Sexual Chaos: Discussion on Male Sexual Expression – Interview with Jack Kammer

Intro: Have you ever wondered why Calming the Chaos Podcast hasn’t talked specifically about the topic of sex? It’s because nobody has asked me to! Until now. In this podcast, I talk with Jack Kammer, an Author and commentator on issues between men and women. Jack has a passion of helping policy makers see and understand the connection between male gender issues and some of America’s social problems. Join us for an open, fair, friendly and respectful discussion about the sexual expression of men and boys today, and what we can do to calm the sexual chaos.

I. The Male Point Of View (Jack)

II. The definition of Male Sexual Expression (per Chat GPT)

Male sexual expression refers to the various ways in which individuals who identify as male express their sexuality, desires, and preferences in a manner that is authentic to them. It encompasses a wide range of behaviors, feelings, and identities related to sexual attraction, arousal, and intimate relationships. Male sexual expression can include aspects such as communication, consent, self-discovery, and the ability to express one's desires and boundaries in a healthy and respectful manner. It is important to recognize that male sexual expression is diverse and can vary greatly among individuals, reflecting the complexity of human sexuality.

What is true? How are men “allowed” to express their sexuality? Male Stereotypes. Confusion.

Tracy: Does this mean “Free the nip” and “Free the tip?”

Jack: It depends on the where, when, with what expectation and intention (context)

III. Young men have a difficult time because “Women have the power”

• How many times per day do men think about having sex?

• How many times per day do women think about being sexy?

IV. A Seat at the Table – “Men get cast away from the discussion” (Jack)

• Why aren’t men included? “Because they are seen as the enemy” (Jack)

• Why would we want to attract the enemy? (Tracy)

• Historic context, including feminine and masculine roles, and “EP” (Earning Potential)

V. This is the chaos!

• Tracy: Both male and female traits can be expressed and they are okay. Be yourself!

• Jack: Women have a lot of latitude in their self-expression, men don’t

Are men “subservient, second class, unimportant and inferior?

The hope is that females would be aware of their feminine power and I’m respectful, aware and mindful of the needs of men and boys.

• Tracy: We all have personal power. Be aware and use it mindfully.

• Jack: Let’s have open, fair, friendly and respectful discussions. Invite men to a seat at the table!

VI. The Patriarchy

VII. The Persona and the Shadow

VIII. The Alpha Male vs. “The Alphabet Male”

IX. What can females do?

• Don’t laugh at sexist jokes about how clueless men are

• Try not to assume male stereotypes

• Acknowledge your ideas of superiority over men

X. Free the nip and the tip? “Maybe we’re not ready for that yet”

XI. Sample social media ads that are geared toward making men suffer

XII. Impromptu Fun with the two R’s: Red Shoe Diaries and Russell Brand

XIII. Contact Jack:

• Website / Blog: https://malefriendlymedia.medium.com/

• Twitter: https://twitter.com/counterfemsw?lang=en

• More information: https://on-boys.blubrry.net/jack-kammer-boys-are-affected-by-sexism-too/

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