In this Fathom 15, the guys provide a timely conversation for those celebrating Thanksgiving in the U.S. Holidays with family can be uniquely stressful, even more so amid a global pandemic. We hope this short episode helps you get through the day. If you need a break from the political debate, go find a quiet room and have a listen. 

• On our own experiences around the Thanksgiving table [1:35]
• 2 tools to help you through today: 1. Transcending and Including & 2. Family Systems Theory [3:40]
• Going home can be a liminal space [6:40]
• What we should do with tension [8:15]
• The false binary of family debates [10:43]
• Keep the long game in mind [12:20]
• The importance of humility [13:00]
• The difference between allowing and accepting [13:30]
• Working towards a both/and [15:00]
• On Fr. Rohr’s concept of image and likeness [16:30]
• Encountering others and honoring the Imago Dei within [17:50]
• Still set appropriate boundaries [18:45]
• Check out our Season 1 Episode on Conflict Styles [21:40]
  • https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conversation-conflict-styles/id1508239925?i=1000486643264 

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Fathoms | An Enneagram Podcast: “Discovering our inner depths, one fathom at a time.”

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Co-hosts: Seth Abram, Seth Creekmore, Drew Moser

Production/Editing: Seth Creekmore

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