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22: Unschooling Understood With Jean Nunnally
Episode 2224th May 2023 • Mystical Sisterhood • Maureen Spielman
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Jean Nunnally joins us today to talk about her path to unschooling her two children. Although not originally in her life’s plan to unschool, Jean decided to look into unschooling as a young mother and never went back. You’ll learn Jean’s story from a traditional schooling background to adapting to her own children’s learning needs. She’s written “Success Without School: Unschooling My Children From Birth to College”, a book that speaks to all whether you unschool or not.

EPISODE TAKEAWAYS (what you’ll learn):

  • From a traditional upbringing to the unschooling path
  • Jean’s history as a people pleaser and what it’s taken to break the pattern
  • How intuition and signs from the Universe led Jean to unschooling
  • Seeing our institutions in a new and different light

About The Guest:

Jean Nunnally is a veteran unschooling mother of two children from their birth until college. Traditionally educated in public school in Blount County, she completed a degree in finance at the University of Tennessee before starting a 14-year career with Shell Oil in Houston, Texas. She left the business world after becoming a mom and was subsequently accredited as a La Leche League leader and eventually became a board-certified lactation consultant. Her unusual story detailing her unschooling journey--what she learned from the experience and the broader implications of this philosophy of choice and self-determination--shows that self-directed learning is not only a possible alternative to conventional school, but highly successful and a critical concept for the future of education to boot.

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About the Host:

Maureen Spielman is the Founder of Mystical Sisterhood, a podcast dedicated to bringing more joy, healing and expansion to the world. She is a seasoned life coach who supports individuals through one-on-one coaching, groups and workshops.

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Transcripts

Maureen Spielman:

Welcome back to mystical sisterhood. This is

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Maureen Spielman and I sit down today with Jean Natalie to talk

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about her work her life and her book success without school,

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unschooling, my children from birth to college. There is a lot

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in this episode, everything from veering off a traditional

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upbringing, a traditional path, to do something that was

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courageous and out of the box, transforming people pleasing

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behaviors to standing up for what feels right to you,

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following your intuition and leaning into our children's

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needs, whether we choose to go down a path of unschooling, or

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they're in traditional school. We kind of cover all topics

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today, and I'm grateful for Jean for being here. Enjoy the

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episode, and let's get to it. Hey there, welcome to mystical

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sisterhood. This is your host, Maureen Spielman. I started the

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show to highlight the intuitives, healers and other

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courageous women that I've met along my journey and continue to

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meet. Through amazing interviews, I seek to ask

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insightful questions to uncover ways in which you the listener

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can apply the wisdom and knowledge to your own life. I

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believe that we're all in this together. So sharing healing and

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joy, and bringing community together is both my passion and

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purpose. If you'd like to learn more about the mystical

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sisterhood community I'm building, please visit www

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mystical sisterhood.com See you in the episode. Hey, welcome

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back to mystical sisterhood. This is Maureen and I'm here

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with Jean Nunnally. I am really really excited today Jean to be

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with you. We have a mutual friend Zenith who introduced us

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and in Zenith had this really bright light bulb come come to

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her and say like, Oh, I think these two would be good

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together. And so welcome to our space, we're gonna talk about a

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lot of things. The topic, I always say like the topic is

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this, and then we'll uncover what else is meant to come up.

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But you are the author of a book called success without school,

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and really an expert it within yourself and in your life and

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unschooling, but I just want to start there and say, you know,

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there is so much to share today, but a big hearty welcome to you.

Jean Nunnally:

Thank you so much. And thank you for having

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me. I mean, I'm truly truly honored to be a part of this

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podcast, because I it's, it's amazing for me,

Maureen Spielman:

thank you, I'm so happy. You know, there's,

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there's so many places we could start. And when I was sort of

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compiling notes, and reading through the book success without

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school, just hold it up for those who are going to be

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watching on YouTube, so they can see it. And we'll provide links

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later, but just this idea that, from what I can glean, you had a

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pretty traditional upbringing, and sort of the way you were

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brought up, and, you know, going through college and getting a

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job after college, and it was pretty, you know, what I'd say

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is traditional. And then I, for me, when I think of we're going

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to look at a little bit the differences between homeschool

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and unschooling, but wow, like, to me, it's such this courageous

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embrace of a path for your children to take. And so we'll

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maybe we'll start at, you know, tell us a little bit about your

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upbringing and your home life and maybe even your school life

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as a youngster.

Unknown:

Right. So yeah, you're absolutely spot on. It was a

Unknown:

very traditional, conventional sort of upbringing. Certainly,

Unknown:

my, my, I had a wonderful home life very stable. Mom, dad, two

Unknown:

older brothers, and very traditional schooling, other

Unknown:

than I'd started out at a very small, tiny little rural county

Unknown:

school. And so my schools were fairly small, but again, very

Unknown:

traditional. I was, you know, the a student, I was the people

Unknown:

pleaser, the teacher pleaser, the teacher's pet kind of thing.

Unknown:

And, really, I always thought of my education as being really

Unknown:

good in school being really good. And it kind of wasn't

Unknown:

until I was unschooling my own kids that I started to see that

Unknown:

there was a there was a bit of a damage done to me by school. And

Unknown:

I didn't like I said, it took me a long time to realize that for

Unknown:

a long time, I would say yes, I had a great school situation,

Unknown:

but now I'm doing something different. And now I sort of

Unknown:

realized that a lot of that school This structure was was

Unknown:

creating the people pleaser that I grew into. And it's something

Unknown:

that I'm still trying to unwind today. And I'm still stuck with

Unknown:

being very much a people pleaser. And I know school is

Unknown:

not the only influence on that. But it was a lot of an influence

Unknown:

to try to be, you know, you're set up to be only good if you do

Unknown:

these things. You know, that's what makes you worthy is if you

Unknown:

make these grades, if you do these things, and you're not,

Unknown:

you're not ever given the message that you're worthy, just

Unknown:

because of who you know, just because

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yeah, yeah. So that's interesting, because

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you're saying you had a good experience in school, you didn't

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feel particularly affected by it in many ways. And it led you to

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a big university, and a big job after that. And so that really

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wasn't the reason your that you knew in the moment, the reason

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why you chose to go down the path of unschooling that

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happened for you afterwards?

Unknown:

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I didn't have

Unknown:

terrible situation in school. Like I said, I was a good test

Unknown:

taker, so I make good grades that came in things came very

Unknown:

easily to me. Yeah, it was, it was after I actually had kids

Unknown:

and started to meet people who were doing things a little bit

Unknown:

differently and seeing how their kids were, well, a lot of it was

Unknown:

at the beginning, I you know, people were talking about

Unknown:

getting your kids into preschool at really what I felt like, was

Unknown:

a very, very young age. And I motherhood was such an amazing

Unknown:

time. For me, it was such an amazing transformation. And I'm

Unknown:

with my, you know, my daughter, who's the older and just loving

Unknown:

being a mom, and suddenly I'm getting these messages that

Unknown:

well, you need to start looking for a preschool and I, I

Unknown:

thought, well, I don't want to, I'm not ready to give her up,

Unknown:

you know, I'm not ready to hand her over to some stranger for

Unknown:

the better hours of the day. And that kind of threw me into a

Unknown:

little bit of a panic. And that's when someone handed me a

Unknown:

book about that was a compilation of different

Unknown:

homeschooling methods or philosophies. And I read this

Unknown:

one, you know, this one article by John Holt, who kind of became

Unknown:

the my guru. And it just totally resonated with me, and it made

Unknown:

me realize it just made me realize that's what I wanted for

Unknown:

my kids. I wanted my kids to, you know, I just seemed, it just

Unknown:

seemed like the right thing. I don't know, I'm just guessing

Unknown:

the universe was speaking to me in that way. But yeah, it was

Unknown:

just very, very powerful. John Holt's the one that coined the

Unknown:

term unschooling. So, and he's kind of he was a champion of

Unknown:

that methodology, really a very amazing guy.

Maureen Spielman:

That's amazing. There's a lot of a lot

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right there. You know, I want I want to talk about unschooling

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in a minute. But the first time I met you, when we had the

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conversation, it was striking to me that, to me listening to your

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story, you were leaning into your intuition from a really

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young age, let's just say or a young place in your life. And we

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don't always know that intuition is the thing that's guiding us.

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And it's our it's, it's unique to us, because the path that you

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have walked is unique to you. And so, but the story was around

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when you were a very young mom, and I believe breastfeeding, but

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you were around the other Lecce mothers and you saw like a way

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of being with their children. That was super like you're

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saying, when someone handed you the book, The John Holt book is

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like you saw something in it that spoke to you that made

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sense to you? And do you think of that as intuition? Or do you

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now know that it may have been or how did you follow because a

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lot of times, we see things we like, but then our our, like

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cultured mind is the one that says, but that's not possible.

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That's not That's not possible. It's not reasonable. It's it's

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kind of ridiculous, whatever

Unknown:

it is. Yeah, no, I think it is. I think it was

Unknown:

intuition. I don't know that. I would have called it that at the

Unknown:

time or noticed it, but maybe I just always had I don't know,

Unknown:

because I always grew up thinking that there were

Unknown:

possibilities that there wasn't anything that was impossible.

Unknown:

And for some reason, I can't really tell you because I did

Unknown:

grow up in a very conventional sort of family. I don't know the

Unknown:

unconventional sort of appeals to me and things just when

Unknown:

things resonate with me they're, they're strong than the idea is

Unknown:

strong.

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So yeah, sure.

Unknown:

I

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you had a couple examples in the book to

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the One, you had a story about when you were little, because

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what you're saying to me right now, I believe to be very true

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is how you said it was just attractive to be unconventional

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or. And I remember those parts of me that too, like when I was

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a young girl, there were things that maybe a parent would say,

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and I'd rise up a little bit indignantly and think like, oh,

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that's not my truth. And isn't that interesting? Because we do

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have these, the, the beauty of, you know, when we're born and in

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just our light, and all those things, and then we get kind of

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pulled away from it from school and from our family, and

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whatever happens to us in life, but I can remember those times

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as a kid, of, of being like, gosh, dang it, that's not my

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truth. And so you I think you have a story about a project

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when you were a little girl, and just that it just didn't fit who

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you are at the time, it was just it was constraining you and

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keeping you in a box in a way. I thought that was important. I

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have,

Unknown:

I think very strong, that like not specific

Unknown:

instances, but many, many little instances of feeling dismissed

Unknown:

as a child, by adults, well meaning, but adults that said,

Unknown:

oh, there's no you can't understand these things that

Unknown:

we're talking about. Or you shouldn't be in this

Unknown:

conversation. This, you know, because you're a child. And in

Unknown:

my, in my side, my brain, I was thinking, I, I have all the

Unknown:

capacity to have this conversation. I don't understand

Unknown:

why you can't see that in the. And so I think because they

Unknown:

really remember that feeling of a very frustrating feeling. It's

Unknown:

still a kind of a trigger for me, if somebody if I feel I'm

Unknown:

being dismissed by somebody unfairly, I didn't want my kids

Unknown:

to feel that it just felt so disrespectful. And so I think I

Unknown:

always wanted to treat my children as though they were

Unknown:

already they came into this world existing as whole beings.

Unknown:

And as people that granted, they don't have the experience yet.

Unknown:

So the difference in our lives is, you know, I would tell my

Unknown:

kids, I'm not any smarter than you. Because I mean, how do you

Unknown:

measure smartness? How do you measure IQ, I, the only thing I

Unknown:

have is, I have years of experience on you. That's my,

Unknown:

that's my only difference. And my experience is not necessarily

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going to be relevant for you. Because you have your own life

Unknown:

to lead. You have your own path to go. So I can share my

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experience. And you can choose to listen to it or not, but it's

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your life, your life. You're living your life, not me. I'm,

Unknown:

I'm here to help you to facilitate and guide you. But

Unknown:

I'm not going to tell you that is above my paygrade to tell you

Unknown:

what, what you should be doing based on what I think you know,

Unknown:

so yeah, so a lot of it was just that memory of feeling what it

Unknown:

felt like to be dismissed as a child that drove drove me. Yeah,

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that was operating inside of you. And I'm

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blown away. Because, you know, when we got together is a lot of

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what you speak about are the tenants of conscious parenting,

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you know, that I studied and Dr. Shefali is Institute they really

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are conscious parenting is seeing your child is that whole

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being is taking away that hierarchial type of structure

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that is like I know more than you therefore you should listen

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to me and do all of my roles. And just a willingness to let

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your child be your guide. Because what I'm hearing you say

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to is you didn't go into this with any master plan of I am

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here to teach them. It was more it sounds like it was more. I

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want to empower them to be internally driven by what is

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guiding them, right. Yeah,

Unknown:

we can collaborate. We can work together. But yeah, I

Unknown:

never wanted them to see me as, and that's why I really don't

Unknown:

like the word teacher. Because it has this connotation in our

Unknown:

culture of I must impart to you something that's important. It's

Unknown:

one thing if I go to someone, like if I come to you and say,

Unknown:

Maureen, you have this information, Will you teach me

Unknown:

this? Then I've given you permission, okay. And I And I've

Unknown:

asked, I've requested teaching, but for you to say gene, you

Unknown:

must know you must learn what I have. And I say well, I don't

Unknown:

necessarily want that. That to me is it's it's bullying kind

Unknown:

of, you know, it's it's, it's an we you know, we downplay it but

Unknown:

to me, a school situation is kind of a bullying situation

Unknown:

where there's a Each year at the front of the room that's telling

Unknown:

the kids what they need to do when they haven't necessarily

Unknown:

wanted that.

Maureen Spielman:

Yeah, so it's really an invitation to take a

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look at how conventional school is structured, which we know

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it's such a behemoth that it's, that will change. Right? Yeah.

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And I like I do like your messages, though, because I

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think that, you know, for whatever a family chooses for

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their kids, the elements that, you know, this is why I think

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it's, it's sometimes interesting, like your book is

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called success without school, unschooling, my children from

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birth to college. But this is, there's so much in this book

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that's valuable for everybody. So we sometimes we can't be

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fooled by what the title of a book is, yes, if that particular

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population wants to read this book, then this is for you. But

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I think there's so much more that's for everybody. And for

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me, like, looking at these ways that well, how does my child

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feel like if they're in conventional school? How are

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they feeling if this is, if it's presented in a certain way, or

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even as a teacher, or, you know, we can we can do things at home,

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like, oh, I as your parents, I consider your your teacher, your

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guide, you know, and just start to so I think that conversation

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is so valuable for anyone on either side of, of the choice, I

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guess, because I think that one thing I was thinking about when

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I was reading the book was like, how things can also I'm trying

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to jog my memory is just like sometimes how, Oh, I know what

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it was that there can be the rightness or wrongness put on

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things and that it's like, this choice is good. And this choice

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is not good kind of thing. But what I saw, and we can jump into

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the unschooling part of it is where I'm not, I'm, I'm a

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listener today to in that I don't know a lot about

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unschooling, and I'm, I'm fascinated by it. I, I feel like

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like my projections on to unschooling have always been

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like, wow, you know, those families are super brave,

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because I don't know if I could take that on yet. I love this

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concept of really learning driven in from internally,

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instead of the outside, you have to have these grades, you have

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to take these, ask anyone that, you know, I know locally. And

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just like standardized testing, I just never really vibed with

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it at all. And I think I don't think it's great. And when I

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would drop off my daughter for the LSAT and she would be just

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in complete tears and just to see those that fallout from it

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that really does does affect children deeply. And I don't

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know where I was going with that, but just the continuum,

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and I think it was around. When you talk about that your kids

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were at home being unschooled, yet they would have playdates

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with kids who went to a traditional school or they would

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have you know playdates with kids who were homeschooled or

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unschooled. And they so one of these misperceptions was that

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you don't have as rich of a social life if you're

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unschooled. So I mean, we can start there with unschooling,

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but what are like? And what are your kind of hallmarks of the

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unschooling experience or John Holt's or whatever you want to

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share?

Unknown:

Well, definitely to your point about socialization,

Unknown:

which is something that we get asked a lot, and it's probably

Unknown:

easy for people to think about it as you must be in a vacuum,

Unknown:

you know, maybe your kids don't see because we're so used to the

Unknown:

structure of school, a bunch of kids all together with one

Unknown:

teacher at the front. And the idea of, you know, you don't

Unknown:

have that classroom setting, how do you meet people? But so yes,

Unknown:

there's some intention will be there was some intention on my

Unknown:

part around trying to find a group of people, which I did, I

Unknown:

was lucky to we were in Houston. So we had a big city, lots of

Unknown:

people around and, and enough to find a little core group of

Unknown:

families with kids roughly in that same age range, who all

Unknown:

were interested in just playing or doing things. So we didn't

Unknown:

all have the exact same educational philosophy but we

Unknown:

had very similar parenting philosophies. So I feel like all

Unknown:

of us were very respectful parents, we had similar values.

Unknown:

And that was very important to me because I wanted my kids

Unknown:

around other kids who were happy and grounded and feeling you

Unknown:

know, feeling good from that standpoint, because I think what

Unknown:

I've noticed is that when you're happy, you don't you don't bully

Unknown:

other people. You don't you aren't mean you aren't petty,

Unknown:

you know that that usually comes from a feeling of lack in in a

Unknown:

person themselves. So having having a peep having people

Unknown:

around that we're all happy. And on that same wavelength with

Unknown:

her, it was really important to me. And yeah, you know, it was

Unknown:

there's no lack of activities for kids if you look. And if you

Unknown:

don't find what you want, you make what you, you make

Unknown:

something happen, you know, which isn't that hard either

Unknown:

especially because the nice thing about being homeschooled

Unknown:

or unschooled is that you've got all these hours during the day

Unknown:

when a lot of institutions or teachers, music, teachers,

Unknown:

museums, they're not busy, because and so they've got time.

Unknown:

And they're happy to fill those hours with some way, especially

Unknown:

with kids who are eager to learn because the kids that are you

Unknown:

know, when you're doing something, because you've chosen

Unknown:

that activity, that's the thing that all all the coaches and

Unknown:

teachers that we dealt with, were constantly saying about our

Unknown:

group, a group of kids, gosh, everybody is so they're so

Unknown:

happy. They're so enthusiastic, they're so nice to each other.

Unknown:

And I said, Well, that's because they want to be here. And they

Unknown:

know that they don't have to be here, they could leave at any

Unknown:

time they got control, they have agency to, to leave if they

Unknown:

don't like it. And so yeah, of course, they're happy, because

Unknown:

they're always doing something they wanted to do.

Maureen Spielman:

Yeah, it's a beautiful byproduct for kids to

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be able to experience the choice. As a mother, it's also

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you take on a lot. And I imagine that looks like a lot of

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different ways. You know, I think that you were able to stay

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home with your children. And so there's probably, do you see

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certain subsets of the population of unschoolers?

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Working? And then how does that work? Do guides come in? And are

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rotating houses? Or what kind of what does that look like?

Unknown:

Oh, good question. So yes, certainly, I would say it's

Unknown:

unusual for, let's say, working parents to unschool. But it's

Unknown:

not impossible. And a lot of people do it. And here's the

Unknown:

thing is, so instead of thinking about I'm my kids need to be

Unknown:

taught or they need to be in a learning environment. Try to

Unknown:

shift the paradigm to consider that your children are able to

Unknown:

learn, they come wired into this life to learn, they started from

Unknown:

the time they were babies, learning about their their

Unknown:

limbs, learning how to communicate learning how to

Unknown:

ambulation how to get places, that doesn't stop when they are

Unknown:

two, or three, or four or seven or eight, they're always able to

Unknown:

learn. So rather than think I have, they have to be I have to

Unknown:

be there teaching them all they need is an environment that safe

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to to work in. So some, what some single moms even have done

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is they make sure their children are in a in when they're too

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young to be left on their own, that they're in a safe place

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where there are some resources for them to play. Because

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remember, we think of play as adults in our, in our culture,

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we think of play as a bad thing as a frivolous thing. But play

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is the work of children it is how they're learning, they're

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trying things on they, they try on ideas and, and emotions and

Unknown:

in all kinds of things, you know, from from physical block

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towers to, you know, emotional ideas. And so that's what they

Unknown:

need is just an environment to play in for the years until

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they're until they're able to really start to teach

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themselves. So in a way a parent could, it could theoretically

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never be with their kids very much. Maybe No, never. But

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during the hours that they're home, they can read together,

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they can talk together they can be together. And if the parent

Unknown:

is trusting that the child is in a safe place and can learn on

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their own, that's really all that they need. And you're

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empowering your child to say I'm able to do this I'm capable of

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learning on my own and then all you have to do as a parent is

Unknown:

just provides resources around those can be books, those could

Unknown:

be internet, those could be other people, they could be

Unknown:

teachers, they could be tutors, not necessarily like but so

Unknown:

there's just so many different ways.

Maureen Spielman:

So would you say that wood wood the way you

Maureen Spielman:

structure it in your own home, say okay, you know, roughly from

Maureen Spielman:

this hour to this our our our school hours and so there would

Maureen Spielman:

be that expectation for the kids.

Unknown:

Well, again, I didn't do it that way and we We're just

Unknown:

living life. Like we would get up in the morning. They would do

Unknown:

their thing I would do my thing we'd be in the house together,

Unknown:

they would they could they had access to me all the time if

Unknown:

they needed me if they had a question, but I wasn't directing

Unknown:

their play. And so the idea of school hours is, again, it's a

Unknown:

paradigm that we're taking from our the culture of school saying

Unknown:

that there should be but if you look at human beings, at

Unknown:

sometimes my my role model was, was more j in the cave, the cave

Unknown:

woman, you know, what was what would Jane do used to be what

Unknown:

was in my head, like, she didn't have school, she had a life.

Unknown:

They were they were living life, okay, they were looking for

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food, they were finding, you know, making shelter, they were

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enjoying nature, they were traveling, they were doing those

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things. So, you know, that's the kind of model that I was

Unknown:

thinking about, for, what are we doing? How are we playing? How

Unknown:

are we interacting? So it's just, you know, we talked a lot

Unknown:

we did things we were in the car together driving to this thing

Unknown:

or that but was very non school ish. It's the word unschooling.

Maureen Spielman:

Yeah. Thanks for shedding light on that. And,

Maureen Spielman:

and I love the the, the just taking a look at at a structure

Maureen Spielman:

that's existed for a long time. And just saying, curious about

Maureen Spielman:

this, you know, does this work for our family? Do we want to do

Maureen Spielman:

it a little bit different? I'm curious about your experience,

Maureen Spielman:

as you began to kind of step into getting curious about how

Maureen Spielman:

these days were going to go how you wanted your kids to learn,

Maureen Spielman:

I'm sure that it gradually unfolded as the days and months

Maureen Spielman:

and years went by. But did you see yourself looking at other

Maureen Spielman:

parts of your life differently? I don't know if that makes

Maureen Spielman:

sense. But just like, I feel like you your path, the way you

Maureen Spielman:

describe it, it's a lot of letting go of what you thought

Maureen Spielman:

was right, what you thought, or you may not even thought it was

Maureen Spielman:

right, what you what you were told to do. And so you

Maureen Spielman:

questioned a lot, like, does this work for me anymore? And

Maureen Spielman:

did that become sort of a more of a life mantra is that? I

Unknown:

guess, yes, it did very much. So and I think I talked

Unknown:

about a little bit in the book, you know that there were some

Unknown:

pillars that really fell for me, one of which was our western

Unknown:

medicine sort of fell, because I had always trusted that, as you

Unknown:

know, as a as a young child, that the medical community had

Unknown:

my best interest at heart just that seemed normal to me. And it

Unknown:

wasn't until I had a baby, and was going to see pediatrician

Unknown:

that I realized I was getting advice. Again, well meaning

Unknown:

advice, that that was not really in my best interest. It was a

Unknown:

cultural norm. But it wasn't necessarily what was working for

Unknown:

me, what was working for my baby. And that's that little

Unknown:

shift, that little paradigm shift started to call into

Unknown:

question all of the, of the medical side. So not that all

Unknown:

medical advice is bad. And please don't get me wrong. I

Unknown:

don't mean that at all. But there are times when profit

Unknown:

comes before people. And I I never knew that before. I mean,

Unknown:

this was something that was a revelation to me at the time.

Unknown:

And now I am able to see through a different lens to see, not

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everything is as it seems. So that was a one big pillar to

Unknown:

fall. And then institutional religion was a little bit of a

Unknown:

pillar for me too. Again, not all institutional religion is

Unknown:

bad, but there are times when the institution itself is more

Unknown:

important to people than the than the message or the people

Unknown:

themselves that are in it. So that was another sort of pillar

Unknown:

to follow because I really, I wanted a more a more direct

Unknown:

relationship with my Creator. And I like that I can I can have

Unknown:

that now I can have I can choose my own beliefs. It's a choose

Unknown:

your own adventure story. I can choose the beliefs that I want

Unknown:

to keep, and I can let go of the ones that don't serve me. So

Unknown:

it's a it's a very, you know, there's a very conscious choice

Unknown:

on my part for that. And then the third one was kind of

Unknown:

education is stuck because I was already those other two pillars

Unknown:

had sort of fallen for me. In other words, I It's like the

Unknown:

curtain had been open to you know, Dr. Oz had been revealed.

Unknown:

And so I now saw things in a different light. And education

Unknown:

was in the same way I realized, gosh, you know, education as we

Unknown:

know, it isn't really how people learn. You know? We know this,

Unknown:

we know that the best learning happens in a place where you're

Unknown:

able to fail. And you're able to fail as often as you need to, in

Unknown:

order to gain the skill. But you know, most of our conventional

Unknown:

educational are not places where you want to fail, you're,

Unknown:

you're, you're either punished for fail failing, you're shamed

Unknown:

for failing. And so you when you when you stop failing, you stop

Unknown:

learning. Yeah, so we, you know, we know this, this is, this

Unknown:

isn't Yeah, information.

Maureen Spielman:

And it makes sense to that a child, that they

Maureen Spielman:

would be feeling so much if they did fail in the conventional

Maureen Spielman:

sense, because you're talking about failing in a completely

Maureen Spielman:

different way. Right? It's just like, the way you're talking

Maureen Spielman:

about it is like, this is life, we all fail. We all and like, we

Maureen Spielman:

all have our strengths. And then we all have our areas of

Maureen Spielman:

challenges, and, and what are they for you? And how do we get

Maureen Spielman:

through that, but I feel like sometimes in some institutions,

Maureen Spielman:

and it can be across all three that you named, there can be,

Maureen Spielman:

you know, based on what happens to us or our choices, we can

Maureen Spielman:

have overlays of shame, because it just takes away what we

Maureen Spielman:

really know. And then we're being told we don't know. And

Maureen Spielman:

yeah, I related to when we had about the medical because I to

Maureen Spielman:

hold Western and alternative complementary both, you know,

Maureen Spielman:

gently in both hands. And you know, through my journey,

Maureen Spielman:

there's been things told to me that are not resonant. And it's,

Maureen Spielman:

it's a retraining I've had to do to, to trust myself. And that

Maureen Spielman:

was a theme. I think, when I started reading the book, it was

Maureen Spielman:

maybe you said it, but it was interesting, the journey. And

Maureen Spielman:

that that just seemed like a big theme of the book and your

Maureen Spielman:

journey. Yeah, very much so. And like I hear you saying it's just

Maureen Spielman:

like the unfolding the unraveling, the willingness, the

Maureen Spielman:

curiosity. Yeah, I liked it's kind of going back but I had

Maureen Spielman:

written down, because it was a John hold quote, that you use in

Maureen Spielman:

the part one of your book, but it said trust children, nothing

Maureen Spielman:

could be more simple, or more difficult, difficult, because to

Maureen Spielman:

trust children, children, we must first learn to trust

Maureen Spielman:

ourselves. And most of us were taught as children that we could

Maureen Spielman:

not be trusted. And I therein lies the work I do with coaching

Maureen Spielman:

is that everything and this is the part I like, when you talk

Maureen Spielman:

about self care, and you went into that part of the book is

Maureen Spielman:

that or what was being brought up for you to heal in the

Maureen Spielman:

process of unschooling really, and but just this idea, most of

Maureen Spielman:

us were taught as children that we could not be trusted. So

Maureen Spielman:

again, we are taken away from our truth, our intuition, our

Maureen Spielman:

knowing, which is I know, it's a cornerstone of unschooling, like

Maureen Spielman:

we want these kids to hold on to this as much as possible. But

Maureen Spielman:

did you see that in yourself? I know you did. But like in the

Maureen Spielman:

book, talk about what you learned about yourself and what

Maureen Spielman:

what you had to shed from your early days?

Unknown:

Oh, so much. Yes. So much. And I, you know, I was, I

Unknown:

was listening to one of your podcasts earlier, the

Unknown:

relationship, one, I can't remember their names, but they

Unknown:

did such a nice job of talking about it. And he was talking

Unknown:

about trigger points that came up, I think, for him, it was

Unknown:

maybe a son screaming that kind of triggered him. And then he

Unknown:

had to realize through some therapy that Oh, that was a

Unknown:

trigger because of something that happened or didn't happen

Unknown:

for me in my childhood. And now that I know that I can deal

Unknown:

better with that, right. So you it was a wound for him that he

Unknown:

needed to heal. And I all through the time of unschooling

Unknown:

my kids and being with them in this very, you know, natural

Unknown:

sort of very authentic way. I was constantly meeting up with

Unknown:

trigger points that needed to be worked out. And I'm not saying I

Unknown:

was great at it, and there were a lot of things that I still

Unknown:

haven't worked out, but but they were coming up for me and they

Unknown:

were our situation really forced me. At least this is how it felt

Unknown:

to me to look at those and deal with those in a way because I

Unknown:

was, you know, it's kind of like I was because I was wanting to

Unknown:

be very authentic to my kids. I was very naked emotionally in

Unknown:

front of them. They were seeing everything they were so I

Unknown:

couldn't I couldn't hide. And I didn't want to hide because I

Unknown:

realized that everything that I worked through was benefiting

Unknown:

them as well as it was benefiting me. So I used to tell

Unknown:

people that are that are on this unschooling journey that have

Unknown:

started down this journey and they get it The work is not on

Unknown:

your children, the work is on you. And everything that you are

Unknown:

doing just automatically falls into a benefit for your kids. So

Unknown:

the work, that's what I fell is that the unschooling work is

Unknown:

really very personal. And it was, you know, it was hard, but

Unknown:

it was also very fulfilling.

Maureen Spielman:

So that makes sense. Yeah. And it's like you,

Maureen Spielman:

I appreciate the transparency and vulnerability and ties to

Maureen Spielman:

Leslie in Juan's episode, because that was such a nugget

Maureen Spielman:

that he was talking about that is life principle and guide, but

Maureen Spielman:

that you knew you had awareness that you were showing up in

Maureen Spielman:

certain emotions, and in all ways, and hat and, and maybe at

Maureen Spielman:

first thought that, well, this is good, it's got to be good,

Maureen Spielman:

because they can see it all. And we're all we all have the range

Maureen Spielman:

of emotions as humans, and then figuring like all, but maybe I

Maureen Spielman:

need to do more work underneath that, and maybe I and, but I do

Maureen Spielman:

love that portion of so often, because so many homes of our

Maureen Spielman:

origins, we, of course, were coming from parents who, you

Maureen Spielman:

know, my grandpa, my grandfather was in the Depression, you know,

Maureen Spielman:

they didn't have food he didn't, but all the suppression that

Maureen Spielman:

comes down all the, the misplaced emotions and the, you

Maureen Spielman:

know, not expressed, and it's just all like that continuum of

Maureen Spielman:

all of our lives of how do we get to the most healing and

Maureen Spielman:

healthiest expression of ourselves?

Unknown:

Right. So a lot of honesty, and I want to make a

Unknown:

point is this honesty, I, you, you mentioned earlier, that this

Unknown:

book could be for somebody that really isn't even interested in

Unknown:

homeschooling, or unschooling, and one of the things that I've

Unknown:

been asked is, What would I have to say to somebody that, can't

Unknown:

do that, or doesn't want to do that, and there is something

Unknown:

really important that that parents can do, and I know,

Unknown:

you'll know, this from maybe from conscious parenting is, is

Unknown:

to be honest with your children. Because even if you're having to

Unknown:

send your school, your child to school, and maybe they're not

Unknown:

all that happy with school, if you're at least honest, and say,

Unknown:

what the reason I'm sending you to school is because I have to

Unknown:

work and I don't have any other place for you to go, and I can't

Unknown:

or I'm not able yet to to do unschooling I'm, it's, I don't

Unknown:

have the capacity for that right now, I don't have the bandwidth

Unknown:

for it right now. And so therefore, I need you to be in

Unknown:

this place, but understand that I love you more than the grades

Unknown:

you're making, or you know, so just be being honest. Suddenly,

Unknown:

the child says, Oh, they're really that child knows when

Unknown:

you're being really honest with them or not. I mean, they're

Unknown:

totally they got they got the radar down. And so when, when

Unknown:

they hear that you're really being honest and authentic, oh,

Unknown:

my goodness, the relationship goes to a whole new level of, of

Unknown:

credibility, you know, your credibility is, is intact, you.

Unknown:

So being honest, and you can start that at anytime, even if

Unknown:

you've not been honest. If before, if you've not been

Unknown:

honest with yourself, and therefore you've not been honest

Unknown:

with him. Every little onion layer that you peel off is a

Unknown:

hell, you know, every little, every little change is a step

Unknown:

forward.

Maureen Spielman:

I appreciate that. Yeah. Yeah. Because I

Maureen Spielman:

think that I mean, the whole conversation is, or a lot of our

Maureen Spielman:

conversation today is how do we put down our fears? And what

Maureen Spielman:

what are we afraid of? And, you know, I think, yeah, there's a

Maureen Spielman:

lot to be said there. And if we are transparent with our

Maureen Spielman:

children, and if we show up, you know, in our emotions, or even,

Maureen Spielman:

you know, I'm pretty transparent about, you know, I don't like

Maureen Spielman:

this particular part of what's going on, or this kind of thing.

Maureen Spielman:

And I think my partner will be more like, Maureen, you

Maureen Spielman:

shouldn't say that. Because the fear is, if I say that, then the

Maureen Spielman:

child's going to say, Oh, well, then heck, I'm not you know, I'm

Maureen Spielman:

leaving. I like if mom thinks that then I'm not studying for

Maureen Spielman:

that test, or whatever it is, but that's not really what's

Maureen Spielman:

happening beneath the surface, what's happening is your child

Maureen Spielman:

find you relatable. They're they think, like, Oh, my parent

Maureen Spielman:

understands me, she, she gets what I'm going through, she's

Maureen Spielman:

seeing that this is hard. For me. It's, I really think that

Maureen Spielman:

that's true. And that that's all our kids are really looking for

Maureen Spielman:

is that relatability

Unknown:

Right. Right. They so thrive on authenticity. Yeah.

Unknown:

And they need us to, they need us to lead the way on that. And

Unknown:

that also kind of comes back to another really important thing

Unknown:

that my husband and I were were, there was a big underlying

Unknown:

underlining of our parenting is personal responsibility. You

Unknown:

know, so when you're authentic with your child, you're taking

Unknown:

personal responsibility for your emotions, and why and the fact

Unknown:

that you feel them, and you don't need to apologize for the

Unknown:

fact again, you're, you're showing the way by being honest

Unknown:

with yourself by opening up and understanding like, again, you

Unknown:

know, when there's a trigger, saying to yourself, gosh, why?

Unknown:

Why do I have why? Why do I have a fear there? What's what's

Unknown:

behind that fear? What's behind that feeling? What's behind that

Unknown:

clench that I feel in my stomach? And go back into that

Unknown:

and and delve in and say, Where did that come from? And is that

Unknown:

true? Or is it if because it may not be true anymore? Maybe it

Unknown:

was true once upon a time, and it's not true anymore. And then

Unknown:

you can go, oh, I can let that go again, or I can, you know, I

Unknown:

can overcome that fear. And so yeah, a person taking personal

Unknown:

responsibility is very important, as the parent because

Unknown:

you're teaching your children, that's what you should do, you

Unknown:

need to take personal responsibility.

Maureen Spielman:

Absolutely, absolutely love that personal

Maureen Spielman:

responsibility. And, you know, the word that before we started

Maureen Spielman:

recording today is just giving yourself permission, because I

Maureen Spielman:

have had to give myself permission around one of my

Maureen Spielman:

children's school experience, and, you know, a spiritual

Maureen Spielman:

teacher of mine had pointed out at one time, and it's just like,

Maureen Spielman:

going to a doctor and speaking your truth or, but she did, she

Maureen Spielman:

did, it was very supportive of me, because she was able to say,

Maureen Spielman:

Maureen, this is a really big deal speaking up to the

Maureen Spielman:

institution, because it's not like a conscious belief that we

Maureen Spielman:

don't want to hear from parents, but that it's running underneath

Maureen Spielman:

the system somewhere of like, we've got a time clock, and

Maureen Spielman:

these meetings are X amount, 20 minutes, and, you know, so I had

Maureen Spielman:

to, I have to take that responsibility, I have to go

Maureen Spielman:

into myself, and, you know, really stand up for my child and

Maureen Spielman:

my belief systems. So it's kind of like we're working some

Maureen Spielman:

symbiotically. I don't know if that's the right word. But it's,

Maureen Spielman:

it's knowing that, you know, even for people who choose

Maureen Spielman:

traditional conventional school, use your voice, give yourself

Maureen Spielman:

permission, because if you intuitively know something is

Maureen Spielman:

right for your child, and you're getting internal information

Maureen Spielman:

that that's true. Don't quiet your voice, keep, you know, keep

Maureen Spielman:

on going forward and expressing yourself. Because, you know,

Maureen Spielman:

we're teaching our kids this, and we want them to be able to

Maureen Spielman:

experience it An example would be I think even I was something

Maureen Spielman:

around advocating for yourself. And then, and then like, I think

Maureen Spielman:

I'm thinking of my son, and like, then he, over the years,

Maureen Spielman:

he's gaining the confidence and the ability to advocate for

Maureen Spielman:

himself, only to be told no, when he did it, you know? And so

Maureen Spielman:

it's like, wait a minute, if that doesn't feel right, let's

Maureen Spielman:

go back and just have the conversation. It doesn't have to

Maureen Spielman:

be. I think another way we were all like a lot of us were raised

Maureen Spielman:

was that communication was confrontation. Or I will own

Maureen Spielman:

that for myself that it felt like if I had something to say

Maureen Spielman:

like it was this big thing. And it's like, no, let's let's all

Maureen Spielman:

retrain ourselves, that it's just a conversation. It's just a

Maureen Spielman:

conversation. And so you don't your nervous system doesn't have

Maureen Spielman:

to go crazy. You don't have to think fear is on the other side.

Maureen Spielman:

Something bad's gonna happen. But yeah, I'm going off here.

Maureen Spielman:

But that's that's true.

Unknown:

That's true. And I think there was something that

Unknown:

you said about I've lost it. Cold, I know, like when you're

Unknown:

if you're when you're speaking up for your child, one thing

Unknown:

that might be helpful, and this was something that I used to

Unknown:

kind of keep in the back of my mind is, you know, what, if you

Unknown:

were Einsteins mother, or Edison's mother or Steve Jobs,

Unknown:

mother, Beethoven's mother, and everybody's pressuring you, to

Unknown:

have your kid be the same as everybody else, you know, but,

Unknown:

but they're not the same as everybody else. And no kid is

Unknown:

the same as everybody else. So that's why I say like, I truly

Unknown:

believe that every child is a genius. And and the reason I, I

Unknown:

mean, maybe I use that word in ways that other people really

Unknown:

don't like. But to me, every unique individual is so

Unknown:

important to our cosmos. And it's so important that that

Unknown:

unique individual is is allowed to express in their unique way.

Unknown:

So if you if you're going to advocate for your child, try to

Unknown:

think of it and to herbs have not that they're all not not

Unknown:

like a snowflake. I mean, not that everybody's you know, too

Unknown:

delicate to do but but that everybody is unique and that

Unknown:

it's important that everybody is able to express that. So maybe

Unknown:

that would help for a mom, mom or a dad that needs to advocate

Unknown:

for their child and feels nervous about that. It's hard to

Unknown:

do that in an institution because the institution is, is

Unknown:

not set up for that. It's it's just the nature of an

Unknown:

institution. That's how, you know, that's why I didn't that's

Unknown:

really why I wanted out of that institution, because I wanted

Unknown:

the freedom to be able to move.

Maureen Spielman:

Yeah. And do that was also well said, thanks

Maureen Spielman:

for sharing that beautiful wisdom with the listeners. I

Maureen Spielman:

will we haven't even talked about your kids. I know we're

Maureen Spielman:

nearing the end. But your kids are, I think in their older 20s

Maureen Spielman:

now. And they did, they were homeschooled from birth to 18,

Maureen Spielman:

and went on to college educations, which might be

Maureen Spielman:

something that people don't know does happen, and you can have

Maureen Spielman:

this non traditional approach to education, and still make that

Maureen Spielman:

choice when you come to college age.

Unknown:

Right? If that's what you want. I college isn't for

Unknown:

everybody. But yes, absolutely. And in fact, a lot of colleges

Unknown:

love to have homeschoolers, because those kids come in,

Unknown:

they're not burned out, they're not already fried from testing

Unknown:

and everything that they've done, and they're and they're

Unknown:

still very eager to learn. I mean, I know my daughter will

Unknown:

vote, both of my kids went into their classes really engaged,

Unknown:

because that's how they had always been engaged in learning

Unknown:

with, with other teachers or with other kids. You know, when

Unknown:

we did classes, ad hoc little classes, they were always

Unknown:

excited about, about learning it hadn't, learning hadn't been

Unknown:

given a bad name for them. The way it does for some kids, you

Unknown:

know, you say something to a conventional kid about, oh,

Unknown:

this, we're going to do this educational thing, they're going

Unknown:

to be like, I don't want any part of it. Because education

Unknown:

and learning has been given a really bad name for them. It's

Unknown:

distasteful, because they know it's been kind of pressed down

Unknown:

on them. Whereas my kids never had that association. So

Unknown:

learning and educational just seem like Oh, interesting. And

Unknown:

they're still, they're both still super engaged in in

Unknown:

learning and have all kinds of interesting things. They're very

Unknown:

enthusiastic learners.

Maureen Spielman:

Wow, that's, that's amazing.

Unknown:

It didn't shut down, which I love.

Maureen Spielman:

I know that there's so much more that I'd

Maureen Spielman:

want to ask around that. But I'm just, I think the touch points

Maureen Spielman:

for me during our interview were, you know, your journey as

Maureen Spielman:

a mom, as a woman going through these new choices and new

Maureen Spielman:

directions, a new path in your life, trusting, shedding,

Maureen Spielman:

letting go of what no longer served, and creating this space,

Maureen Spielman:

and also seeing children as a whole and humanity as

Maureen Spielman:

individual, unique, creative, you know, abundant, like all

Maureen Spielman:

these things that we want for them all, and not for them to

Maureen Spielman:

feel limited or told they are something that they never even

Maureen Spielman:

were, you know, they didn't give permission to be called

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something or limited in that way. And so, I think there's so

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many beautiful themes. If people are interested in finding your

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work, where should they go, Jean.

Unknown:

So my website is called success without school.com. I

Unknown:

also am on Facebook success without school and on Instagram

Unknown:

success without school. I also have a Facebook page called

Unknown:

trust your child.com. In fact, trust your child. Sorry, trust

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your child.com will get you to my web page as well, if they

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both do, and there's some blog entries there that I've written

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that will help people I think get a little bit more of a view

Unknown:

besides the book, of course, so the books available as an audio

Unknown:

book and ebook or paperback on it all your normal book selling

Unknown:

options.

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Thank you. Thanks for sharing your story,

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your experience. It's just the beginning. And I'm so happy to

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have you here as part of our sisterhood.

Unknown:

Oh my goodness, thank you so much. Yes,

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we'll put everything you shared in the

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show notes. And yeah, to the listeners. We'll see you next

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time. Thanks for listening today.

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