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I had momentum, then lost it (why I’m starting live)
Episode 128th August 2025 • The Momentum Experiment • Cat Mulvihill
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It’s one thing to start a podcast, but it’s another do record it live. I’m sharing the wake-up call that helped me realize why I lost momentum on my original YouTube channel and what I'm doing differently with this podcast.

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Welcome to the Momentum Experiment podcast. My name is

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Cat and I teach about momentum, how to find it and also

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how to keep it. And if you're not familiar, I developed a

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framework that is called the Momentum Formula and it helps

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people understand the different ways that you can get stuck. Maybe if you're having

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trouble getting started or if you are struggling to stay

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with it, you get started and then you kind of stall again. And, and

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this is something that's a little bit more recent for me. So before

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I started teaching this framework, I was actually teaching virtual presenting,

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primarily on YouTube. And ironically I had some

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real momentum going on that channel for a while and my

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tutorials have actually had over 2 million

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views. But I lost my momentum and I'm going to get

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into that in this episode, share a little bit about what I've learned. I

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had a slight wake up call and that has informed what I'm

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doing now. So I'm going to talk about why I am doing

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this podcast, take you behind the scenes of why I've decided to try

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this format. And when I say this format, I mean recording these

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episodes live, which is not the first one to do it,

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but not a lot of people do it and I think there's a good reason

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why. But I'll. I'll be giving you some insight into

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what happened, what's the instigating moment, and what are some of the things

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I've learned using the Momentum formula in order to make this decision on

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this judgment call. I'm also going to share a little bit about what's next and

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what you can expect because today is the very first episode, so we're going behind

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the scenes. Let's start off with why a podcast?

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Because there are lots of ways that I could share about this concept,

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these ideas, but I do want to get into the why now

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before I do that, there is a case that you may have never actually

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heard of the Momentum Formula, the framework, or maybe you just

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like a little refresher. So I want to explain a little

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bit about it. And the first concept is to understand that when

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you are stuck, if you do not have momentum, there are actually

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three ways you can get stuck. At least that is what I

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believe. So when we think about these roadblocks, the first roadblock you can

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experience is when you have a logical roadblock. It

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you are stuck because you're missing information, you're missing

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skills, you maybe don't have the tools to move forward. So you

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actually can't move forward until you solve that and you fill that gap.

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The next type of roadblock is what I call a biological challenge.

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This is where you are working against how you're

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wired. Maybe you're trying to follow advice or follow a plan that

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just doesn't actually suit you, whether that's how you're wired, your

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preferences, your expectations, then finally

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there's psychological. And psychological roadblocks are

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when you are getting in your own way. So this is more of a

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mental roadblock where you are self sabotaging

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or you're letting fear get in the way. You've got some assumptions

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or beliefs and these are blocking you from making

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progress. And so those are the three different types. And what I

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often see is that almost all of us want to solve

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every roadblock or when we're stuck. Like, it's logical, but because that's

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the thing we're most comfortable with, it's using our problem solving skills. But we

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can often ignore the fact that there's something else potentially going

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on, whether that is working against what naturally works for us,

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or we've got some kind of hidden under the surface fears

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that are going on. So when you have one of these roadblocks,

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you need to approach them and each approach is going to be different. So

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for a logical roadblock, you need a method. This is a clear,

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complete method, including knowing what to do, having the skills

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to do it, and also the tools and the implementation. For a

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biological challenge, you need to address the mode. This is all about

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what works for me, how am I actually wired, what's my style

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of working? And if you think about going, if you've ever been to a fitness

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class where the fitness instructor will say, okay, this is how

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you do the exercise, but here's a modification because not

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everyone has, has moves the same way. Some people have limitations.

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And then finally psychological. This is all about mindset

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and needing to look at your mindset, why you might be holding

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yourself back, what is going on there. And once we address that mindset,

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we can sort of free ourselves from fears that are holding us back.

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So when you have all three of these, the method, the mode and the mindset,

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this is how you find your momentum, but also keep it. Because you can

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be sustainable, consistent, but, but also aligned when you have all

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of these things together. So that is a little preview of,

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okay, this is what the framework is. And when I explain it to people,

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they will often tell me, oh, I get it, but how does

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that work in real life? And they want explanations.

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And so I thought one of the best things I could do

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is share with you examples in the real world, both my

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own and other people's examples of how you actually use this

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framework, how do you use method, how to use mode, how to use mindset in

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order to address these problems, or how do you even figure out which

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roadblock you're facing? Because it's not always obvious on the

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surface. And so when you hear real examples, it'll start to make

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sense. Now, the reason I went with podcast

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is because, well, two main reasons. First

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is unlike my past tutorials, when I would teach tech

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tutorials and presenting gear, I had to show it,

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or if I was doing a tutorial that was step by step, you needed to

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look at the screen so I could show you what to do and you could

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follow along. But with these concepts, they are much more

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audio friendly. This is something that you could just listen to and you don't need

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to be looking at a screen in order to understand these concepts.

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The second main reason is that I would have often conversations with

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friends where I would talk about how I was using the framework in my own

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life. And I have a few friends who would

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are so patient. And they, they would get voice notes from me and I

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would hear feedback like, oh, that's so helpful. This is the kind of stuff

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you should be sharing. And I realized, yeah, they're right.

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It's like having a conversation. So I do want this podcast to feel

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like you're having a conversation with a friend who's a bit of a nerd about

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this stuff and wants to share insight, information, maybe

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ask you some questions that you can consider. But also just share my own experiences

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of how I am taking my own advice and using this framework for

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real challenges. And I will be sharing things that I'm actively

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working on right now that I haven't fully figured out. So

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this podcast is one of those things and it comes down to

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content. So I want to share a little bit about why I've decided to do

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this live. And this decision

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came out of a recent experience I had where

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I was invited to speak to a group of entrepreneurs who

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use YouTube for their business. And I was specifically

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asked to come in so I could talk about my strategy of going

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live, which I used for the first 18 months of my other

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YouTube channel. I went live almost every week. I took a few

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breaks, holidays, summer, etc. But I would go live,

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kind of like I'm doing right now. I would talk at the start,

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talk at the end, but I would, I would just chop out that middle content

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and then that would stay up online on my channel. And as I was

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preparing for this talk, I started to look at the numbers. And I hadn't

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really looked at my numbers in a very long time. And

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when I looked at this, I realized I did the calculation.

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Over the 18 months that I was going live, I averaged

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about three videos a month. So that takes into account times what

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holidays, breaks, et cetera, when I then swapped.

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And I decided I was going to start making recorded content and recorded

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tutorials instead. Over the subsequent two years,

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I averaged 1.3 video a month. That's

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less than half when I switched. And I

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knew that I was not as consistent when I was recorded. I just never really

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looked at it in the face like that when I was looking at those numbers.

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And also at that time, I hadn't developed the framework yet. I didn't

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have the same perspective I have now. So it suddenly became quite

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obvious what was going on. And I'm going to explain

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that to you today because really, it turns out that

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going live works with how I'm wired

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and it suits me really well. Recording video,

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not so much. Not so much. And I'll actually explain

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with the framework in mind and explain these things.

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So one of the things I want to share with the formula is that when

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I say method, I am talking about having a plan. That's another

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way you could say it, but it incorporates three. Three things for

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me, or four. Four things. One is knowing what

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to do so that having the information that you need.

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The other is how to do it. And I think of this as skills. Do

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you actually have the skills? Sometimes we need to practice and it might take a

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little bit of trial and error until you know how to do something. And then

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it's also implementation. So when are you doing this? Where are you doing

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this? And also what tools do you need? When I say

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tools, I do not necessarily mean tech or technology. If you

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are trying to establish a running hab, then tools would

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be an example of running shoes are a tool. You need them to run.

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You also need to know when and where you're going to run. You need to

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know how long you're going for, what's your technique, and then you also have

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to actually get out there and try. So a method, when we're looking

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at something that's complete, that is clear and that's also effective,

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it's going to move you forward. Now, in my case, with creating content and

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sharing content, when I was both going live and

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recording videos, I had a method that was complete. I knew what

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to do, I knew how to do it. I also had a schedule

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for each week that I tried to follow. And I also had

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all of the tools. So I did have a complete method. But I noticed

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that I, when I switched to recorded, I

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started skipping videos that I had planned to make. I would push

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back when I would publish them. I was also taking

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way too long to make the. The videos. They were just

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ballooning to take up just so much more time than when I

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was going live. And so what I realized is the issue is

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actually with my mode. And the mode also has

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four components. Now I use the acronym BEEP when I talk about the

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mode, but this stands for Biology, environment, expectations,

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and Preferences. Now, I'm not going to go deep

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into all of them in particular, actually, I just want to talk about three.

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Three for me for this example. And the first is

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expectations. When I was going live, I would

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tell people, I'm going to be live at this time. And so I would show

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up even if I didn't feel like it that day. Maybe I had a bit

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of a headache, maybe I didn't sleep well. I said I was going to be

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there, other people might show up, so I'm going to show up.

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That was what I would consider a real expectation. And

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it worked. I showed up even when I didn't want to.

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But when it switched to recorded video, that changed.

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I would think, oh, you know, I really, I'm not feeling up to it today.

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I, maybe I can do this next week. Nobody's really sitting there waiting

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for a specific release date. No, I'm just. This is personal to me.

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Some people, their release date, that is an external

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expectation, but for me, it wasn't strong enough. I would just kind of push it

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back and have those excuses. And this is because people are wired differently

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for their expectations. And also highly recommend the

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Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin where she

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explains that we respond to inner and

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outer expectations, where we either tend to meet them or resist them.

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And I am a person who tends to resist inner expectations, but

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I tend to meet outer expectations. So if I have a goal

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and I don't have any outer expectations by creating them,

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like saying I am going to go live at this time, that was

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my way of turning something into an outer expectation

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and just saying I publish videos every Thursday or something. That

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wasn't enough for me when it came to recorded content. The other thing

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with environment is that when I go live and there are actually people

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there, they're in the chat, they're being supportive, they're asking

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questions. That is amazing. For me, it's A way

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to create content that is fulfilling. It lifts me up. I

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love it. It's. It's a sense of community. And one of those things is

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that I. That environment is. It feels

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collective. When I think about the environment of just recording content on your

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own, it can feel really, really isolating as well. So when I looked at environment

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and the way I like to work, I do really like the

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live format. I mean, I'm always someone who has enjoyed running

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workshops, running live classes. And so it's not surprising

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that the environment I would gravitate towards or where I really feel present and

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alive is when other people are around. And then the final one I want to

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touch on today is preferences. And that's just what you like. And

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for me, I love presenting to a live audience. Now,

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many people hate this. I know that I might be an outlier, but I love

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running a workshop or doing a presentation or speaking.

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And so when I would go live, it felt like that. And that's what

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I like. And I like creating content that way. So what I'm saying

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here about the mode is it's all about working with how you're wired.

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And when you have that effective and complete method

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combined with a mode that works for you, it's sustainable.

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If we're working against ourselves, it's like swimming against a current. It's

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like, yes, you could probably make it across the lake

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even if there's a current against you, but you're not going to want to show

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up and do it over and over and over again. And so to be sustainable,

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you want the combination of both of those things. Now, I do want to touch

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on mindset, because mindset is also part of this. And when I

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think about mindset, I like to break it down into, you know, we have

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our why. This is the thing that drives us. I also

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like to use the term desired identity, the person we want to be.

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And a lot of traditional advice says, tap into your why, you need

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to know your why. But a lot of traditional advice also

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sort of doesn't address the question of the why, not that other half.

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And it's this dreaded identity, the person we don't want to be.

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And when it came to my content creation in the past, I think this

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did play a role where when I was going live, I had

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this certain expectation of, I'm showing up, this is

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live, it's interactive, mistakes are going to happen. When I

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switched to recorded content, suddenly you. My mindset

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shifted. And I think that my expectations went up

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where I felt like the Quality had to go up, it had to be

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better, it had to be more polished. I couldn't have mistakes. If it wasn't a

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good take, I should take, I should do another one because this is recorded.

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And I started to put a lot of pressure on myself of what the end

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result should be. And I think part of it is I didn't want to come

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across as someone who's making recorded content for YouTube and

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sucks at it. And I know that that seems like a stretch

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because I've been making content for a while. People were finding it, they were watching

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it, so what's the difference? But in my head, my mindset and my

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assumptions about the difference between live and between recorded, it

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shifted things for me and I think it elevated those expectations.

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Now, I won't get into this in this specific episode,

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but there were other things going on at the time that were affecting me, especially

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with my why. And I started to question, why am I doing this and what

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am I doing this for? And so it wasn't just all mode.

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There were things going on in my life at those times where I was

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inconsistent, where I wasn't showing up regularly. So it wasn't

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exclusively about the content. And I just

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want to emphasize that sometimes there are other things that are going on that are

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playing a factor of why we might be holding ourselves back, but

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that gives you an essence of why.

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Live actually suits me so much better when I look at that mode,

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just showing up, presenting like I'm talking to a live audience,

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which I am right now. And if you are listening to the

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recording, you're welcome to join for the live version. Now,

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the other reason that I was gravitating

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towards this way of creating content, the recording

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live, and then putting up the recording the next day is, is that we

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are currently living in a world that is full, just

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full of AI generated content. And

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there are people predicting that AI generated content is going to, in

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a year or two, it's going to be 90% of the content that's out there.

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That is frankly just frightening to me. But I can already

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see it happening. And even as a consumer, when I go and look at stuff,

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I know that some content of people I admire is actually being

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generated by AI and. And it's getting harder to trust

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what's real and what's not. And I think that by showing up live where

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you could come and be in the chat and I can answer

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questions in real time, so you know it's me that you're actually talking to and

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even if you aren't joining live just knowing that you could be there

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and that that is how I'm recording it. It. I think it just adds an

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element of knowing that, yes, this is me. I am showing

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up and doing this. I am not just entering a script that was generated

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by AI to use my voice and my likeness to create

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content. I am not doing that with this podcast.

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Now, as for this experiment and this whole

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podcast is an experiment that based on my past experience, based on what I know

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about how I work and how I'm wired, my hypothesis is

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that I will be more consistent and I'll also take less

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time because I have that constraint of just showing up

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at at this time. You need to be ready and trusting that the content

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is going to be good enough. We're going to find out if this works as

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well as I think it's going to work. Will I actually be consistent? Will I

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manage my time better? I mean, I guess you'll find out and it helps

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now for what's next. I'm going to be sharing other experiments in my

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life, things that I am currently working on,

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things that I have been struggling with and looking through the

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framework and applying it so you'll get an example of

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this is what it looks like to use the momentum formula in order to

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make adjustments. And it is about testing, it's about trial and error.

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And I'll also use the podcast to dive a little deeper into some of the

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concepts that I've mentioned today and also some concepts I haven't

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mentioned around the framework and how you can use this moment model.

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And I'd love to answer your questions. So if you have questions,

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please let me know. You can leave them in the YouTube comments. I also have

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a forum that I'm going to link to so that you could submit a question.

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And then that way I can also use those questions going forward for this

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podcast. But that's a little look behind the scenes of why I decided

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to do this way, do it this way, why I'm recording the podcast

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live, also just why I'm doing the podcast at all. And I do

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sincerely hope that you will join me for this experiment.

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