"Failure is measured in ounces, regret is measured in tons."

Nate Burkhalter—seven-time competitor on American Ninja Warrior—joins Ned Schaut for a raw, grounded conversation about identity, risk, and what it actually means to lead as a husband and father.

Nate’s story isn’t polished—it’s forged. From a career in oil and gas engineering to chasing a his calling through failure, rejection, injury, and breakthrough, he unpacks a revelation he heard from God, a hard truth most men avoid:

playing it safe is the riskiest way to live.

But now, as a new father of twins, the game has changed. The arena isn’t just competition—it’s the home.

This episode hits the tension every driven man feels:

1. Build something meaningful… without sacrificing your family
2. Take risks… without being reckless
3. Lead spiritually… without hiding behind religion

Nate brings clarity: your primary ministry isn’t your platform—it’s your family. And if you get that wrong, nothing else matters.

Why fathers should listen:

1. You’re ambitious but don’t want to wake up at 55 with regret
2. You feel the pull between grind and presence
3. You want to raise kids who actually know God—not just perform religion
4. You’ve failed, and you’re wondering if you should keep going

Key takeaways:

1. Identity shift → risk tolerance → real impact
2. Failure isn’t the enemy—regret is
3. Discipline creates freedom in both work and family life
4. Stewardship beats control in fatherhood
5. The first 8–12 years with your kids are foundational—don’t outsource them

---------

Check Out the Program Talked About: Genesis by Rise Up Kings

1. This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings
2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
3. Check out the TEDx

----------

1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?
2. www.adventureoffatherhood.com
3. www.rebelandcreate.com

Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!

Follow us:

1. Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes
2. YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes
3. Facebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Mentioned in this episode:

Rise Up Kings Genesis