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The value of play can’t be measured in numbers alone, with Dr Heidi Edmundson
Episode 615th August 2022 • Why Play Works. • Lucy Taylor and Tzuki Stewart
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Many people feel they work better under pressure, but if you need to think creatively, a relaxed environment will work far better. That’s how Dr Heidi Edmundson approaches play, and importantly makes the distinction that although play can be childlike, it’s not childish.

Things to consider

  • We need connection as human beings, and it can sometimes be achieved by something as simple as briefly removing a mask.
  • By following a step-by-step process of curiosity, Heidi became more able to trust herself.
  • Trust can help overcome skepticism.
  • The outcomes of play are not always directly quantifiable, but no less valuable.

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Hello, welcome to the show.

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My name's Tzuki Stewart from Playfilled

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And I'm Lucy Taylor from Make Work Play.

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Together, we are Why Play Works.

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The podcast that speaks to people, radically reshaping

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the idea of work as play.

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Today, I'm with Dr.

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Heidi Edmondson, who has worked in the NHS for over 20 years, the last 10

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of which as a consultant in emergency medicine at Wittington Health.

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She's a passionate advocate for NHS staff wellness and its importance

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with regards to the individual, the workforce and the patients they care for.

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Now you might be forgiven for thinking that the emergency department of a

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hospital doesn't exactly lend itself to creating a playful environment.

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But Heidi is a real trailblazer in using play and creativity as a means

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to facilitate wellness, build teams and help people find their voice.

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For the past six years, she's run dedicated playful sessions in her hospital

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in which staff are encouraged to play games or take part in short creative tasks

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In this conversation, we hear how by engaging in these playful

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activities together, Heidi has seen her colleagues able to express their

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whole selves and connect to the humanity in themselves and others.

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So let's kick off.

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What does the word play mean to you?

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I think that is quite an interesting question.

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Um, and I have sort of, I think about this regularly and I think I'm just staged now.

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I suppose I associate play by much with the concept of creativity and

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creativity is very important to me.

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So I think play is almost the practical application of creativity or a

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practical way to access creativity.

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Maybe there's a better way to say it.

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Um, so I think, you know, this idea, you know, people who don't think

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about creativity or a lot of people, I think that you just create creative to

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people just to make up and our creator for me, just to wake up and they're

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being creative, going about their lives, you know, coming up with ideas.

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And actually, I think a lot of creative people would tell you that in order

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to sort of access that creativity, you need to go through a process and

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play with the way to access that.

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I suppose another way is it's a kind of safe way to access or

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to explore concepts and ideas.

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So it's sort of like a, it's a safe way of doing that.

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There's something about it being relaxed.

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So I think if you're putting under pressure to do anything, a lot of,

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lots of people think they work well under pressure, but actually if you're

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really trying to access something new or different, I think you work better

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under kind of relaxed atmosphere.

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The other thing I would probably say is more particularly foot plate isn't

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and I think this is quite important as it's not childish because I think it

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might be child something like children, or it might be something childlike,

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but I think it's not a childish thing.

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And I think this is moving by.

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People get anxious about the word play because they associate it with being

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childish and actually maybe childlike in a positive way, but it it shouldn't have

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those negative connotations with people sort of say, stop being so childish.

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And what about you?

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You've said that creativity is very important to you personally.

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so if play is the way you access that, when did you last bill playful?

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I could almost ask these questions to the, to the time was quite interesting.

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So I probably in my, my private life, I sort of, one of the ways I access this

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was, belong to two kinds of creative writing forums, uh, run by two very

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inspirational women called Diane Samuels and Claire Steele, and they have both,

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they both use a similar techniques, um, which is very much this idea of

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encouraging creative writing food, playing with words, word games, you know, they

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facilitate group sessions for your given, you know, you eat stone, offer the word

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to play with, and then you swap phrases.

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And they very much encouraged his kind of playful approach to words,

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in in order to access creative, your creativity and writing.

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So that that's sort of one aspect, I suppose.

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Um, other ways I do it, um, I did run a workshop at work last week or two weeks

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ago, um, which was again using this kind of playful techniques, playing games.

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So I suppose that, that, that was, you know, I suppose specifically like that.

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I think it's what you do, you just feel and you're your own, you know,

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if you get together, you know, I've sort of said at the beginning, or

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when we were talking earlier, you guys just went home for a week.

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So I caught up with two older, two, most of my school friends.

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I think the kinds of conversations you have are playful.

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You, you joke, you you make good with this.

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I kind of really lovely, lively Playfilled conversations you can have

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with good friends that are important.

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And I completely agree, and I think what's lovely as well as thinking about how you

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can be doing something playfully that doesn't need to be a Playfilled activity.

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You can be cuing to the post office, but there's a kind of mindset or

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a way of moving through the world.

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Isn't it?

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You can be playful or not playful and dial it up and down depending on how you feel,

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but you don't have to be doing a playful activity to be playful and in your spirit.

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So we often think about play and work.

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I think we've been conditioned to believe that they are opposites.

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You know, you work hard, you play hard.

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They that they're not meant to meet.

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How do you think play and work relate to each other?

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Well, I think they are important because I think probably the misconceptions

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are that somehow or other, this idea, if you're at work, you have to be

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serious, you work as a serious thing and to play is not a serious thing.

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So and, and I think one of the, when I first started trying to introduce this

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concept of playfulness, you like one of the ways that you don't one of the first

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talks I did, I called it the serious business of fun, because I actually

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think there's an element that that fun and, and playfulness are very important

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and they're very important to access a lot of qualities that I think are

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very important for whatever job you do.

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Um, so in my context of I'm a doctor over at an emergency department.

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I think the, you know, if you, if you do access that playful side

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of yourself, it does put you in touch with your own humanity.

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It puts you in this empathetic side, it puts you in touch with the bit

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of you that you need to connect to.

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And sometimes you you're on sometimes even people like you to, to, you

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know, people want connection.

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That that is what people want.

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Everybody wants connection.

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So patients want connections when you're working with people,

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they w they want to connect.

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Um, and I sort of think, within work, I think it's

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something about these questions.

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I sort of asked myself a lot now and I bring up in conversations.

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What is the culture of a workplace?

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What sort of culture do you want?

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And I think something that keeps on coming up more and more is this

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idea, you want a culture that is relational, not transactional.

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And I think that is important in a lot of work places.

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And I think it's also important in the NHS.

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So I think this kind of playful and connection that the old Lincoln to

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be able to connect them with other people and to forge relationships.

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So I think that that, that is why it is important, and it's important in my

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workplace, which those relationships are important, both with your

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colleagues, but also with the kind of therapeutic relationship with patients.

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Um, and I imagine that it's important to know all other

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relationships or all other workplaces.

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It's this idea of building relationships.

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I think also the relationship with with play and work.

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It's also, as I said before, creativity is, is associated and connected with this.

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And it's actually, creativity is very important.

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I would say problem solving.

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And I think all workplaces we've gone through a lot to think in the last couple

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of years with the pandemic, we've really had to stand up and think oh my goodness.

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Our whole lives changed, our whole way we view things.

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So actually there is something important, even continuing to move on

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how we find new ways of doing things.

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And actually players also again, associated with creativity and that

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that is associated with problem solving.

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So I think that's, that's such a relevance to any, any workplace, really.

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Absolutely.

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There's something very, very human

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about play, or even very, maybe you'd say normalistic cause you see animals

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playing as well.

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I don't know, but there's something very, deeply human and how we do it.

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We we've, we've put it in this box as belonging to children and for

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childhood.

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And then, you know, that box would be put on the shelf, but actually

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if you can bring that box down and start to use it in work, it's

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it accesses something in enough.

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Th that doesn't get invited out.

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We'll meet when we keep it up on that shelf.

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I think maybe another way with worst case.

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It does a thing that I sometimes say as people who sort of took, begun to

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look at play, it's a bit like dessert.

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You're only allowed to get it, you know, you're only allowed when

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they're from the serious work of dinner has been taken care of.

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And then if you were a very good person and there's the you've been

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good and you've been well-behaved and there's a little bit of time left at

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the end, you're allowed a dessert.

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And I think, you know, sometimes say it's, it's more than that.

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It should be, you know, it should be there all the time.

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Oh, I love that.

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I can't promise.

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I'm not going to take that and run with it because we talk about how

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this idea that you have to earn it.

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You have to earn the right to be selfish and to be playful.

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And, and that's not the case.

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So we you've already mentioned some of this, but I'd love to hear

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a bit more about what, what do you think we really misunderstand

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about play in the context of work?

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So you mentioned that at the moment, we really do kind of dismiss it

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as being frivolous or childish.

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So what are we missing out on in your view when we do sort

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of diminish it in that way?

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So, I think play is an important aspect of problem solving, because

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it connects to creativity and that connects to this concept of

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finding a new solution to a problem.

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And I think sometimes people are scared to enter into any of this, this sort

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of playfulness to look for solutions.

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So, you end up having quite serious conversations, but all that really happens

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quite often is you, you recycle the same solution over and over and over again.

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So quite often, you're, you're not finding a new solution.

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And I think being playful does lead you to find a new solution.

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And there's something about if you think about when you were a child and

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you played, that there's an elementary, you, you go into a zone where you

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you're just, you're, you're making connections, you're linking things that

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you wouldn't automatically have linked before, you're finding ways of doing

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something, you know, you can give a group of children a set of boxes and you

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can leave them to it, and then you'll come back and they'll have created a

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whole different world with those boxes.

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And it's that ability to take something that you've got and

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re-see it in a different way, is something you do when you're playful.

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And it's also what you need to do if you need to think your

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way forward into a situation.

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I think this is a huge thing for, for everybody in the workforce at the moment.

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Cause we're all trying to come to terms with where we are in the

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world and how to move forward after everything we've been through.

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So I think that that's one way.

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I think in stressful work places, and again, the NHS is a stressful

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workplace, but then that many workplaces are stressful workplaces.

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Th th there's a lot of conversations around how you

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can get people to de-stress.

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And one of the ones that comes up a lot is is is meditation.

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And people will say, you know, go home and practice mindfulness.

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And mindfulness, you know, obviously works and it works for a lot of people,

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but, but it doesn't work for everybody.

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It's not completely easily accessible.

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But actually we know that if you engage in these kinds of just to put your

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mate call any kind of slightly playful activities, or creative activities,

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that they are the same as mindfulness.

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And we all know this and are, you know it's why lots of people find solace and

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baking or cooking because it's, you, you just are focused on the present.

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And it's an, it's a very easy and accessible way to focus in on the

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present that, that, that a lot of people will find easier to do than

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actually practice mindfulness.

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Um, and also because it's associated with other things.

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If you start to laugh, because quite often you're that playful mood, then you start

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laughing, in laughter is as they will have gantry you, one of the most healthy

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things that you can do for yourself.

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It is your heart, it is really, really a very healthy and it reduces cortisol,

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it increases, like serotonin, bonding hormones, creases your pain threshold.

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So it's a really healthy thing to do.

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So and it's a very cheap and easy and accessible way to

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get people to laugh and do it.

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I think also in the context of learning, if so in you're in any kind of sort of

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environment where you're trying to get people to learn or learn new things,

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they have shown that a few laugh or fun's involved, or you're sort of much

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more likely to change your behavior.

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So I think that's very, very important.

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And there was something fun theory, but she's, they tried to make things funds.

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They, they talk about the very good example of this is in Sweden and one

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of the underground stations, they wanted people to use the stairs, not

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the escalator and people obviously, you could put up as many notices

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as you wanted, people ignored them.

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Um, but then they turned the stairs into a big grand piano that played

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music as you walked up and done it, so it became a fun thing to do

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and stare usage increased by 66%.

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So if you are trying to do something to get people, to change their

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behavior, they are much more likely to do it if you make it a fun thing

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rather than a deadly serious thing.

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Um, and I think all of these are things that people will spend

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a lot of time thinking your workplace, how do I do these?

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But then again, you people sort of dismiss fun.

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Um, and again, another thing I was like to say, it's a victim of its

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own success because nobody takes it seriously, cause he just go,

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well, we're not going to use it.

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We can't make it fun.

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We have to take this as a serious thing.

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And, and actually they they just keep on discounting it.

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I've heard you say that as a, as a doctor.

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You couldn't initially, you couldn't see where creativity had a place in

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your working life, and you've mentioned your own creative writing pursuits.

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So for you personally, it's always been very important, but before you

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didn't see how it fitted into your work life and could inform your working

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practice, can you tell me about what happened to change your mind on that?

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Yeah.

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So I suppose that, that they sort of, the first thing that happened was,

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that the first way it sort of accessed, it was this concept of communication.

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So, um, back in 2013 now, I was very lucky that I did a communication

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course, that it was sort of a pilot and it was being arranged by St.

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John's Hospice and Royal Central School of Speech and Drama.

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So it's looking very much at dramatic methods in improving communication.

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And it was based in the sort of principle, you know, if you're a great

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actor, you are a great communicator, that's what all great actors do.

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So I sort of, I did this course, cause it was a pilot was once a week

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and Wednesday nights for six weeks.

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So obviously actors and actresses did, they use a lot of games and they, they

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do not get to where they are becoming an incident in being deadly serious.

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You don't having PowerPoints, you know, if there's a lot of it,

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you listen up, you, you D so is it that, that became very much.

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At part of it.

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I know on the very last session of this, they talked about a start-up

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theater called forum theater, which I became, like, it just resonated

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with the first time I heard about it.

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And it's a style of theater which was created really in the fifties

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by a man called Augustus Bullough, who was at the time in Brazil.

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And it was really using theater to explore insoluble problems

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and drive social change.

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So it wasn't as that as a matter of entertainment.

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And, you know, they, they, they used, he used it in Brazil, which

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was sort of for political reasons.

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They were under very right-wing Gentoo at the time, but it can

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be taken in lots of context.

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And the way it works is you created a small, uh, sort of pace,

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which, you know, you can chew to a community and the unbearable, the

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lead character, and this people will identify with them for many reasons.

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And actually the lead character ends up in this set piece, doing badly,

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you know, not getting what they want, being crushed by the system.

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And then, in the theater piece, you, a member of the, the sort

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of company gets the audience to really discuss what they're seeing.

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So the member of the company is a facilitator and he gets people to discuss.

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And it's keeps on asking the question, could that?

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person have behaved differently to change things?

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And then after the discussion, you replay the piece, but you invite the

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audience up to be the lead character.

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And they try to get people to, to, to change their behavior.

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And it's more than role play, because everybody in the, in

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the past has as prepared for it.

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And they're prepared for it, again, go back to fund the games, there are

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a lot of these acting techniques.

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They believe in the character that they're playing on.

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Why that characters believe it, behaving that way.

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But it's very much that if you really work at it, sometimes you can just do

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something and that person will change.

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So it's a very playful way of exploring problems.

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So, so really to begin with, this resonated with me and I

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became very invested in this and I'm very interested in it.

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And then I was lucky enough to.

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Really do several workshops that, that we didin the sort of in the department,

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the first with the Cardboard Citizens forum theater company, which is sort of

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a Ciara homeless charity, but they're sort of a professional company who do it.

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And then we did some others with the Central School of Speech and

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Drama, and and we worked on that.

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And then we just quite big projects and that.

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But then when I got to the stage when I really began to think of

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wellbeing and I wanted to bring it in and could I, how, like how could

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I sort of really focus on that?

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I had noted that, particularly even doing the warmup games and a lot of these, these

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games that, that just sort of don't do in theater environments, which were maybe

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alien to somebody from a very scientific medical background, but these games

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are to just get people to relax and to energize them and connect with each other.

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I suppose, one of the things that's to turn individuals into an ensemble cast.

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And I'd really felt that actually, during all these workshops and we were doing

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these people loved to play these games.

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They, you just laughed and the back to being a child, again.

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People really connected and they were one of the things that people love doing.

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So when I was at a stage of, I wanted to introduce more something with

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wellbeing into the workplace, but I didn't want to just talk about it.

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I wanted to make it a real thing, I realized, basically, I was always

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looking for places or ways to do it.

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And I realized we had 10 minute teaching slots every day,

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which we were very clinical.

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We talked about a guideline, et cetera, but these pitching

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slots, some of them were empty.

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So I thought, well, I could take some of these over and do something but wellbeing.

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And then I thought, actually, we could just be one of these games, or two

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of these games in that 10 minutes, and then begin to see how it goes.

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So, so that was really the start of bringing them into the workplace,

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and trying to get people to just do them at the start of the day.

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Will the connect people at the start of the shift, will they do that?

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And really from that, that I suppose really it was about getting the games to

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get people, to connect with themselves and each other in a very sort of way that

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made them laugh and an energizing way.

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Just to see if that, if that could be brought into, to us as part of the day to

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day, or maybe not, it wasn't as much as every day, but it was part of the kind of

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fabric or the pattern of the workplace.

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That's exactly it isn't it it's often the challenge, um, to do exactly that,

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to bring it into more of the day-to-day practice that you're talking about.

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It's easier as a, as an organization to say, oh, we like this idea of more playful

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ways of working or, you know, let's, let's spend a half day doing this together.

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And it's so great and you see amazing things happen.

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And then it's back to business as usual the next day, and

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it sort of doesn't live on.

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So how can you really weave it into, as you say, the fabric of the task, the day

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to day, um, ways of working is it's not an easy feat, but it sounds like you've,

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you've made some amazing progress on that.

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And could you give some examples of some of the results that you've seen, kind

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of working with this idea of playfulness with, you know, teams of doctors

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and nurses and other medical staff?

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What have you seen kind of come out of those, those playful practices with those

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teams in terms of results and impact?

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Well, I suppose if there's several things.

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So I have always taken feedback from it, and then probably the, the time I

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was able to get them was interesting bit of feedback was, we were doing

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it for 10 minutes once a week.

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And then back in 2018 it was pre pandemic.

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So we got 110 members of staff were given a day.

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And on that actually gives a piece of cohesive feedback.

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And that was spread over February and March, and really what we did

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at the end of that day, we we asked people to, there's a thing called

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the Edinburgh Warwick wellness score.

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So we just said, can you score yourselves?

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Um, it's out of 10.

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The full score has 14 positively worded sort of describers of wellbeing.

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We use seven cause they were applicable to today and it seems like how

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energized you feel, how connected you feel, how cheerful do you feel?

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And we asked everybody to, um, score themselves.

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And over 80% scored themselves eight or more out of 10.

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So that, that was, that was quite impressive.

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And it's something like, I think cheerfulness, you know, 33%, which is

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a third, gave themselves 10 out of 10.

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So sometimes I go, well, if I never achieved anything else in my life for

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one day, I may, you know, one day, you know, but during that time that

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people pretend that 10 and cheerful.

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Um, somebody then said, well, did it affect sickness rates?

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Again, I felt, I don't know, but when we looked at sickness rates that those

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days were held in February and March, we looked at secondary threats and the April

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and we compared them to the year before.

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And the sentence rates were reduced by 33%.

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Now, again, you can never say that that was due to those days.

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There are so many variables, but I still think it was an

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interesting thing to pick up.

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Um, and I think it is worth looking at a bit more closely.

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Um, so I think that was having very, if you like, quantitative data or

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some measurable data, which is what people want when they asked you if you

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want to know, they want you to say.

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Everybody wants you to say, I can tell you it it's it's this quantitative data.

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I think as time goes on know, sometimes I think, again, it goes back to this

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idea, you know, is this relational or is it transactional because quantitative

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data is a little bit transactional, or we do there's some, we get this back.

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Relational wise, I remember after doing those days, and I'm not busy with my own

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team of people that I know quite well, I then by whole sequence of events, ended up

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doing it as part of a workshop at a, at a conference, which was, I think the Academy

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of Medical Educators in Cardiff in 2018.

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And I'd sort of agreed to do this as a workshop.

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Uh, and I really, as the time grew close, I was very anxious about this.

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Um, and they, I remember it was hailed and, um, it was in Cardiff.

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So it was in their sort of big art in drama and music college.

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So I went done to date and I remember being really

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anxious before I had to do it.

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And we went upstairs and I was actually in a drama studio.

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So I remember thinking if there's more, it was like almost a

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nightmare of imposter syndrome.

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Because suddenly I was finding myself in a drama studio doing this

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drama workshop, and the little voice in my head was going but you're a

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doctor, what are you doing here?

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And, um, the, the room beside the all, all the studios were named after

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very, um, sort of famous, uh, Welsh performers and uh, and uh, the one

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beside me was the Shirley Bassey.

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So I remember thinking, right, I've still never thought I have to channel my

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inner Shirley Bassey kind of diva now.

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And, and everybody come into the room and, and these were people I did not know.

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I had never met any of these people that all signed up for this workshop.

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There's this 15 people.

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One of my people I grew up with had come with me.

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In fact, she was in the room, so to take photos and help me out a bit.

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And it was, it was very stressful.

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I could actually see some people were a bit like, what are you talking about?

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But, but the end of it, they had all bonded.

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And, and one of them said to me, It's very powerful.

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I thought it was a load of nonsense, but it really works.

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And I think since I've done workshops, I've seen that again and again

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and again, and, um, there is just something wonderful about standing

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in a room full of everybody laughing.

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And you do see at the end of that time, people build boned, people will connect.

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You, you will begin to see something happening between people when you do it.

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The other example, I think at the time works the very strange example, and maybe

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this is my own positive self-talk coming, but, um, I, I did it with our nursing

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staff, um, one, one day I just, it was just a, this was just a short, one of

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the short 10 minute sessions at work.

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And at the end of it, one of the members of staff said to me, I really

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think it's nice that you're trying to do this to help us, but I just

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think it's a little bit of rubbish.

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So tell us, obviously, this is not what you want to hear.

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And then you think, okay.

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And I said, okay, I didn't.

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I said that, I said, that's fine.

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You were like, think it's a load of rubbish.

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You know, that, that people are like now.

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Then he, we sat in that room.

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And he talked to me for quite a long period of time and

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he said, I'm really fed up.

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You know, I'm disillusioned, I'm this, uh, I'm on a whole lot of reasons,

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and I don't want to, I've decided I'm going to give up my job for a while.

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I don't want to, but this is what I think needs to be done.

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And he told me everything and then we talked about it.

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And we talked for about 45 minutes.

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And then I went back to my office and I remember thinking, oh well,

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you can't win them all kind of ideas.

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And I thought well, again, this goes back to this idea, this desire to measure.

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And you want to measure, and you won't see, my measure is at

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works and everybody's happier.

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But you know, I'm not saying I'm making people happier.

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And I know some of it goes back to this idea that you

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can't make individuals happy.

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And I'm actually really, I thought, well, actually, maybe, uh, as a sort

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of measure, it only hasn't worked.

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If I'm only measuring, I'm making people happy.

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But then if I look at it another way and say, you know, th this is a

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new member of staff, it is somebody who is theoretically junior to me.

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But obviously I had created an environment where they felt comfortable

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enough to say to me, what you're is a complete waste of time and stupid.

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And actually that, you know, this comes into this concept of the workplace.

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If you talk a lot about psychological safety.

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Do you feel comfortable with speaking up?

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Do you feel comfortable that you'd be listened to?

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And I thought, well, actually, maybe this is a sign that it does

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work because actually, you know, that that's what you really want.

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You know, you, you, nobody can make everybody happy every moment of every

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day, and actually, we don't want to make people happy all the time.

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That's, that's not how you grow in life and move forward.

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You know, nobody can go on, you know.

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What you're looking for is, is creating an environment or a culture where people

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feel, feel able to just be honest and open and people feel able to confront things.

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So I thought actually I think, and it's an odd way, although that determined

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similar to rubbish, I felt like after saying oh you know it's not as of a load

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of rubbish as you think it is, because if it was that much a load of rubbish,

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you wouldn't have been sitting there telling me it was a load of rubbish.

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You'd have just gone out of the room.

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So I think sometimes I think that was, in its odd way, one of the

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biggest signs to me that it works.

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I really love that because in our work, when I'm putting to work

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with, with Playfilled, as you say, people want quantitative data.

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They want to say, you know, what percentage increase I'm going to

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see in this KPI, in that metric.

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And you know what?

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I absolutely get it.

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And I want to be able to give that information and that data.

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But so much of this.

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In tangible and very difficult to quantify and package up.

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And what we often find is play and engaging in playfulness between colleagues

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and between just the humans, other people, it won't always lead to one outcome.

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It will be different depending on the individual and the group.

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And as you say, it can be that these had a great time in that moment, and it was

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a moment of mindfulness, as you said.

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It can be that they've connected with someone.

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They can be that you've created that environment of psychological safety.

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It can be that it just starts a conversation that, that

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wouldn't have started otherwise.

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You can't say do this and you'll get that outcome, which is, I think amazingly

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powerful and magical, but can also be quite challenging to almost kind of

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convince someone else because they want to know what's going to happen if I do this,

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and it's a little bit, I'm not quite sure.

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It's, it's, I'm pretty sure it's gonna be a good thing, but it might be a

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seed that is planted or a conversation that has had that might've happened

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before, but you can't dictate and channel it in one particular way.

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And that's sometimes I think the answer, you know, sometimes if I even had to

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say, okay, Well, what if nothing happens?

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Okay but what if we do it and absolutely nothing happens?

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Because the reality is, you know, you have to say, does every single other thing

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that I've ever done in the workplace, does it always something happening?

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You know, and I think, I think that is quite important in that I've had

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to start vocalizing, um, or something else that I quite liked the I sort

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of a, a slide that I use at the end of talks comes from a few years ago.

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I stayed in Venice on it was, um, I said my hotel room, another side of

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the grand canal, there was a sort of statue that was quite, uh, uh, a big

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statue of, uh, what looked like a man holding up a ruler up to the sky.

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And I sort of, I saw it every day and it was very striking.

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And you think oh, what is that?

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So I Googled it, um, on, uh, I found out it's called the

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Man Who Measures the Clouds.

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and actually what the, the sort of artist said, was that was a kind of his idea

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of how do you measure the unmeasurable.

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And her has sort of a answer, was it was creativity is how

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you measure the unmeasurable.

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And I think there is something again to do with that.

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You know, we, we are in the world of the intangible and you know, I'm

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on one hand, I understand the need for metrics and evidence, but I also

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think you have to also understand that not everything can be measured,

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but it shouldn't be automatically discounted because our measures haven't

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become good enough to measure it.

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You know, and that how do you measure that people have connected?

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How do you measure that people stood up and said something that

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they wouldn't normally have said?

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How do you measure that people felt a bit braver?

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And it's the same way you don't come out of the theater and immediately

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say, well, I saw King Lear and that has made me reassess my role as a father.

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You, that that is not how these things work.

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So, so I think it's finding the balance, but between those two worlds, really.

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Uh, yes.

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Preach.

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I could let you continue on that train all day.

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I couldn't agree more, but you, you mentioned a little earlier about your own.

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Kind of experience of bringing more playfulness into the medical profession

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and the medical environments.

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and that's been a bit of a journey, but it sounds of it, that you had moments

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of real anxiety and nervousness around doing this, uh, which I absolutely

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empathize with, but that you've grown in confidence the more you've done.

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I'd love to hear more about yes, your own journey as a leader, in bringing play

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into the workplace and how that's felt.

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I think it felt, um, I started, as I say, doing it the 10 at 10 sessions.

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Um, so that was 10 minutes.

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Um, and you know, as I've always said, you know, this is the very first time I

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did that and I came up with that idea.

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I was working at the time as one of our practice development nurses,

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uh, who, who, who had done the workshops, she knew the games.

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Um, and I was, I said to her, will you do the games?

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And she said, yes, I remember the night before, you know, I was quite restless

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because I thought oh my goodness, I'm, you know, I'm going to do this tomorrow.

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Am I mad?

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I had this idea.

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I made her go in and do it and I didn't do it myself and the department slightly

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hyper anxious thinking something's going to happen and then I'm going

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to have to explain that I've sent people around the back to play a game.

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And I was very anxious and then it all happened and everybody come out and they

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were laughing and then none of is fine.

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So I started to do it, and then as I say, I did the, the day where we got,

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you know, we did it as days and we got everybody, you know, a day age.

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And that was, that was sort of a as part of the study days.

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Um, then I, I did, I did it at a conference, so that, that was

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very much the first time I went to somewhere new and did it with a

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group of people I didn't really know before and I'd never met before.

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Um, then I use that and I designed a, a kind of workshop for half day workshop

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that I did for the organization.

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And, and the again, I got different new people.

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I was, I began to be asked to different organizations to do it.

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So each time I got better.

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I got more comfortable doing it.

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I got better.

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I suppose I began to believe in it a bit more.

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So I think I was, you know, to begin with, I was always anxious that it would be,

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it would be awful and it wouldn't work.

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And then people would be, I don't know, just be awful.

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And then I just began to trust myself a bit more each time I

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did it, and I began to do that.

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I also think the other way I had to grow with it was I had

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to change it and adapt it.

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So it was very much to begin with a lot of game playing.

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Um, when the pandemic hit, obviously I remember that the very beginning

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thinking, well, this is no, yeah.

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I kind of can't do this in a pandemic kind of idea, this is, you know,

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it's all very well talking about wellbeing, but now we're wellbeing in

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the midst of this huge pandemic and I didn't really know how to proceed.

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And then I thought, well, I do have to do something.

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Um, at that time I decided I wouldn't do games for several reasons, but what

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I me and mum being that they required people to be very close together.

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And obviously you have to socially distance.

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So there was a, there was an element that you couldn't do that.

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Um, but, but what I was able to do was, uh, you know, I read that British

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Psychological Society had had guidelines of how to support your team in a

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pandemic, and one of them was create a space for people can, can feel open

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about to express and how they feel.

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So what I was able to do is I was able to run the wellbeing sessions where

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people could be sort of spaced and then ask people to talk about how they felt.

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And then what I did, I did it, you know, short period of time, but then I

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got paid to do was draw how they felt.

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So again, that, that continued that same kind of of playfulness really.

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And actually find out that that drawing how you feel, it was very powerful people.

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People, people, sometimes we were able to express much more

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eloquently in their pictures than the were in words, how they felt.

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And actually if you suddenly drew a picture and then everybody

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looked at it, it seemed to be able to resonate in a way that, that

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sometimes words didn't resonate.

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And it was a very interesting way of doing it.

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So, so I, I did that, um, that, that was really during the

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first wave of the pandemic.

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The second wave of the pandemic.

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Which I'd probably say around December, December 2020,

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January, 2021, in the emergency department, we were very busy then.

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Um, and we, we couldn't even, we could be that things have changed again.

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So we couldn't really have everybody to go on even have these 20 minutes to sit and

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do that, that, that wasn't even possible.

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But I still think I try to bring that sort of connection into the day.

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And I S I started by, at the beginning of the shift, just this, the really

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simple thing that became very powerful.

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It just getting people to take on their mask for a moment, say their name and

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what the role was in the department.

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And there was something again about that slight connecting with each other that

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became, became, I felt very important to people just, just that you start the day

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off connecting and, um, you made it, you, you saved, you, you held a space for about

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two minutes to get people to connect.

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Um, and then idea as time's gone on, I've done that.

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I've maintained doing that and I've never, I started a shift then

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it's my, I do that with people.

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Um, and sometimes.

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I will throw out these kinds of icebreaker questions as well, to get people to

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talk about if they'd one last meal on earth to eat, what would it be etc?

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And I think these questions are quite interesting to us, but you know, it's that

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slightly playful way to start the day.

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But you know, you, you do get you getting people to talk about food

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anyway is this really a no very emotive way to get people to bond.

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Um, I think I read an interview with the new Grace Dent who does that podcast

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Comfort Food and she gets celebrities to talk and she said if you get people

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to talk about food, it takes them somewhere very quickly than actually

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getting them to talk about other things.

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You do bond.

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So, so I've tried to introduce little things like that, um, you know,

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during the time of moving forward.

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And constantly trying to find ways of both expanding into bigger things.

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So I now, you know, I created a device with a communications coerce,

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so I bring a lot of it into that.

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So there's something that would bring it into that arena and I'm changing

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it slightly, but also finding little, teeny, tiny ways to just get it into

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your daily day to day activities.

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I think there's so much you shared.

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Around this idea of starting with quite small steps.

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So it's not that you woke up one morning and thought, right,

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this is, this is my mission.

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And I'm going to go gung ho.

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It was much more about, you know, you do a course, you do a session.

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You, you kind of, you're taking small steps, you're experimenting as you go.

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So that's something kind of heartening to hear.

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And I also had there about putting yourself out of your conference.

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Was key is that tons of real anxiety, as you were saying, not sure of how

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to be received, but to kind of put yourself out of your comfort zone.

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And also getting feedback as to how it is learning for people.

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And as you say, you're never going to please other people at the time.

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But being led by people, asking for it and, and getting that feedback to kind

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of take you further on the journey.

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And also this idea of adapting to what is needed at the time.

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And I love the idea of when you're faced with the challenges of the

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pandemic, you couldn't just continue as it is, but you could adapt and

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still bring in the principles.

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And I love that you kind of create even a small amount of time and

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space for this connection stuff.

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That that's, what's really powerful from what you've said, is it, it can just

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be a few minutes or a micro practice of taking a mass down and saying her name,

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but the impact can be really out-sized.

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But I think so many learnings from what you've just shared there.

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You were in journey.

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What do you think are the conditions for play to happen?

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What needs to be in place for true play, to occur in an

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organizational setting, do you think?

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Again, you know, I remember before I started to do this, I remind even before

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I have the idea to start to do this, I remember there was a vogue for a period

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of time that we were being told in the NHS, we should be more like it was Google.

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And Google are like, they are the organization I think everybody

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thinks everybody, everybody references Google, and then the

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NHS should be more like Google.

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And then you'd immediately start talking about, you know, the way Google

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looks, the big slide, do you know?

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There's always that picture of the big slide as, as reference.

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They've got the big slide and on the canteen where everybody wants to be.

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So we'd all sit around and talk about Google and we had this well

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it's all very well for Google, they've got the big slide, etc.

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Um, and then you would just completely discount the idea.

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Now I do believe environment is important.

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So I'm not saying don't focus on your environment.

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I think environment is very important and I think, again, someone like the

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NHS that there's a lot being done at a time to improve the environment.

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But probably what I would also say is, yes I think that's a good thing to

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work on, but I don't think you should think that has to be in place before

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you can start bringing in play, really.

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Because I think if you sort of think, oh, well, we don't have the, we don't have

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the big slide and all those things, um, and the brightly colored seats, then, then

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there's absolutely no point until they get there, so we're just going to give

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up on this idea, I think is important.

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You know, I think probably after time, this is something I'm quite clear idea.

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I think you need somebody to champion it, at least one person.

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I think you need to, if you are championing it, decide you are going

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to hold a time and a space to do it in.

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And I think you need to say, we will hold a time and a space to do it in.

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And I think there's something.

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Actually standing up and saying, I am holding this time and this space

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now, and I'm doing it in this point.

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And if all you've got us two minutes, then all you've got is two minutes then, but

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then stand up and hold that two minutes.

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I think there's something as time's gone on, uh, I've certainly begun to understand

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that something I didn't really understand before, but I've begun to understand more

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and more the, the role of a facilitator.

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I think that was something that I never, maybe if you rewind the clock

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completely thought about or understood, but I think you need to hold a time

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and space and I think you need a facilitator to then, to then run the

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session because I think that's, it needs to be a facilitated session.

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Really.

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Um, and I think the facilitator themselves, they need to believe in

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what they're doing, kind of idea.

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So, so for example, you know, one of the things that I did along with the testing

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done the masks in the morning is I asked the night team that are leaving to tell

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me two positive things about the nature.

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And as I say, I think that's a really good thing to do, because

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I think it's important that people go home with a positive memory.

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But you have to believe in on that question, because if you sort of say,

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all right, well, they're all looking like it's been a dreadful night and you

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go, okay, well just tell me two good things, you, it's not going to work.

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You have to really sit there and have the confidence to say, okay, I know

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this has been really dreadful for you.

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And you're not going to want to do this, and you're going to start off by

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resisting me, but let's all take a nice deep breath and just give me, and you

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have to be a bit playful when you do it.

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People will give you one thing and then you say, come on, dig deep,

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one other thing and, and do it.

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And I think it's the same with all these practices.

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So if you everybody's there and they're stressed and you say, right, we're going

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into turbine night and we're playing a game, you have to be prepared that in

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the room and then the group, some people will be, yes I want to play The game.

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Other people will be anxious.

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Some people will be angry and you actually have to really just

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go, we are going to do this.

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And, and I believe that if we do this together, we will come out the

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other end and our debt will be, um, you know, you will, you will feel

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better if you like and doing this.

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So I think probably what you need is you need to decide you're going to do it.

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You need somebody to champion it.

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You need to be very clear.

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You're holding a time and space to do it, and you'll do it regularly.

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You need to believe in it.

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If you need to have to have that person to facilitate it, or have

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a facilitator who believes in it.

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And you have to accept that, you know, some days it will work better than others.

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Some days it will not seem to work at all.

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Other days it will really work stunningly well.

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And then some days it will be somewhere in between, but a thing, you know, I think

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that that's what you need to, you need to sort of have to get it into the workplace.

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And just as we start to move towards the end of a lonely conversation, are you able

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to share a playful practice that you use in your work or perhaps with others at

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work that our listeners sitting at home, could think about trying in the workplace?

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A small micro practice or behavior?

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Certainly.

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So, so what I would, first of all say is I'm a believer.

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Now, if you did an F you, you need to, to open that.

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So you did you, so, so quite often, if I'm doing anything, I will open it

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by, by going rind, getting everybody to stand in a circle and, um, go ride

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or sit in a circle if you're in a room and just say their name, a number

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out of 10 and how they're feeling.

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Um, they can expand opponent, but they can't, they can not, if you don't want to.

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Sometimes you can add in, and you know, you can, you are

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kind of variations in that.

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And you can say if you were type of weather, whether would you be?

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Sometimes you can use that to ask your, if you'd one last meal nurse

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to eight foot book do, but I think it's very important to ask that sort

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of question and get everybody to say their name and on how they're feeling.

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And this is interesting because quite often what happens is.

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And a lot of groups you will find, there is one surprisingly happy

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person in that group, which which takes everybody, even myself.

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Cause, cause to be honest, I normally I'm starting off a six and a seven, but there

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will be, some are surprisingly person will say, well, I'm, I'm a nine or I'm a, and

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everybody will look at them and think, oh my goodness, you know, what is it on?

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If somebody is a four, they will say before, I never put the, and I think

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even being, being able to say I'm a four, I've never put any looking at them,

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sympathetically, it's quite a good level.

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So I, so I think it's quite important that you go in and you

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say, right, this is where we are.

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And I think that sets the scene.

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We're now in the world of feelings, that that's.

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Then what I do, which is very interesting is I personally, and

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I, I've a great believer in this.

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I get people to shake.

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So I get everybody to stand up and I get them to follow me, and I shake one hand

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five times the other five times, one leg five times ever leg five times, and clap.

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And I go 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.

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And Yeah.

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it was, it was, I saw somebody else do this.

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It was, it was the nurse.

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I used to work on Jo, when we did it, she found it from somewhere.

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Uh, and there was something quite magical happened about that process when you

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you've watched people go and do that.

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And there was something about the clapping and the noise and, and

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you really felt it took you from one place into another place.

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And then I read after we'd been doing it, the checking

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is a very healthy thing to do.

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I think someone's written a book called Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers, and it's

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all to do with shaking is a kind of an animal practice to, when animals are

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stressed or zebras are chased by a lion, the first thing they do is they shake

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and that sort of recalibrate the kind of hypothalamus pituitary function.

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So actually there's a scientific basis to it.

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And then around the same time I read about, and there was some time to be

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checking yoga, and then somebody said, oh yeah, my girlfriend did the shake in

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yoga, but they got a lot of shaking them.

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So, so I do that.

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So I talk about that quite a lot.

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Um, then I think one of the sort of next steps, practices to do is

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if you want to it's the drawing one that I sometimes find is an easy one.

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And again, what I do is I always start off by saying you can draw,

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and you pick something simple.

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We always pick a cat because it's a sort of simple shape.

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And I was because I work at the Whittington.

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It's a cop is, are like a logo kind of thing.

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Cause if do your mascot.

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So, um, I I'm asking for answers and you get people draw a

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cat with your dominant hand.

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And then do it with your non-dominant hand and they're draw it with your eyes closed.

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And that's quite an interesting one to take people through.

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Because lots of people are scared of drilling and under scared of being

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drawing, there's got to be judged, they're scared of not being able to do something,

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they're scared of looking silly.

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So they're always a bit nervous.

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And actually when you draw with your non-dominant hand, it does

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seem to free you from that a bit.

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And although your drones are all a bit more crooked or they seem

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to level everybody's drawings out.

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And also pimple, you just seem to be more alive and more quirky.

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So then as soon as people do that, they relax into it.

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And then you can say, um, drove with your eyes closed.

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And then that leads to this whole, we'll just say, or zip on the surreal

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Cassa will look and they call them cots.

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And so I'll strange and unlike that.

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So I think that, you know, and anybody can do that.

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You just need a pan on a page.

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And then if you do that, I have sometimes taken it on from, you know, draw me

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what, you know, how you're feeling today?

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Or draw me and you can do it with your right hand, your left.

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You can decide you need to play around with that.

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You know, draw them.

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If you, if there's something you want at this moment.

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Um, you know, one year I did.

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No, I did it once I was asked to do a workshop and it was, it

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wasn't this Christmas, but it was the button before and it was draw

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me what you want for Christmas.

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And then there was, there was, there was quite a lovely paper talking about them.

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It's just lovely range of drawings from somebody just wanted COVID to go

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away and somebody's drawing, and then somebody else wanted um, a glug jug.

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And everyone's going what's that?

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It's one of those jugs that glug, you know.

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There's something quite sweet about this idea that again, all these little

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things that people share, they become very connecting and bonding, and they're

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just a kind of a starting point and everybody laughs and everybody relaxes.

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So I think that's a very simple way.

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And you could do that at the beginning of that, you could do that at the

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beginning of just any meeting.

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It'll take about five to 10 minutes and then you can move in to discussing what

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you need to move into in the meeting.

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But it's just, it's just moved you into a slightly different way of doing it.

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Really?

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Absolutely.

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The word users now, which I love to move you from one place into another.

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It's exactly what play does.

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Um, and this beautiful wording.

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I want to continue, but I'm going to respect your time and

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stop the conversation there.

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It's been such a pleasure, such an enlivening and heartening and

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warming conversation with you, Heidi.

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Thank you so much for your time today.

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No problem.

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It's been lovely speaking to you too.

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I really liked this idea of fun and playfulness as ways of accessing qualities

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that are important to what you do.

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And she was talking about how as a doctor, you know, it's that.

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It's the humanity and it's the, the ability to connect with patients

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with each other that is so important.

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And also just, just the bravery of doing something like this in a setting

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where it's not the obvious thing.

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Yeah.

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I love how she saw and felt acknowledged that creativity was

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important to her as a, as a person.

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Um, she talks about her creative writing as a, as a sort of practice,

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and how she really thought, how can creativity, this important thing to me,

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inform my work, and enrich my practice, in my kind of professional world?

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So I love the, the bridge that she built for herself.

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I loved when she was describing playing games at the start of

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a shift to help people connect.

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You know, that's so simple and the, this 10, I think it wasn't every day.

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It was like once a week sometimes, but just bringing it into, she

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described it as the fabric and the pattern of work and the impact of

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that, I just thought was amazing.

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And, you know, the, the effect of just simply removing your mask and showing

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each other, your faces, how powerful, just tiny things like that can be

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in connecting us as human beings.

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It was definitely that theme of small steps and small interventions

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that I found really inspiring in this conversation, how she talks

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about following her own curiosities.

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You know, she takes us right back to 2013 when she began, you know,

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taking these kind of theater workshops and kind of evening classes

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that were just her own curiosity.

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There was no kind of strategy behind it.

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And she was just learning new methods, taking small steps, trying something

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new and small one bit at a time.

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And I just love that idea of she had her expectations.

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She was learning by doing, she would learn a bit of something new, some new, um,

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practices, and then she would share them with others and then gauge the impact and

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then let that guide her to the next step.

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And she talked about how by doing this kind of step by step, following her

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curiosity, she learned to really trust herself, but it was a real, it's been

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a real journey, you know, over the past sort of six plus years of just trying

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something new and small one bit at a time.

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Yeah.

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And that, that journey to trusting herself and the importance of having that

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confidence when you are holding this work.

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So believing in yourself and believing in the benefits of it in

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order to be able to bring people on a similar journey with you.

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but also being really open about, she talks about the imposter syndrome that

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she was feeling at times, you know, the inner voice saying, you know,

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you're a doctor, why are you here?

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You're not meant to be playful.

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And it just made me laugh, that inner voice really resonating with

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me and kind of, that judgment of, are you the right person to be, you

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know, inviting and encouraging others to open up to more playfulness?

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Um, I just loved her acknowledgement of, of those kind of those moments

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of doubt and anxiety that she faced, when sharing this work with others.

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I also found it really interesting what she was saying.

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The example she gave of the nurse who came and was like, I think this is all

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rubbish and really didn't enjoy the com enjoy the experience, but actually that

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not being that doesn't matter because you know, the conversation that ensued

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afterwards, it was, there was an openness, there was a trust that had clearly

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developed and how actually this can't all be measured, but, you know, she said it

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shouldn't automatically be discounted.

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And I think that's so true.

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There's value within this, like deep value that we can't always quantify and

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I think that's really important to hold.

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