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Ep 103 - Developing Others as a Leader
Episode 10314th October 2024 • Career & Leadership Real Talk • Pamela Langan & Jacqui Jagger
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In this episode, we're joined by special guest Katy Walton, an expert in learning and development. We explore the crucial topic of how leaders can stand out by effectively developing others. Katy shares invaluable insights on the benefits of investing in your team's growth and practical strategies to overcome common barriers to development.

Key points from this episode:

  • The immediate benefits of developing others, including increased engagement and performance
  • How developing your team can boost your reputation and career prospects
  • Simple strategies to start developing others, even with limited time
  • The EPIC framework for diverse development opportunities beyond traditional courses
  • The joy and lasting impact of helping others grow in their careers

00:00 Introduction and Topic Overview

02:29 Benefits of Developing Others as a Leader

06:53 Starting Small: Simple Strategies for Development

13:26 Overcoming Common Barriers to Developing Others

19:00 Prioritizing Development and Understanding Individual Motivations

25:37 The EPIC Framework for Development Opportunities

31:32 Key Tips for Leaders to Improve Their Ability to Develop Others

36:37 Closing Remarks and How to Connect with Katy Walton

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Connect with Katy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katy-walton-make-real-progress/

Get in touch with Katy via her website, Make Real Progress: https://makerealprogress.co.uk/

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Jacqui:

Hello and welcome to this week's episode.

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This is an exciting one for us

because for only the second time

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we have a guest expert with us.

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So we're going to be covering the topic

of how you can stand out as a leader by

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being someone who can develop others and

to talk about what is a crucial topic.

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And frankly, it's a little

bit rude that we've taken two

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years to get around to this.

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We have Katie Walton with us.

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Katie, welcome.

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Thank you so much for joining us.

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Katy: Thank you so much for having us.

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And I've been so excited.

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I can't wait to get going with this one.

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Jacqui: Yeah, I have a feeling this is

one that could be in multiple parts.

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So we'll keep it concise for today.

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But before we get started, introduce

yourself, tell our listeners a little

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bit about you and how this is a topic

that you're so passionate about.

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Katy: All right, first thing I'm going to

out myself as having been in a learning

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and development role for 30 years.

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And I know I don't look quite old

enough, but learning and development

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is an absolute passion of mine.

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And in short, I help people, leaders

to grow their impact, grow their people

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and grow their leadership skills.

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And so I'm all about development.

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And it's something that I probably

could talk about for hours.

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So I will limit myself and I will

be succinct and to the point today.

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Jacqui: Yeah.

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And Katie and I first came across

each other a few years ago now online.

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And it was when Katie was asking

for, I don't know if you remember

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this Katie, but you were asking for

guest experts for the group that

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you ran for L and D professionals.

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And I was like I can't talk

about any of those topics, but

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they sound right up my street.

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So am I allowed to join the group,

even though I'm not in house anymore?

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And very kindly you did let me,

and that group was just an amazing

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resource and getting to know you

through it has been fabulous.

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So I know the value that you will bring.

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So Katie I describe Katie as the L and D

person that I want to be when I grow up.

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So her knowledge is second to none.

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Her approach is incredible.

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And I know that this is going

to be an amazing value episode

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for those of you want to improve

your ability to develop others.

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Kick us off then Katie by talking about

some of the benefits that come when

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a leader is able to develop others.

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What is the immediate benefit that

someone's going to see if they invest

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their energy in getting better at this?

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Katy: I think first of all, it's vitally

important to focus on engagement,

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because we all know that when people

who work with us and work for us are

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more engaged, they're much more likely

to be productive and perform better.

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And there were so many studies out there,

primarily let's focus on Gallup, where

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they talk about the fact that when people

are focused on development, when they

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are able to see their progress, when

they focus on their strengths, they're

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When people are interested in developing

them and helping them in career, they

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are so much more likely to be engaged.

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And I guess the follow on short term

benefit to that is the uplifting

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performance that you're likely to see.

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Because let's face it, when you've got

people in your team who are skilled, who

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are competent, who are confident, they're

much more likely to perform at their best.

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And so you think there's an immediate

benefit for you in having a team that

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are performing well, there's an immediate

benefit for you in having a team who

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are motivated and want to be at work

and are enjoying what they do, and also

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there's an immediate benefit to your

reputation because If people around

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you see you as a leader who's investing

in their team, A, people want to work

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with you and for you, and B, it boosts

your reputation across the business.

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So if you were looking to progress

in your career, maybe move further up

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the ladder, then what you might find

is that people seek you out because

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being able to develop others well,

being focused on your team in that way.

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It just, it pays dividends

to, to your reputation.

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It makes a massive difference in how

you're perceived across the business.

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Pam: I absolutely love that because I

during my own career, that was one of

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the things that I really focused on and

it was about getting that engagement

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from the team and I didn't even mean

to go down the route of creating a

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reputation or anything like that.

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But I become known as somebody

who would develop people.

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So people wanted to come into my team.

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And it's funny hearing you talk

through that because I never

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actually, At the time when I think

about it, realize what I was doing.

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It was just part of me and how I

started my management leadership career.

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I just thought if I bring the people with

me, it's going to be easier, but it's,

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some people find it really difficult.

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Don't need to do that and

communicate with the teams.

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So what would you say?

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If people are listening and they're

thinking, this is something that

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I would love to do, I'd love

to get my team engaged, like

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where can they start with that?

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Katy: Oh, do you know what?

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I'm a massive fan in starting

really simple and think about the

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most simple things that you can do.

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So for example, a lot of the leaders

that I work with, they are fixers,

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they are problem solvers, they want

to solve things or they think they

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have to solve things by themselves.

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So sometimes it could be as

simple as instead of trying

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to fix or solve a problem.

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Asking your team.

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So this is the beginning journey to

being more coach like as a leader, right?

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But just asking the

team, what do you think?

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What's your opinion?

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And going with a question

first before trying to fix it.

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That's a brilliant way.

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It doesn't take you any extra time.

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It's something that you can weave

into pretty much any conversation.

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So if you don't know what to do,

maybe start off with asking some

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questions like that, and also getting

to know your team a little bit more.

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So if you're having monthly one to ones,

instead of being really focused on task

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updates and how people are progressing

against their goals, maybe take a little

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bit of time to ask a few more questions

to find out a little bit more about them.

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What's important to you in your

career, which is a really different

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question from where do you want to be

in five to 10 years time, or finding

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out what are the things that light

them up at work, what energizes them.

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And also talking about their

strengths, what do they really do

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well, because when we're talking

about development, it doesn't have

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to be just on what they're not doing.

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And where they have to improve going back

to Gallup, there's masses of research

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out there that also talks about when

you do something that you're great at.

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So when you build on your strengths and

when you can do that regularly, preferably

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every day, it makes a huge difference

to engagement and motivation as well.

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Yeah, going back to your

point, just start small.

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That's my biggest advice.

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Just think about, can I ask a question

instead of giving some advice or

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solving something for somebody?

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Pam: Yeah, that's brilliant because

that it is just start really small

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and keep it really simple, isn't it?

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And build on it.

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And I suppose it's almost not being afraid

to, have those conversations with your

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team as well and find out more about them.

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It's not just about, like

their personal lives.

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It's like you say, what makes

them tick and it does really

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make a difference, doesn't it?

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Katy: Absolutely.

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And it sounds like it's something

that you probably did instinctively,

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when you were saying that it was

almost like a byproduct that you were

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getting the engagement and motivation.

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So I'm guessing you probably did

exactly those kinds of things, right?

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Ask those questions, be

interested in other people.

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Pam: Yeah, I think, and it's

funny that you say that because

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For me, it was always about how

can I help these people progress?

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Because I was so ambitious in my career

and I wanted leaders and managers that

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would support me in my, in my career.

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So I wanted to do the same for others.

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And I thought if I help other people,

then, other people will help me

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as I progress through my career.

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And it did actually work out quite well.

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And a lot of the people.

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That I helped progress in, in their early

days, I'm still in touch with and still

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come and work with me every few years when

they're ready for that next promotion.

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So it does when you think about

your team as how can I help them

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progress in their career rather than

thinking, I don't want to help them

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to develop because what I feel it's

like, how can I really help them?

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to, how can I help them to

advance their careers too?

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So it's not just like what's in it for

me and driving the business forward.

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It's about that real kind of

thinking of the person as well.

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Katy: I think you're

absolutely spot on with that.

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And there's an activity that I do quite

often in leadership development programs,

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which is getting people to think about

the best manager they ever worked for.

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And I can't tell you every single time

we have that kind of conversation.

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There is always a reference to the best

manager I ever worked for developed me,

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they inspired me, they helped me to grow,

they helped me to do more than I thought I

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was capable of, they built my confidence.

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So it's amazing.

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Some of these people go back.

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Right.

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20, 30 years thinking about this

one conversation that their manager

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had that kind of lit their spark

and the best managers, they're

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doing this quite consistently.

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And to your point, Pam, often it's not

because there's something in it for them.

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That's the nice byproduct.

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It's because they've got this feel

that by investing in other people, It's

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going to help them in their career.

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So when you're shifting from being more

focused on yourself to more focused

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on other people, you just get all

these amazing things that happen as

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a result by like a happy byproduct.

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Jacqui: So I honestly, there's so many

strands I could pull from all of the stuff

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that you've just shared, but I want to

go back to something that you said quite

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early on when you were talking there.

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Of this thing around the pressure on

managers to have the answer and to be

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a fixer because I see this a lot where

that can be a real barrier to people

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developing others because they feel

like it's part of their role to be

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the most knowledgeable one to have the

answers and it almost feels like I'm

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not doing my job properly if I'm asking

my team to give their own answers.

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So I see that a lot from that

side, that can get in the way.

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And it's something that I've quite

often challenged leaders and managers

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on when we've been running development

sessions of, okay, but how do you

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grow when they recognize those things

of being challenged, of being given

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opportunities that are maybe slightly

outside of their comfort zone or

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being asked to come up with ideas.

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And then you can see the penny drop.

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of, oh, actually I'm not necessarily

helping them when I give all the answers

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and maybe that isn't always my role.

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So what are some of the

other barriers that you see?

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Because that exercise of getting

people to think about who's the

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best manager they've ever had really

pinpoints some of the things that

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people want and need from a manager.

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What are the things that get

in the way of managers being

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like that more consistently?

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Katy: Okay.

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There's quite a few , but one of the

most common ones that comes up is, I

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don't have time, because let's face

it, everybody is having to do more

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and more with less and less hours.

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There's more and more pressure.

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So that, I think that's

probably the number one barrier

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that people come up with.

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I don't have time to develop my team.

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I don't have time because

I've got so much on my plate.

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So I guess that links back to what I was

saying earlier about Thinking about taking

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it one step at a time because it really

doesn't take much more time at all to ask

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a question rather than give an answer.

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So it might take, I don't know,

30 seconds more, a minute more

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maybe, but it really doesn't have

to take a huge amount of time.

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And thinking about how you can weave

in development on an ongoing basis.

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So I've got one manager.

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Who I remember really clearly,

and this was probably about,

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oh, about 20 years ago.

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So I'd been delivering training as

part of my role for some time, but I

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needed to shift into more of a learning

and development business partner.

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And I didn't, I didn't

know what I didn't know.

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About it.

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And so one of the things that

he started to do was blind copy

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me into some of the emails.

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So when he was consulting with

directors in the business, he would

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then blind copy me into the email so

I could see the tone that he used.

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I could see the questions

that he was asking.

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So that literally took

him no extra time at all.

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And I learned so much through that.

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I learned about the questions that the

directors was, were going to be asking.

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I learned about how we were

responding to difficult situations

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and difficult challenges.

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And what that meant was when

we got together for our one to

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ones, he would then ask me, so

what have you learned from those?

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And what are you going

to be taking on board?

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And what might you be doing differently?

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And it was absolute gold dust.

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And it's a great example of

how things don't need to take

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a huge amount of time at all.

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Pam: I think that's a

brilliant way, isn't it?

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Because it's also showing

that level of trust in you.

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So you build that relationship

with that manager.

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But I do think as well, there's always

that element of fear, isn't there?

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When you develop your people too

much, or if you give them too much

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information and things like that.

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And I see a lot of that come through

when I'm working with coaching clients

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and they're, there's, they're always

wondering like, where is that fine line?

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How much do I develop my people?

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How much information do I give them?

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And what's your view around that?

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Katy: Oh, that's a really good one.

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And it links into two things really.

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What if I develop them

and then they leave?

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And what if I develop them

and they know more than me?

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So if I go to that first one, what if

I develop them and then they leave?

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I think, and I might be misquoting,

I think it's a Richard Branson quote.

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When he talks about the fact that

where you could develop them and

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then they leave, or you could not

develop them, and then they stay.

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Isn't that an interesting thing?

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What would you rather have?

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Would you rather have confident,

capable people who can take

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on more of the workload, who

can smash it out of the park?

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Or would you rather have people who

are solely reliant on you and you

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have to, you have all of that on

your shoulders where you're having

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to try and fix things, solve things.

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And the more that you feel like your team

aren't competent and capable, the more

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you feel like it's on your shoulders.

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So first of all, it is it's a natural

progression that people might leave.

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So you do have to anticipate that

if you develop people, they may well

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leave, but also They may well love

doing what they're doing and working

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with you so much that they stay and

they make your life so much easier.

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And they also might leave

and then come back in another

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guise, in another capacity.

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Yes, there always is that danger that they

might leave, but I think it's far worse

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if you don't develop them and they stay.

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And then, they're not

performing and they're not

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engaged and all the rest of it.

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And that other point was around If you

develop them and then they know more

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than you, I would really encourage

people to just reframe that a little bit.

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Because if our, if we're allowing

our ego to get in the way and we

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are trying to keep people small

because of our own egos, you are not

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doing yourself any favors really.

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And you're certainly not

doing other people any favors.

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So I wonder if you could just flip it

around a bit and reframe it and think,

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wouldn't it be amazing if I have a team

of people who do know more than me?

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Because a they could inspire me more to

grow and develop in different ways and

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be isn't that what we're aiming for his

leaders to create people in our teams.

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who are very capable of holding the fort.

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It means you can go on holiday

and you can switch off.

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It means you can have your

weekends and your evenings free.

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It frees up more of your time to do

other important stuff like building

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your connections across the business or,

developing yourself in a different way.

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So I think what I'd really like people

to take away is if they've got some of

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these barriers like time or anything else.

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It's just think about how they

could reframe it a little bit and

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think a little bit differently.

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Jacqui: I love that element of.

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If somebody can do your

job better than you.

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And it was reminding me of, I remember

years ago, recruiting somebody and

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the words I said when I recruited

her was in six months, she'll be

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able to do my job better than I can.

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And I'd said this to a former

colleague and she looked at me

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and was like I don't think so.

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And I was like, no, she will.

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And.

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That for me was the absolute best thing.

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And years later funnily enough, I

was in touch with her yesterday.

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She's currently in the process

of applying for a new role.

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And, the stuff that she's gone on

to do in the time, since we worked

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together is absolutely phenomenal.

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And she is incredible.

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And that made my life so much easier.

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So as a manager, knowing That I had

somebody on my team that could deputize

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for me that could step up that would

take the initiative that would do things

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that I maybe not in the same way that

I would do them but do things to the

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same standard that I would do them.

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The pressure that.

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Talk off my shoulders was immense.

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So yeah, absolutely.

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Second, that.

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So are there any other barriers then

that you see come up for people?

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Katy: Oh yes.

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Okay.

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So first one is thinking about what kind

of, what, Takes priority for people's

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development because let me just talk about

the performance development plan, right?

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So most people in organizations, they have

some form of personal development plan.

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What I used to see an awful lot was,

oh, my God, it's that time of year.

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Got to fill out a

performance development plan.

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You get out your paperwork and

it's a bit of a tick box exercise.

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What do we put on the plan?

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To keep the learning and development

team or the HR team happy.

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And it's really not about that.

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So a couple of tips, first of all,

about how you might prioritize and

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what you might put on the plan.

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My biggest advice is don't go for more

than three things, three things maximum.

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It's much better to do one or two

things, three max really well,

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that makes a difference, that makes

progress for people, than to have

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this shopping list, because you know

what it's like, as soon as you have

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a shopping list of something, it just

becomes overwhelming for everybody.

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And rather than filling up a personal

development plan with just loads of little

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bits and pieces, chunk it up a little bit,

make it a little bit juicy, and then think

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about all of the different development

options that might be available to

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help somebody to progress towards that.

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What I normally share with managers

is maybe as a priority, think

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about what do they need right now

to be competent in their role?

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So if they're not fully competent.

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What are the one or maybe two things

that could really help them to get

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that level of confidence that you

need them to have for right now.

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And then start getting a little bit

juicy because that on its own might

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be a little bit dull for people.

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So it's almost like a next layer.

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And the next layer might be what are their

strengths that they could build on or any

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particular watchouts like blind spots.

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So something that might really

hold them back in their career.

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So an example of that might be if

somebody's in a very technical role,

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and they would love to become a

manager in the future, maybe one of

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their watchouts is that they get head

down, they get deep into the technical

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stuff and they forget to communicate

with people, they forget to have

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conversations and build relationships.

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from becoming a manager in the future.

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if they've got that technical proficiency,

but they've not yet learned how to engage

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with people, inspire them, motivate them.

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And the kind of third level

is thinking about the stretch

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and challenge for people.

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And the amount of stretch and challenge

that people might want would look very

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different because there are some people

who are always going to want to just

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come in, do their job and go home.

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And so stretch and challenge for

someone like that might be creating a

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new process or speeding up a system,

whereas Stretch and Challenge for

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somebody that's got really big ambitions

about having a much more senior role

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in future, their Stretch and Challenge

might look entirely different.

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It might be leading a huge project,

or it might be really stepping outside

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of their comfort zone and doing

something that's very different.

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And that's why it's important

to use your one to ones.

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If you don't have someone specific

development conversations.

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Use your one to ones to really

understand what kind of career

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aspirations do your people have?

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Are they really quite happy to

come and do their job, go home?

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Do they want a broader, richer experience?

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Do they want to adventure

around and use their skillset in

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different areas of the business?

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Or do they really want to think about

how they could have more impact?

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So the stretching challenge

would look really different.

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Pam: Yeah, and it's an interesting

point as well because I remember

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when I was fairly early in my senior

management career that we went to a

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meeting and the kind of the theme of

the meeting was, development and how

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we can develop and motivate our people.

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And the conversation turned to we've got

some people that are not ambitious, some

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people that don't want to go anywhere,

they've got no kinds of career aspirations

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and, they're just going to stay in that

job for the next 10 years or whatever.

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And it was like, What do

we do with these people?

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And I was like what do

you want to do with them?

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and I was thinking maybe they're

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going to come up with some new ways to

motivate them or something like that.

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And it was almost maybe we might

even manage them out because

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they're not ambitious and they're

not grown with the business.

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And I was like, Oh, okay.

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That's I'm sure that's not what you do

as a leader or a manager, and that was

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my first insight into kind of what could

I actually do to help motivate these

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people because not everybody wants to

be a leader or a manager not everybody

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wants to climb the rank, sometimes

people will get into a management role

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and be happy to stay where they are.

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And I know when I was looking after a

team of management level people, it was

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very much, there was a couple of them

that did definitely want to progress.

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So we created a plan to do that

and the others that were just quite

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happy and what they were in and

doing the jobs that they were doing.

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It was like what else can you do?

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What else would you like to do?

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Some of them didn't want

to do anything else.

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They were really happy and really

motivated, but it was just that check in.

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And then with the others, it was very

much about what projects could they

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get involved in and things like that.

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And all of a sudden, obviously it takes a

while, doesn't it, to get to know people,

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but that team became a really strong team.

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Everybody was motivated in different

ways and it was respected, that was

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their kind of form of motivation

and what they enjoyed doing.

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And I think, And what I learned from that

is everybody is individual, aren't they?

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And as a leader, it's your job

to understand those individuals.

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And like you said, what makes them

tick, but also what motivates them.

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Katy: Exactly.

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And let's face it.

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If we're asking those kinds of

questions, if we're getting to know

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our team members, it also validates

that as a career choice, it is

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perfectly okay to stay where you are.

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What you can't do though,

is not develop at all.

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Because if you think about the pace

of change nowadays, if you do no

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development whatsoever, Is your role

going to be secure in maybe three

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years, four years, five years time?

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It's just, but it's just a

different kind of development.

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So your development might just

be keeping up to speed with new

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technology, new processes, which is

very different, but let's face it.

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We need people in any organization.

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We need people who want to come

in and do their job and go home.

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This is what gives the organization

stability, because if everybody Wanting

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to progress and grow and develop,

and they were all highly ambitious.

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You're going to have a problem

because there's only going to be

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a limited amount of opportunity.

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But I think you're spot on when you're

talking about what motivates them.

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If you disregard people who want to

come and do their job, go home, you're

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missing such a valuable opportunity

because you want to keep that stability.

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But for most people, if you do exactly the

same all of the time, it just doesn't give

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you that personal sense of fulfillment.

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So I don't know if either of you are

familiar with the book, The Progress

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Principle by, oh, Teresa Amibile

and Stephen Kramer, talks about how

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motivating it is for people to focus

on the progress that they've made is,

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according to their research, it was

one of the most motivational things.

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if you're making progress.

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So that opportunity to chat with

somebody in your team and just to say

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over this last six months, look at

all of these things that you've done.

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Look at how you've developed.

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Look at how you've strengthened your

confidence, built your skillset in this.

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It's so motivational.

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And I'm going to keep banging the

drum about the motivation factor.

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So Dan Pink, talks about intrinsic

motivation, so the kinds of things

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that get us doing stuff willingly.

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And the three key areas he focused on

was, one, having autonomy and choice two

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mastery, which is all about development.

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And three was having a sense of purpose.

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So as a leader, if you can give people

choice, if you can help them understand

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why they're doing what they're

doing, and then help them develop

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alongside, that really is the key to

keep people motivated and engaged.

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Jacqui: Yeah I love Dan Pink's work

and I haven't come across the progress

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principle, but that very much aligns with

some of the stuff that Pam and I talk

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about quite regularly of the importance

of noticing strengths and progress.

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And that is so powerful and

it's so underutilized, I

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think as a tool by managers.

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So I know you've got one more.

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barrier.

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And then we're going to look at some

of the practical solutions that people

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can start to think about if they are

struggling with any of these barriers.

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So what's the final barrier that

you're going to share with us?

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Katy: The final barrier, and I know, a

little bit about this as well, Jackie,

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the final barrier is that managers often

say, I don't know how to develop people.

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So when I was just talking about

performance development plans, the other

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thing that I see is a PDP littered with

Go on this course, go on that course.

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And it grinds my gears, right?

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So let's think outside of work.

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If you needed to learn how to retile

a bathroom, what would you do?

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So Pam, what would you do if you had

to learn how to retile a bathroom?

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How would you learn?

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Pam: So that's a good question because

I've done that and I actually went on to

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YouTube and watched a load of tutorials.

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Yeah,

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Katy: absolutely.

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And Jackie, what about you?

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Jacqui: Do you know what?

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I'm more of that view of I'd probably

start off by giving it a go and then

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get stuck and then go to YouTube

for the bit I got stuck with.

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Katy: Alrighty.

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So here's what I noticed outside

of work, people will do stuff

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like Google, YouTube, chat to EPT.

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They'll ask somebody, they'll watch

somebody, they'll give it a go.

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And then the second you get inside any

organization, all of a sudden it defaults

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to go on a course, go on a course.

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And you're like, isn't that interesting?

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Outside work.

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Would you have ever thought I

would go on a course to learn

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how to retell my bathroom?

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Pam: Do you know it is true, but I think

Just as you said that then, what kind of

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came up for me there was that in work,

I think sometimes it's that real fear of

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making a mistake and not getting it right.

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So to try and to make a mistake

could result in getting it wrong.

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And I think sometimes, especially

for new leaders and managers,

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that can be a challenge.

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A real fear factor.

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And then as you develop through your

career, it might get a bit easier, but

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still you've still got that constant

thought of I'm a manager or leader, I

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need to be seen to do everything right.

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I need to learn it.

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And then I think there's

a lot less of that.

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We'll just give it a try

and see what happens.

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because of that fear factor.

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Katy: Yeah, I think

you're absolutely right.

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A lot of people come on my leadership

development programs, even if they've

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been leaders for 20 years, because

they almost want validation that what

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they're doing is right, the stuff

that they're doing instinctively.

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So when we're thinking about how we can

develop, so if managers think, I don't

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know how to develop my team, I just

encourage them to think about Epic.

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Epic development, and epic stands for

experiences, people, information, and

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courses, and you'll see that courses

is last very deliberately, because

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what I also know is that the way people

generally tend to learn best and most.

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is through experience.

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So Pam, when you were saying there

about, trial and error, making mistakes,

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although people might not want to make the

mistakes, it's how we often learn best.

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And often, if you think about the

impact of learning experiences through a

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manager's career, It's often having the

experience and doing things wrong and

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realizing what happens and thinking about

how to do it differently next time round.

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It's often that kind of stuff

where the biggest shifts happen.

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Think experiences first.

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What experiences can you give people?

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If somebody needs to, in your team,

needs to brush up their presentation

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skills, instead of going, go on a

course, you could maybe say have an

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experience and that could be give a

presentation at the next team meeting.

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Because believe me, if you're doing it

in a safe space, but if you're trying

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to step out of your comfort zone, do

something new, you're going to really

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focus on learning the skills because

you're not going to perhaps want to

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look daft in front of your colleagues.

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So I think experiences first, then people.

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How can you learn

through different people?

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And that could be coaching,

mentoring, feedback, it could be

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shadowing somebody who's an expert

and watching them in action.

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So again, coming back to that

example of presentation skills,

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perhaps picking somebody who

you know presents really well.

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Watching them in action and then

asking them some questions afterwards.

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Information could be books, it could

be podcasts, it could be articles.

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So that's really about going

online, maybe seeking out some

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information that might help.

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So for presentation skills, it might

be look at a list of 10 tips to

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improve your presentation skills.

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And then courses.

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There's always going to be courses

that could help you on pretty

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much anything, so you could go

on a presentation skills course.

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But what I'd encourage managers to do

before they think about courses for

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people is to think about all of the other

stuff that they could do to develop.

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So that way, on your PDP, you could

just have this one thing, presentation

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skills, and you can have a whole

raft of things that could help people

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to develop and to make progress.

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Jacqui: I love the epic framework

and it's one that I've shared because

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I first learned that from you.

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So is that your own framework

that you've created?

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Yeah.

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It's absolute genius.

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And I have shared that.

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So now at least I know that I'm

attributing it correctly because

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it just makes it so straightforward

for people to be a bit more

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creative about the different ways.

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And I love the emphasis on courses

being last and that illustration

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of how would you go about tiling

your bathroom is just a great one.

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I think for people to be able to apply

for themselves and developing others.

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So before we.

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Wrap up.

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What other kind of, you shared

huge numbers already of really

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practical tips and insights

that people can take on board.

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What would be some of your key points

that you would want leaders and managers

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listening to take away if they're going to

improve their ability to develop others.

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Katy: Alrighty, I want to sneak something

in before the tips, actually, and that's

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just thinking about the joy of developing

others, Jodo, because, it struck me the

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other day I was training some managers on

becoming mentors across the business, and

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one of the first questions I asked them

is, why did you sign up to this program?

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And this one guy just looked

at me and went, why wouldn't I?

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Because the satisfaction that you can

get from it, it's not just the immediate

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benefits that you're seeing yourself

in the team, but creating a legacy,

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because you will have such an impact on

people's lives when you're developing

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them, when you're interested in them.

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And that really lights up

a spark for so many people.

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And Pam, when you were saying about

it earlier, how you felt when you had

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that impact on people, you, you impact.

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on your team.

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It's just going to last forever.

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It's going to be something

that they always remember.

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And Jackie, when you were saying about

your team member who then went on to

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achieve these amazing things, is it,

isn't it a great feeling to have?

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So yeah, before I go into the

tips, just wanted to talk about

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JoDo and the spark that you have.

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So one tip that I can suggest is

just role model development yourself.

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So I see a lot of managers when they

step into their role for the first time.

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thinking that they can't

be vulnerable at all.

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They can't show any weakness.

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They have to have it all together.

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They have to know what they're doing.

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So actually demonstrating to

your team, I'm still learning.

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This is what I'm focused on developing

at the moment, sharing what it is that

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you're learning and how you're learning

it and what difference it makes.

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It inspires people because you're

always on the stage really as a manager,

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people are looking to you for cues and

ideas and tips about how to behave.

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So if you're role modeling, developing

yourself, it opens the door.

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It really encourages

people to do the same.

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Second one would be to ask for feedback,

but don't use the word feedback.

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So ask for tips.

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So imagine that you've just

been running a team meeting.

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You could.

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chat to somebody afterwards and say, Oh,

Sarah I would love just to have a couple

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of tips from you about how we could run

the meeting a little bit differently.

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And so that way, what you're demonstrating

is that you're open to feedback.

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You're open to taking on

board ideas and suggestions.

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So it gets your team thinking as well,

especially if they know that you're likely

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to ask lots of these kinds of questions.

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But I think more importantly, it

opens the door for you to be able

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to give feedback to your team.

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So once you've role modeled and

demonstrated it They can tell you these

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things, and you've got to try and adapt

and change, then it gives you more

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permission to give people feedback.

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Which obviously is another

way to develop them, right?

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And two more tips.

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One is sharing what

strengths you see in them.

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So I talked earlier about

developing your strengths, being

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a really powerful motivator.

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Often, one of the problems is people

don't see their own strengths because it's

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something that they do all of the time.

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It's something that

comes naturally to them.

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And I remember the first time a manager

said to me, you've got such a strength

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in building relationships with people.

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And I just remember looking at

him thinking, What do you mean?

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This is, I'm just talking to people.

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This is what everybody does.

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And he was like, no,

not everybody does that.

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So he was giving me real specifics.

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This is what you do.

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This is what I've seen you do.

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This is the impact that

I've seen it create.

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And I think you could do it even more.

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in this situation.

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So really helping me to understand

where he saw my strengths helped me to

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start thinking about them as strengths

and start developing them more.

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Because if we focus on developing our

strengths, we go further and we go

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faster than trying to always plug gaps.

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And the last one the last

tip is around being specific.

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Because I see a lot of managers

say, think throw away lines.

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Like you need to be more commercial.

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You need to have more impact.

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You need to be more strategic.

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And I'm like, what does that even mean?

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Cause it could mean so

many different things.

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To different people.

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So trying to be really granular,

like the example that I

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just gave, what did you see?

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What was the impact?

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What are the consequences?

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Because just say for that

being more commercial, somebody

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might understand that as well.

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I need to be able to read balance sheets.

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I need to think about profit and loss.

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And actually you as a

manager might just mean.

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Can you just understand how

the business makes money?

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Because some of the decisions

you're making are probably not as

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commercially minded as they could be.

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So yeah, a few final

tips to leave you with.

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Pam: That's brilliant.

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I'm just sitting here listening to those

tips thinking I wish that we worked

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together back when I was in my corporate

career, because I was always Looking for,

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what's the next thing that we can do?

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And I was always getting

told to calm down.

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We don't need to do that.

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This is how we do things.

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And just listening to you today, I'm

like, wow, you've really inspired me.

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And I'm even thinking, did

I make the wrong thing?

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Did I make the wrong choice

coming out of corporate?

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Maybe I should go back and

manage those teams again.

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But I've really enjoyed listening to you.

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To your tips, and it's been

great just hearing your

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perspective on things as well.

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Jacqui: So Katie, you just said, as we

knew you would incredible value during

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the course of this podcast for people

that are listening and that want to

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get in touch with you, follow your

content maybe come to you for support

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for their teams or organizations, how

can people find you and get in touch?

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Katy: Okay.

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I think two key ways, first of all,

LinkedIn, I'm on LinkedIn pretty

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regularly, get in touch, connect.

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I'm very happy to connect in

and chat all things development.

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And secondly, hop over to my website.

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It's make real progress.

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co.

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uk but I'm pretty sure you'll

have that in the show notes.

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Jacqui: Yep, we will put the links

in the show notes and yeah, I cannot

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emphasize enough how valuable it will

be if you go and give Katie a follow.

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The stuff you share is incredible.

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I've just loved getting to, to read it.

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know more about you over the last few

years and share some of the content.

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And as I say, the EPIC framework for

me has been one that I have shared

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with pride on many an occasion

since I first heard it from you.

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So thank you as ever for listening.

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If this episode has been helpful or

if you know somebody that is perhaps

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finding it challenging or needs to

Some simple ways to be able to develop

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