It's important that we understand the difference between a weight and a pull. When we are graced to lead, there will be a weight attached to that role and responsibility, but it is not a weight that crushes or weighs down, its a weight that empowers us. Once we understand the weight is due to the tools involved to be able to carry out the task at hand we become encouraged by the weight not put off by it. A pull on the other hand is God saying not that way and not yet. we need to know the difference and be sensitive to both.