This podcast episode delves into the profound themes of love, redemption, and trust as illustrated in the book of Ruth. Pastor Josh Massaro emphasizes the vital lesson of patience and faith in the face of uncertainty, highlighting Ruth's reliance on Boaz as her kinsman redeemer. The discussion unfolds around the significance of trusting in God's promises, even when circumstances seem challenging. Pastor Josh draws parallels between Ruth's experience and our own relationship with Christ, reminding listeners that true peace comes from knowing and relying on God’s sufficiency. As the episode progresses, it encourages the congregation to embrace stillness and faith, even amidst life's trials, and to recognize the ultimate hope found in Christ as our redeemer.

The podcast delves into the profound story of Ruth, highlighting the themes of love, redemption, and the role of the kinsman redeemer. Pastor Josh Massaro articulates how the narrative is not just a tale from the past but a vivid depiction of God's promise and provision for His people. He explains that a kinsman redeemer is someone who steps in to restore what has been lost, drawing an analogy to the ultimate kinsman redeemer, Jesus Christ. The discussion emphasizes Ruth's act of faith as she approaches Boaz, showcasing her courage and trust in God's plan amidst her dire circumstances. Pastor Massaro encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives, considering how they might lean into their faith during times of fear and anxiety. He reassures them that just as Boaz offered Ruth security and provision, God extends His promises to His children, urging them to trust in His sufficiency even when situations seem bleak. The message resonates powerfully with the audience, reinforcing the importance of waiting on the Lord and recognizing His work in their lives, even when the outcome is uncertain.

Takeaways:

• Ruth's story illustrates the importance of trust and patience in difficult circumstances.
• Boaz exemplifies the role of the kinsman redeemer, reflecting Christ's love for us.
• We often struggle with anxiety, yet God invites us to come to Him for peace.
• It's essential to remember that God's timing is different from our own expectations.
• Faith is not just belief; it involves actively trusting in God's promises.
• The peace of God surpasses understanding and can guard our hearts in turmoil.

Links referenced in this episode:

• middletownbaptistchurch.org
• joshmissaro@middletownbaptistchurch.com

Hello and welcome to the Middletown Baptist Church podcast, where we are proclaiming the truth to the world.

My name is Pastor Josh and I want to thank you for listening to this podcast.

I hope that this podcast can be a blessing to you and strengthen you in the word of God.

Now come along.

Let's look into the Bible and see what God has for us here today.

All right, we're going to continue our study in the book of Ruth.

If you have your bibles, turn there with me.

Ruth, chapter three.

We're going to pick up where we left off last week.

If you weren't here last week, I'll try to catch you up with where we are in this story.

The story of Ruth is a story of love.

It's a story of redemption.

And we're seeing the picture of the kinsman Redeemer.

Now, if you don't know what the kinsman redeemer is, it's an individual that redeems another individual in their loss.

And so we see Ruthenhenne, who has lost their husband.

And in this culture, losing your husband means losing your security, losing your income, losing the future promise that you had with that relationship.

And so what would happen, and God instilled this, was that the closest family member to your deceased husband would then take you in, take care of you, give you security, give you income, give you provisions and all that.

And what we're going to see here in the story is that Ruth goes to Boaz and basically petitions him in faith to be her kinsman Redeemer.

She hears from Naomi that Boaz is her relative, a close relative.

So she says, this is great.

This is an opportunity.

And so we looked at last week Ruth's proposition, her proposal to Boaz, to marry her, to give her security, to give her salvation, if you will.

And the picture of that is the picture of what Jesus does for us and the fact that he is our kinsman Redeemer.

We come to him in faith for salvation.

We come to him in faith for security.

We come to him in faith for provision.

We come in him with faith so that he can do all the things that he promises us.

And so what does Boaz do?

Boaz comes back to Ruth and he says, yes, Ruth, I will do that.

I will keep that role in my life as the top focus that I have.

I will take care of you.

If you go back, you'll see it there in verse number eleven.

He says, and now, my daughter, fear not.

And so the remedy to her anxiety, the remedy to her fear, was that relationship with Boaz.

And we know the remedy to our fear, the remedy to our anxiety, our concerns, would be to come to a relationship with Christ.

And the Lord tells us, don't fear.

Fear not.

And we know that in two Timothy, chapter one, verse seven, God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

And so a lot of times in her life, our circumstances are realistic.

They're real.

They're real difficult circumstances.

Ruth was in a real spot.

She was in a real difficult position.

But because of her relationship, or at least in this case, her future relationship with Boaz, Boaz reminds her, don't fear.

And that's sometimes what happens to us in our own christian life.

We've got circumstances and difficulties and loss and pain and what have you, anxieties and all of that.

But what God says is that a relationship with me will bring you peace, it will bring you confidence, it will bring you hope.

And so therefore, there's no reason to fear.

And so Boaz says, fear not, I will do to thee all that thou requirest.

All that thou needest, essentially, is what he's saying.

Everything that you need, I will be there for you.

And that's what God says to us.

And it's important to remember the sufficiency of Christ in your life.

Sometimes as an individual, we think about this understanding.

At least I'll speak for myself that you know what?

I know that God is good.

I know that he loves me.

I know that he's all powerful.

But in my situation, I'm not sure if he's going to handle it.

I'm not sure that he's going to work it out the way that I think he should work it out.

And really what we're doing is we're not putting our sufficiency in Christ.

We're putting our sufficiency in worldly wisdom, in what makes sense to us on paper or what makes sense to us in a circumstantial event.

And so what the Bible tells us is that what Jesus Christ does for us is sufficient in every way.

And that's what Boaz is telling Ruth here.

But in this promise comes an issue, the issue of a problem, verse number twelve.

And now, it is true that I am thy near kinsman, but this is what we left off with last week.

Howbeit there is a kinsman nearer than I.

And so we leave off last week with a lot of optimism, a lot of promise, a lot of hope.

But now we see that there is a problem that is presented to Ruth and to Boaz, and that is that there is a nearer kinsman, a closer family member.

Now, what does that mean?

That means that Boaz does not necessarily have the right to claim this kinsman redeemer position unless the closer relative gives up that right.

And so we're going to see that exchange happening here in the next few verses.

But until then, what happens?

Well, Ruth has a chance to trust in her kinsman Redeemer or to fear.

She has a chance here to trust and to wait and to be patient or to be anxious and running and trying to manipulate situations.

There's a lot of things that she could do here in this case.

But let's see what happens here after Boaz tells her, hey, there's a closer relative.

And so there's another kinsman Redeemer.

That's possibly the one that could take this relationship.

But the problem is for Ruth and for Boaz is they've already expressed their love for each other.

There's already been this unveiling of their heart to each other.

And that's what we looked at last week in that proposal.

If you would like to read through that, you can.

There might be some confusion if you don't know the context.

Essentially, Boaz wakes up in the middle of the night and there's a lady laying at his feet, and he's like, what are you doing?

And it's dark.

He's like, who are you?

And she goes through this whole spiel about basically how she wants him to marry her, to redeem her.

And so this is what he says at the end of verse number 13.

He says, tarry this night, meaning wait, wait tonight, and it shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well, let him do the kinsman's part.

Meaning this is out of our control.

This is out of our hands.

We have to kind of let this play out.

So be patient.

But then he says something very interesting here.

He says, but if he will not do the part of a kinsman to thee, then will I do the part of a kinsman to thee.

As the Lord Liveth, lie down until the morning.

So he's essentially telling her, we have to trust God if this is going to come to pass, if God opens this door, if God allows this to happen, then we're going to run right through.

And so this is going to be a picture of patience.

This is going to be a picture of trusting.

And that's a word that I want you to think about here this evening, trusting God in his promises, in the midst of difficulty, in the midst of a problem, in the midst of a difficulty that could possibly lead to us not receiving what we expect we should receive.

And so, you know, God tells us that he loves us.

God tells us that he's never going to leave us.

God tells us that he's never going to forsake us.

But sometimes there's situations in our life where we're tempted to doubt that.

And what does God tell us?

God tells us to wait, to be patient.

There's another passage of scripture that we could cross reference with this, and that's in psalm 46.

Most of you know this verse, but if you don't know this verse, it's a wonderful verse to deal with when we're going through a time of crisis in our life, a time of uncertainty, a time of waiting, possibly.

Psalm 46, verse number ten, says, be still and know that I am God.

I will be exalted among the heathen.

I will be exalted in the earth.

So God's command for us in the midst of a crisis is to be still, to be patient, to trust in him, to trust in his word, to trust in his ways.

Now, if you know the context of psalm 46, it's all about chaos.

It's actually not a peaceful situation that the psalmist is in right there.

A lot of times people will read psalm 46 and they'll get to verse number ten and they'll think, well, be still and know that I am God.

That is all about when God gives you a peaceful moment in your life, then you can just thank him for that.

That's not what he's talking about here.

A few weeks ago, Brother Chris Phillips, our special speaker for our marriage conference, was talking about this very thing.

And he says, when God tells us to be still, it's not saying, hey, be still in this peace.

It's saying, be still in the midst of the storm.

Very similar to when Jesus is on the water, right with his disciples and the storm's coming.

What does he say?

Peace.

Be still.

So it's peace in the midst of chaos.

And I think a lot of times in our life we're waiting for peaceful circumstances to have peace.

But the Bible doesn't say that's what happens.

The Bible actually says that we can have peace in the midst of a difficulty.

So we go back to Ruth, and Ruth is now in a crisis moment.

She's in a moment of saying, now I've shown my love for Boaz.

Now I have my heart set on this kinsman redeemer.

This other guy, I don't know.

This other guy I don't want.

But now, possibly God might change the path.

God might change what's going on.

And so she's got to trust.

And I want you to think about that here this evening.

This understanding of trust.

The Bible says in Hebrews, chapter eleven, verse six that it's impossible to please God without faith.

You cannot please God without faith.

And so what is faith?

Well, a lot of times we'll say faith is believing in something that we don't see, which is true.

But faith is also tied together with trusting, right?

I can say all day what I believe, but until I truly trust in what I believe, I'm not really having faith.

You've heard the classic analogy of the chair, right?

The chair is there.

I believe that that's a chair.

I believe that chair can hold me up.

But until I sit in that chair, that's actually the action of trust.

I'm trusting and displaying my faith that that chair will hold me up.

And so we say that we trust God, or at least we say we believe that God is who he says he is.

Well, it's that trust that proves that faith.

And so here Ruth has a chance to express confusion, express doubt, or express trust and faith.

And so what happens?

Verse number 14.

And she lay at his feet until the morning.

And so Boaz and Ruth are not doing anything inappropriate, but they're just here waiting till the morning.

And she rose up before one could know another.

So she gets out of there.

And he said, let it not be known that a woman came into the floor.

Now, Boaz and Ruth were not trying to hide anything, but it was just that Boaz didn't want this near kinsman to learn what Ruth had done.

Basically like, hey, let's let God figure this out.

Let's not try to manipulate this.

Let's not try to get in the mind of this other guy.

And so verse 15.

And he said, bring the veil that thou hast upon thee and hold it.

And when she had held it, he measured six measures of barley and laid it on her, and she went into the city.

So he gives her something as she goes.

And I think that this is a picture of how God expects us to trust him.

In most cases, when God gives us a promise, he's going to give us a provision in the midst of that promise, right?

So what?

Boaz makes a promise to her.

He says, let's trust.

Let's let this play out.

I will take care of this.

I'm going to go to the other kinsman.

I'm going to take care of this for you.

You don't have to worry about this.

He says, here, take these provisions and go.

And that's what God does to us.

When he's asking us to trust him, he's saying, look, I've given you all these provisions in your life.

Now trust me in the midst of this doubt.

Trust me in the midst of this darkness.

And so he says, I will perform it.

I will do this.

I will take care of this.

And so, just as Boaz is doing all the work for Ruth, so does Jesus do all the work for us in the midst of our salvation, in the midst of our doubts, in the midst of our loss, in the midst of our hope that we have.

And so, verse 16.

And when she came to her mother in law, she said, who art thou, my daughter?

And she told her all that the man hath done to her.

So she explains all the stuff that happened between her and Boaz.

And she said, these six measures of barley gave he me.

For he said to me, go not empty unto thy mother in law.

And this is the truth.

I mean, sometimes we feel like we're empty.

Sometimes we feel like we are without.

But God always gives us everything that we need.

Philippians, chapter four.

Paul says, God, my God, shall supply all your need.

And so when God is making us go through something, or at least allowing us to go through something, he's always going to give us the provisions that we need to get through that struggle, even though it might not feel that way sometimes.

But he's given us enough in his word.

He's given us enough in his presence for us to understand that we can trust in something.

It's not like God just leaves us out on a ledge and doesn't give us truths in his word so that we can trust in that.

The word of God is a rich depth of faith that we can have in the concept of, hey, this is what we go back to.

God tells me all these things, and so I can go back to that.

And I think that that's important to realize when we're coming to this understanding of trust and faith.

Right?

Faith cometh by hearing.

This is Romans chapter ten, verse 17.

Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God.

And so if you want to grow in your faith, you have to grow in the understanding of what God's word says.

It's always linked together.

You can't just grow in faith by saying, well, I'm just gonna try harder.

I'm just gonna, like, really pull myself up on my bootstraps and keep trying.

The truth is that when we don't have that proper object of faith, we're never gonna have solid faith.

We're never gonna have a solid footing.

Like, I put my faith in a lot of things sometimes, and probably not the greatest things to put my faith in.

You know, there's been times I don't know about you, I don't like heights, but sometimes I've climbed up on some ladders that probably weren't very trustworthy.

Okay?

I probably shouldn't have trusted them, and I probably shouldn't have gone as high as I did on that ladder.

The truth is, is that sometimes we put our faith and trust in something that is really not reliable.

But the truth is that when God calls us to do something, and when he asks us to do something, it's the most reliable thing.

And the reason we can have that proof is through his word.

And so she says, I have what I need here.

He didn't leave me empty.

Verse 18.

Then she said, this is Naomi's advice to Ruthenhenne, which at this point in time, Naomi is giving good advice.

She wasn't giving good advice back in chapter one, okay?

If you remember back then, she was telling Ruth to stay in Moab.

Keep worshipping your idols.

Even further on, Naomi said, hey, I'm bitter.

God's taken everything away from me now.

Naomi's perception has changed, and now she's a lady that's giving wonderful advice.

She says, sit still, my daughter.

That's reminiscent of that psalm 46 passage.

Be still and know that I am God.

She said, there is a time in the midst of a struggle that you have to sit still and trust in your kinsman redeemer.

And that is one of the hardest things to do.

One of the hardest things to do is just sit and be patient and wait for God to do his work.

A lot of times, we want it right now.

We live in that society.

We live in a smartphone society where everything, we can just pull it up, and that's access.

Right now.

Right now, I guarantee you.

But let me say it this way.

Yesterday my phone stopped working.

Okay?

It stopped working.

About 430.

I don't know what it was.

It popped up all these error codes, and I didn't have reception.

You know what?

I think it was like 430 by 438.

I was at the Verizon store, okay?

I'm like, I gotta have my phone.

Okay?

This is my access point.

This is where I do everything this is where I do my work.

This is where people communicate to me.

So I drove over there and they fixed it for me, and I got out, and I was like, peace, right?

But for those eight minutes, I was stressed because I'm like, someone could be reaching out to me, right?

And I started realizing, what, you know, where have I gotten to in my life where I'm so reliant on this now?

There are reasons for that.

My wife was out with the kids somewhere else, and I didn't have a way to contact her, and I was concerned that she might need me.

So there are things.

It's not like I was just playing games on my phone and I couldn't take eight minutes without it.

I just wanted to make sure that my wife wasn't traveling and needed something.

But anyway, the concept of this immediate gratification has caused us as believers to struggle with this understanding of being patient and waiting on God to do his work.

Sometimes God is going to do it in his timing, and most of the time, our timing is not God's timing.

Like, come on, lord, when are you going to do this?

When are you going to work this out?

And so, for her, this was just one evening, but it probably seemed like an eternity.

But Naomi says, sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall.

She essentially tells her this advice, don't stress about it till it actually comes to pass.

There's nothing you can do right now except for trusting in God, praying, giving it over to him.

And I want you to see another passage of scripture that ties so well into this, and that's Philippians chapter four.

We've already mentioned in Philippians chapter four the principle of God providing needs.

But in Philippians chapter four, we also see this idea of prayer and giving it over to God in the midst of anxiety.

I know for me a lot of different things bring me anxieties and concerns and tempt me to not trust in God.

But whatever it is for you, Philippians chapter four, verse six, says something very interesting.

It says, be careful or I be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving.

So we're asking in faith, let your request be made known unto God.

So the Bible tells us what to do when we're being still, and that is to bring our requests, our struggles, our anxieties, our cares over to God with thanksgiving.

Meaning, Lord, you're gonna do what you're gonna do, and I know it's good.

And do all that.

And what does it say in verse number seven?

And the peace of God which passeth all understanding.

Meaning no one can understand this outside of those who are in Christ.

And the peace of God which passeth all understanding shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

And so in the midst of conflict or the midst of crisis, or in the midst of anxieties, what do we do?

We turn it over to the Lord.

Be careful.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, let your request be made known unto God with thanksgiving.

And therefore, the product of that patience is what peace?

The peace of God.

And so that's an amazing product of that patience.

And we even see that in Galatians, we see the fruit of the spirit.

One of the elements of the fruit of the spirit would be in the King James.

It says long suffering, which is a good way to describe patience, suffering long.

But the Bible says that there is this understanding that when we're in the spirit, we're more able to be long suffering and be patient and wait upon the peace of God.

And so we go back to Ruth and we see Naomi giving Ruth this same advice.

Basically this sit still, wait, allow God to work out this matter, for the man will not be in rest.

So she contrasts Ruth's role in this problem and Boaz's role.

What's Ruth's role?

Sit still, be patient.

Trust.

What's Boaz's role as the kinsman Redeemer?

Well, this man will not be in rest until he have finished the thing this day.

Meaning Boaz is the one doing the work.

Boaz is the kinsman redeemer.

Let him do the thing that he does.

And that's what it means for us as christians to say, let God do his work.

Trust in him, trust in his goodness, trust in his holiness, trust in his power, trust in his provision.

And say, you know what?

I can't stress about this.

This isn't my issue.

There are certain things that we should have concern over things that we're doing in our life, about the actions that we do and the reactions that we have.

But really, sometimes there's going to be things that are outside of our control that we can't stress about because that literally will bring us to a place of selfishness, pride and anxiety.

And then that will lead to a very negative place because we're thinking it's all about us.

We're thinking it's all on us.

And really the truth is that the Bible tells us that our salvation, our redemption, is not on us.

It's ultimately on the Lord.

And so we see a transition from verse 18 to verse one.

And you know that the chapter divisions are there for organization.

So the story continues on, and we got to see what happens in verse one, because now we shift focus from Ruth and her challenge of patience and prayer and peace to now the kinsman Redeemer, what he's doing, and that's Boaz.

And so verse one says, then Boaz then went Boaz up to the gate and sat him down there.

Now, a lot of people might ask the question, maybe you don't.

Maybe you didn't catch it, but, like, why is he going to the gate?

There is great significance to the gate.

The gate was the place where everyone that was any importance would go to.

It wasn't just the gate of the city.

It was the place where a lot of matters would be judged.

It would be the place where all the powerful men would sit, all the wise men.

And people would come with needs, they would come with concerns, they would come with conflict.

It would be a place of trade.

It would be a place where people would sell their wares.

And when I was in Israel, if we could actually throw up, I have a picture up there.

Hopefully you guys can find it.

It's on the slides there.

When I was in Israel, we actually got to go to one of these gates, and the words weren't there.

If you could take those words down, you can see the gate there.

Yeah, we'll get it up there in a second.

It's going to be hard for you.

I'm the one in the very middle, the dark blue there.

Not that it matters, but if you can tell there's a wall there, and then there was like a bench that the people would sit.

So they said, when we're in Israel, they're like, all right, all the pastors, all the wise men.

Okay, we want you to go sit.

So that was all the pastors on our tour, and we all sat down there.

But it's interesting how it would go, because basically it would be like an l shape.

They would go in.

There would be like a bench, and then they would come around.

And so there would be security there as well.

And so that picture is just kind of showing you what it would have been like.

Boaz is going, and he's sitting at the gate waiting for this other man who would have been probably wealthy, well, to do powerful.

He would have gone through that gate as well.

And so he knew that this was a place where this person would be.

So he's in the place that he should be.

So you guys can go ahead and take that down if you want to know more.

If you want pictures about stuff I was doing in Israel, I'll try to throw them up when I can, when they're applicable.

That was, I believe, at the same time of Dan.

That's in northern Israel.

But anyway, so that's the gate.

That's the gate that he went to.

Not that specific gate, but a gate like that.

And he sat down there and behold, the kinsman of whom Boaz spake came by.

So now here's his moment.

Boaz is going to petition for Ruth, but he can't just say, I want Ruth and you don't want her, because the rightful thing for Boaz to do, the honorable thing is to offer it to him.

That's what he has to do if he's an honorable man, which we see, Boaz is an honorable man.

And so Boaz comes in and then what does he say here?

This is a really interesting thing.

He says, ho such a one.

Now that's an interesting thing to say.

If you were to put it in our terms today, it basically means mister so and so.

He doesn't say the name.

And a lot of commentators would say, why doesn't he say a name?

He obviously knew this person.

A lot of commentators would say that this person doesn't get the honor of having his name in scripture because of his, his act that he does here.

Basically, he denies his responsibility.

And we're going to see this come to pass here.

So he misses the opportunity to be the kinsman redeemer.

And so therefore he doesn't get any honor here.

So we have a guy named Boaz who is going to get the honor because of his responsibility and his faith and his trust and his action.

And then we see this other guy who had the opportunity and selfishly turns it down so he gets no recognition here.

Ho such a one.

Turn aside.

Sit down here.

And he turned aside and sat down.

So he's going to get his attention here.

He's going to come to this place where he's going to petition.

And, you know, I think that this was probably at least if I was Boaz, I would be nervous, right?

Because now Boaz is like, great, I have a wife, but now I got to get this guy to not take her as a wife, right?

So this is, this is, there's a lot at stake for Boaz here because remember, Boaz is nothing.

A perfect kinsman redeemer, like our savior is a perfect kinsman redeemer.

So Boaz still has flaws.

He's still a human being.

And so Boaz is going to basically explain it.

But before he does that, we see him again.

Being an honorable man, he brings witnesses.

Now, why does he bring witnesses?

Well, very similar to why we would bring witnesses.

So there would be people that were watching, so that there would be people who could vouch for what is said here.

And so he took ten men of the elders of the city.

Again, picture in your mind that gate, okay?

That gate with everyone sitting there.

He says, hey, ten of you, come here.

Listen to this.

And he says, sit ye down here.

And they sat down.

And he said unto the kinsman Naomi, that is, come again.

Out of the country of Moab selleth a parcel of land which was our brother Elimelech's.

And I thought to advertise thee, saying, buy it before the inhabitants and before the elders of my people.

If thou wilt redeem it, redeem it.

But if thou will not redeem it, then tell me that I may know, for there is none to redeem it beside thee, and I am after thee.

And he said, I will redeem it.

Now, you might say, what's going on here?

He didn't mention anything about Ruth.

Well, there's actually a few elements to the Kinsman Redeemer.

It's not just about a spouse being reunited with the family, but it's also about the land to be reunited to the family.

So the kinsman redeemed are played different roles.

He was also the person who would redeem the land.

He would buy back the land.

And so, for whatever reason, Boaz presents the land first.

He says, hey, there's some land that you can acquire because you're the kinsman redeemer.

Would you be willing to redeem this?

Because Naomi's well past her age of childbearing, and so he doesn't mention Ruth here.

He only mentions Naomi.

And he says, naomi has some land.

Would you redeem it back?

And what guy wouldn't want in some land, right?

He was like, great, I will do it.

I will redeem it.

And probably in Boaz's heart, you know, at least sometimes we don't want to speculate, but in my heart, if I was Boaz, I'd be like, oh, no, my heart would have sunk.

When he says, I'll redeem it, I'll do it, because it's a package deal.

With the land comes Ruth.

With the land comes being a husband.

And so we're going to see here that he's going to add more to it.

Then said, boaz, what day thou buyest the field of the hand of Naomi, thou must buy it also of Ruth, the Moabitess, the wife of the dead, to raise up the name of the dead upon his inheritance.

So he says, well, there's more to the story.

You're going to get some land, but you're also going to have a wife, a Moabitess wife, for that matter.

And we see this man, we don't know his name again.

And so, selfishly, I believe he says, great, I'll take the land, of course.

But when the wife is thrown in, we see him backpedal.

We see him go, whoa, that's not for me.

So selfishly, he didn't want to do that work.

He didn't want to go that far.

He wanted the benefit of the land, but he didn't want to do the work truly as a complete kinsman redeemer.

And the kinsman said, I cannot redeem it for myself.

And we see more to his heart in his explanation here.

He says, lest I mar mine own inheritance.

So he says, hey, I was willing to gain something from this, but I'm not willing to sacrifice anything.

I'm not willing to give up any of my inheritance, because probably he had children that he needed to delegate the money to and give that money to eventually.

And he's like, no, I don't want to lose anything that I have already.

I'm not willing to sacrifice.

This is a perfect picture of every other thing in the world that people put their faith in, right?

There is nobody or nothing that's willing to sacrifice for you or at least give up their life.

Jesus is the only kinsman Redeemer who said, look, I'm willing to put my life on the line for you.

I'm willing to die for you.

And so this is a picture of a willing kinsman redeemer, willing to sacrifice.

Boaz is the one willing to sacrifice.

This other fellow is not willing to sacrifice.

He says, that's going to marden my own inheritance.

Redeem thou my right to thyself, for I cannot redeem it.

So Boaz's heart goes down, and then it goes back up, because this man says, look, I want to redeem it, but if it means losing my inheritance, not going to happen.

You can take it.

You can have this.

And I think that's a beautiful picture of the relationship that we have to Christ.

He is the only one who offered that sacrifice for us.

And then so many times we turn to these things in the world that we think are going to give us hope and peace and salvation.

But let me tell you, none of those things ever, ever gave you the sacrifice of life.

I used to tell the teenagers this all the time, but I could say this to adults.

Those people that are putting out content on the Internet and Hollywood and whatever, they don't care about your well being.

They want your dollars, they want your attention.

But so many people are so given over to these things that are pulling them away.

And the truth is, is that they don't love you.

The one who loves you proved his love for you, and that's Jesus Christ.

And therefore your kinsman redeemer is willing to sacrifice.

So now we get into a really interesting thing here, and this is where we're going to kind of wrap up this evening.

And so, verse seven.

Now, this was the manner and former time in Israel concerning redeeming and concerning changing, for to confirm all things.

And we're not going to understand this, okay, you're going to say, what are we talking about here?

Remember, this is thousands of years ago, different culture, different ways.

This would have been the norm for them back then.

Okay?

So to confirm all things, a man plucked off his shoe and gave it to his neighbor.

And this was a testimony of Israel.

Therefore, the kinsman said unto Boaz, buy it for thee.

So he drew off his shoe.

And so you would say, what's going on here?

This was just something that they would do.

This was a ritual that they would accomplish in completing this task of the kinsman Redeemer.

And so this would have been the custom of sandal transactions, verse nine.

And Boaz said unto the elders and unto all the people, ye are witnesses this day that I have bought all that was elimelechs and all that was Chileans and Mahlons and the hand of Naomi.

And so this was very, very interesting here.

He says, basically, you are the witnesses.

The world is the witness of what Jesus Christ did for us.

And so all these people were the witnesses what Boaz did for Naomi and Ruth.

And so, moreover, Ruth, the Moabitess, the wife of Mahlon, have I purchased to be my wife, to raise up the name of the dead upon his inheritance, that the name of the dead be not cut off from among his brethren and from the gate of this place.

Ye are witnesses this day.

And so everyone could be the witness of what Boaz was doing, and everyone could be a witness of what Jesus Christ has done for us and our lives.

And so we're going to stop there, here this evening, because we're going to conclude it next week because there's more to the story.

The story doesn't end with Boaz and Ruth's marriage.

It actually continues on with a legacy.

And we're going to talk about that legacy more, actually, not next week.

We have a guest next week, but we will conclude that in two weeks.

But I want to go with some takeaway thoughts here tonight because we're talking about this idea of kinsman Redeemer.

But.

But I think that in this story, one of the greatest lessons is that challenge for Ruth to be patient and to sit still and to trust in her kinsman redeemer to do the work and figure out that problem in her life.

You know, I know that some people, by nature, are more prone to worry than others, but probably all of us at some point in our lives have a chance to wait and be patient or not be patient in the midst of a difficulty, in the midst of a quote unquote problem.

And, you know, I used to think growing up that if I could just run away from all my problems, everything would be okay.

I remember one time, I don't know how old I was.

I couldn't have been much older than Micah, so I was probably like ten or eleven years old, and I was having a rebellious stage in my life, and I was getting upset with my dad, and my dad had all these rules, and I said, fine, I'm going to run away from home.

I don't know if any of you have ever went through that process in your mind.

And I thought I really was going to.

I went to my room and I started packing my bags, and I was like, I'm going.

And my dad's like, oh, you're going to go?

Okay.

You better take some food with you.

Better take.

You know, my dad knew I wasn't going anywhere, but I was so set that I was going to go somewhere, and I was like, I'm going to go somewhere that doesn't have rules, and I'm going to make my own rules.

And by the time I probably left and my parents probably could tell the story better than me, maybe they don't even remember it.

I don't know.

We'll see.

But I'll have to ask them later if they're watching.

But before I left, I realized, you know what?

There's nowhere that I can go that I have it this good.

There's no one that's going to love me like my dad and mom.

There's no one that's going to protect me like my dad and mom, no one's going to feed me like them, right?

There's all these things in my mind that are running through my mind, as rational as a ten or eleven year old could be.

I started realizing that all of these things are never going to bring back to me what I have in that relationship with my parents.

Now some of you might say, well, you know what?

You didn't know my parents, okay?

I should have run away from them because I think I could have found, no, I know what you're saying, but we got to think about it from the perspective of we have a perfect father, we have a perfect heavenly father who sometimes we feel like we can go somewhere else and figure it out on our own.

But he has us coming back every single time saying, look, I forgive you.

It's the classic picture of the prodigal son, right?

He meets us, he wraps his arms around us and he says, I alone can give you what you need.

I alone can be sufficient in your life and provide for you and protect for you.

So Ruth had the opportunity to stress and to worry and to fret about it.

But then we have that picture of peace.

Be still.

And so I want you to think about that understanding of peace here this evening.

Have you ever desired peace and quiet in your life?

By way of testimony, I have a house with a nine year old, a six year old and a eight month old.

I desire peace sometimes, okay.

Sometimes I'm like, I just want it to be peace and quiet, okay?

But that's very far and few between in times of our house.

But the truth is, is that there's a greater peace.

I think sometimes that people are seeking after in this world.

And we all know that some people try to seek that peace in all the wrong places and you could fill in the gap.

Okay?

I tried to do this to bring peace, but it didn't satisfy or temporarily.

It satisfied for maybe a week or a month, maybe even a year or so.

But ultimately those things of the world that are packaged so nicely to say, here's peace, here's pleasure, here's comfort, all of those things are eventually going to fall apart.

All those things are going to rust away, that's eventually going to tear us down.

But what the Bible says is that there is this peace that passeth all understanding.

And if you have tasted of that peace, it's the most amazing thing, it's the most comforting thing to know that no matter what happens to you physically, emotionally and spiritually, that nobody can take away the love that God has for you.

Romans chapter eight.

If you are ever struggling with the concern of God caring about you or loving you or taking care of you in the midst of a difficulty, read Romans chapter eight.

And if you believe the word of God as the word of God, Romans chapter eight will bring you right back to the place where you need to be.

Because by the time you get to the end, it starts with in verse one, there's no more condemnation to those that are in Christ Jesus.

And it ends with the fact that nothing in this world can separate us from the love of God.

And he lists all of these things and he says, no, we're more than conquerors.

Because no matter what comes in my life, I can still have that peace that passeth all understanding.

And so there's going to be times that aren't peaceful in our life.

There's going to be times where we don't believe that.

There's going to be times where we go through struggles.

But I'm going to tell you that that center point of God's peace is found in knowing him and knowing his word and resting in his presence in our life and just being still and knowing that he is God.

And one of the greatest things that I was able to accomplish in my life when it comes to my spiritual walk was not, hey, I gotta just try harder.

It was, I wanna just know God and know him in a deeper level.

And the more I got to know him, the more I realized that he's not going to fail me.

And there's gonna be days where, there's days where I'm talking to someone and I catch myself going, you know, I know this, but, and then I, anytime we say that, that's where we're in the problem, right?

Because I know that God is good, but, and then we say something else, whatever it is.

But my situation is really tough.

Well, right.

And I think that's one of the many reasons why God gave us his word.

For us to see all the other people that went through struggles and how when they trusted in God, there was always reward.

Because there's a second part of that verse in Hebrews chapter eleven.

I want you to see that with me because this is so important, because sometimes we only heard of, hey, it's impossible to please God without faith.

And you're like, well, now what?

Is it impossible for me to ever please God?

Because I don't have the type of faith that I need to have.

Well, Hebrews eleven six says, hey, it's impossible to please God without faith.

But then there's a positive side to this.

Anytime God says something in the negative, he always is going to bring the positive side of it.

Like, don't do this, but do this.

So in Hebrews, chapter eleven, verse six, he says, but without faith it is impossible to please him.

But then he says, why?

He gives the background, he gives the deeper understanding.

He says, for he that cometh to God must believe there's that trust that he is, meaning that he exists, that he is who he says he is.

And there's an and there that's joining two things together.

So believe that he is who he is and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

Meaning I have to believe that God is going to reward my faith, not in the way that I think sometimes, because there's going to be some people that say if you have enough faith, all of your problems are going to go away.

Well, I can tell you there's a whole chapter called Hebrews chapter eleven, okay?

It's called the hall of Faith.

And it says, all these people that had faith, but it didn't say that all their problems necessarily went away, their circumstances went away, their bigger problem of sin went away.

And so what I'm gonna tell you here this evening is there is a false teaching out there, and I gotta tell you the truth about this, okay?

There's some people that will teach you that if you have enough faith, all of your sicknesses will just go away.

And if you're not, the problem with your condition is that you don't have enough faith.

That's misleading, right?

That is so misleading because the Bible doesn't say, the Bible doesn't promise that all of my problems and sicknesses will be taken away here on this earthen just because I have faith in God.

Now, can he do that?

Yes.

God is a miracle worker.

God can do what he wants to do.

And we should plead with him for healing.

We should plead with him for our circumstances to go away.

But what we do know is that sometimes God doesn't heal us in the way that we expect God's going to heal us in a greater way, in a different way.

And the Bible speaks all to that.

But I will tell you that the Bible does say that there is one great healing one day, that all of our sickness will go away, all of our sadness will go away, all of our pain will go away, all of our struggles with sin.

And that is one day, the Bible says, and the theological term for this is glorification.

But it's that day when we are reunited with him.

One day, and that might happen sooner than later.

You know, you never know when that's going to happen.

But the truth is that we should long for that day.

As christians, I long for the day when my sinful flesh is not fighting against the spirit.

I long for the day where there's no more waking up in the morning and things are aching and pain and all of that.

I long for the day where there's no more chaos in this world.

The Bible says that day is coming, but until then, trust in him that it's coming.

God is going to make all things right.

David the psalmist says, God, it seems like you're letting all the bad people get away with this and all the good people are going through difficulties.

And David's speaking for us.

Sometimes.

Sometimes it looks like people are getting away with stuff that's evil.

Like, when's God going to judge them?

Let me just tell you.

And we don't, like, rejoice in this necessarily in the fact that they're going to be judged, but we should rejoice in the fact that God is going to make all things right.

He is the great judge.

He's the one that's sitting on the bench of the city, but ultimately his bench is higher than everybody else.

There's the Bema seat, but there's also going to be one day, the bema seat is the judgment that God is going to say, okay, this is what you did for me as a christian rewards, right?

That's the judgment seat of Christ.

But there's also what's called the great white throne judgment.

And so what that means is that God is going to judge all of those that have rejected him.

And so all these people that have rejected God and turned their way to evil, God's not going to let it go unnoticed.

God is a righteous judge now.

He's patient and he has grace.

He's long suffering.

But the Bible says that he will right all wrongs in this world.

And we have to have faith in that.

We have to have faith in that as christians.

And that's what we are looking at when it comes to the peace of God in our lives.

But until then, what do we do?

We preach the gospel, okay?

For a lot of us, we want to be the judge.

We want to be the judge and the jury and take out our wrath upon people.

God did not call us to do that.

God called us to project and to proclaim and to display the gospel message in that time that we have in this age of grace.

And so what do we do we preach the truth?

We say what is true, we call out what is wrong, but we have grace to preach the message and love to preach the message, to give people the opportunity to come to Christ.

You know, I know some people that will say, including myself, that person could never come to Christ.

That's not our judgment.

That's not our job.

Our job is to proclaim the truth of the gospel.

There have been people that have changed because of the Holy Spirit, not because of logic, not because of wisdom, but because of the power of the Holy Spirit changing their heart from a heart of stone into a heart of flesh.

And so that's where our peace comes from, the bigger picture, the peace of God, which passeth all understanding.

Now, I'm going to move forward a little bit here, and I am going to tell you that as a christian today, we have a lot of reason to be anxious.

We have a lot of reason to question.

We have a lot of reason to even sometimes doubt the goodness of God because we look at circumstances.

What I would tell you is you can watch the news, okay?

There's nothing unbiblical about watching the news.

But what you deal with when you watch the news is either biblical or not biblical, okay?

You can do everything in your life biblically or you can do everything in your life unbiblically.

So it doesn't necessarily mean this.

Like, for example, this is what I try to do sometimes.

I just try to not watch the news, okay?

I'm like, okay, if I just don't watch the news, I won't have any problems.

The truth is, is that people will tell me what's going on in the world.

Then I immediately start stressing.

So it doesn't really matter.

I can't avoid the temptation always.

That's what happened when all these people tried to be monks.

And there's still people that try to do this.

They try to go live out on a monastery thousands of miles away.

They try to remove everything.

And they say, okay, I'm never going to sin again because I don't have any outside distractions.

And then they realize they have something called the flesh, okay?

And the flesh is going to still want those bad things.

And so it's not about just avoiding the bad.

It's about really living and relying on the goodness and the grace of God in the midst of all this.

And so that's how you can have the peace of God.

And so I'm not here today to say, hey, don't watch the news or don't deal with your neighbor don't go to work, okay?

Because you might say, well, my problem's at work.

If I just didn't go to work, everything would be okay.

I can't tell you.

Well, just quit your job, okay?

You gotta deal with it.

You gotta deal with the problems of this world, okay?

But there's a way to deal with it biblically, and that is to look to Christ in the midst of your decisions, in the midst of your reactions.

So we'll be back in two weeks to conclude the book of Ruth.

I hope that it's been a good study for you.

It has been for me.

I've heard the book of Ruth so many times, but this time through, I really wanted to see it through the lens of the kinsman redeemer only.

Not that we can't take other elements of it, but I think that kinsman Redeemer is that main theme through.

And I think that was a blessing.

Now, if you want to know what we're going to be studying next, I'll tell you in two weeks.

But I'm still praying about a few different studies.

So we're going to be getting through this in two weeks and then we'll move on.

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