I see it just come at me and
Speaker:jump into my body and
Speaker:all of a sudden my visual
Speaker:field is all black,
Speaker:and the energy that's in
Speaker:my body is beyond anything
Speaker:I have experienced to this day.
Speaker:It was like 1,000,000W.
Speaker:Dreams can give you a preview
Speaker:of what's been developing in
Speaker:the energy world.
Speaker:I had a dream of a car accident.
Speaker:My son and my best friend
Speaker:didn't make it. They died on the
Speaker:spot.
Speaker:So that was another dream that
Speaker:kind of forewarned me about
Speaker:something really dramatic happening.
Speaker:I knew it was not an accident.
Speaker:I knew it would happen on an
Speaker:energetic level long before it
Speaker:happened on a physical level.
Speaker:The universe at large that your
Speaker:external world is
Speaker:definitely always giving you
Speaker:messages everywhere, from parking
Speaker:tickets, to winning the lottery, to
Speaker:whatever it is.
Speaker:Welcome to Lottery, Dreams
Speaker:and Fortune!
Speaker:So I am so excited to welcome Happy
Speaker:Ali here to the program today.
Speaker:He is actually an intuitive.
Speaker:He is very much
Speaker:into so many things that are
Speaker:fascinating prophetic dreams.
Speaker:He is an author as well of the
Speaker:new book, The Intuition Bible
Speaker:How and Why to Tap into
Speaker:Your Inner Wisdom.
Speaker:Happy. Ali, how are you doing today?
Speaker:Hi, Timothy.
Speaker:Thank you so much for having me on
Speaker:the show. I'm doing really well,
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:Yeah, Thanks so much for taking the
Speaker:time. So you
Speaker:have had prophetic dreams
Speaker:throughout your life.
Speaker:What have you dreamt
Speaker:that has come true?
Speaker:Gosh, that's a really big
Speaker:long list of questions.
Speaker:I mean, it's a simple question, but
Speaker:the answer is so many.
Speaker:Because right now,
Speaker:at this point in my life, with the
Speaker:amount of nurturing that I've done
Speaker:with the bad dreams,
Speaker:I seem to be having one,
Speaker:you know, every other day.
Speaker:It's
Speaker:sometimes it's really big
Speaker:events are really big and life
Speaker:changing, and sometimes it's just a
Speaker:tiny preview of the day.
Speaker:But there are some moments in
Speaker:my life that have completely changed
Speaker:the trajectory of my life.
Speaker:And I think a lot of times when
Speaker:people ask me that question, that's
Speaker:what they're referring to.
Speaker:They're like, What happened?
Speaker:What changed your life that
Speaker:you got to see in advance?
Speaker:And it's an interesting question
Speaker:because, of course,
Speaker:we have free will and things can
Speaker:change and you can make different
Speaker:decisions. But sometimes when you
Speaker:get a foresight into
Speaker:something that is so incredible
Speaker:and you see that it's possible, you
Speaker:kind of want to keep going with the
Speaker:flow.
Speaker:And I will start with the birth
Speaker:of my son Sky
Speaker:in 2009.
Speaker:He was born in 2009.
Speaker:But prior to that, I had prophetic
Speaker:dreams, but I hadn't really
Speaker:figured out the art of prophecy.
Speaker:That's not a very funny prophecy,
Speaker:but it is prophecy.
Speaker:I hadn't figured it out.
Speaker:I didn't know how accurate
Speaker:it can be. But when I went
Speaker:to sleep and
Speaker:in my dream, I was told that I was
Speaker:going to have a son. Now I'm gay.
Speaker:I was in my
Speaker:late 20s and
Speaker:I was not rich.
Speaker:It was not something that you can
Speaker:just have.
Speaker:And I remember arguing with the
Speaker:voice that was telling me that
Speaker:I was going to have a baby saying,
Speaker:There's no way I'm going to have a
Speaker:baby. It's not happening.
Speaker:I'm gay. And then all of a sudden
Speaker:they showed one of my best friends
Speaker:who was lesbian
Speaker:is as well was because she
Speaker:did passed away and she
Speaker:was lesbian and she had a wife
Speaker:and she was nine months pregnant.
Speaker:And they said, Here it is.
Speaker:So I thought, wow, she's having my
Speaker:baby.
Speaker:And I remember immediately she was
Speaker:going into labor and I said,
Speaker:Hey, you're going to labor, so let's
Speaker:take you to the hospital.
Speaker:And her wife came around from behind
Speaker:her and said, Happy, I got this.
Speaker:And there was no hospital involved.
Speaker:She sat her down, kind of reached
Speaker:into her belly, handed me
Speaker:this boy, and they said, Here is
Speaker:your son. His name is Cyrus.
Speaker:Now, I didn't we didn't name him
Speaker:Cyrus. We named him Sky.
Speaker:And I remember waking up with
Speaker:this incredible feeling of
Speaker:having become a father before
Speaker:I ever imagined becoming
Speaker:a father.
Speaker:And if any of you
Speaker:are parents that are listening or
Speaker:watching, you know that love is just
Speaker:unparalleled.
Speaker:And if you get a peek of it
Speaker:in advance, it's very intoxicating.
Speaker:So I woke up in and
Speaker:waited till morning and called my
Speaker:best friend and said, Hey, we had a
Speaker:baby and it's a boy.
Speaker:And she said,
Speaker:Well, we are thinking about having a
Speaker:baby, but because of
Speaker:some other drama with our
Speaker:daughter who was to their daughter,
Speaker:who was two at the time, who was my
Speaker:goddaughter, we don't really want to
Speaker:know the donor.
Speaker:So we're not doing this.
Speaker:I said, Well, I was just letting you
Speaker:know we had a son.
Speaker:And six months later, they came
Speaker:to me and they
Speaker:took me out to dinner and they said,
Speaker:Hey, we want to have a baby and we
Speaker:want to ask you to be the donor.
Speaker:I said, I will not be the donor.
Speaker:I will be dad.
Speaker:And I have conditions.
Speaker:I said, you know, we have to do
Speaker:it at home, turkey baster style,
Speaker:because sex is out of the question.
Speaker:I would want to be the father of
Speaker:my God daughter because it wouldn't
Speaker:be fair for the kids both
Speaker:not to have a father.
Speaker:And she was already like my little
Speaker:girl anyway.
Speaker:And we wouldn't try more than three
Speaker:times because I really didn't want
Speaker:to tempt fate.
Speaker:And I thought, you
Speaker:know, if it's meant to happen, it's
Speaker:going to happen. And I mean, the
Speaker:odds are already against us.
Speaker:So let's just say
Speaker:about a year or so later,
Speaker:after three tries, she got pregnant
Speaker:and I got to meet
Speaker:my son at home
Speaker:because she had a home birth.
Speaker:And the exact same process
Speaker:that happened in the dream happened
Speaker:where her wife handed me the baby
Speaker:and I got to cut down valko cord.
Speaker:And it was very detailed
Speaker:how accurate it was.
Speaker:The details were just incredible.
Speaker:And I remember the sonogram when we
Speaker:found out the gender.
Speaker:Everyone was so excited to find out.
Speaker:And I was just like, I don't know,
Speaker:it's a boy. So So that
Speaker:changed my life completely because I
Speaker:gained a son and a daughter
Speaker:over the course of a year and a half
Speaker:from that dream, or maybe
Speaker:two years from that dream.
Speaker:And it completely changed
Speaker:my life and we became this happy
Speaker:family that was so incredible.
Speaker:And we were just happy,
Speaker:I would say, you know, having a baby
Speaker:with your best friend and and
Speaker:her wife, who I love so much as one
Speaker:of my best friends still.
Speaker:It was just such a lovely
Speaker:example of how love can come
Speaker:together in a different way.
Speaker:Until 2014,
Speaker:when I had a dream
Speaker:and in this dream it was my
Speaker:father and a different best friend
Speaker:were laying in these two tiny little
Speaker:caskets that were in wood
Speaker:kind of caskets.
Speaker:And I remember burying
Speaker:them and waking up and
Speaker:it was so real.
Speaker:And I called my friend Tricia,
Speaker:who was the mother, the birth mother
Speaker:of my children, and
Speaker:said, Hey, two people are going to
Speaker:die. And she said, You and your
Speaker:dreams happy.
Speaker:And I remember mentioning it again
Speaker:over text and again
Speaker:and again. And she was like you and
Speaker:your dreams happy.
Speaker:And I thought we had a baby because
Speaker:of my dreams. Like, what are you
Speaker:talking about?
Speaker:I remember the morning of April
Speaker:17th, 2014,
Speaker:I had a dream of a car accident,
Speaker:and there was a woman in the front
Speaker:and a guy in the back.
Speaker:And they were just apologizing for
Speaker:the accident and having to
Speaker:take by.
Speaker:And my best
Speaker:friend and daughter and son were in
Speaker:Sacramento. They were away
Speaker:for Easter and they
Speaker:were driving back that day.
Speaker:And I didn't even think about
Speaker:the fact that they were going to be
Speaker:driving and it was going to be an
Speaker:accident anyway.
:00 there was a car accident and
:my son and my best friend
:didn't make it. They died on the
:spot and my daughter
:was in critical care.
:So that was another dream that
:kind of forewarned me about
:something really dramatic happening.
:And a lot of people say like, I wish
:you never dream about me.
:I hope that I never get
:these abilities that you have.
:But to be honest with you, it was
:probably one of the most comforting
:things that happened
:to me because
:I knew it was not an accident.
:I knew it happened on an energetic
:level long before it happened on
:a physical level.
:And that's comforting when you
:have a freak accident, take away the
:life of your best friend and your
:child.
:And it didn't stop
:there by that time because
:I tell everyone my dreams.
:I was officially the prophetic
:dreamer in the friends and family
:group because,
:you know, you tell people about the
:birth, they say, well, you guys made
:that happen.
:You tell people about the death.
:In advance.
:You know, I could have never known
:that.
:And then my son just started
:showing up that night in
:my dreams and started guiding me
:through the grieving process
:and immediately
:told me that my daughter is going to
:be fine. Told me he was fine,
:then soon started telling me
:I was going to have another kid,
:which now was literally
:impossible because
:my baby maker was dead
:and there was no other route.
:I was in school.
:I literally had just gotten into
:UCLA to get my psych
:degree because I decided
:to follow my dreams because I had my
:son. And now
:he dies. And the next day I get
:into my dream school, which took
:me a lot of work to get into.
:And I remember this really
:specific dream where I was in the
:water holding this baby.
:And then there was this another kid
:outside with straight hair, which I
:assumed was my dead son.
:And it was just such a vivid
:dream that when I woke up, I
:knew that there was no going back
:and I had to pursue this.
:Mind you, I was making, I
:don't know, 20, $30,000 a year at
:the moment. And to have a surrogate
:and a donor and all that stuff in
:the United States, it cost around
:250,000 and
:it ended up costing me $100,000.
:And because I made the decision
:to do it and I am a master
:manifester, I
:knew the money would come, but
:once again, I didn't want to
:force anything to happen.
:I'm very
:trusting in the universe's
:timing, in the universe's
:judgment, when it comes to what I
:should be living.
:So I kind of go with the flow
:and something so
:huge like having a
:child, which ended up being twins.
:By myself as a single
:guy who was in school was
:just ridiculous.
:The idea was ridiculous.
:Who the heck does that?
:But my son literally guided me
:through the whole process and
:really just held my hand through the
:grief process.
:And it all just came together.
:Even the house that I live in right
:now. I know that it
:was meant for me.
:Every aspect of this house
:was as if I designed it myself
:to live the life that I have now.
:And even my son's
:little number. He was born at 11:43
:a.m.
:and a 43 became his moniker like
:1143 43.
:The address is 1343
:and it was just delivered
:to me. Everything was just handed to
:me and it's just
:amazing. Life is amazing, but it
:never stop there.
:I mean, I just met one of my best
:new best friends, you know?
:I'm 46.
:You don't make best friends at 46
:the same way you did when you were
:younger.
:But I met somebody in my dream
:about a month and a half ago and
:recognized him when I saw him,
:when I interacted with this person
:in about a day and I thought,
:I already met you and I wouldn't
:have dreamt about you if it was
:insignificant.
:And our connection just like,
:just amplified.
:So these dreams do have a
:way of.
:Changing my expectations.
:And it kind of gave me a a
:preview of what was in store
:and the friendship
:to kind of prep me for it.
:And every little
:detail was,
:you know, realized it came true.
:And I'm so glad I'm so grateful for
:that because it cut through a lot of
:red tape and drama that normally
:would have occurred.
:That is incredible.
:That is incredible.
:And you mentioned that
:you feel that
:there are no accidents.
:So if you dream
:about something before it happens in
:real life, how is
:that possible
:from I mean, what's your opinion?
:How is that even possible?
:Is that here is my fate?
:Is that fate?
:Is that just meant to happen
:or are you tapping into it or what?
:So this this is a really
:complicated question, but I
:will give you kind of a variation
:of a few variations of the answer,
:because ultimately we do come
:in this world to create our reality,
:to live the life that we
:sculpt as humans, as conscious
:beings.
:But I do believe that
:as we create our reality from
:early on, from early on in our
:lives, we create
:this kind of energetic world
:that starts to take form
:in other dimensions
:long before we see it in advance.
:And because everything
:happens mostly on an energetic
:level before we see it on a physical
:level.
:Dreams can give you a preview
:of what's been developing.
:In the energy world.
:So now that's just
:one type of dream.
:Dreams have a lot of different
:reasons for being.
:There's a lot of different purpose
:to having dreams.
:So I'm not saying all dreams are
:prophetic, but all dreams
:have insight, no matter if
:it's the ones that are just flushing
:out your conscious ideas
:that are going through your head and
:your subconscious is processing
:them. Every little thing that you
:dream has some sort of
:insight and some of it
:just tells you, Hey, you've been
:having a rough week, Hey,
:you are afraid.
:Your emotions show up in your dreams
:a lot. So for somebody
:who just wants to make use of their
:regular dreams, be aware of how
:you feel in your dreams because
:they're a great indicator of how
:you feel during your waking hours
:and what you're going to be
:manifesting because what you end up
:manifesting in the future, even
:though it's not very clear right now
:because it's in the early stages
:of creation, your
:emotions tell you what you're
:leading towards.
:So it's really important to be aware
:of what you're feeling.
:And it's important to see if if
:you're being chased by Tiger,
:if you end up solving that issue
:before you wake up or not, or if you
:just wake up because you're so
:afraid, everything has insight,
:but
:we have the ability to tap into.
:Creation in
:its, let's say, 60, 70, 80%
:growth stage.
:And when you do that, you get a
:preview of the future.
:Now, I have come to believe,
:despite what one
:of the greatest teachers, Esther
:Hicks Abraham, makes, I don't know
:if you're familiar with her work.
:She is the one
:when it comes to Law of Attraction.
:She coined the term in the modern
:days.
:She channels and all this stuff.
:And I specifically ask when I dream
:something and it's
:already at that mark where I know
:it's going to happen,
:Is it going to happen?
:For sure.
:And she said, No, you are the
:creator of your own reality, blah,
:blah, blah, blah, blah. And it was
:the first time I've ever disagreed
:with Hicks because
:at that time when I had that dream,
:I had just dreamt
:that my poor
:father died in so many of my dreams
:because he's an avatar.
:I had a dream that my dad was
:diagnosed with stage four cancer
:and there was no cure
:and he was not going to get
:chemo. And he was he decided to just
:lay down and live
:out the final
:days of his life, laying down
:just as I just had an epiphany.
:And I'll tell you what it was.
:And he put a pillow down and he laid
:down. And then I called my dad
:because my dad lives in Iran and I
:live in Los Angeles.
:And I said, Dad, how
:are you doing? What's going on?
:And he said, I'm fine.
:I said, How is everyone on your side
:of the family? Said, they're fine.
:And I said, Well, I had a death
:dream.
:He's like, don't worry about it now.
:My dad is someone who would just
:make me feel okay.
:And sometimes if he's not doing
:well, he won't tell me because I'm
:so far. But he knows if I have a
:death dream, you've got to, you
:know, be honest about it.
:So a week later, I have another
:dream that my dad's in a hospital
:room and his
:best friend's with him and
:he is dying.
:And I said, Dad, are you okay?
:And his best friend's like, Don't
:worry, I'm taking care of him.
:I'm with him every step of the way.
:And then I saw his body die,
:literally go into rigor mortis.
:And then I remember the funeral,
:call my dad up, my dad,
:like, what are you not telling me?
:This is really dead on?
:I watch your body die.
:And he said, well,
:my little brother, his little
:brother just got
:diagnosed with cancer.
:We don't know what
:stage it's at.
:I said, Dad, it's stage four.
:It's the worst. He's got two months
:to live from the first dream.
:And you know, my dad
:is a believer. Everyone I know is a
:believer. So they said he said,
:okay. I said, this is the first time
:that I have dreamt.
:With such detail, like a diagnosis
:and all that stuff.
:And sure enough, I called my uncle,
:which I hadn't talked to in about a
:year. I have one final
:face time with him and then
:he gets submit.
:He gets admitted to the hospital
:and he had to be in ICU by himself
:for the remaining time of his life.
:And he died six weeks later.
:And the dream was so
:comforting because I remember
:the best friend being with him and
:his wife and just his wife had
:just died a year prior.
:So it kind of felt like his
:wife was the best friend in the
:dream. And she was with him the
:whole time. And he wasn't alone.
:Now, I could be making that part up,
:but since everything else was so
:drawn and accurate, I'm just going
:to go with that.
:And I told my dad, I said
:that you better get to his city
:right away and say your goodbyes.
:And he's like, Well, once
:you know, something happens, we
:still don't know.
:I said, Dad, I told you by that time
:you got like three weeks.
:So we got him a shuttle
:and got him to that city right away.
:And I said, Go in the hospital, Tell
:him if he needs to go. Like, I
:guided him through the process.
:And, of course, my dad was one of
:the last people or the last person
:who visited him and he died.
:And it was just
:interesting because.
:I don't think that I could have
:changed that reality.
:I don't think anyone could have
:changed that reality.
:So when Mr. Hicks said.
:You can't, you know,
:rely completely on dreams.
:You can change anything because
:at this, at last, at the last
:minute, then I didn't
:I couldn't agree because that
:was out of my hand. That was not my
:creation. That was his creation.
:He was supposed
:to go and I got an advance preview.
:Now, there were things I was able to
:do because I saw the dream.
:I get my dad over there and
:talk to him and feel comforted
:that he's not alone, even though
:he's alone.
:But I really don't feel that
:that was something
:that I could have controlled.
:So I do think there is a point of no
:return when the energy
:is strong enough
:and the momentum is so strong
:that there is no going back.
:And ironically, Esther Hicks also
:says that she says sometimes it's
:already too far
:in motion and you just have to jump
:out the plane and hope you land.
:So there's a little bit of
:contradiction there.
:But for me,
:I'm pretty much that
:set set in the way
:that I'm thinking about this.
:But I do think that a lot of dreams
:that we have do give you a preview
:of what you should and can change,
:just not the ones that feel so real
:that they feel like a memory.
:Now, the next question everybody
:asks me, How can you tell the
:difference between a prophetic dream
:and one that is just
:another dream?
:And whether it's a visitation
:dream from the dead or whether it's
:a prophetic dream, It's like a
:memory, and it has
:the lasting power and the details
:of a real memory.
:And it fades because everything
:fades, memory fades,
:our greatest memories fade.
:But the details are so vivid
:that when you wake up, no matter
:what else you've been dreaming, that
:thing will stand out and make sure
:that it gets your attention and
:you're remembering every tiny
:little detail of it.
:And I came up with
:that on my own.
:But I went to see John Edwards
:with a friend. I don't know if you
:know who he is. He's like a very
:famous medium.
:Medium? Yes.
:Medium. Yes. I talked to dead people
:and.
:I remember being there.
:And mind you, when my son died
:a few months later, he came to
:me in a dream. I said, Dad, I am
:no longer a kid.
:If you want to think of me as a
:human, think of me as someone in
:their prime. So someone in their
:30s.
:So from that point on, he showed up
:as someone in their 30s, like a
:young man. But I would have the same
:relationship with him.
:So prior to seeing John Edwards,
:like two years ago, I remember
:having this vivid dream.
:I spent an entire day with my
:grandson, dead son,
:because he died when he was four.
:And we saw
:John Edwards. And the two things he
:said, because he spoke to me was
:like, whose kid died?
:And I said, me in a car accident?
:Yes. He said, he just wants to tell
:you that he is always going
:to be a grown up when he shows up.
:And I said, I know.
:And that and then somebody else.
:How do you tell the difference
:between a visitation Dreams and his
:answers is exactly the same thing.
:He said, The dreams that
:are really important are the ones
:you remember, and they are.
:They don't fade the same way, and
:they seem very vivid.
:So we
:didn't ask. But here.
:No, that's that's fascinating.
:And just a real quick follow
:up. Was that John Edwards, he used
:to have a very popular television
:show. Is that from the telephone?
:Was that where was that?
:He did have a television show, but
:no, this was an actual live
:event. He does live events where
:like the Hilton or where they
:do seminars and things like that.
:And it's just the audience goes
:there. He picks a row
:and he picks the person like
:he says.
:And that side of that row,
:somebody's dad died
:in a fire.
:And you tend to not get
:up if you're in another room.
:So he has to be dead
:on or nothing.
:And everything he does, he's like,
:please do not get up at the other
:end of the aisle like it or
:the other end of the row.
:If I say somebody died.
:And this he literally looked at
:somebody was like, okay,
:someone over there, they died.
:They lost their legs, blah, blah,
:blah. You know, it was like so dead
:on. And they're perfect for me, you
:know, And he does a
:lot of reassurance and
:confirmations, but I get those on my
:own. So I was like, There is nothing
:more.
:I want to ask your advice for
:how to have prophetic dreams.
:But before I get to that,
:you know, I myself have had
:many dreams about things before
:they've happened and it
:happens to some people.
:How long in your experience
:from having the dream to something
:happening in real life, does it
:usually take?
:Well, my personal experience
:has been anywhere ranging from
:two and a half months to the same
:day, for instance.
:So you had a dream
:about winning the lottery.
:Is that true?
:I did. The dreams.
:I did, yeah.
:That's one that I've been and
:spoken about publicly quite a bit.
:And what was the time difference
:between that from the dream to
:when you won the lottery?
:That was about three months,
:right around three months.
:So it kind of somewhat
:fits my timeline
:because, you know, it's all very
:I mean, technically, you could dream
:about it a year before if it's
:already set in motion, there's no
:going back.
:But it's really complicated
:because I say in my book
:that intuition and inner
:wisdom is not quantifiable.
:The logical mind wants to make sense
:of everything and make it really
:just fit into our version
:of life.
:But it's not quantifiable
:for everybody. It's different for
:me. My window is this,
:and it helps that I have a very
:accurate window because then I know
:when it's coming.
:But sometimes I do get
:messed up because I'll
:have a dream. For example, I had a
:dream that I got a phone call
:and I saw my grandmother dead
:or she was laying, you know, looking
:like she was dead.
:So that was
:last November.
:And I freak out
:in the morning and
:well, in the dream, somebody said,
:Hey, don't start predicting death
:dreams right now.
:Just chill for a minute.
:So I woke up, I go to my mom's house
:and I'm like, Mom, like, prepare
:yourself. Like I had a death dream
:about grandma. And then she said,
:You didn't hear. I said, What
:happened? She said, She is really
:sick and we are admitting
:her to the hospital and she did not
:want to go to the hospital.
:We're taking her right now.
:She's like, You're not reading the
:group chat.
:I was like, What? The group chat
:that has like 300 text per day?
:No, I'm not reading it.
:Even though I had multiple
:dreams and this one was the first
:time I saw the person.
:I saw that I got the message.
:I was so in denial
:about my grandmother dying.
:That.
:I was really hoping that
:the dream was just an
:indicator of hearing that news
:that day.
:You know, I was hoping it was a same
:day of that because it does happen.
:But then I have like four other
:dreams. And grandma herself, she's
:the one I get the gifts from.
:She was the one I got the gift from.
:And the whole family
:on her side has dreams.
:So she was the one
:who told me. She said, Grandpa
:showed up in a dream, he's dead.
:And he's packing my bags and
:preparing my house.
:And he said, Come on, back up, let's
:go.
:And she said, I'm dying,
:you know? And I thought, well,
:hopefully not Grandma.
:She because she always had dreams,
:but she wasn't.
:As you know,
:she she talked about her dreams,
:even though they were not prophetic
:sometimes. So you kind of hope
:that that wasn't the case.
:But I had so many other dreams that
:followed. And seven and a half weeks
:later, after that dream, my grandma
:died. And I'm so mad at myself
:because I couldn't get my back to
:Iran to see her because even though
:I knew she was going to die.
:But afterwards,
:as a comforting thought, I realized
:that I got her death message through
:the phone, just like
:I did in real life.
:So in my mind I said, okay,
:that was already set in motion.
:And when I they face time for
:her body, she was laying
:in that same position in that same
:way. And, you know, she's one of
:those people that I've grieved
:the least in my life.
:As with her, I
:love her the most.
:Aggrieved her the least because I
:feel so connected to her.
:And she's the one who taught me all
:this stuff. And she's the reason why
:I know so much that I do.
:So I just know she's right here
:and probably right here, right now.
:So it's one of those things where
:it's so funny. Somebody I love so
:much have gotten to the point where
:I'm not like a mess.
:She's guided me through so much.
:It's amazing that the dreams have
:so many perks because you have
:prophecy, you have visitations,
:you have just ramblings.
:There's so many different versions.
:I love dreams so much.
:Everyone says, Why do you want to
:sleep so much?
:I just want to get information
:because life is so unpredictable
:when you're awake. But when I go to
:sleep, when I get some info, it's
:helpful. But of course, when I wrote
:the Intuition Bible, I couldn't just
:talk about dreams because there's so
:many levels and layers of intuition
:and dreams just happened to be one
:of them.
:That is fascinating.
:And that's a beautiful story about
:your grandmother. We are here with
:Happy Allie.
:He is the author of The Intuition
:Bible How and Why to Tap
:Into Your Inner Wisdom.
:And we will put a link to that in
:the show notes.
:If you're listening to this and in
:the description of this YouTube
:video, if you're watching on
:YouTube.
:But happy, you mentioned that this
:is a gift from your
:grandmother. It came from your
:family. Like this is genetic,
:is I'm not speaking for you, but
:that's what I heard
:you say.
:So if that is coming
:that way, can people
:learn this outside of that?
:If if they don't have people
:in their life that already
:are doing this?
:And how can someone
:increase their ability to have
:prophetic dreams or increase their
:intuition?
:First of all, the reason that is
:genetic in this case or
:feels genetic in
:this case is because
:she fostered
:the concept.
:She didn't dismiss the concept
:where you are
:a living human as we all are.
:We know there is a big debate about
:nature versus nurture.
:Some things you're born genetically
:predisposed to and to some things
:you are just exposed to.
:And it's always a 5050 answer.
:So we can have
:someone who was born with the gift
:of prophecy but
:has no idea that what it
:what they're capable of doing and
:they just never have a single
:prophetic dream or even know how to
:analyze it.
:But I do believe that what
:was special about my family is that
:we talked about our dreams.
:We gave it airtime.
:We made it something that was
:important, and we didn't dismiss
:it. I think that's what's important
:about our family.
:And that's how she handed it down
:to me, because my half sister,
:who is from my dad's side, also has
:prophetic dreams.
:And I know a lot of people who are
:prophetic dreams is when you give
:it airtime, when you give something
:time and space
:and consider it important,
:your subconscious mind brings it to
:the forefront.
:Now we're all genetically
:born with the ability to dream.
:There's not a single human being
:that does not dream.
:And I don't think how I dream is
:any different than anybody else's.
:I think how I've nurtured my dreams
:is different because
:I'm a prophetic dreamer.
:But I wasn't considered a prophetic
:dreamer in the early 20
:tens or prior to that.
:It was only when I saw confirmation
:and I paid more attention and I
:wrote it down more, and
:I really started to hone the
:skill just like anything else.
:Now I want to get into the
:subconscious really quick because
:this will apply to everything
:intuition related.
:The subconscious mind is your
:gatekeeper.
:It's what allows you to experience
:life the way that you experience
:it. Now, your listeners might
:be familiar with the Law of
:Attraction.
:How when you think something, you
:attract that into your life
:and the subconscious mind is the
:same. There's something called the
:reticular activating system in our
:brains called the wrasse.
:And what it is, it is our physical,
:biological version of law of
:Attraction.
:It filters out
:all the data that's in your
:life and whittles
:it down to what
:is important and relevant in your
:life.
:So at each moment
:we're getting millions of bits of
:data be coming
:at us. It's thrown at us from all
:our senses and
:we can only process around 100
:and something.
:So your subconscious has to
:figure out what's important and
:delete around 2 million.
:It's .9999 6%
:of the data that's coming in
:and getting stored in your body and
:memory.
:99.999%
:has to be deleted for
:you to get something
:to come to your conscious awareness
:that does not throw off
:your equilibrium and
:it does not make you feel unstable
:in life.
:And so whatever
:you're getting has to be in
:alignment with your beliefs.
:That's why your
:belief system is really important.
:And what you think is important is
:really imperative
:when you want to have a different
:experience in your life.
:If you are convinced that
:there is no such thing as intuition.
:Guess what? Your subconscious mind
:will prove to you that intuition
:maybe is for some, but not for you.
:It will prove to you what
:you need to believe, because
:living in this body is hard enough
:as it is.
:So if you want to enhance your
:intuitive abilities or your
:anything, any of the levels
:of intuition, whether it's just a
:hunch all the way to prophetic
:dreaming or even channeling, when
:you receive like conscious thought
:from a higher frequency,
:you have to prioritize it and you
:have to believe in it.
:So in my book, I really go
:into detail about you need to
:discover the language of
:your own subconscious mind.
:You need to figure out your
:superpower, your path of least
:resistance and start from there and
:let that expand.
:And for some people, it's one
:thing. For some people it's another.
:Now, I have a gut check that
:I do that I teach my children.
:What you do is you think of
:something that's true.
:You scan your body, your upper body
:right around here.
:And scan it.
:How do you.
:Mentally scan your body to see
:what you feel in this region?
:And you think of something that you
:know to be absolutely true and
:you see what part of your body
:lights up and then you think of
:something that's absolutely false
:and see what part of your body
:lights up.
:And then you keep testing it over
:and over and over and over until
:you're familiar with those sights
:and sensations.
:Then you can ask a question some
:along the lines of, is this
:a good move for me to make?
:Is this aligned with my purpose?
:And you'll see what part of your
:body lights up and usually
:it's pretty dead on
:where it matches.
:But but here's the thing.
:Not everybody has the ability to
:feel that way because
:there's so many different forms.
:Not everybody has
:that ability. I have twin boys.
:They're seven and a half.
:And one is emotional.
:Very intuitive.
:And just a walking
:bag of feelings.
:And he can't see somebody else.
:Otherwise he'll start crying.
:The other one is mental.
:Very much in the mind.
:A perfectionist.
:Everything has to be perfect.
:He's the master at
:manifesting like he
:has shown me.
:Time and time again how
:we can manifest things that
:I do not want them to have.
:And from sources that
:are unpredictable, he's incredible.
:He is incredible.
:And I'm always in all of his
:manifestation powers.
:And he's been doing that since he
:was a little kid.
:But we do the same exercise.
:We do the gut check and he gets
:nothing in its tummy.
:He gets absolutely nothing that
:his name is Dario, but Cyrus.
:The other one, on the other hand,
:always has a reliable
:tummy informational,
:you know, output.
:But Dario has other talents.
:So that's why when I wrote
:the book, for example, I made sure
:I covered a lot of different areas
:where you or anyone
:could have a path of
:least resistance.
:So that will allow them
:to tap into their intuition.
:The good thing is the universe is
:always talking to you,
:whether it's your guardian angels,
:whether it's God,
:whatever it is, somebody is always
:taking care of you and talking to
:you and guiding you, telling you
:where you're messing up, where there
:are patterns that you need to fix.
:There's always a voice helping
:you, a guide helping you.
:But the system was designed
:in a way that if you are totally
:clueless, there
:will always be another way.
:There will always be another way
:to get the message to you, to the
:point where if you really
:can't get it, you will make
:a friend who just happens to
:give you the best advice and
:that will be like the most external
:version of it to where there
:will always be a messenger.
:Now, wouldn't it be great if the
:messenger was through you?
:So you don't need to have that
:friend and
:you know the universe at large that
:your external world is
:definitely always giving you
:messages everywhere, from parking
:tickets to winning the lottery to
:whatever it is, every little
:thing. Because there are no
:coincidences. There's always a
:message giving you a heads up
:as to how you're doing on this
:particular topic.
:So the more you become aware
:and the more you notice a world
:as an extension of your body and
:you living in your personal
:universe, the more you realize it
:goes far beyond your inner feelings
:and dreams. It extends out to the
:physical world.
:I know it's an oxymoron, intuition
:and outer world, but
:we're so galaxy is just you.
:So I hope that answered
:that question kind of.
:I don't even remember the question
:that is.
:No, it is so interesting.
:And if you were to
:tell someone.
:Everyone is very
:interested and what's the quickest
:way to do this and that.
:But what is the quickest way?
:Is there even a quick way to
:substantially increase your ability
:to tap into intuition or to manifest
:something into your life?
:What is the quickest way to get
:answers from the universe?
:The most effective way is pay
:attention and clear head.
:Because first of all,
:whether it's
:dreaming or just intuitive
:gut feelings, you need to be
:clear headed.
:You need to have as clean of
:a body as possible.
:Now, I'm not saying don't eat meat
:because I know a lot of people say
:be vegetarian.
:If you want to be a vegetarian, be a
:vegetarian. Just help you
:not have to process a lot of food,
:a lot of, you know, heavy foods.
:But if you're drinking every
:night or your,
:you know, eating things that are
:making you heavy or
:just things that are not letting you
:sleep, well, that
:is the first thing. So your physical
:aspect needs to be in the best
:state. You need to make sure that
:you're sleeping well, that you are
:eating well enough not
:to have distractions,
:you know? So that's the first
:aspect. Second thing is
:to make sure that you put the
:request forth saying,
:Hey, I want to
:be more intuitive.
:I want to access my drinks,
:whatever it is, be specific and
:don't be so
:broad, Be specific.
:Say I just want more intuition, I
:want more insight.
:And then you have to back it up with
:a why you don't back
:it up with a why.
:There is no,
:you know, momentum being built
:because there's a lot of factors
:that are put into place.
:Now. I do this thing where I go
:to the grocery store and try to
:spend like $100 and,
:you know, try to see without
:calculating if I can get it
:as close to $100 as possible
:and see if my intuition will guide
:me. But let me tell you something.
:Most of the times it fails.
:The few times that it's really good
:is when I only have $100 to spend.
:If I only have $100 to spend my
:why is high.
:So when I'm walking through the
:aisles, I instinctively
:know which one to grab and which one
:to put away. I remember one
:time I had 100 and something.
:I don't remember the number.
:It's in the book.
:I was at the checkout
:and I immediately felt like I need
:to take one item out and put it to
:the side.
:And I did, and it was within
:a few cents from the number.
:Now that the desire
:just happy because I just feel like
:it intuition kicks in more
:when there's a need for it
:and we have a need for it in
:our lives. We do have a need, but
:you have to feel like you need it.
:You have to summon it.
:You can't just open a door and say,
:Come in anything.
:I want everything to come in.
:You have to have a need and a
:desire. If you're a manifester, you
:know the things that you need,
:you always manifest.
:If you're in a good place, the
:amount of money that you need
:usually comes.
:It's the wants that people have
:the hardest time manifesting.
:They want to go on this luxury trip,
:but you know, their bills
:are usually paid.
:Most people, if you're living in
:alignment.
:And so the need
:needs to be there.
:And for me, I need to be
:a value to the world I need
:to be Now.
:There's so much riding on my
:intuition that I needed to be
:better because I want to be a better
:teacher.
:So the more you put
:emphasis on needing it without
:putting too much resistance on it.
:Now you can't say I need this
:because then I will be worthy
:because that's a worthy issue.
:You know, you've got to be worthy
:before you.
:But I want to say I would love.
:Wouldn't it be nice?
:I would love to have extra guidance
:in my life.
:And I believe that
:I have the resources within
:me to receive extra resources
:in my life. I am open
:to whatever type of communication
:that comes my way as long as
:it's on my level
:or greater and it's for the greater
:good.
:So you kind of have to set the
:intention for it.
:Now you can say I
:there is too much opposing
:information in this world right now.
:The news and all this stuff and all
:this social media content.
:I would love to have an
:inner guidance that will tell me how
:to decipher this information
:and I care enough
:to give it time.
:Now, if you want to grow muscles
:at the gym, you're going to go
:put in the time.
:A lot of people, they want intuition
:or they want prophetic dreams, but
:they just want to say a mantra and
:be done with it.
:Yes, you will have to
:give yourself time to sleep
:a little bit earlier so you can
:drift off a little bit better and
:have a longer quality
:sleep. And the enemy
:of dreams.
:I got to tell you, this is
:the alarm clock.
:The alarm clock is the greatest way
:to forget your dreams.
:You can have the best dream.
:Have the alarm clock wake
:you up because it's not a gradual
:exit from the dreamscape.
:You will forget a lot of stuff.
:So I always say to your enemy is the
:alarm clock if you're trying to
:dream.
:And what about writing dreams down?
:Because, you know, I've
:had that's something I do.
:If if there's a dream that I
:think means something.
:And the real like in this reality,
:I write it down.
:And that's oftentimes how
:I'll remember. What do you think
:about that?
:I think it's the most important
:thing because first of all, I say
:write every dream down.
:So I kind of give the instructions
:in my book. But and I say write the
:dreams down and
:categorize them by emotions or how
:you felt.
:So this one made me feel like this.
:This one made me feel like this.
:This one felt very urgent,
:this one. So you kind of categorize
:that based on the feelings
:and you just write it.
:So I encourage people to give
:themselves a good year.
:I'm just writing everything down,
:writing how they felt.
:So it's double journals.
:The journal is one is waking
:up, whether it's the middle of the
:night or in the morning, and you
:write everything down.
:And then another journal is your
:real journal.
:What has happened in your life?
:If you play a little bit of
:detective, you know,
:start like trying to correlate stuff
:you will find that allow.
:When I had that dream,
:that made me feel very clear.
:Two months later, this thing
:happened.
:Then you start correlating them
:because another thing that happens
:is the symbology of the
:dreams are very inaccurate
:and different. So, you know, there's
:all dreams, dream books
:that say if you have a
:snake in your dream or if you dream
:of a snake, it means this, it means
:money or whatever.
:So the symbols for
:some dream interpreters are
:very universal.
:But I don't believe that because I
:believe our subconscious works in a
:very personalized
:way. And why?
:What will mean one thing to you will
:mean something else to me.
:I have a death avatar.
:It's my old bosses as there
:actually two of them old bosses from
:the 90s.
:And when I see them, I just know
:someone's going to die.
:It doesn't matter what the dream is
:like. I don't know what's going on.
:You know, I had a dream like
:three months ago.
:I saw my death avatar.
:There was a bunch of dogs.
:I'm like, okay, I know her.
:She's here.
:Someone's going to die.
:It's either going to be a dog or
:someone with a bunch of dogs.
:And sure enough, one of my really
:good friends who had like three dogs
:died on a two month mark.
:And I feel
:like such a dumb person because I
:did not call him.
:We were supposed to meet, but I was
:like, Gosh, he had dogs.
:Like, what was I thinking?
:But it was a girl in the dream.
:So I just and the people that
:were dealing with his dogs were
:girls after.
:So I got, you know, sometimes
:the dreams help and sometimes
:they're just like, someone's going
:to die or gone to a funeral or
:something, you know, someone's
:having a baby.
:You know, my niece, my cousin's wife
:had a baby.
:And before she got pregnant, like
:getting pregnant, she's like, No,
:I'm not. I said, We'll see whether
:or not she got pregnant.
:Wow.
:And what is this death avatar
:that you see? Like what actually is
:the avatar? What are you seen
:as?
:Literally my boss
:from my back.
:So she's in any dream
:and somebody dies or her husband.
:Her husband was the one who was in
:the back seat of the car and the
:first accident dream.
:And then he just kept showing up.
:And when she died, when
:the actual woman died for real.
:The one whose death. Avatar.
:Lady Flora.
:When Flora died, I wasn't
:sure if from that moment
:on, if I saw her, if it was
:a visitation or if it was going to
:be another death prediction,
:because I thought, okay, now my
:subconscious has maybe concluded
:this chapter. So I had to make sure
:to keep writing down and being aware
:of stuff. But it turns out her
:avatar continues earlier.
:I'm going to jump back a little bit.
:Earlier in the conversation,
:you mentioned the lottery,
:and I had a dream about that before
:it happened in real life.
:And I've interviewed quite a few
:people that have some of them
:have had dreams about it before it's
:happened. One person dreamt of their
:grandmother showing him
:the lottery numbers
:that he was going to win and to
:check the ticket.
:Other people have had all kinds
:of experiences similar, and some
:people actually believe that they've
:manifested it.
:And in media, there's a story
:recently where someone wrote down
:numbers and put it under his pillow.
:He didn't win on those numbers, but
:he was and he doesn't even say
:that he was actively trying to
:manifest. So I can't say that.
:But I have interviewed people that
:believe that they have manifested
:lottery jackpots.
:What's your opinion on that sort of
:thing manifest in luck or
:prizes money in your life?
:Well, I obviously
:everyone manifests it in their lives
:or that they do it intentionally or
:not. So whether
:you had help manifesting
:from your higher self or whether you
:did it very intentionally, your
:manifesting it, there is nothing in
:our lives that we experience that
:is not a direct reflection of what's
:going on within us.
:But sometimes you can manifest
:things consciously or working
:really hard on it, and sometimes
:it's your soul's trajectory.
:Your soul was intending
:for you to have a different
:life that maybe not having money.
:Would not allow you to have.
:So it would give you
:the opportunity to have money from
:this point on so you can pursue
:something else in your life and
:you're not doing the 9 to
:5 like everybody else's.
:It's a really complicated question.
:But if someone is trying
:to manifest.
:The lottery.
:That's a different question.
:You have to look at the different
:facets of.
:Having money. Like, what is money
:mean to you?
:Does it mean freedom?
:Does that mean that you
:are going to have more time?
:Does that mean feeling worthy?
:Does that mean feeling like
:you are better than everyone else?
:It doesn't matter what it is.
:There are certain fast.
:There are certain things that come
:with money, as you know.
:And when you
:manifest something, you kind
:of have to be in alignment with all
:the repercussions of all of that
:as well. So you have
:to have the desires
:and alignment be
:a match to all of it.
:When you want to manifest anything,
:otherwise you will get the money,
:but it will take up more of your
:time. So it's good to be clear
:about why you want to manifest the
:lottery or what you
:want it to do for you in your life.
:Because somebody could manifest a
:lottery in their life changes
:very little. Like they don't
:tell a single soul that
:it doesn't. I don't even I mean, I
:would love to interview on my show,
:find out how life has changed
:for you. It's not like
:I'm going to win the lottery and my
:life is going to be perfect from
:this point on because now you have a
:whole new onslaught of troubles
:or different things that pop up.
:But it's really when one manifests
:money, you have to really think
:about what you want.
:And why is it important
:to have that level of
:what that amount of money in your
:bank account?
:Because I feel like I've won the
:lottery in my life
:and I feel like I've won the life
:lottery.
:And the life lottery
:means I have everything that I need
:when I need it.
:And I have free time when I need
:it. I have self-worth that
:everything that I would assume
:someone wants from the lottery.
:I feel like I have it.
:And I
:was just doing a mantra like I do
:these little things.
:I was like, If I win the lottery,
:can you win? Can I win it after
:my book is released?
:Not before. So every little
:of that dollars that go into my
:pocket feel just a little bit more
:exciting or the success just
:feels a tad bit more exciting
:than it is just adding to
:the ocean of the money that I have.
:So it was funny because I found
:myself not wanting to win the
:lottery because I'm not even playing
:it right now, by the way.
:But sometimes I do play it.
:I don't know. We're under this
:impression that we're supposed to
:come and live the most comfortable
:life possible while we're
:here.
:And a lot of people don't realize
:that that's not what we came here
:for. We came here to transform
:and become more than we were.
:And that requires
:experiences that sometimes
:push our boundaries
:and rediscovering
:our self-worth.
:Knowing who we are.
:And sometimes it's not
:having something that lets
:you gain more
:self-worth or acquire
:more self-worth and meaning
:in your life than just having things
:handed to you. Now, you know, I
:know for sure, you know, by winning
:the lottery, it didn't come with
:your self-worth and all that
:stuff. Like you're not all of a
:sudden.
:You know, there's a lot of stuff
:that's still there.
:You know, I'm sure of it.
:I don't know you. I literally have
:had one conversation with you and
:this is it, that a lot of the issues
:kind of stayed the same.
:But now, you know, your money,
:you know, you have don't have to
:worry about money.
:But we're here to transform rich
:here to grow. And I think
:winning money and having a fortune
:is slightly overrated, in my
:opinion.
:But if you want it, there is no
:reason why you can't have it.
:You just have to like.
:Economy truly from within.
:If you're deliberately manifesting
:anything, just remember mantras,
:manifestation
:boxes, or whatever the heck, they're
:not enough.
:Something within you has to shift
:when something within you shifts.
:The outside world has to
:change itself to match
:and reflect what's happening on
:you, on your insides.
:I guess if you
:want something on the outside to
:change, something has to happen
:inside. There is no going about
:it because if you
:like, this happens a lot.
:People try to manifest money
:in the manifest money and
:they immediately get a bill that is
:equivalent to the money they just
:manifested or they
:manifest something and then it
:disappears right away.
:It's only because they did all
:the steps it requires to manifest
:something that there was no internal
:shift.
:So even though the external world
:shifted long enough for them to
:experience that thing that high,
:it has to revert back to their old
:self. It has to, because
:the world is always reflecting
:what's within.
:And that is so fascinating.
:And that's what spiritual teachers
:and many people do.
:So it sounds very wise that the
:outside reflects what is on the
:inside that we
:are here with Happy Allie.
:He's the author of The Intuition
:Bible How and Why to Tap Into Your
:Inner Wisdom.
:We will put
:links to this book in the shownotes
:or description of this video,
:but happy.
:Where can people find
:more about you and find out more
:about your book?
:Well, my Instagram
:is Happy Insights official,
:so Happy Insights Dot Net
:is basically my website, which you
:can find everything and
:it's everywhere. From Amazon, Barnes
:Noble, Walmart Target.
:You can find my book anywhere
:but just put in Happy Alley or Happy
:insights and I will pop up.
:Yeah, but my Instagram is fun
:because I talk about
:so many different things on how
:to improve your life.
:I talk about manifestation and I
:talk about intuition.
:I talk about the self, how
:I really wanted to create
:a platform where I
:don't just talk about spiritual
:stuff and I talk about scientific
:things too, all related to having
:a better life because
:I had a near-death experience when I
:was 17, which.
:Gave birth to this
:spiritual version of me to the level
:that it is now.
:This is in 1995, and
:I pretty much
:could teach spiritual anything
:by the time, you know, I
:was 20 something.
:But I chose to go back to school
:to get my psych degree because I
:believe that balance
:is key in this world.
:Too many people rely on
:a one sided version of truth
:to be able to navigate
:life, and I feel that
:you always need to at least
:dip into the opposing
:force or idea and find
:your balance in the middle.
:Because whenever you're too
:lopsided, you will fall over
:and there are as many
:realities as there are perspectives.
:But the more you know
:the opposing ideas, the better you
:can find this dance in the middle.
:So that's why I always like to blend
:well. I say spirituality with a
:sprinkle of science because it is a
:sprinkle, but
:it's there. So.
:Yes, you can find the area.
:Link three happy insects everywhere.
:Amazing too.
:And what is the podcast?
:My podcast is called Happy Insights
:Podcast and
:it's basically stuff, everything
:from reincarnation to soulmates
:to dreams to
:aliens, whatever it is.
:And I you know, I have
:I talk about everything.
:And I have fun guests on the show,
:but I'm going to do less guests
:because the guest shows tend to be
:so long as you know.
:Well, this guest show is absolutely
:fascinating and I love the
:sound of that podcast.
:So with your you mentioned the
:near-death experience.
:What was that?
:So it was a self-inflicted
:near-death experience.
:I was supposed to die.
:I was hoping I was going to die.
:And the thing is, I did not try
:to kill myself because life was so
:horrible.
:I just didn't see the point because
:everyone I knew was older than me
:and they seemed to all have the
:same troubles.
:Money, troubles, love of troubles,
:self-confidence, troubles.
:It was always the same thing, same
:topics. And everyone seemed to have
:the same issues, regardless of where
:they were in their lives and what
:they had.
:And so being the 17
:year old that I was, I was very
:curious like, can we just skip
:fast forward and go to the next
:stage of life, which to me is death.
:And so I was just curious.
:I was really curious.
:I was kind of don I was living on my
:own in Los Angeles.
:My family was in Iran.
:And I was just like, all right,
:let's finish us off.
:So after a few attempts,
:one night I decided to
:cook about 100 sleeping pills in
:my spaghetti and eat it,
:hoping that that was going to do the
:trick.
:I don't even know if it was going
:to, so I ate.
:Most of that food was the most gross
:spaghetti I ever had.
:Bitter spaghetti.
:God, I need to get more creative or
:trying to do that again.
:Anyway, so I ate most of my
:spaghetti. I lay down to go to sleep
:and I think I
:was just about
:falling asleep when I heard the
:phone rang.
:And it was my mom.
:It was nighttime in my time zone and
:it was afternoon in her time zone
:and she had an afternoon nap or
:something that she had a dream
:that I wasn't eating well
:and that she was worried.
:So she called me, said I had a bad
:dream.
:You're not eating well.
:Make sure you eat well.
:We are a prophetic dreamer.
:So, yeah, that
:one was a really helpful one because
:what happened was I looked at the
:plate of spaghetti saw.
:It's the little bit of spaghetti in
:the corner of the plate and thought,
:Gosh, I promised my mom I got
:to eat this. So I
:decided to take that last little
:bite. And guess why it was so gross
:that I keep my gag reflex in.
:And I threw
:up everywhere and passed
:out.
:Now, I wouldn't really call this a
:near-death experience if it wasn't
:for the experience because my body
:did not actually my stomach
:got pumped at that moment.
:And I went into
:a state of unconsciousness
:and.
:So technically, my
:body did not go through a
:near death.
:You know, some people die and then
:they have to revive them.
:But my mind and my consciousness
:did, because when I went to sleep,
:I didn't think I was ever going to
:wake up.
:It didn't dawn on me that I just
:puked out all the poison.
:So I had the same
:tapping into higher consciousness
:experience that a lot of people do.
:And I downloaded.
:Lot of information When I woke
:up in the morning, first of all, I
:felt amazing.
:I had never felt so alive
:and incredible, but I just knew
:stuff that I did
:not know the night before.
:I
:First of all, I knew that we were
:all energy. There was no death.
:I knew that we have
:way more power over our lives than
:we could ever imagine.
:I knew the eternity of exist
:of, you know, this world,
:the eternal aspect of
:our existence.
:And I knew that
:we had the power
:to be happy because I went to
:sleep with the question or with
:the intention of I don't want to do
:this because everyone seems to be
:miserable.
:And if it's going to be just that
:for the rest of my life, I don't
:want to do it. And it gave me
:exactly the answer
:that I was seeking, which
:was how to be happy.
:And if the answer was
:the only way to be happy is to
:change your perspective on any
:topic, and you can do it at any
:time or change your focus,
:which was, you know, for me,
:huge at that moment because no one
:had talked about that.
:It was the 90s with not like we had
:an internet and now
:it sounds so plain.
:But at that moment I figured
:out the secret to happiness, which
:was being a master
:of perspective, being
:someone who deliberately chooses
:how to view their life and their
:situation and always
:finding something light
:in the darkness.
:And that was huge.
:But at the same time, I also had so
:many other experiences.
:I was seeing
:energy. I was seeing things happen
:like two seconds early.
:I would see a door open, someone
:walk in, but I'd look at a door.
:It was still closed and then two
:seconds later someone walks in.
:So I was having these
:moments that were not
:explainable.
:You could not explain them with a
:logical mind and that put
:a crack into my reality.
:Just just destroyed
:what I knew before, but with
:answers.
:It wasn't like, here
:now you see, it is.
:There's no answer.
:I had it was like I was plugged into
:something greater. And every time I
:had a question, the answer would
:just come immediately.
:And it was like introduction
:to we are tapped into a greater
:resource and
:we have access to it.
:But you have to be in the mind
:frame.
:What would be a better mind?
:Freedom from me completely releasing
:my attachment to the physical
:world. Now, I don't recommend
:anybody try this because,
:you know, my suicide attempt just
:happened to be the best thing that
:ever happened to me.
:But a lot of people, they don't hit
:that, you know, sweet
:spot. But meditation will get
:a lot of people there because
:what happened to me then is
:something that I teach now.
:And of course, I had to immediately
:change my
:name because I knew it was going to
:be fleeting. Everyone told me, you
:just had an experience, it's going
:to be gone. You're not going to be
:happy for the rest of your life.
:And I said, You know what?
:One day I was like, My name is
:happy.
:And it just stuck.
:And then the people that didn't know
:me didn't know me and people that
:knew me, and it made sense.
:And the people didn't know me.
:It just assumed that was my name and
:I legalized it.
:And so my name
:is legally happy and
:it's been for since
:1995.
:Or, you know, whenever it was, I
:became a citizen because that's when
:I was free to do it.
:But it's been since 1995.
:And.
:It's my only identity.
:So but I love
:it. But, you know, when my son died
:and I wasn't happy anymore,
:I had this, like,
:light, this beacon of light that
:was my name that pulled
:me out of it eventually because I
:knew I couldn't change my name and I
:had to live up to my name.
:So I knew I had to work my way
:back to happy.
:But I got kind of got
:lost into other studies because
:I studied the Kabbalah for eight
:years and all this stuff right
:after. And it was not until I
:discovered the Law of Attraction
:that I realized that what I had
:experienced that night was really
:valid because a lot of the studies
:of I teachings
:of astrophysics and the Law of
:Attraction overlapped greatly
:over the stuff that I started
:writing when I was 17.
:And I knew that if there was
:so much overlap, then it was
:legitimate, you know, And it
:wasn't just me making stuff up, even
:though there was so much proof.
:Everything that I've experienced
:because I am a
:very logical person, I always
:ask for proof after
:I never asked for proof before.
:Because when you ask for proof,
:before you put in the logical mind
:first and the logical mind
:will block anything from happening,
:I have my experiences.
:Then I say, Hey, was this real?
:You know, when my son died and he
:was visiting me, I could feel him in
:my body. It was this incredible
:thing that he would come into my
:body. And then I thought,
:Am I making this up?
:Show me something more, make it more
:dramatic.
:And then, of course, this crazy
:stuff started happening that was so
:dramatic that I couldn't
:you know, it was beyond like,
:things you can make up in your
:imagination.
:So I always ask for proof.
:Eventually. I just don't do it in
:the beginning because sometimes that
:hinders the curiosity process.
:So with when you have spiritual
:communication, when your son comes
:to you, when spirits
:come to you in general,
:how can someone do that?
:Because we spoke on the phone before
:this conversation briefly,
:and you mentioned that you teach
:your sons
:how to connect with spirits,
:how to speak to them
:in dreams.
:What do you mean and
:how can someone do that?
:I don't really teach my sons
:in the way that you say it.
:I kind of say it
:as if this is how life works.
:First of all, my children don't
:understand the concept of
:the separation of life and death.
:For them, it's just one big life.
:Sometimes you're alive and sometimes
:you're healing and sometimes
:you're not. So they've never been
:so married to the concept we were
:just talking about.
:When I die, look for signs.
:You know, we're talking about this
:stuff because I talk about my death
:all the time, because I know it's
:inevitable in their life.
:Hopefully I'm the one that dies
:first.
:But today we were driving
:and one of my sons
:asked me why.
:Skies number is 1143.
:And I said as soon
:as I started talking about his.
:That it was a time he was born.
:And that's why 11.3
:signifies Sky.
:A pathfinder goes by and
:a pathfinder is what
:he died in a Nissan
:Pathfinder. And I said, Well, you
:see that car? That's the car that he
:died in.
:And then, like, the next.
:It wasn't like even two seconds
:after the car, after the license
:plate said, Really?
:And then and then it
:was just funny.
:We were just joking about it.
:And the license plate after
:was five, five, five
:something and 555 was the number
:we had for my best
:friend who died.
:So it was like back to back to back
:to back.
:And I looked at it and I said, hey,
:look. See that these are signs.
:If you don't look for them, you
:won't find them.
:And he's like, What's your number
:going to be when you die?
:I said, You decide that it's not
:important what you, you know, just
:feel it out.
:Just know.
:The one thing I want you to know is
:that when I die, I'm not dead.
:And I'm trying to make sure that
:you're okay. So make sure that
:you're looking out for me or looking
:for me.
:And.
:And to them, that's kind of what
:they know.
:And being with a
:prophetic God as their only
:father, I'm their only parent.
:They, you know, they know that you
:can see the future.
:You know, it's just it's not part of
:their they just know you
:wake up down like, honey, I just
:had a dream when my grandma died in
:a dream.
:We grieved her together collectively
:that day.
:I said, Grandma is dying.
:And two, before I started
:questioning the
:the relevance or the importance of
:that dream. I was like, honey,
:grandma dying in,
:you know, two months and
:I was crying all night.
:And they're like, Why are you crying?
:I'm like, Is Grandma dying?
:But she's not dead.
:But I'm like, Honey, you know my
:dreams. So they're raised with that.
:But for other people that really
:do want to connect, really
:learning what your first first
:of all, what your path of least
:resistance is.
:There are signs you can see signs
:are really easy because in the
:beginning you will just
:know when something reminds you of
:someone and then you can just assign
:that to that person and then just
:keep showing up.
:But for me, I am
:a clear ascension,
:which is I feel things.
:And I was not always this way.
:I did have a persona, which is
:like, you go ten days and you
:you are quiet and you meditate for
:ten whole days.
:And I went there and I lasted five
:days and I came home and I did it at
:home. The persona which I turn off
:the lights and put a little blinders
:on. And I didn't speak to anyone for
:4 or 5 days.
:And about three days in, I started
:feeling stuff in my body, feeling
:energy in my body because that's
:my path of least resistance.
:I started feeling goosebumps in a
:new way, just feeling energy.
:But it was a feeling thing because
:that was my superpower.
:And then later, when Sky
:died, years later,
:like two years later,
:the first time I was able to
:communicate with him when I was
:awake was through my body because
:that was my path of least
:resistance. So I can't tell people,
:Hey, if you're going to feel
:somebody's going to feel this
:incredible sensation
:going through your body, because
:that's just not how it works for
:everybody.
:Had I not done the four day pass
:and had the meditations and
:really fine tuning that I
:would have probably not been a
:person who could feel the way
:that I feel.
:So it is you do have to nurture
:it and discover The first thing you
:can do is I have a meditation in the
:book where I just have people close
:their eyes and have them go through
:a field and touch stuff, field
:stuff, see stuff here, stuff.
:And I always say, you know, whatever
:was the loudest and the clearest
:and crispest is usually your
:first ability.
:So if you're someone who can see the
:flowers and the red flowers
:and just see the sparkle and
:whatever it is, the texture, most
:likely you're more of a clairvoyant.
:And for me, I always feel
:everything.
:So first you got to discover what
:your superpowers are.
:And once you discover your
:superpower, then you have to believe
:in something and then try to make
:some sort of a connection.
:Now, my son would show up, and
:I remember the first time
:he showed up for 20 minutes in my
:body and I could just ask
:yes or no questions and he would
:just buzz more for a yes
:question and buzz less
:or just disappear?
:Kind of.
:What do you mean, buzz?
:Just you felt like buzz or.
:Yeah, imagine, like a goose bump.
:That's like a baby.
:Goosebumps or a big goosebump.
:And then imagine a goose bump on
:steroids.
:Like hardcore.
:You know, the hands in your hair.
:Stand up.
:Imagine if they're like, you
:know, like, kind of like hardcore.
:So it was kind of like that.
:So the goose bump itself lasted
:20 minutes.
:The feeling of having some energy
:inside of you that lasted
:about 20 minutes and that's just not
:really unheard of. I'd never
:experienced that before.
:But it got to a point where I could
:be like, Hey, I'm going to call your
:mom right now and see if she has any
:questions. And she can you can
:buzz. This is so important.
:This is probably the biggest
:thing I could relay.
:When you die, your pure positive
:energy.
:Your frequency is high
:because your body is what the drama
:of life is. What keeps you down.
:When you're grieving, your energy is
:low.
:So usually the communication
:is really difficult because just
:like law of attraction or a radio
:signal, you need to match that
:frequency to be able to communicate.
:So the minute you're super sad or
:somebody, a dead person, will try to
:say hi and they say hi.
:You feel their energy, you get sad,
:you disconnect.
:So that happened.
:I remember the first time Mother,
:my best friend, like entered
:my body for the first time.
:I was so happy because I could feel
:the difference between her energy
:and his energy, and I could tell
:them apart.
:But then I told her after a few
:minutes, I said, I'm really sad
:because I miss you. I remembered you
:so. And as soon as I started crying,
:it was gone. It was like nothing.
:I could feel nothing.
:And I even like
:yeah, you can get.
:So once you open up this doorway
:and you believe and you tap in,
:you can get so creative.
:I wrote a letter to my best friend
:saying, Why did you die?
:And she gave me a full answer.
:The next night she was like, I died
:because, you know, my my soul's
:trajectory with not having children
:and being this, I came to do this
:and I got sidetracked.
:So I had to leave to go back on my
:trajectory.
:Next night, wrote another note
:to my son. Why did you die?
:Very clear answer.
:I came to put a bunch of money
:together and I left to put you on
:your path and not
:me. All of us.
:Very clear.
:So her answer was 1,000% selfish.
:Not in a positive way.
:In a very beautiful way.
:And his was 100%
:selfless in an equally beautiful
:way.
:So it wasn't like I was getting very
:different answers and it was really,
:really amazing.
:But I played with it.
:I toyed with it, I gave it.
:I talk about, you see how I'm
:talking about it right now.
:Guess what's going to happen more
:tomorrow and the next day?
:Because my subconscious wants
:to prove to me that I'm worthy of
:writing this book.
:So because I identify as
:this person, it has to keep bringing
:me more proof
:because it has to keep me balanced.
:Otherwise I will have a nervous
:breakdown and be depressed and won't
:want to do any of these interviews.
:So but one
:time I was just like, I think it was
:January following the
:following January, after the car
:accident, I thought, This is a pile
:of crap. I've just been imagining
:all this.
:I am pretending I'm getting goose
:bumping into my son.
:I'm having dreams because
:I'm a delusional, grieving dad
:like I because I just wanted
:to feel depressed.
:And then that night, I woke
:up because I was drinking a lot.
:Back then, I became a full
:fledged alcoholic
:and I was drinking a lot.
:And then I woke up with two in the
:morning because I had to be so bad.
:And I get up to go to
:the bathroom and I see this figure
:standing next to my bed
:and I'm like, Rachel, Rachel is the
:wife, is that you?
:And I realized that it was Tricia,
:the dead one.
:And also, like Tricia, it is you.
:And I remember that image just
:sounds scary, but it wasn't so.
:I know. Don't be scared by this
:story. This part.
:I see it just come at me
:and jump into my body, and
:all of a sudden my visual field
:is all black.
:And then it starts coming back like
:no TV's no kind of thing.
:And the energy that's in
:my body is beyond anything
:I have experienced to this day.
:It was like 1,000,000W
:inside a thing that could not handle
:that much.
:And I thought my hands were just
:flapping up and down and I was just
:vibrating.
:And I opened my eyes because my
:visual field
:was back to normal.
:And I look at my hand and everything
:is still so inside.
:I'm feeling this loving,
:amazing energy
:that's just beyond anything I've
:ever experienced.
:Undeniably strong.
:And and I'm just
:smiling because I'm like, Wow,
:Tricia, that's you.
:Like, that's your energy level.
:And this is how low I am now.
:I don't know if it was amplified
:because I was feeling like crap that
:night.
:All that was clear was that it was
:very, very real
:and nothing my imagination could
:make up.
:And I remember sitting with her for
:about ten minutes and then
:eventually saying, I got to pee
:because I had to pee.
:That's why I woke up and I
:got up and of course everything got
:back to normal and I went to pee in,
:got her wife and say, Hey, your wife
:just jumped in my body.
:I know this sounds so weird when
:I say it out loud.
:All this crap sounds so weird, but
:it's my life and it sounds
:so normal to me.
:Would you classify that as a good
:temporary possession,
:or would you say that that's just
:more because she wanted you to
:feel her energy or.
:It was, let's just say a big hug?
:I like that because it wasn't
:like I wasn't conscious and or
:aware.
:It was just being filled with love.
:It was the most intense love that I
:have ever felt in my life.
:And their energy is
:way stronger than ours.
:So she just probably just was like,
:Let me give you a little extra.
:You know, just let me just give
:you. Because I was about to go
:on a downward spiral because
:I was literally and I had to take
:care of I was holding people
:up because I was the only one who
:was getting the messages, who was
:receiving all this help.
:Everybody else was in full grief
:and nobody else had this
:help that I had.
:So I feel like maybe there
:was a bigger desire for me to stay
:sane.
:And maybe that was the reason why
:she had to prove that she
:existed.
:And it was all real because
:there was too much there was too
:much going on. I mean, my life is
:living proof that it was real.
:I mean, my twins, one of them has
:curly hair, one of her straight
:hair, like everything is so dead on.
:I even met my twins the morning
:before they were born because she
:went into premature labor, because I
:was always worried I was going to
:lose my children as children
:again.
:And I remember I met them at their
:high school graduation.
:And, you know, one was that less
:scholar and more like
:mental, and the other one was a
:little shit.
:I was I was on a skateboard
:with long hair.
:And of course, I got the same
:exact two boys that
:I woke up and they said, Your
:surrogate's in labor in Mexico.
:Get your butt over there now.
:So I made my way to Mexico,
:and he delivered two tiny
:babies to me in a single hotel room
:when I had a fever.
:It was really fun.
:Happy Allie, the author of The
:Intuition Bible How and Why to tap
:Into Your Inner wisdom.
:Again, the link is in the show notes
:of this if you're listening or in
:the description of this YouTube
:video, if you're watching this on
:YouTube.
:But happy again,
:I know we're running kind of short
:on time here, but again, how much
:where can people find you
:on Instagram and your
:website?
:If you go to a link to be happy and
:sites like all my links are there,
:if you go anywhere, you'll find it.
:But Happy Insights Official is
:my account on Instagram
:and all my links are linked in
:there. My link tree is the best one
:because it has everything.
:You find the book, you can find the
:podcast.
:Yeah. So that's where you can find
:me. Just go to Happy Insights.
:Is there anything else that you
:wanted to say today?
:There's so many questions that we
:could talk for hours, but is there
:anything else that you wanted to say
:today that I didn't ask
:or that you just want to say or that
:I don't know enough to ask?
:The only thing that I would like to
:share with people,
:and I think this is where
:my, you know, as a therapist
:or a hypnotherapist or whatever it
:kicks in, is that always
:like, this is my message that I
:would like to give. Always remember
:that you're not alone and
:just ask for help.
:And you would be surprised how
:many sources,
:how many beings, how many energies
:are there to help you?
:But they can't help unless you ask.
:And that goes with your intuition,
:with your manifestation.
:And if you complain about stuff
:just makes you know all you're going
:to get, like it's going to be
:crappy. So just kind of monitor
:what you're thinking and feeling and
:just make sure that you know that
:you're not alone.
:Most people that I
:work with and I take a lot of people
:down. I do this thing called a hypno
:activation session, and
:I take people, they bring me
:questions like, You have questions
:about yourself, you bring me your
:questions, and then I put
:you under and we go as deep as
:you're willing to go.
:You're hypnotizing people.
:Yes, but they just go as deep as
:their subconscious feels
:comfortable letting some people go
:to the surface layer of subconscious
:and they will go all the way to the
:higher self.
:I take them under and
:then I ask them their own questions,
:seeking advice, and they give
:their own advice to themselves.
:I recommend it to everyone
:who's open enough to try it
:because it's it's life changing.
:It's like ayahuasca without the
:ayahuasca.
:Well, how do you get people into
:that? I know we have to get going
:here, but how do you it's
:interesting. How do you get people
:into that state of mind?
:How do you get them into that
:place?
:Well, that's just basically having
:to explain how hypnosis works.
:So hypnosis is is basically
:when you're right now, when I'm
:talking to you, your conscious mind
:is the, you know, the
:captain of the ship at the moment.
:You know, and the
:I would like to say that the
:subconscious is the crew of the
:ship.
:So there's a lot happening right
:now. But some people I've seen them
:talk to frickin aliens and
:I talk and date their they
:remember their past lives.
:There's so many things I've seen
:so many cool things.
:But the most basic
:version of it is when people just
:tap into their non non
:judgmental, doubtful
:self and give the answers they've
:always known.
:And that's. To me, it's more
:valuable than seeing aliens.
:Well, that is so fascinating and
:inspiring.
:So happy.
:Ali, thank you
:so much for joining the program
:today. Such a pleasure.
:And I feel like this conversation
:could go on for hours, but thank
:you. Back another time.
:But thank you so
:much.
:Yeah. And and the author
:of the Intuition Bible How and Why
:to tap into your inner wisdom.
:We will put links to it below.
:But thank you so much.
:And my God.
:Thank you so much for having me.
:You have to manifest things.
:You have to bring this into fruition
:for yourself.
:And I believe that we hit the
:lottery in different ways.
:How do you manifest something into
:existence, your dream life?
:You have to go and put the energy
:out there. What do you really want?
:What is it that you really want
:to happen? Because what I can tell
:you as a medium is that 99%
:of the things that you worry about
:are never going to happen.
:So why give them your energy?
:There might be a 1% chance
:that you're going to make it, just
:like with the lottery or the
:Powerball or whatever the hell it
:is. But heaven doesn't see
:the 99% chance that you won't
:make it, right?
:Heaven sees that 1% chance
:that you will! You look like you've
:seen a ghost!
:I, I feel like I
:have seen a ghost.
:I didn't quite expect this today.
:This is really incredible.