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F#ck em - Releasing Tall Poppy Syndrome
Episode 19012th August 2022 • The Grief Code • Ian Hawkins
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In today’s episode, Ian talks about rooting for someone else’s successes in life can inspire a positive and healthy change in other people. Listen to what Ian has to say as he elaborates on the Tall Poppy Syndrome and the other aspects which will help you improve yourself and your relationship with others.


Don’t miss:


  • Get a more comprehensive idea of what is Tall Poppy Syndrome.
  • Understanding the concept of allowing yourself to be better makes you more powerful and more capable.
  • Envision yourself with the achievement of your goals because of your high-performance levels.
  • Acknowledging that listening to the negative feedback of other people in your life will not help you in any way to get better because they only drag you down.
  • Creating better connections with people.
  • Fueling yourself to get your drive going as you take on the journey to self-improvement.


About the Host:


Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 


The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 


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Ian Hawkins 0:02

Are you ready, ready to release internal pain to find confidence, clarity and direction for your future, to live a life of meaning, fulfillment and contribution to trust your intuition again, but something's been holding you back, you've come to the right place. Welcome. I'm a Ian Hawkins, the host and founder of The Grief Code podcast. Together, let's heal your unresolved or unknown grief by unlocking your grief code. As you tune into each episode, you will receive insight into your own grief, how to eliminate it, and what to do next. Before we start by one request, if any new insights or awareness land with you during this episode, please send me an email at info at the and Hawkins coaching.com. And let me know what you found. I know the power of this work, I love to hear the impact these conversations have. Okay, let's get into it.

For those of you in the US, this may not resonate so much. But in Australia differently. And from what I'm led to believe the UK possibly New Zealand, there's this tall poppy syndrome which exists, which essentially is don't be too proud of yourself. Don't sell yourself, don't try and show how well you're doing. Don't try and cheer for yourself. Don't try and stand out. Because if you do, we're going to cut you down. We're going to bring you down a peg or two, so that you can just fit in nicely with the rest of us. It's crazy. Why would we not celebrate other people's success? Well, usually because there's a certain level of safety and health having our friends at the same level they were before because that's the person we know. But what if they change? Well, it's a survival instinct. If they change and get better and improve what will become of me. So that's it, survival kicks in and we cut people down. Crazy. Now, I've used this phrase so many times in the last couple of weeks when people have been challenging people to go to that next level. And they're like, Oh, I'm worried about what so and so will think and what they will say. And I'll say the same thing that I said to them one and a half words Falcom people will always have something to whinge about to complain about to cut you down about the matter how you're going to do it anyway. Those kinds of people will always have something like that to complain about. How's that helping you? It's not. Now when and it's easier said than done at times, because some of these people we really care about. But how long will you dim your light, we reduce your performance, so they feel good about themselves. Meanwhile, you don't because you know, you want to be at high performance levels, you know, you want to be succeeding, you know, you want to accomplish so many more things.

So you can choose to buy into the tall poppy syndrome, then keep carrying on like everyone else. Or excuse my alarm going off Amager you can make a choice that you will stick your head above the parapet, knowing it could get shot out. But you'll do it anyway. Because your happiness in life means more than other people's need to keep you at that level so that you can stay safe. And the best way that you can inspire change in other people is by being a role model. That will help them to change as well. And when you're growing, trying to get better. We can't help but connect better with all of those people. You can't help but bring in more unity because you're always striving to be better in that area as well. So don't let the haters drag you down. Don't let the naysayers tell you can't. You go out and do what you want to do. And find other people who will lift you up on that journey because then you will fly above the pack. Find the success that you want. And you'll find the drive for more of it because once you start once you start getting more of it, it just fills you up. It fuels you and drive you to do more and more and more. I believe in you.

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Code podcast. Thank you so much for listening. Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at info at Ian Hawkins coaching.com You can also stay connected with me by joining the Grief Code community at Ian Hawkins coaching.com forward slash The Grief Code and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal. Please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform.

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