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Is Private Coaching right for you?
Episode 972nd January 2025 • After The Hustle • Jaz Marfo
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In this episode I address the often-asked question about the difference between Solo sessions and Private coaching. Key differences are discussed, including the duration of support, the specificity of goals, and the additional resources and experiences provided in private coaching.

00:24 Understanding Solo Sessions vs. Private Coaching

02:37 Key Differences Between Solo Sessions and Private Coaching

04:07 The Journey of Private Coaching

07:57 The VIP Experience of Private Coaching

09:20 Making the Right Choice for You

If you're interested in either book below:

  • Solo session - Book the session here
  • Private Coaching - Book a free consultation call here (2025 enrollment closes 12th Jan 2025)

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Speaker:

Hello and welcome back to another

episode of After The Hustle Podcast.

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Okay, so this episode is very long

overdue, um, because it's just

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one of those questions, right?

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I'm really on this theme of answering

all the questions that you shouldn't have

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to ask, you know, That's where we're at.

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Um, and I think also with the introduction

of my solo sessions, which are 60 minute

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one off, like all the magic happens on the

call, um, sessions, I thought it was even

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more important for me to explain kind of

the differences between that and private

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coaching and why you Consider private

coaching over that if that makes sense.

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Um, either way, I'm happy if we get

to work together I'm over the moon

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regardless rainbow sprinkles all of

that But there are a few key differences

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beyond obviously the duration and the

length of time That come into play when

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it comes to private coaching and it can

be difficult to decide The other caveat

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that I would make really clear is With the

solo sessions, um, you know, I describe

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them as the closest thing that you can

ever get to a free trial of my coaching.

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So what actually happens when you book

a solo session, you also get a very

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special offer, um, that allows you to

upgrade to private coaching and it will

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take your initial investment off of

the total price of private coaching.

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Um, and you'll still get your

full entitlement of sessions.

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So essentially what you can do if

you are in that space where you're

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like, eh, not sure, is book a

solo session, um, to try it out.

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If that's good and you get

everything you need, amazing.

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If you're like, actually, this

has shown me so many different

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areas that I want to work on, you

can upgrade to private coaching.

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And ultimately what this

special offer does is it just

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makes your solo session free.

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Um, so that is a caveat that I want to

give, um, and you get the details of

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that when you book, um, the solo session,

so it's all there, you don't need to do

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anything special about it, you literally

just need to book a consultation call

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or let me know that you want to kind

of upgrade, um, even if you try and go

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straight through to upgrade, we're going

to have that consultation call anyway,

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because I'm a big believer of ensuring

that when you invest in private coaching,

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you start off with the right skills,

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we both know what we're working on.

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We know the specific milestones

and the route to your goal.

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So.

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little heads up for those of you who are

like, cool, I'm going to do solo session

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and I'm going to just become a three month

private coaching client the day after

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we do have that little step in between.

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Um, but we keep that step snappy anyway.

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So the core differences that I would

say when it comes to deciding between

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the solo session and the private

coaching session before I dive into

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The key things with private coaching

is that if you know exactly what you

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want, we can dive into solo, right?

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So if you know you perhaps want to

review you want clarity around the

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decision you want to uncover your

blocks around imposter syndrome or

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building confidence authentically

you want to work on goals and why

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you haven't been getting them, right?

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There's something specific that you

want However, if there is an element

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of figuring out and clarifying what you

want, like big picture, then private

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coaching is better for you because we

will have the space to expand on that.

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And to be honest with you, between the

consultation call and the 90 minute vision

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setting, call, like the kickoff call that

we get, we do all of that clarifying.

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So please don't think that we're going

to spend three months just mulling over

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and reflecting and brainstorming, right?

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We're, we're really about that

action, but we do definitely have

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plenty of space for that, um,

figuring out a portion of things.

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So that's the key differentiator that I

will say is the specificity of your goal.

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If it's hella specific, You know

exactly what you need from me, you want

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from me, you come in full of beans.

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Solo session's good for you.

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If it's some figuring out,

we need more space for that.

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And then beyond that, there's four

things to kind of keep in mind when

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it comes to private coaching and

understanding if it's right for you.

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So the first thing with private

coaching is it is three months,

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so it is for the journey.

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That's how I describe

it, it's for the journey.

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It is comprehensive support

and accountability for the

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full three months, right?

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And when I say accountability,

this isn't babysitting.

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Um, this is having support in your

corner for when it gets tough, right?

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A voice note before the interview and a

space to WhatsApp when something exciting

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comes up is what I mean in terms of

accountability all led by you, right?

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I am only sliding.

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In your whatsapps, right?

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If you have invited me to, if you want

me to check in on you before or after the

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interview, if you want to have a quick

chat and things like that, it's all very

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much led by you, but it's for the journey.

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I'm there for the in between bits that

are outside of our coaching sessions.

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The other thing is that private coaching

is perfect for a longer transformation.

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So figuring out those next steps, taking

them, falling short a little bit, and

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then getting back up will all happen,

and we'll have space and capacity for it.

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And with private coaching,

I'm there for all of it.

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So you can build your resilience

plan for when it happens

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outside of our coaching, right?

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There's a big thing, I think there's

a lot of coaches, like I, don't get me

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wrong, I love it when people resign,

they decide to renew for a further three

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years, Three months, but I'm really

big on, you know, If I give you a fish

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you eat for one day if I teach you to

fish you eat forever That's the energy

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that i'm with so actually through being

in that space of okay falling short of

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stuff falling off track Getting unfocused

and then coming back on me being there

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allows you to build that resilience

plan And also start to integrate right

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integrate and apply and trial and error

and experiment with me there You as a

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sort of, um, support system allows you

to then build in those, those tools and

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those resources for when we're no longer

working together in that close proximity.

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And ultimately, it's really easy for us

to think that everything's resolved once

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you've decided what to do, but once you're

actually doing it, or not doing it, should

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we say, Things start to change and you

start to learn new things about yourself.

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And I'm going to make sure that

you're there, um, unpacking those

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learnings at each place and that

mirror to reflect that back.

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And ultimately that time period, right?

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For that longer transformation

allows you to wobble with safety.

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It allows you to wobble with safety.

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The other thing is it's really ensuring

that there's a next time, right?

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There is nothing worse than

hitting a breakthrough.

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Okay.

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At minute 59 of 60.

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Right?

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And having no space to get feedback,

further support, or recommendations,

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or just anything else, right?

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With the solo sessions, if Breakthrough

comes at minute 59 of 60, you

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have to book another to unpack

what just came up for you, right?

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Sounds harsh, But that's the

realities of the boundaries of

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the 60 minute session, right?

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Whereas with private coaching,

you simply drop me an email

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or a message with it, right?

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Or you signpost it for the next

session we have in the calendar because

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we will have one in the calendar.

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Now, I know some of you are

thinking, but Jazz can't I just

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book several solo sessions?

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Oh, a thousand percent.

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Of course you can.

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Of course you can.

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Um, but if you book several

solo sessions, you've got to

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wait until that solo session.

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There is no messaging in between, right?

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And of course you can do that

digestion by yourself, but there

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is something very comforting at

knowing there is a next time.

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Nothing is running away.

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No goal is running away.

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Like one of my favorite things to be able

to say on a session where I can see a

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client is torn, right, in the direction

that we go in our time together is being

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able to say, whichever one you don't

choose, we can pick up next session.

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Whichever one we don't choose,

I can send you some resources.

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Right.

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That is one of my favorite things to say.

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And then the last thing, right?

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The last thing is, and I would

say that this is the least,

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although I've made it juicy.

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It's for the additional extras, right?

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Private coaching should feel nourishing

and in a lot of ways, luxurious.

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These are my VIPs.

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Anything exciting that's happening.

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I bring my clients in.

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I create and curate experiences

for my private coaching clients.

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So having access to things like the

client portal, support between sessions,

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exclusive events, workshops, experiences

like the photo shoot that we have

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coming up, that all included, right?

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As much as they're

extras, they're bonuses.

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You pay your one investment

and you get all the goodies.

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And ultimately I have found.

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You know that so many clients spend time

in the sessions really focus on what is

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top of mind for them But they're able to

go and play in the portal and you know

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use that time to start a side hustle

understand imposter syndrome all that

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good fun stuff And ultimately in that way

you can move towards parallel ambitions

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In a way that is a hundred percent

led by you through, you know, client

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portal being one of the goodies, right?

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Um solo sessions don't get in person

sessions they don't get to make

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use of a really Gorgeous co working

space, you know on the days where

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we have sessions things like that.

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So It really is for that VIP

experience for that journey.

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If you want coaching to feel like an

experience and not just a service,

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um, that's another thing to consider

in terms of understanding if private

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coaching is the right choice for you.

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Um, but needless to say, right,

both choices can get you results.

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It's just about really asking yourself

with What I want, with what's top of mind

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for me, how specific can I be about this?

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Because the best way for you to

squeeze the most out of me on a

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solo session, come with your list.

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Right?

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I actually love it when people

come to me with stuff, and I

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will tell you this by the way,

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you won't be caught unawares, should I

say, if you have set the bar too high

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for what we can achieve in 60 minutes.

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As I will tell you before the session,

right, I will let you know, we can

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either do A and B or we can do C and D.

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We can't do A to D.

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Yeah?

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So, here's a podcast on D, here's

a blog on C, but either way, when

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we get on that call, I'm gonna

need you to choose two letters.

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Two of your bullet points

for us to go into, right?

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And, and again, one thing I want

to encourage folks who, you know,

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you're about to press the button

on the solo session, is give me

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as much information as possible.

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There is no such thing

as too much information.

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I have had clients book a solo session

and run out of space in the booking

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form and just send me an email.

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That's fine.

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That is absolutely fine.

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In fact, I love that because it

shows that you are trying to squeeze

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everything out of the session and

be super intentional with our time

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together and to give me space.

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So, you know, with every client

session I have, I always put in

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a certain amount of prep and also

kind of reflection at the end.

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So also don't feel that it's an

imposition to send me an email.

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Don't expect me to have looked

at a ton of stuff in that email.

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So that's one thing I will say.

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Like unless of course we are working

on your CV per se in that session

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and stuff like that, you know,

we're talking for a solo session.

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My prep for that session

is about 20 minutes max.

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So just think of that when you're

sending me over the stuff, cause we

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may get on the corner and we need to

get upset that I didn't look at all

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16 versions of your covering letter.

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Like we're going to dive in and

just be super laser focused.

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Um, And you know, in the same way

with private coaching, when my private

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coaching clients book a session, they

have a space to discuss what they

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want to focus on, you come ready, come

ready to squeeze everything out of me.

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It's exciting when people are like, I have

so many things that I want to dive into.

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I don't know where to start.

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And again, as I said before, with private

coaching, favorite things for me to say

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is whatever you don't choose, no pressure.

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I can share a resource so we can

pick it up in the next session.

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So, short and snappy one for today,

but again, a key, key, key question,

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especially where you have some choices

to make, where you're at that space,

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where you know, okay, I want to

work with Jaz in some shape or form.

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What does that look like?

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You know, should I go for this one?

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Should I go for that one?

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One thing that I will say at the

time of recording this, so we're in

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December 2024, um, private coaching.

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If you want to get in.

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For private coaching, my first and

last enrollment for:

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on the 12th of January, right?

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So if you want that three month

experience, I want to make sure

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that you've got enough time

to have all of those sessions.

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So please go ahead.

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Don't delay in booking

that consultation call.

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Um, that being said, solo sessions

are available right the way

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through to the 2nd of March.

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So if now's not a good time.

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Christmas is hard on the

pockets, on the coins.

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Um, I'm not running away.

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You just have to, um, you'll

have to work with me in a

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slightly different format, right?

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As I explained, the

solo sessions are there.

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So please do, I don't want anybody to

feel any pressure either way with both

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of them when I am back from mat leave.

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We're jumping into that 2026 waitlist.

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So please, please,

please sign up for that.

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If it's a future thing, that's all good.

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Because I want to make sure that

before even social media knows

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I'm back, you get that email to

say, Hey, I have got you down.

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Do you want to hop on a call?

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Is this still a later thing?

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Is this a now thing?

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Because I will save a space for you today.

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Okay?

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So, short one for today.

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But Hopefully a helpful one and as ever,

if you have more questions, reach out,

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I'm a real somebody, drop me an email,

DM me with your further questions or

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anything that I've mentioned today

that you want to know more about.

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Of course, the easiest way for you to find

out more about private coaching is to hop

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on that No Obligation Private Coaching.

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Consultation call where I go through

what it will look like for you.

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I'll even highlight some of the

key parts of the experience that

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will be really, really potent and

impactful to your specific goal.

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Um, I've been on sessions and

shown people the portal, right?

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There's listen, you, you, you asked

me all the questions that you need in

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order to make the best decision for you.

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So, um, want to encourage you to take

that step if that's top of mind for you,

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but also encourage you to chill out.

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Relax and know that I'm gonna be back.

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I'm not going anywhere.

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I, I am almost seven years in the game

and not going anywhere anytime soon.

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So I'll speak to you next time.

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