In this episode, Kellan reflects on the moments in our lives where we feel helpless – like somebody else is in charge. We need to consider, carefully, what we do when we’re in overwhelming circumstances.

We’re reminded that our circumstances do not need to dictate our experiences – we are responsible for our own experiences, and we need to choose to stop allowing external factors to control our lives. Kellan tells us that we fixate on things that we can’t control and use them as excuses for when things go wrong, and that we need to accept that the things we don’t control shouldn’t even be taking up space on the table.

Declare your independence from those ways of thinking. Take one thing at a time – and only things that you have control over. Doing this will move you rapidly toward Your Ultimate Life.

Key Takeaways:

• “We’re not in control of the disease. We’re not in control of the actions of another. We’re not in control of the economy.”
• “Some people choose to live in a rut – to live in mediocrity.”
• “When I spend a lot of time worrying about stuff I can’t control, all I do is get negative digestion issues. Then what happens is I become less productive.”
• “Think about 2 things where you are not where you want to be. Are those things that you control, or does somebody else control them? If it’s things that someone else controls, take them off the list.”
• “Most of us blame external circumstances as the reason we are not having the life experience we want.”
• “You are the creator of your life. That sometimes is a hard thing to accept, because we’re so used to blaming someone or something else.”
• “Declare your independence from those old ways of thinking, those old patterns of blaming and excusing, and grab fiercely onto the truth that you’re really at cause in the matter of your life.”

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