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Identifying and Leveraging What Makes You Irresistible
Episode 7818th December 2025 • The One Small Change Podcast • Yvonne McCoy
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In this episode of the One Small Change Podcast, Yvonne McCoy welcomes Michael Roderick, an innovative business thinker who went from high school teacher to Broadway producer in just two years. They dive deep into the concept of discovering and leveraging your innate talents—whether you're a scientist, celebrity, or magician—to foster transformation, build authentic connections, and approach growth with small, yet powerful changes. The conversation highlights how recognizing and embracing your unique strengths creates ripple effects in your professional and personal life, and why implementation and community matter more than ever in today’s fast-moving world.

Guest Bio:

Michael Roderick is the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises which helps thoughtful givers become thought leaders by making their brands referable, their messaging memorable, and their ideas unforgettable. He is also the host of the podcast Access to Anyone which shows how you can get to know anyone you want in business and in life using time-tested relationship-building principles. Michael's unique methodology comes from his own experience of going from being a Highschool English teacher to a Broadway Producer in under two years. Michael uses Broadway-informed branding techniques to helps his clients find their I.F. (Innovative Framework) and create offers where they get paid for their brains.

Chapters:

00:00 Mastering Fundraising Through Practice

05:19 "The Triple Threat Concept"

08:47 Natural Talents and Their Strengths

11:29 Magicians as Science Translators

13:57 Value of Delegation and Expertise

18:42 "Test, Adapt, Fit Your Market"

21:30 Focus on Problems, Not Solutions

24:36 Daily Experiments Yield Insights

27:03 Genuine Giving Builds Connection

30:29 "Podcast Growth and Engagement Tips"

Quote from the Guest:

“The keys to all the doors we need open are in other people’s pockets. And the most important component of that is that you, right now, in this moment, are sitting there with a pocket full of keys.” 

Link:

Discover your referability with Michael’s quiz: www.myreferabilityrater.com

Transcripts

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Hi, everybody. Welcome to the One Small Change Podcast. And I'm thrilled,

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as always, to embark on this journey of exploration and transformation with

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you. I'm your host, Yvonne McCoy, and I bring almost 30 years of

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entrepreneurial experience, and I have a passion for discovering

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growth through the power of seemingly small change.

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I'm really happy that you're here. And of course, one of the reasons that I

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do this is so that you can also be exposed to some of the wonderful

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people that I've met in my journey and help you to grow your business

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and. And. And, you know, just have a total different outlook

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on life. And this week, we are talking to the amazing Michael

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Roderick, and he's going to share how a smaller, unexpected or

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insignificant decision sparked a remake.

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We're Live and my lips moving Today, a remarkable

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transformation and how it. How it sparked growth in

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either their personal or professional or both. Michael,

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thank you for coming. Hopefully my brain will start working.

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No worries. Thanks for having me. I'm very excited to be here.

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Tell everybody what I know about you, what you do,

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and why you're the best at it. Sure.

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The work that I do is focused on helping subject matter

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experts who are feeling overwhelmed by their own

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expertise come up with what is that

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big idea? What is that thing that's going to make

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them more. More referable? The type of person that everybody wants to reach

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out to and connect with. And the reason

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why I do this very, very well is

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I personally went from being a high school English teacher to becoming a

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Broadway producer in under two years. So

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I've spent a lot of time thinking about how to package things, how

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to present things so that more people talk about them and how they

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can appeal to a mass audience. So

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what made you go from being a high school teacher to being a

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Broadway producer? I mean, that's gotta be a story in itself. Yeah.

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Well, I was always interested in theater. I

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had done a lot of work in the industry

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in different capacities. But when I found out

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about Broadway, I just became really fascinated with sort of how that

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system, sort of like, how that side of things worked. And the thing that I

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learned was you needed to basically raise money. You need

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to get people to write checks for these very, very

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large, sort of elaborate productions.

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And in that side of things.

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A lot of my colleagues were selling one show, so

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they'd go to different investors and they'd say, hey, I'm working on

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this one show. Do you want to write a check? Kind of thing.

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But me, I was actually just more interested in getting better at

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raising money. So I went to a bunch of

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producers and I said, listen, I don't even need credit right

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now. I just want to get out there and sort of get my reps in,

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in terms of raising money. So I had a lot of producers give me

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paperwork. And the other side of it was that I ended up

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with basically a portfolio where basically if I was with an

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investor and they weren't interested in one show, I had three or four

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others. And then word got around that I started raising money and then I was

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good at it. So I eventually started getting offered opportunities

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to get credit on the Broadway shows that I worked on.

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So there's a lesson there. To put this into a

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lesson. What would it be? I mean, how would you. Yeah, I would

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say the lesson is every industry

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has a system. Every industry has a way that things

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are executed on and that are done. And

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in all, in every industry, there are people who are

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moving through that system. And if you take the

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time to make those people more successful, if you find out what

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it is that they aspire to, then you're probably going to

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move faster. Right. If you look at what it is that's going to

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help them grow and you become part of that, word's going

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to get around. People are going to talk about you as the person

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who made those connections, made those opportunities

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happen. So there are two things that I want to point out.

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Yeah. One is that you took

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it from the perspective the other side of the

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coin, which is what so many entrepreneurs don't do.

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I do this, I do this, I do this. And I say to them, we

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don't care. Tell me what you're going to do for me.

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You made it convenient for investors to go to them

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and say, you don't like this one? I've got something else. So it was kind

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of like a one stop shopping and it was a collaborative effort.

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It was do it alone. You did it with a group.

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Yeah. And that was probably one of the lessons that I learned

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was getting more into community and getting into

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affiliations and things like that. So that's amazing.

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That's amazing. But that's not what I know you

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for the most. Yes. So tell us about

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that because that I find this amazing. I love this. Yeah. So

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this comes from my theater, this comes from my theater background. And

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basically there's this concept I've developed called the Triple Threat. And

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in the theater world, there's the idea of being an actor, a singer and

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a dancer. And what a lot of folks don't know about that

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unless you're in the industry is that the order of those things is

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actually very important to your success. So if acting is your top

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talent, for example, then you should be focusing on film and TV,

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should be focusing on musicals with a really good book. You should be focusing on

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straight plays and really playing to your top

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talent. Well, in the expert world, there is

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another form of Triple Threat, and that is the scientist, the celebrity, and

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the magician. And if your top talent is the

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scientist, you tend to be very good at the analytical side

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of thinking, sort of breaking things down. But you usually

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aren't as thrilled about sort of being out in front of people. And

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if you're. If the celebrity is your top talent, then

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you're very good at the people side of things. You're very good at connecting, being

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out in front of people. You're also very good at making other people feel like

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celebrities. But you may not be nearly as excited about the

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science. Right. And really breaking things down and understanding things. It's

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for you, it's more about the people. And finally, if

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your top talent is the magician, you are 100%

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wired for novelty, Meaning that you really are

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a very, very innovative thinker. You're always kind of looking at all the different

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angles, all the different ways that you could potentially do something.

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And you're very inventive, you're very creative, but

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you hate repetition. So even if something is

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making you successful, you will stop

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it if it feels too repetitive, if it feels too

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redundant. And I think that

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all entrepreneurs have a touch of music magician in

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them. Yes. We're so easily bored. I mean, when

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I started doing my workshop and someone said, you do the same

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workshop, I'm like, oh, you know, because I've been like, okay, this month I'm going

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to do that, you know, God, this is going to be horrible,

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you know, however, what I learned, apparently

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I entertain myself quite well. So,

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so learned is, you know, one

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of my things is curiosity and

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enticement. And each workshop, even though the

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skeleton of it is the same and, you know, like

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90% of it is the same, there's some little something

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that's different either because of the people in the room or

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because I've found something. And what I find from that is that

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I'm able to kind of go deeper rather than just broader.

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Yeah, but I love that. So I think the other

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thing that we're saying is play to, you know, if. Play to your

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strengths. Yes. Which is what my workshop is

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about. It's, you know, attract your right client by unlocking your

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unique powers and Your unique powers are something

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that are ingrained in you. And it does that you're,

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you're. Or I should put this in a question.

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I'm the interviewer, right? I

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should say to you, tell me about how people, you know,

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you don't have all one Small Change. How do people, you

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know, that kind of thing? Yeah, well, I think

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that there's just a, there's a talent that just comes

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very, very naturally to you. And so if,

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let's say being a magician is your top talent,

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ideas just sort of flood for you. Like,

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you don't really have any trouble coming up with a new angle or sort of

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a new way of doing things. Whereas if scientists is your top

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talent, you really don't struggle at all with

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really complex stuff. Like you can just like sit and

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read a research study and you're not bored by it. Like

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you're happy to like dig in and sort of figure out like all the components

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and all of the, all of the elements. And if celebrity's your

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top talent, you don't really worry about

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connecting with people. There's really kind of no like social anxiety

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there. There's no real challenge of like getting out in front of a crowd.

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Like, it's super. It feels just very, very

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natural to you and very, very easy to you. And usually

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whatever that natural thing is, that's usually your top

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talent. But then you have something else that you're pretty good at

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still, right? And that's the second talent. And then the last talent,

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it's usually the one that you don't use as much, you don't spend as

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much time on and maybe you need to work on, right? So for me

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personally, I am magician, celebrity, scientist.

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That's the, that's the order of my triple threat. I am

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very, very good at sort of coming up with innovative ideas and sort of coming

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up with interesting things. But I also love people. I

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love connecting, I love meeting folks, I love sort of

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the relational sort of component of it. And I

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think in a very sort of organized, scientific

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way. But you're never going to find me sitting there, you're never going to find

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me reading like a 56 page research study. I'm

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gonna want to hear like the Cliffs Notes of that study.

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That's me. And, and I also find that because

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I'm so visual and I think this is where people, you know, where

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I like kind of a matrix approach. Like, I love this,

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what you're saying, which gives light to some other things.

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So for me, scientific stuff is the most interesting.

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When I see it. So. So, you know, my

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husband will hook me into YouTube about, like,

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he had me watching. I don't know, some

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kind of killer fish thing the other night, which

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I would have never picked up a book. Yeah, you have read

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about, you know. Yeah. How does this. How does this impact

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the kind of clients that you have? Or what is your.

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Yeah, yeah. I do find

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that a lot of the time you'll attract

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more scientists when you're a magician. And

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basically, a lot of the time, magicians are very

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good translators for people. So scientists tend to

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kind of be in this. Like, I have all these ideas, I

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have all these things I want to do, but I have no idea how to

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talk about it. And magicians tend to be very good at sort of looking at

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that whole mess of things and saying, oh, this is how to talk

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about it, this is how to think about it. This is how to

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break it down. But conversely, you wouldn't go to a

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magician if you were looking for somebody to build a system

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for you and break everything down and sort of live in

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that, you know, that kind of world. Because scientists are more

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attuned to that idea. Right. They're better

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at coming up with, okay, this is the exact process.

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Whereas magicians are much more. They're going to lean into

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experimentation a lot more, and they're going to

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often enjoy experimentation a lot more. Whereas the

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scientists, a lot of the time, they're like, I want a clear

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sort of journey here. I want to know exactly what I'm doing,

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exactly sort of what's, you know, what's happening. So I do think

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that you'll have instances where you do have

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to pay attention to what are those things that those people

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want, but also recognize that some of them are going to be

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more attracted to your skill than others. Like, there

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are some people who really need that translation, and that's at the top

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of priorities for them. But then there are other people who. They're not

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really actually interested in translation right now. They feel like they kind of know what

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they have, but they might actually be more interested in

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growing that thing or building that thing, or they might be interested

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more in developing a system. And I think it's important to identify,

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like, where are those strengths for you and where are

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those areas that it just doesn't really make sense and you would probably

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do better to pass it off to somebody else where it would be a little

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more complimentary. So I. So the first thing,

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regardless whether you're looking at this as your. Your three

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things or something else, I think you know, my

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thing is, you don't need to be fixed, you need to be found. And

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nobody is good at everything. True.

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So sometimes it's a. Not a waste,

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but it's not as effective, I think, to spend a lot of

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time on something you're not good at when somebody else can do it

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really quickly. And part of our problem is the

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things that we're good at come so naturally

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to us. We don't realize that other people struggle with it.

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I mean, I was helping one of my clients. We were, you know, kind of

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putting together her client's journey and what the price range and the package

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titles and, I mean. And, you know, we went in about 20 minutes, I had

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taken what she had and rearranged it and, you know, whatever. And she was like,

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you didn't tell me that you were going to help me with my packaging.

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And I was like, oh, doesn't everybody do

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that? Yeah, because it feels natural. Right. Like, it

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just feels like I just do this. It just comes. Right.

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Yeah. And. And I think the thing is that,

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you know, there are certain words that you said to describe things that I

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just went, that's me. That's me. Yeah, the translator

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and. And some of the other

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archetypes and stuff. There's like, also the Small Change.

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Yes. I want to know why it works. You know, that

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kind of. And so, you know, the. The bottom

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line is.

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You have talents that other people need.

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Yes. So first you have to be aware of what

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your talents are, and then

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you need to know who are the people who need

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it. And sometimes it is not as

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obvious as it seems. Yeah,

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yeah. Very, very often. And I think that a lot of the time,

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we. Whatever our strength is, like, whatever. The thing is that we do

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really well for others, it's really tricky

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to do it for ourselves. Right. Like, it's really tricky to sort of

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flip that on because we just don't have the gift of

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distance. Right. Like, we can't see it. So I will

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have lots of instances where I'll meet people who are very much

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magicians. They're very good at packaging and solving other

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people's problems and, like, coming up with really interesting phrasing

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and all that kind of stuff, but they try to do it for themselves

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and it falls flat. And it's not really, you know, it's not really strong. So

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they end up looking to somebody with an outside

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perspective to help them see the things that they can't

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see. I find it really interesting that when I

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point something out to somebody that, to me, is really obvious.

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And they're like, why didn't I know that?

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Yeah, I, I'm smart. I should know that.

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Yeah. And the same thing is true with me. It's

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like, oh, my God, somebody said something. It was

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like, how come I didn't know that? Yeah. So.

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So I think that, you know, probably one of the biggest lessons is you

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as an entrepreneur. You cannot grow your. Your business in a vacuum.

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Yes. A couple of reasons for that. One is that

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the world is constantly changing. Whether you are or not, the world

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is changing. It is different every day. And

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you can't put your finger on the pulse of everything that's

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going on. So people, you know, so you're shooting at a moving

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target is the way that. Yeah. And you can do

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that so much better in a group. You know, whether it's a community,

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whether it's a coach, whether it's a mastermind or something like

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that. Then you can by yourself, because

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you just can't take in the information that you need. I mean, because there. Yeah.

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Information is everywhere. And what I say to people now is the trend

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is not information. That used to be the gold of

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expertise. Now the gold

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is implementation. Because you can get information anywhere.

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Yeah. You know, it's. Right. But you can get it anywhere.

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Right? Yeah. But being able to use it is really

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the thing that is so, so important.

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Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it's a, It's. It's essential. And

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I think that what tends to happen is

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we'll get information or we'll read something or

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we'll see something, and we'll have this thought of, oh,

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okay, now I know what I need to. What I need to do.

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And the fact of the matter is, until you actually test

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whatever that thing is, you're not going to know if

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it's actually going to work for you for the One Small Change

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that you have. And I see this all the time where somebody will learn

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something or see something on a. On a video or a course, and

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they'll try to do the exact same thing, but

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it doesn't fit who they are or it doesn't fit what their market's actually

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looking for. And that's why I am very, very bullish

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on the aspect of you need to

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test, like, you need to see what kind of

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reaction you get from something that you're creating

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and then decide, do you want to double down on that? Do

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you want to go deeper into that, or is it not really a fit for

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you? Is it not really a fit for your market? Well, it's funny

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because it's really taken me a long time to go from

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building a whole thing and putting it out there to

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putting it out there and seeing if I have any nibbles. Yeah. I am very

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excited about The One Small Change Podcast. Have an idea of what I want it

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to be. Putting it out there to see if I have any nibbles. And then,

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you know, so I am not. That is probably one of my

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weaknesses. I am not a big tester. I want to really focus on The One

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Small Change Podcast. Yeah. I can be really impulsive.

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But I am now about to do a pre Something

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survey, which I've never done before. Nice. So

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you can learn as you go along. You can get better. Exactly.

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Let me, before we run out of time, because really enjoying

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this, tell me three things you think

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people should do and be sure. We need to talk about your gift as well.

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Sure, sure. Yeah. So I think, you know, the first thing

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is that I think a lot of time we don't

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really look at who we already know. I think we spend

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so much time on relationship acquisition and not enough time on

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relationship retention. And I think, like, if you

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just take the time to sort of sit down and say, who, who do I

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already know? Who do I already have? Converse. Have I already had conversations

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with? And who would I like to deepen the relationship with?

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I think there's a lot of opportunity there that most people

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don't really pay enough attention to.

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Yeah. I just want to interject this. And I think

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one of the things that people forget is that

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the people that you met before.

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There. I don't know how to say this. You know, you know how, like, in

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retail there's always, like new customers. Only. People

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who have been customers feel like, well, you know, why are they getting a deal

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and I'm not. I'm. I'm a loyal customer. Yep.

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And so though going back to those people just

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really deepens that relationship. And it really. I mean, I think

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it's like gold mine that people ignore them and don't

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nourish them at all, you know, as much as they should. I'm sorry, that just.

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Yeah, no, no, I. I appreciate that. And I think it's a very, very important.

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It's a very, very important point for everybody to be thinking,

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you know, be thinking about. Second thing I'll say

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is that most of the success that I've

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experienced in my life has come from

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focusing more on people's problems than

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on the solution that I provide to those problems.

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Meaning I spend far more time

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having conversations with people to understand what the actual

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problem is, like, what the actual issue is. And I make

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that part of the content and the things that I create, I write about

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problems, and I have far more interest

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from clients when I've taken the time to help them understand

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the problems as opposed to talking about the solutions. And I think

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it's a very, very important thing to just, like, always be thinking

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about for yourself is, are you

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a understanding the problems that your clients have

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and be communicating that you understand those

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problems, like helping them understand those problems, naming

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those problems for them, because that is one of the best

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tools that you have from a selling standpoint

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that. That there is. Well, it's funny because,

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you know, one of my first coaches said to

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me, you paint your door red with what they think the

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problem is, and when you get them inside, you actually

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help them, you know, solve the real problem. And so for me, when

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I was, you know, doing productivity, most people thought that meant

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time management. Yep. I'm like, no, it's not, you know, but

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rather that. Rather than, you know, go into the no, it's not kind

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of thing. It was like, yes, we're going to do that, but

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we're going to do more. Right. Okay, give me the third one because these

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are gold. Oh, thank you. So I would say

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the last one. I call this the gate

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strategy. And every day, challenge

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yourself to open and close the gate. So every day,

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give without expectation of return. Just do something

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for somebody. No ties, Just help

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somebody in some particular way. But every

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day, in addition to that, ask for something

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that you need. Let your network know

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if you need something. Communicate that.

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Make sure that you work that muscle of asking every

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single day. The T is for

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thank. And every day,

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identify somebody that you can send a

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meaningful thank you to. Thank them, tell them

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what they did, what it meant. And finally,

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every single day, the E is for experiment.

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Look for something within the work that you're doing

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that you could do a small test on. It doesn't have to be anything

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really big. It could be you're going to change a subject line, you're going to

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change the way that you describe something, you're going to choose something else to talk

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about on a Podcast, whatever it is, Every

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single day, come up with at least one Small

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experiment. And if every single day you open and close the

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gate, after a while you're going to start to notice patterns in

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all of those areas. You're going to start to notice, oh, well, when I give

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here, these are the types of reactions that I get when I ask

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these people. These are the things that work, these are the things that don't. When

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I say thank you. These are the opportunities that show up when I do these

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experiments. These are the experiments that work the best. If every

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day you open and close the gate, you're going to notice

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a marked difference in your business

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and in your life. Okay, so first I want to go back.

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Give me the word again that the acronym is for gate.

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Gate. Okay. Give.

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Something, think, and experiment. I don't. Yes,

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ask, Ask. Which is probably the reason I don't remember.

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Yep. Something that that is. Is. Is a muscle

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that I don't use. I mean, the simple thing of, you know,

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just building it into. When you interview somebody on a Podcast saying, do you know

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anybody else that. That might be a good guest on my Podcast, or

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do you know anybody else that I might be a good guest. And I always

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forget to do that. Yep. Yep.

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And. And it creates, like, a ripple effect. And I

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think is. Particularly.

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I think particularly women, because so many of

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us were alive during that. Women, hear me roar.

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You know, you can do everything that asking seems like

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it's a weakness. Yeah. In fact, asking is

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a strength. Oh, 100%. I mean, that is,

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I think, the reason why so many people get overwhelmed. And, you know.

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You know, it's just, you know, and. And I think.

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I don't know. This is a personal thing. It's kind of. I asked for

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something. What's it going to cost me? I mean, emotion, the

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price. And. And so that is, you know, I think, you know,

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when someone said to me when I first started doing affiliates, when you work

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with more secure people, you don't have that

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issue. Yeah. You know, willing to give

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without any kinds of con. And I found that to be true. I mean,

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it is. I am in a place right now where

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I feel like when I ask people, like, do you want to be on my

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podcast or do you want to be on my summit? And stuff like that, I

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am, like, so amazed at how fast the answers come back. Like, I'm so glad

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you asked me, or, I can't do it this time, but will you make sure

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to make, you know. You know, and it is. It

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is. I think when you show up as your genuine self

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and you can give the gifts that you can give that other

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people can't give. Right. Want to

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be with you. You know, I find it interesting now

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when I go networking, somebody will say, oh, you need to make

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sure you talk to Yvonne. Or, you know, and I'm like, wow.

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I'm just, like, totally amazed by that. Okay, we're running out of time, and I'm

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having Fun. Let me ask you this.

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You didn't name what your GIF was. Yep. Yeah.

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So I have a tool called the Referability Rater. If you go to

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my ReferabilityRater.com, basically, this

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is a tool that will help you understand how referable you

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actually are. So it actually takes you through a number of

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things that you can see how referable you

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are as an individual, as a business, et cetera.

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And if you go and you use that, you're going to notice

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those areas for yourself. You're going to start to be like, oh, wait a

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second. Here are the areas where I could use some

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improvement. Here are the areas where I'm really strong. And

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that'll help you get a better sense of, like, what's working and

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what's not. And not only that, when

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you contact other people from the fat, and you know that

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then you're probably going to get more results from it.

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Absolutely, Absolutely. Okay, so when was the last time you did something

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new for the first time? Yeah, I was thinking about

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this because there are so many things that end up

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feeling like, wait a second, I've done this.

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You know, I've done this before. I've sort of gone through, you know. So I'm

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thinking as I think back to it.

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We went to a water park, and it

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had been a very long time since I was a kid,

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that I had done any of the, like,

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scary ones. Right. Like, like, you always kind of did, like, the safe

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ones. Right. And I've got two little girls, and

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they wanted to get on. They wanted to go down one of these ones

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where it's like, you sit on a tube and that thing, like,

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spins around like, as you're going, I did

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it. I don't know if I'll ever do

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it again, but I did it.

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No, I think that. I think there are lots of things that we do for

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our kids. Yes. That, you know. And,

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you know, one of the things that, you know, I have a. I have a

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child that's like 12 years younger than my oldest child.

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People go, she's going to keep you young.

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So, you know, you. You do things that you. You thought you had been

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finished doing. Right. 100.

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Oh, I can't believe. All right, so let me give you the commercial and

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we'll wind this up, even though I don't want to. So, everybody,

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as a first step, please subscribe, share, and engage on social media

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with the podcast. And, you know, the reason that I do this is

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to introduce you to people that maybe you haven't met and supercharge

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your business through new connections. And it's my way of giving back

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to this vibrant community and fueling your, your quest for growth.

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And I hope you'll continue to join me for the one small change as

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you're making these tiny shifts that, that are going to yield

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monumental transformations. And for

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those of you who don't know, every quarter I do a quarterly clarity

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chat where I talk about what I think is coming up in the trends. And

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so you might want to also look. So Michael, what are your last words you

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want to leave us with? So I always like to say that the keys to

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all the doors we need open are in other people's pockets.

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And the most important component of that

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is that you, right now, in this moment, are sitting there with a

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pocket full of keys. You have no idea

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how much you can benefit somebody else until you start having

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those conversations and finding out where they could use help, where they could use

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support. So make sure that you, you use those

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keys. Don't just walk around and

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with these heavy pockets full of keys. Not only that,

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that means that people who are starting out have keys as well.

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Yes, indeed, very much so. They discount

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themselves and they really should not because is

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kind of ahead of somebody and you can help and

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share and, you know, be of value just by your

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presence. I mean, I, I, my goal is

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that we both leave better for having met each other.

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I love that, whatever that is. Do you know?

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Yeah. Oh my God. Okay, so

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everybody remember, change is simple, but it's not always easy. And

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it requires courage, resilience, and a willingness to step out of your

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comfort zone. And let me tell you, if you're comfortable,

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it actually means you're stagnating because the world is changing

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all around you and you are not keeping up.

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I just want you to know that so many things

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are possible just by making a small change or making a

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small connection. And you will be amazed at the things

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that change in your world. Anyway, so join me for the one small

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change every week as we embark on this journey. And

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until then, stay very, very curious.

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Michael, thank you so much. Thanks for having me. It's an absolute

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blast.

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