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A Pep Talk: Letting Go of the Pressure to Create Holiday Magic
Episode 3923rd December 2025 • Educated Parent: Evidence-Based Parenting Tips to Solve Everyday Parenting Problems • Dr. Leah Clionsky
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A pep talk for parents who feel intense pressure to create perfect holiday magic, even when things are falling apart behind the scenes. If the expectations around the holidays are making you doubt yourself, a pep talk is here to support confident parenting and remind you that real connection matters more than perfection.

In this solo episode, I share a very honest parenting story from early motherhood where my attempt at creating holiday magic completely unraveled. I use that experience to offer perspective, reassurance, and positive parenting tips for parents who feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or worried that they are not doing enough. This episode is both a pep talk and a reminder that confident parenting does not require everything to go according to plan.

In this episode, I talk about

• Why the pressure to create holiday magic often makes parenting feel harder and more stressful

• How a pep talk can help reset your mindset when a holiday moment goes wrong

• What kids actually remember when parents feel pressure around holiday magic

• How letting go of perfection supports confident parenting during the holidays

• Simple positive parenting tips that help parents recover when plans fall apart

• Why confident parenting is built in small moments, not perfect ones

If you are craving reassurance, perspective, and positive parenting tips during a season full of expectations, this episode is for you. Press play for a pep talk that helps you release the pressure of holiday magic and lean into confident parenting instead.

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