Holding people Accountable without Causing or Exacerbating Conflict
Timeline:
00:57 - Introducing the guest – OG the Godfather, host of the Success Code podcast.
02:13 - The definition of Accountability, according to OG the Godfather and Jeremy Strikling.
03:17 - Accountability involves people’s responsibility to you as well as your responsibility to others.
04:14 - FORCING people to be accountable is a futile endeavor. First, you have to get them to UNDERSTAND why accountability is important.
06:40 - People need to be aware of what they are being held accountable for.
10:50 - Sometimes, it’s important to reassure people that you’re showing concern primarily because you care.
13:30 - Use qualifying questions to guide conversations.
17:30 - Demonstrate that you are more interested in the person’s wellbeing than in passing judgment or showcasing superior knowledge.
27:30 - Don’t let your emotions influence the direction of the Conversation.
Keywords:
Accountability, Responsibility, Agreement, Understanding
Key Takeaways:
“You can explain things to people; but you can’t understand things to people.”
“You can’t teach a person past their level of understanding”
“Listen to people as if they can teach you something”
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Music By: Lakely Inspired
References:
How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie
The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz
The Success Code Podcast: https://www.podbean.com/ei/pb-kdac6-e60515