do that on my own through

460

other programs that were available because

I can still use Habitat for Humanity.

461

That's another program.

462

Right.

463

Brianna: I was going to, after this,

if we could talk about that, because

464

I know, my sister in law, she went

through Habitat for Humanity and that's

465

Amber: such

466

Brianna: a program, so,

but go ahead, keep going.

467

Amber: so USDA is sort of

similar to that, but they help,

468

they even help with repairs.

469

people don't realize that there's

programs that you can do where you can

470

get into a home and if the home needs

repairs, there's a loan where you can get.

471

that will help you do

the repairs on the home.

472

basically you find a house that's

affordable to where they give you amount

473

a whole amount It's enough the loan covers

the price of the home and the repairs and

474

a lot of individuals don't know that So

you may find a house that you absolutely

475

love And it just needs some repairs and if

you can get it at a lower price, then you

476

put in a bid for it and then do the loan

To be able to do the updates to the home.

477

Brianna: That's wild.

478

Okay, you dropping some jam.

479

Amber: I hope so girl.

480

I'm new at this but I love doing

this and I've tried to educate

481

myself as much as I could.

482

Brianna: tell you love it because

like you're so willing to give

483

out the information because

there's a lot of gatekeeping.

484

Yeah.

485

And you're so willing to be

like, okay, You can do this.

486

And I really, really enjoy that.

487

Well, thank you.

488

I appreciate that.

489

Yeah.

490

So let's talk about human,

human, humanity, habitat

491

for humanity, for humanity.

492

Let's talk about that.

493

Cause I learned about sweat equity.

494

There's so much.

495

That I'll learn just asking

questions about, the program.

496

So go ahead and tell

people about that one.

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Amber: So, Habitat for Humanity,

I worked there for over 10 years.

498

I actually started out there,

as AmeriCorps or do you, are

499

you familiar with AmeriCorps?

500

So AmeriCorps is like a program

through the government where they

501

will pay for you to go to school and

you can work for a nonprofit as an

502

internship, but they actually pay you.

503

And so I started out with Habitat

for Humanity as an internship.

504

And ended up getting hired on, full

time and I was there for over 10 years.

505

Habitat for Humanity is a program,

that it's a grassroot program, so it

506

could be in different states, different

cities, and it's basically ran by

507

that individual, uh, organization.

508

So, I was a part of Habitat, Dallas Area

Habitat for Humanity, which is the biggest

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habitat, in the Dallas Fort Worth area.

510

and I was over Family Services.

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So, basically what I did was, any

families that came into the program,

512

they had to go through different classes.

513

Because a lot of individuals who came

to the Habitat for Humanity program,

514

they had never been homeowners.

515

they really did not understand the home

ownership versus renter situations.

516

So there's a lot of things

that change when you become

517

a homeowner versus a renter.

518

And so through Habitat, I was able

to get different, experiences.

519

Companies and different

organizations together to be

520

able to educate these families.

521

So like even one small

thing, pest control.

522

An apartment, you just have to call

a phone, you have to call the office

523

and say, Hey, I need pest control.

524

In a house, you actually have

to keep up with the schedule

525

of your own pest control.

526

You have to set up those appointments

and make sure that they're coming back

527

frequently if you need pest control.

528

Some people, that little small

thing, they don't even know.

529

Changing your filters in your home.

530

As a renter, you don't change

your filters in your home.

531

So, those different things,

I was a part of, my team, we

532

educated individuals on that.

533

But then we also Did you make

classes or Yeah, we had classes.

534

I created a schedule to where they

would take like a two day home ownership.

535

it was required once they got in

their home, they had to take it.

536

And then we would have different financial

classes, that they could come and take.

537

we also had, I was over, doing like

community events, and so we would

538

be in the community talking about

Habitat, but then we would also

539

be able to provide our homeowners.

540

So say for instance, you got into a

Habitat home, you started struggling,

541

we had like a little store in the back

where homeowners could come and get

542

toiletries and different things, and so

I was responsible for those things too.

543

So I've always been a, kind of

like a giver or, I've always

544

wanted to support individuals.

545

So, Habitat for Humanity was

like, I absolutely loved that job.

546

I did.

547

I cried so many times because you

should hear some of those stories.

548

You know, it was just so many

families that, they never thought

549

homeownership was obtainable because

nobody that they knew was a homeowner.

550

And they were the first homeowners.

551

It was like the first

person going to college.

552

That's the, you know,

that's how it felt to them.

553

They were the first in their family.

554

So.

555

It was very rewarding.

556

Very, very, very rewarding.

557

Brianna: I love that.

558

Amber: Yeah.

559

Yeah.

560

Brianna: So now this is a good

segue to our next section.

561

And we're going to talk about

highs and lows and it doesn't

562

have to pertain to real estate.

563

It can be anything that you want to

celebrate, that you want to share with

564

us and say, Hey, this Amber, I did it.

565

So what would you like to share with us?

566

Amber: Girl, Amber, you did so

good with raising your kids, girl.

567

Oh my gosh, girl, you have

a son going to college.

568

Like I never would have thought my

son would be going to a D1 school.

569

and so that, that is something

I'm very, very, and I, I sent

570

him to private school on my own.

571

Yeah, when you said that, my eyes bucked.

572

I was like, that's

573

Brianna: beautiful.

574

Amber: Yeah.

575

And I told him the, so, I'm, I'm so mean.

576

Um, but I told him, I was like, after

he graduated, I was like, look, I don't

577

know how you gonna pay for college,

but you gonna have to pay for college

578

all your own But I, of course I'm

helping him pay for college, but still.

579

Right.

580

Must put a little fire under his mind.

581

Yeah.

582

Put a little fire but no, I'm

very proud of myself for that.

583

And I would say for these last

two years I was really like in a

584

bad place, because my dad passed.

585

and my dad was like the pillar

of our life, and I think that

586

over the two years I was able to.

587

Actually like take out time for

myself and realize who I was.

588

and I feel myself coming back to

myself, but even a better person.

589

And so I'm so thankful for that because

a lot of people don't know how to

590

take out that time for themselves.

591

and a lot of people don't actually

know how to go through grieving.

592

So I actually studied, you know,

what grieving was because I knew

593

I was going through it, but it

was, it was really bad for me.

594

And then I started going to a counselor.

595

Like a lot of people don't

like to do the counselor.

596

I love.

597

Absolutely love the, like, I love food.

598

I absolutely love a counselor for you.

599

I mean, cause

600

Brianna: you're feeding your soul.

601

Amber: That's exactly how I look at it.

602

Brianna: So on the opposite end, cause I

kind of want to dive in a little bit more

603

with the other side of your grieving,

604

Cause of course we still grieve

and we still think about our

605

loved ones, especially of sounding

like you are daddy's girl.

606

Amber: Oh no, I was the girl, my daddy.

607

Oh girl.

608

He was my, he was the pillar, but my

dad was the pillar of our entire family.

609

You know, you have that one person that

just like, he is the glue of everything.

610

It was my dad.

611

And so he was, I mean, my dad, if it was

not for my dad, I don't think I would

612

have been in the entertainment industry.

613

He used to take me to every

concert he could think of.

614

So like, he made me

fall in love with music.

615

And that's what, yeah, so I, I,

that was my, that was my guy.

616

Yeah.

617

Brianna: Cause my, when I usually

do the low question, I always

618

ask people, you know, what keeps

you motivated to keep going?

619

Cause again, I'm sure I, I haven't gone

through losing my father, and I don't.

620

Want to act like I know

what that feels like.

621

but for you like what keeps you motivated

to keep going because you're here You're

622

still striving, you know, you're of

course helping your son Helping your

623

daughter and you still do what you need

to do to keep moving and grouping So,

624

what do you do that keeps you moving and

625

Amber: grooving?

626

The okay, so I when I started off I said

i'm a a woman of god, so I think that

627

i'm spiritual and religious So I think

making sure that I have a even balance in

628

between the two really helped me a lot.

629

Because people, yes, I love the

Lord, but we also have a universe

630

and people don't realize that.

631

And so that universe

does a lot to our energy.

632

the frequencies in the world does a lot to

our energy and people don't realize that.

633

And so, me focusing in on those

things is what actually helped me a

634

lot through getting through my dad.

635

Because my whole family's

going through this.

636

It's not like I have somebody to talk to.

637

And at this time, I was going

through a relationship breakup, so,

638

I didn't have anybody to talk to.

639

Like, literally anybody.

640

and so that's why I started

going to my counselor.

641

because, you know, you'll talk to

some people and just like you said,

642

I like for you, you know, I commend

you for being honest because people

643

think that they know what you're going

through because their granny died or

644

their sister died, but a girl and her

dad is two totally different things.

645

A mom and her boy is two

totally different things.

646

And so, my dad taught me my hustle.

647

My dad gave me, my ability to Be so, you

know, so strong, you know what I mean?

648

He taught me, he taught me

a lot, you know what I mean?

649

And so losing him was something that I had

never felt that pain, all the breakups I'd

650

been through, you know, even my daughter

being, I have a, my daughter's a preemie.

651

She was born at 24 weeks.

652

And so that was painful, but the pain

from my dad passing, that was the

653

most pain I had ever felt in my life.

654

not understanding that grieving

properly, it was just like I had

655

went into a whole complete show.

656

It was like some days I

couldn't get out the bed.

657

I literally, you hear people

say that and you're like, well,

658

why can't you get out the bed?

659

But I actually felt it.

660

and then because I couldn't get out of

the bed, my businesses are networking.

661

My businesses are making

sure I keep my relationships.

662

And so, because I couldn't get out of

the bed, because I couldn't do my work,

663

I started getting into financial issues.

664

And it was like, at one

point, I was at rock bottom.

665

Like, literally, the bottom.

666

And so, I think that, I started

really, like, listening to books.

667

and I started, going to

sleep to frequencies.

668

and I started, really focusing on me.

669

if I wanted to go out and I went to

party, I'ma go out and I'ma party.

670

If I wanna stay home and

I'ma do this, I'ma do this.

671

I started learning how to say no and

started saying more yeses to myself.

672

And I think that sort of allowed

me to get through the grieving, and

673

allowed me to actually get back to me.

674

Like sometimes people get through grieving

and they can't get back to the set

675

themselves, because something is missing.

676

there's a gap, there's a hole,

but, I think I was with my dad

677

the whole day before he passed.

678

It was just me and him.

679

and so I think that kind of gave

me, a little relief in my grieving

680

and I, and I created his obituary.

681

I created my dad a 12 page

obituary and a whole video.

682

So I think that kind of

helped with my grieving too.

683

Cause I was able to look at people sending

me all these pictures and you know, all

684

these quotes and all these good memories.

685

I'm like, Oh my God.

686

It was just one video.

687

My dad was a big character.

688

He was like, I get a lot of my, we

haven't really had time together,

689

but I get a lot of my corny like

jokes and stuff from my dad.

690

And so, it was this one video.

691

They were talking about my

cousin who had passed away.

692

I think, no, it was his birthday.

693

and my dad said, my dad was older

than him and he said something

694

about you caught up with me in age.

695

my mama like, look, she gave him cause

they were sitting next to each other.

696

It was just like so hilarious.

697

So I keep that in my phone.

698

And so those different things, I

believe in seeing the red bird.

699

I hear my son.

700

I mean, I hear my dad's voice sometimes.

701

All of that stuff helped

me get through my grieving.

702

Yes.

703

you really have to allow yourself.

704

I think that's the thing.

705

And then you have to allow yourself.

706

So that was good.

707

Brianna: Okay.

708

So our next segment

would be one free advice.

709

In fact, a lot of times we

pay thousands and thousands

710

of dollars to go to different

seminars or pay for these classes.

711

And at the end you're like,

what did I get from this?

712

Nothing.

713

So what could you share

with our audience today?

714

It could be a quote, it could be just

some advice, anything for them to take

715

from this and then actually use it.

716

Amber: Okay.

717

I know this is very about

to be very cliche if I say

718

this too, but it's the truth.

719

Um, be yourself no matter what.

720

I think that part of the reason

why this is my first time being on

721

a podcast in many years is because

I started to lose myself and you

722

can't, if you lose yourself, you

can't be yourself in front of people.

723

So I think that I was afraid

to be myself in front of people

724

because I had lost myself.

725

And one thing I do know in

real estate, I use, your real

726

estate bay, for so many reasons.

727

Because in the real estate process,

you have to trust somebody.

728

And so I want individuals to trust me.

729

But at the end of the day, you

also have to, um, you have to

730

think about your personality.

731

And so in the entertainment

industry, it's your media bay.

732

And it's also about the trust, but

it's also in the real estate industry.

733

I built it up to where when I see

people, I say, Hey, bae, how you doing?

734

You know, especially if I don't

remember your name, I'm not

735

gonna be like, what's your name?

736

You know, I'll remember it as soon

as like after we kept talking,

737

but I meet so many people.

738

So my thing was, Hey bae,

you know, how you been doing?

739

So I think it's just the,

me being more personable.

740

and you know, you see a lot of realtors,

they have on the suits and all that.

741

I wear what I want to wear,

what makes me feel comfortable.

742

Yeah.

743

And I treat the individuals

how I would want to be treated

744

to make them feel comfortable.

745

And our first meeting, we're

not talking about a house.

746

We're talking about who we are as

individuals, because everybody that you

747

meet on your first meeting as a realtor,

they're going to talk about the houses.

748

I want to be personable So the main thing

that I can tell anybody is no matter what

749

journey you are on is remain yourself.

750

Don't try to remain yourself.

751

Learn how to remain yourself, who you

are, be true to you, because at the end

752

of the day, if somebody comes into your

life and they try to change some things

753

about you, how do you move on after that

when you've already lost yourself in them?

754

so we lose ourselves in the world all day.

755

So if we could learn how to be

our true selves, our honest, true

756

selves, we can accept criticism.

757

we can grow, we can accept when

we're wrong, and we can move on.

758

And so I think that's what it is for me.

759

I'm so down to earth now

because I've accepted who I am.

760

So if I do something and if

I say something, I'm like,

761

Oh shoot, that wasn't right.

762

Oh shoot.

763

Okay.

764

I'm sorry.

765

I will apologize for it because.

766

you don't know sometimes when

you hurt people's feelings.

767

You don't know sometimes when you say

something that is offensive to people.

768

Especially if it's not intentional.

769

It's not.

770

I'm never intentional.

771

I am.

772

I'm a cancer.

773

I love everybody.

774

Brianna: And you're emotional too.

775

Amber: I'm very emotional.

776

So I don't like to hurt your feelings.

777

So I, I never intentionally want to

hurt somebody or hurt their feelings.

778

So I just think that sometimes

my, my, the way I say different

779

things, I'm so natural that.

780

Or I'm so real sometimes that I say

the wrong words in the wrong order.

781

But I, I think that, you know, if

you know me, you know that Amber's

782

just, you know, she's just being real.

783

She's not trying to hurt you.

784

So I think being me helps me not

only in my real estate, but it

785

helps me in my everyday life, in my

entertainment business, because being

786

myself, you next time you call me

or whenever you call me, you know,

787

you're going to always get Amber.

788

No matter what I'm going through,

you're going to always get me.

789

I love that.

790

Yeah.

791

So always be yourself.

792

Brianna: Indeed.

793

Okay, so tell the people how they can

contact you, if that's social media,

794

website, if that's for your media bay

or if that's for a real estate bay,

795

So just tell the people

how they can plug in

796

Amber: Okay, so, I give

everybody my phone number.

797

I'm just going to be honest

because I have so much going on.

798

Now remind you, this is my business line.

799

And I do know how to block people,

so I have no problem with it.

800

Background: Disclaimer, okay?

801

Amber: Just a disclaimer

real quick, but no.

802

first of all, social media.

803

So you can reach me, on social media at

Your Media Bay or Your Real Estate Bay.

804

on IG, on Facebook, everything is

those two, those two platforms.

805

And then my cell phone, if you

want to talk about a house or if

806

you want a media run, whatever

807

So, Hey, she gave y'all everything.

808

I gave you everything.

809

And I do know how to say no.

810

Indeed.

811

Brianna: Because again, we

got to be ourselves, so we

812

Amber: have

813

Brianna: to

814

Amber: be ourselves.

815

Brianna: Okay.

816

So after this, we're wrapping it up.

817

We always leave it with

a motivational moment.

818

Sometimes it's a scripture, it's a quote,

something that I saw or something that

819

I received that just made me feel like,

Hmm, I can bring this on the podcast.

820

So today it is a scripture.

821

It's by, Jeremiah, chapter 29, verse 11.

822

Background: Okay.

823

For I know the

824

Brianna: plans I have for

you declares the Lord.

825

Plans to prosper you and not to harm you.

826

Plans to give you hope and a future.

827

So I'm gonna share my thoughts

and you can share your thoughts.

828

And it's a wrap.

829

So for me, when it comes to this

particular scripture, I was on a hiatus

830

as well for, was it for two years?

831

Maybe a year?

832

But it was a very, very long

time because I lost myself.

833

There was a lot of things that

was going on with me internally,

834

physically, spiritually, mentally.

835

And I just didn't feel like myself.

836

So after sitting down and really

understanding why God gave me this vision.

837

I just had to get back to Brianna first.

838

So, going back and understanding

that God gives us these visions,

839

gives us these things, and you

feel it and you keep coming back

840

to it, there's a reason for it.

841

And I've always known when I did the

podcast, I was in my happy place, just

842

talking to people, linking up to people.

843

and I have an accounting background.

844

So for me, just being in this space just

lets me know that I'm in the right space.

845

I'm in the right area.

846

I'm doing the things

that God wants me to do.

847

And sometimes it does get hard.

848

Sometimes you be wrong.

849

But as long as you get back to what God

called you to do, I feel like that's the

850

happy space that we always have to get

back to, and that goes back to you saying,

851

we always gotta fill up our own cups.

852

We have to be for, we gotta be for

ourselves, we understand what God has

853

for us, sometimes we can be a little

hard headed, but at the end of the day,

854

when we really sit down and just be with

God, and understand that this is not for

855

us, it's bigger than us, Then we have to

do these things to get out there, talk,

856

communicate, network, because again,

we're a vessel and I'm really big on that.

857

So, you know, if you have something,

if you have like a burning desire, I

858

would say do it because at the end of

the day, God has placed that in you.

859

What are your

860

Amber: thoughts?

861

That's so crazy that you read that verse

because that was one of my favorite ones.

862

Amen.

863

Yeah.

864

And so, it goes back to being you.

865

He created us.

866

And he created us, and he gave us

a path, and as long as you stay on

867

that path, you will be successful.

868

And I think for me, I kept trying, girl,

I'm telling you, I've been taking real

869

estate classes since I was straight out

of high school, and I've kept fighting

870

it and kept fighting it, and if it was

not for real estate and me staying on

871

the path that I know he wants me to be

on, I would not have been able to get out

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of the financial burden that I was in.

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Thank you.

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I kept fighting it and it kept putting

me in a deeper financial burden.

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And so, that's why I say when

it comes to being you, you know

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who you are deep down inside.

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I don't care what anybody say.

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Yeah, you have some stuff that have

affected you, but you as a person,

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you know who you are deep down inside.

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And sometimes you don't want to be

that person because you feel this

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person won't like you or this person,

they don't like what you do or this.

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You can't worry about any of that

because at the end of the day, those

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people weren't born with you and those

people are not going to die with you.

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so I think that for me with that.

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for that scripture, I think it is, stand

on your path when you know, it's right.

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And don't be scared because if it's

your path, then it's going to happen.

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And I think a lot of times we get to that

point where it's like, should I do this?

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Should I not do this?

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and, you're in your head, but

you keep seeing these visions

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of you supposed to be doing it.

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And I believe so much in visions.

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That's another thing that helped

me because I kept seeing all of

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this, me on the stage talking to

multiple people about real estate.

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So I kept seeing these visions

and I'm like, you know what?

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I know that this is my path.

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And as I'm walking in this

path, it feels so good.

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It feels so good.

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and that's why I know I'm supposed to be.

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And I think that scripture has a lot to do

with that because, everybody has a path.

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Everybody has a path.

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You can't, you, even, and I

hate to say this, even people

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on drugs, everybody got a path.

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And you hate to even think that the

Lord would put them on that type of

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path, but everybody has a path, and

you gotta follow that path the way

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He wants you to, and you gotta focus

on you and be happy in your life.

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Like I'm totally happy.

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And I can tell you, you got this

little glow going on over here.

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I can tell you happy in your path too.

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So that's good.

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Brianna: I receive that.

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Amber: Yeah.

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Brianna: I mean, yes.

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Like this whole time I've been

seeing a glow as you talk about media

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and as you talk about real estate.

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So I'm super excited for

you in this new journey.

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Amber: I was a secret

agent for a long time.

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Nice.

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So I'm not going to be

secret agent anymore.

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You out there.

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Yeah.

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No, I'm out here.

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If you don't know, I'm a realtor by now.

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We need to talk.

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Okay.

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All right.

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So Amber, this is it.

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Brianna: Did we leave

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Amber: anything out?

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Is there anything you feel like I missed?

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Tell the

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Brianna: people.

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Amber: I just want to thank you.

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First of all, I want to thank you

for being committed to yourself

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because, people don't know how we

met, but we met on social media.

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I had never met this young

lady a day in my life.

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During COVID, I had to figure it

out in the entertainment industry

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and I ended up reaching out to you.

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I remember when you were on

your hiatus because you told me

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and I think I reached back out.

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You were still on your hiatus.

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So I really, I love relationships

like this because it's a very,

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very natural relationship.

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I just want to tell you keep doing

what you're doing and keep loving what

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you're doing and it will bring you so

much wealth and happiness in your life

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that you will be like, Oh my gosh,

what am I going to do with all this?

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So yeah.

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Brianna: Thank

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Amber: you.

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for having me too.

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Yes.

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Brianna: All right, ladies and gents,

if you're listening to this morning,

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noon, evening, or night, thank you

so much for tuning in to what's good

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podcast and we'll see you guys next time.