You don’t become sexy. You reclaim it.
In today’s tea time sesh, Amanda gets real about her “sexy 27” chapter—and why it’s been one of the hardest seasons of her life.
What was supposed to feel fun, confident, and carefree turned into something deeper: healing out loud. As Amanda unpacks the impact of a past violent relationship, she shares how trauma shaped her self-image, trust, and relationship with her own body—and the truth she’s learning now.
This episode is your wake-up call to stop letting trauma, society, or anyone else define your worth, your body, or your power.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself, struggled to feel confident, or questioned what “sexy” even means for you—this is your permission slip to take it back.
Amanda breaks down her Own Your Sexy guide with four pillars to help you rebuild that connection.
From setting boundaries and choosing yourself to movement, self-expression, and creating a life that feels good—this is about owning every part of your becoming, even the messy ones.
No shame. No shrinking. No asking for permission.
Just power, freedom, and confidence—on your terms.
🎧 Press play and start reclaiming your sexy.
Iconic Episode References:
Hot & Healing: How To Turn Pain Into Power
Freedom Looks Sexy: Designing a Life That Serves You
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Got a question for Amanda or a topic you'd love to hear discussed on a future episode? Submit your question to the "Dare To Be Iconic Hotline" today!
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome to Dare To Be Iconic
03:03 Sexy 27 Reality Check
04:19 Trauma & Trust
07:49 Redefining Sexy
11:30 Freedom at the Core
15:41 Reclaiming Your Power
16:19 Four Pillars of Owning Your Sexy
16:49 Pillar 1: Mindset and Energy
18:44 Pillar 2: Body and Movement
21:49 Pillar 3: Expression Rituals
25:38 Pillar 4: Pleasure and Joy
30:52 See you next week!
What's up, Radiant Icons and welcome back to Dare To Be
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:Iconic, the podcast made for icons
who are daring to be themselves.
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:I'm your host, Amanda Paolicelli,
and for today's tea Time sesh, I
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:have been dying to spill the tea on
this very topic, radiant icons since
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:I introduced it last year in our
national Amanda Day Tea Time sesh.
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:So without further ado, radiant icons.
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:Today's tea time sesh is dedicated to
owning your sexy because it's getting
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:sexy and iconic up in here, radiant icons.
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:And as you know, in our National Amanda
Day episode, I spoke about sexy being
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:my intention for chapter 27 of my life.
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:And within the first few months of my
sexy 27 journey, a lot has happened.
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:A lot has happened.
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:I have learned a lot and well.
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:I can't wait to spill the piping
hot tea with you all because I
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:know that's why you are here.
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:Okay?
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:Okay.
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:I know we love some good tea here at Dare
to be Iconic, and I will always deliver.
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:But before we get into that radiant
icons, I dare you to connect with me
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:on socials on Instagram and TikTok.
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:It's @amandapaolicelli_
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:and @daretobeiconic_.
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:And if you're on LinkedIn Radiance icons,
you already know what I'm gonna say.
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:Make sure to connect with me on there.
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:It's Amanda Paolicelli.
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:All of my socials are linked
in the show notes below.
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:And speaking of show notes, radiant icons.
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:I know I may have, you know, shared
a little, a little secret on my
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:Instagram story the other day that
there will be a very special DTBI
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:announcement revealed on Friday April
3rd, which is two days from now.
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:And I did say on my Instagram that
if you are watching the YouTube
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:version of our podcast, then you'll
be able to see a little sneak
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:peek of what that secret will be.
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:So if you're watching it, you're welcome.
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:I hope you enjoy it.
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:Oh my goodness, radiant icons.
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:I have missed chatting with you all.
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:Oh my God, it's good to be back.
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:It's good to be sexy and iconic with you
all as we dive into this month of April
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:that is dedicated to owning your sexy.
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:So without further ado radiant
icons, let's get into it.
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:Are you ready for your tea time sesh?
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:Because it's starting now.
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:Oh, radiant icons, I have a lot to say
about owning your sexy, and I think the
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:first thing that I do wanna lead with is
that Chapter 27, sexy 27, has been one
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:of the most challenging and difficult
chapters of my life, a thousand percent.
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:And we're only five months in.
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:Like that's the crazy thing is
we're only five months in and
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:I am having so much difficulty
navigating this chapter of my life.
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:There's a lot of things that are coming
up, a lot of emotions and feelings that
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:I didn't anticipate coming up for me
when I chose this intention of sexiness.
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:Like when I chose this intention of
sexiness, I truly was like, oh, this is
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:Like, oh my god, nothing can break me.
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:I'm not gonna cry all the time.
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rollercoaster of emotions.
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:It's just gonna be a fun chapter
and I can't wait to have some fun.
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:Right?
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:I was wrong.
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:I am having a lot of fun, but I'm also
going through a lot of heartbreak if
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:I'm being so, so for real with you guys.
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:I have been going through a lot of fun,
but also a lot of heartbreak, and that is
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:what is so surprising to me, is that I'm
experiencing this pain, I'm experiencing
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:this sadness, I'm experiencing this
anger almost, and I know there is
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:another extra layer added to it because
I am actively healing out loud from the
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:trauma I have experienced in my dating
violence relationship at 18 years old,
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:as you guys know, in February in Hot and
Healing: How To Turn Your Pain Into Power.
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:I publicly shared my truth for the
first time that when I was 18 I
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violence or dating violence.
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:If you were a teen, and I was a
teenager at that time, I was 18
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that's like what, nine years, right?
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:I am now dealing with it nine years
later, which means a lot of wounds
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opened are being dealt with now.
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apparently didn't deal with, and sometimes
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it bleeds into every area of your life.
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is coming to terms with, oh,
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that relationship really has
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myself, and it's affected how I view men.
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:I'm a man hater with a lover girl soul,
and I have not found a man that can change
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men because of what has happened to
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by men in my life that has affected
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chapter 27 of my life, I have
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silver lining in things and
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and honestly negative and angry.
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process, and I have been so sad.
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:Because of what has happened and
what I have dealt with and how it
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when I just wanted this damn chapter
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:But the matter of the fact is when
I look at sexy, right, and I think
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:of owning your sexy, I have to go
back to that definition of sexiness
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:And for me, my personal definition of
sexy, because sexy is a personal journey.
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it's an individualized experience.
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all parts of becoming.
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:Maybe just, maybe I need to
accept this part of my becoming.
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is hard to navigate because I need
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part of hopelessness.
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the amount of times I was violated in
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that's part of my becoming.
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:That is how I embrace my
sexiest most iconic self.
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that I have not felt are coming
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it and to deal with it.
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chapter for me because if we're also
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there is so much trauma, just not only
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but for young women in general when it
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we are told from the day we come out
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embrace these feelings of being sexy.
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:Or we can't be sexy for ourselves, we're
told not to embrace our sensuality.
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when it comes to the pleasure of a
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:If we're hot and we're sexy to
them, that's, that's our worth.
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:That's a bunch of fucking bullshit if
I'm being so fucking honest with you.
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woman who is constantly battling
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does it truly mean to be sexy, right?
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who has difficulty really comprehending
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or how do you, how do you begin?
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society tells us sexy is, or what men
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us, or it's our experiences, right?
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it for us, and then it's us.
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even know where to begin.
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personal definition of sexy, which
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becoming, I truly had to think of what
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I wanted my word to be freedom.
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me this year and every decision I make.
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personally, and accepting all parts
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and really hard parts of becoming
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myself permission to make decisions, to
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think outside of the box, to do things
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heal out loud and accept every part
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which includes the pain, which includes
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agony of coming to terms with what I have
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affected me in every area of my life,
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icons, but I can't do any of that
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my sexy and I gotta break it down.
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this own, your sexy, sexy 27 chapter
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phrase it radiant icons is thinking of
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chapter of my life of sexiness?
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you to look at when you are defining
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to get out of this chapter of your life?
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wanna get out of this chapter
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:How do you see it for yourself?
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:How do you see yourself letting
sexiness lead you in every decision
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an energy that you possess within?
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said that in the "freedom looks sexy:
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which I will link in the show notes
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that you exude, you radiate out.
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cannot define it for yourself and get
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to define me anymore.
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and figure out what the hell it means.
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:What does it mean to be 27 years
old and embrace what makes me sexy?
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:What does that mean?
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the hell I want to do it, the Amanda
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:way to do it, the Amanda way to have
freedom in my voice, to have freedom
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my decisions, and so much more.
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just be free, to just be sexy.
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becoming in order to get to that,
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sexiness and this chapter of my life.
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right now, and it has been some of the
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my life, it's all part of my becoming.
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"Own Your Sexy" journey radiant icons,
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feeling powerful in your own skin.
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to get to the root of it.
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of power is reclaiming.
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sexiness, reclaiming ownership
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over your story, over your energy.
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icons, the root of that is reclaiming.
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ownership of your sexiness.
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:Now we are putting it into action so
in good old Amanda fashion, because
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:you know I love myself, a guide.
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:I've created your own,
own your sexy guide.
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:This is what I have been doing
on my own your sexy journey,
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:I've broken it down into four pillars.
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:We, we all just wanna be
sexy and iconic in:
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:So the first pillar right,
is mindset and energy.
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reclaiming your mind and your energy when
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:It can look like affirmation work.
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:It can look like journaling.
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:You know, I know a really good journal.
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:It's called "Breakup with the Past,
Fall In Love with the Future."
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:It's by this really great
business called Dare to Be Iconic.
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:You may have heard of them.
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:Um, I've linked in the show notes
for you, radiant icons, but any who?
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:Um, it can look like
setting boundaries, right?
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boundaries, radiant icons.
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:We've spoken a lot about
boundaries setting in:
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:It can look like choosing
yourself, putting yourself first,
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:doing what is right for you.
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:It can look like taking a course or
a certification on something that you
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:I know for me right now,
personally, radiant icons.
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:I am doing this course on Coursera.
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:Um, it's from Goldman Sachs.
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:It's the 10,000 Women course,
and it's all about business
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:I think there is something so beautiful
about pouring into your mindset and
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:your energy as you are on this own your
sexy journey and reclaiming sexiness
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'cause it all starts with your mind.
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:How do you see sexiness for yourself?
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:How do you do that mindset switch
that, you know, I love talking about
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:You are making the active choice to
see sexiness the way you want to see
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:it, and not let any external factors
determine how you are going to do that
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because then you'll be radiating
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definition of sexiness throughout.
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:Now let's get to pillar
number two, radiant icons.
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:Pillar number two is body and movement.
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:You know, I love a good movement
and I feel like there is something
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loud, physically through movement.
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here, going to heels class every week.
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movement when it comes to this own
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truly just comes down to finding
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:Again, owning your sexy is a
personal, an intimate journey.
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movement may not work for you.
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:It's the most beautiful form of art to me,
to me personally, that I get to reconnect
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definition of sexy through movement.
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fitness class, whatever it is, you know?
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or the trampoline fitness classes.
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good friend Rebecca from college.
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ballet when I was younger.
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ballet and that allows them to
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:But you know, I'm the first one to go to
heels class, but you know what I'm saying.
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:It is such a individual experience
in this own your sexy journey.
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your soul on fire and allow you to
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experience every emotion and just be in
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:It's just so important to move your
body when you are owning your sexy.
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:So please, I encourage you to find
movement that feels good for you and
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how you build up your confidence and
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it like I did with heels dance.
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:That's the last time I'm
gonna say it for this episode.
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three, and that is expression.
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think of this pillar is beauty
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:I'm thinking rituals that make
you feel like that girl, that
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you are radiant icons, right?
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I think of this pillar.
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:I think of, this is such an Amanda
thing, but it makes me feel sexy, right?
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sexy energy that I have.
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what I'm doing, okay?
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:Some of them I haven't done yet,
and I want to do, that's why,
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:But for me, in the expression pillar, it
looks like keeping my nails manicured,
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radiant icons or just painting my nails.
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:It just makes me, it just
makes me feel put together and
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exploring a skincare routine
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red light therapy mask.
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:I have been dying to try one.
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:Maybe that's something that
I add into my routine, right?
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:Maybe it's doing my gua sha that I keep
on saying I'm gonna do and I never do.
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:Like, maybe I actually add that it can be
investing in matching sets that make me
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set, or even like a little like hangout
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little lingerie, a cute little PJ set.
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for radiant icons.
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:I also have on here that I wanna
learn how to do a blowout at
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:You know, like those curlers that
the girls have like on Pinterest and
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magazine and their hair is like in
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:curlers or rollers and they just like
look so like, they just look so chic.
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my hair look like Victoria's
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do with those rollers.
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of like my, like, um, what is it my.
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:You know, I was a Victoria's Secret
angel for Halloween, so I have my, my
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:Like, you can't tell me that's
not giving, like I should be
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makes me like, I'm literally
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:Things like that are how I express my
sexiness in a beauty and fashion sense.
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me up that make me so excited,
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make me feel put together and sexy.
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:When I put my signature lip on,
I know I'm that girl, right?
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:When I have my nails done,
I just feel together.
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:I just feel like there's
another energy added to me.
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:When I have my robe on,
I feel luxurious, right?
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:Those are the things I encourage
you to think of radiance icons.
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:When it comes to pillar three, it's
beauty and fashion and ways you
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:can express yourself and express
that sexy energy that you possess.
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:And the last pillar, radiant
icons, is pleasure and joy.
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:And when I think of this pillar,
I specifically think of growth and
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:experiences, and I break it down like
this, going on solo dates that force
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:you to go outside of your comfort
zone and do things that you've always
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:wanted to do, but were too scared
to do it alone, so you never did it.
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:That falls into this section, okay?
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:That falls into pleasure and joy.
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:You are doing something for you that is
giving you joy and pleasure because you
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:are expanding yourself as a human being.
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:Another thing that you can do
for this specific pillar is like
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:attending a workshop or a masterclass.
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:Dare to be iconic, also has great
master classes, like I'm just saying.
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:It could be a course, it
could be an event, right?
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:Things like that that again, allow you
to stretch yourself as an individual
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:and allow you to learn and to grow.
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:It could be traveling, like going on
little mini trips that allow you to
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:explore new environments that will
make you feel alive because there
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:is something so beautiful about the
experience of travel in itself, so
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:of course that's gonna fall under
this pillar of pleasure and joy.
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:You are doing something that
is going to bring you joy.
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:It's going to bring you pleasure by going
somewhere new, by pampering yourself
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:with this experience of a little mini
trip to plug away from reality and
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:really get in touch with your sexiness
as you are on this own your sexy journey.
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:the last one is volunteering, and
that is something that I have been
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:dabbling in a lot more recently and
I'm very excited to share some very
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:exciting news in the next couple of
weeks when it comes to volunteering.
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:And for me personally, radiant
icons when it comes to this pillar.
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:Something that I have done and implemented
is, my uncle actually told me about
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:this, and it's something that has
really stuck with me, is to plan a mini
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:trip or a mini experience that you are
really looking forward to each month.
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:And so I did that, and that's how I
relate to this pillar in particular
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:of pleasure and joy is travel, or I
create these little mini trips that
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:make me feel alive and allow me to get
back in touch with myself and unplug
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:from my reality, my everyday life.
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:So in January I was, I was, you know,
coming back from being really sick.
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:So we didn't do anything in January,
but February I went to Boston.
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:I went to Boston and I saw my best
friend from college Deandra, and we saw
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:Jade from Little Mix and we ate all the
good food and I saw snow for the first
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:time, and that was such a great trip.
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:It was so healing for me and I
felt so alive even though I was
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:in the middle of a blizzard.
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:It was just such a beautiful experience
for me to feel pleasure and joy.
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:In April, this coming month, I'm going
up north for my cousin's wedding and
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:a lot of cool things are happening,
and then in May I'm going to the
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:Miami Grand Prix and I'm very excited
to see the cars go vroom again.
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:Even the Lando is not
doing good this year.
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:Like what whatsoever?
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:It's okay.
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:It's okay.
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:It's fine.
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:It's fine.
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:At least we have one world
champion, but like, it's okay.
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:It's fine.
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:But like those are things, right?
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:Those little mini trips are things that
I am really looking forward to that I
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:relate back to this pillar because it
allows me to own my sexy and the way
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:it allows me to own my sexy is that I
am reclaiming ownership over my voice,
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:over my choices, over my decisions.
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:I am doing things that I once
told myself that I couldn't do.
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:I am reclaiming it for myself.
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:I am taking the power back for me.
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:And that's how you feel powerful in
your skin, radiant icons, again, there's
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:nothing sexier than feeling powerful in
your skin, and I am reclaiming that power
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:in the little things that I do in each
pillar for myself, so that I can radiate
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:my own personal definition of sexiness,
which is accepting all parts of becoming.
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:Welcome to the Fashionably Single
Podcast, where single life meets
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:real talk, hosted by Hannah.
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:This guy is sitting next to me and
this was like a no shoe kind of house,
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:so he had to take his shoes off.
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:They were playing cards, drinking, and
then all of a sudden he starts rubbing his
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:foot on my leg and her co-host Jessica.
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:So he leaves me at the table, he gets
his food, he goes back to his car.
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:I'm thinking he's
dipping out on this date.
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:I just told him I don't want to marry
him and I won't let him kill me.
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:So two millennials in
Austin, Texas, navigating.
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:Independence and becoming your best
self with confidence and style.
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:Amanda Paolicelli: All
right, radiant icons.
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:That is your Tea Time session for today.
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:I hope you did enjoy today's
episode on how you can own your
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:sexy because in 2026 we are owning
our sexy together radiant icons.
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:It's time to get sexy and iconic.
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:And you know how else we can do that is
by tuning into next week's tee time sesh.
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:Absolutely.
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:Absolutely.
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:radiant icons for next
week's tee time sesh.
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:We are joined by a very special guest,
the co event partner for Dare To Be
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:Iconic's first empowerment event of 2026.
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:Our first in person event of the year.
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:Oh my goodness.
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:Dare to move where we are healing
out loud through movement.
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:This event includes a Pilates class
and a first ever premiere in person of
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:our masterclass at Dare to Be Iconic,
break up with the past, fall in love
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:with the future and so much more.
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:JJ, the owner of the Movement Lab,
spilling the tea with us on the power
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:of healing out loud through movement and
how that allows you to own your sexy.
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:Because again, in April we're
locking in on owning our sexy
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:and we're doing it together.
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:Alright, radiant icons, I'll
just chat with you next week.
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:Remember Dare To Be Iconic Bye.