What’s holding you back? What’s keeping you from having that big breakthrough in your life? We all desire to have more money so we can have more experiences and take care of the people we love, and be able to give service in the world.

Problem is, most of us have been programmed from a young age to believe that we’re not worthy. That it’s not safe to have money, or there isn’t enough to go around.

Get to a place where you feel worthy.  Your life right now is a reflection of what you’ve been thinking for the last month, year, or lifetime.  What are you programmed to believe? What is your set point?

As your money healer, I want you to do your daily money mindset work.

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So what's holding you back.

What's keeping you from having that major breakthrough in your money,

in your life, in living the dreams that you've always wanted to live.

That's the question that I often ask my clients.

And a lot of times they are asking themselves the same thing, girl,

why am I still in the same space?

What is holding me back?

So I wanted to dive in deep with you guys and share some of the things

that I've just learned over the years.

That keep my clients from living their most rich and worthy lives from getting

the job promotion from going on the trip of a lifetime from having the

money that they desire in their bank account, from being able to do the

things that they really want to do, like have someone cook their meals, have a

regular housekeeper, have investments and savings and feel like a grown as loving.

So, and that's what we all desire.

We all desire to have more money so we can have more experiences and we can

take care of the people we truly love.

And we want to be able to do it in a way that gives service

and purpose to this world.

We want to be able to do it in a way that is easy.

That is loving.

That is.

All about who we are.

Right.

We want to be ourselves in a process.

So here's what I'm finding that.

The things that really keep women and hold us back from having all the things that we

desire when it comes to our money world.

It really is our core beliefs.

It's our mindset.

It's the things that we were programmed to believe and think when we were a child,

it's a things that we saw our parents do and how they behaved around money.

It's the scarcity mentality, you know, like there won't be enough for me.

It's also not feeling safe.

A lot of times opportunities come the right person comes.

The idea comes and it doesn't always feel safe or good to go for it.

When your mind has been programmed to believe that you're not worrying.

So the first thing that we must do is get in a space of feeling worthy, feeling

like we deserve more, you know, and it's interesting because I hear women all the

time, especially in my business women, very powerful women who say things like,

you know, I've done my mindset work.

You know, I don't need to work on that.

I've been to therapy.

I've healed that piece of my life.

And that may be true.

You may have healed it to a certain degree.

But when you're desiring more, I beg you.

I ask you, I plead with you, look at where you are now.

Your life is a reflection of all the things that you thought about last month.

Last year, literally, whatever is showing up now, that is the true,

true thing that we can measure to say what I've been thinking about,

what I've been programmed for.

So you can have a business, but that business gets to a

certain point and it stops.

It stops growing and stops producing.

You're noticing you're making a hundred thousand every year or

200,000 every year or 80 K a year.

We all have set points, right?

We have set points and our weight, our body gets used to a certain.

And in order to move it, to lose the weight, to get to a new set point,

you have to do some different stuff.

You got to do different exercises.

You got to shake it up.

You got to tell your body.

No, it is not the way we go on.

We about to do this.

And that's the same.

When it comes to our money, our money mindset has to shift.

We have to shake it up.

We have to retrain it.

So rewiring your brain for success is a real thing.

You know, when you see folks in there, they now are millionaires,

but they used to be thousand.

They're just like, you, you like, what is this?

How did they jump?

I guarantee you, they didn't jump levels, their strategy,

all those strategies important.

They jumped levels by literally changing their money mindset.

So in rewiring the brain, you can go really.

Or you could go really fast.

I love to take my clients the fast route and the reason why is because hill lots

of my clients are 40 plus years old.

Okay.

They don't have the luxury of investing at 20 and then seeing the results

of it at 65, they need to get there.

Now they need to get there now.

So the fast way is to programming.

Raise our vibration.

Now change our mindset.

Now create some numbers that almost scare us.

Now have experiences that we really desire now embody what we want to be now.

The slow way is we're going to save $50 a month.

We're going to put that in an investment.

We're going to bump up that $50 to a hundred dollars next year a month.

We're going to scrimp.

We're going to save.

We're going to do all of these things of cutting out our coffee.

I'm not getting a Starbucks that we want all of these things to

get to where we need to be now.

Am I opposed to saving hell?

Savings is huge, but it's also how you think about it.

It should be sexy.

It should be fun.

Saving and investing should come from a place of sexiness.

It should come from a place of abundance.

Yeah.

That's the word.

It should come from a place of abundance.

Whereas if you're trying to save, you're even wanting to invest out of scarcity.

You're not going to produce what you desire to produce that fearful mind

will take you back to your set point.

It will take you back to where you always were because that's

where you're comfortable.

So in working with me, one of the things that I work to do with my

clients is to get you feeling more comfortable with more experiences, more

desires, being realized, and being more comfortable with making more money.

When you start to make more money and you start having money in your experience and

is showing up more regularly, guess what it's easier for you to save is easier

for you to invest when having multiple streams of income becomes your norm.

Money is all around you, you, and you know, it is a predictable factor guests.

You can do any and everything at that point.

So just in talking about this inherent ness, I just kind of want

to end this episode with saying.

Money mindset is everything.

And it definitely comes before we create that amazing strategy for

whether that's your retirement or for whether that is your business that we're

going to explode, or what have you.

Money mindset is where you want to start.

It's your daily exercise.

People ask me that all the time is.

How often should I be working on his money mindset thing.

And I say, every day, every day, I want you to move your body and I want you

to walk and I want you to exercise.

If I was your personal trainer and every day I would want you

to eat good and nutritious meals.

You know, if I was your nutritionist and every day, I want you to writing

your journal or do your meditation.

If I was your therapist and as your money Hiller every day, I want

you to do some money mindset work.

We are working to rewire your brain and get you where you desire to be.

And I want you to know you can get there now.

You're not bad with.

You are not bad with money, you just kept yourself safe.

You did what felt comfortable.

What allowed you to fit in with your family?

What kept you safe from standing out too much from your friends?

What?

Even probably protected a lot of your gifts, but in this season,

And this right now, it's time for you to stand up and stand out.

And that's going to all start with money mindset until next time I love you.

My friends go out and live a rich and worthy life.